December 12 – Your Turn. Let me care for you.

346 – Your Turn. Let me care for you.

#faithbites #faithjourney turn

I’m a pretty strong guy and tend to take care of everyone. That’s my role and I like it. I’m willing to do just about anything for anyone. Call me Atlas with the world on my shoulders. Most days, I don’t even think bout it as I believe that is why I’m here.

Today was different. I had a colonoscopy that while it went well, has left me in a lot of pain all day. My wife and babysitter we’re wrapping presents and told me to go take a nap. My wife has allowed me to rest the day, picking up the kids, and picking up dinner. I didn’t have to do any of my normal chores. It is hard to have someone else take care of me, but we need to from time to time.

The thing that we need to know is God is always there to take care of us.

Scripture

• Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9
• Teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” – Matthew 28:20
• Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.” – Deuteronomy 31:6

Reflection

For those that believe in God and Christ, we know that he is always there as he is eternal. I think that we, at least I do, forget that not only is he there but he wants to help us. We just need to ask for it and accept it.

It is hard for me to lay down and rest. Even when I’m sick, I try to do laundry and dishes and clean. I feel guilty when I don’t do something. Right now I’m laying on the bed in pain, but know everything with be ok.

We need to be strong and courageous while remembering to be open to and accepting of help.

Charge

This is the easiest and hardest charge. Accept God’s help. Let him, through his people, take care of you when you need it, which is always. Lord, give me the strength to accept help. Remind me that accepting help and support isn’t being weak but rather being part of your loving family.

December 11 – Making the Most of What We Have

345 – Making the Most of What We Have

#faithbites #faithjourney making

Today was prep day for the colonoscopy. No solid foods, nothing red/purple/orange, nothing good to eat or drink at all. I had called it fasting but someone reminded me that fasting is not eating or drinking at all. So while being on a clear diet isn’t great, it is better than nothing at all. So why not try to make the most of it?

I went to the store, got some Popsicles, Italian ice, soda, and beef broth. While not a steak or pizza, it is giving me the fluids I need and some sugar. So I am making the most of it. 

We’ve heard the saying if life gives you lemons, make lemonade. We often don’t have what we want, but God gives us what we need. We just need to learn how to make the most of what we have and use it for his plan.

Scripture

• And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:19
• The lions may grow weak and hungry,
      but those who seek the Lord lack no good thing. – Psalm 34:10

Reflection

The image of Lions growing weak and hungry while those who seek the Lord lack no good thing. That’s a pretty strong visual image. It’s not saying we will have everything we want. He is telling us though that we will lack no good thing. 

We have to balance our expectations as well. Some things that we strive for and see as good are really a distraction or temptation to take us away from God. We need to make sure that what we want is what we need to fulfill God’s plan. This isn’t easy in a world where we are inundated with commercials, new products, new everything, all with the promise that they will make us happy. The won’t.

I know after my test tomorrow, I will have a good breakfast or lunch and will forget all about this. Tonight though, I am making the best of having a clear liquid diet. I’m going to have a cup of coffee or maybe a banana Popsicle. But I will know that God has given me what I need to serve him.

Charge

Are you making the best of your life? The best of what God has given you? Maybe you are driven towards your wants thinking they are needs? Try this. List everything that you spend money on for a week. Then go through and see what are wants and needs? You would be surprised by the money you can save by just concentrating on needs. God will provide you everything and more. 

Lord, give me the strength to make the most of what I have. Remind me that you give me everything that I need. Help me understand that sometimes my wants are actually temptations and I don’t need them. 

December 10 – Fasting isn’t about lack of food

344 – Fasting isn’t about lack of food

#faithbites #faithjourney fasting

Tomorrow I start prepping for a colonoscopy. It’s not fun and more than just a little pain in the butt. Pun intended. The hardest part, and I just found it out, is you need to fast for a full 24 hours before the test. Sure you can have liquids and sugars but nothing solid. I get hangry when I eat so me and fasting don’t go together well. 

Fasting in this case is to let the medicine work to clean out the colon so they can test you and make sure you are ok. Since my dad died of colon cancer, I will do anything to not have that happen, even missing my work Christmas partly because of the fast and medicine. If fasting makes sure the test is good and I am healthy, I am game for it. 

We also fast for religious / spiritual purposes. In the cases, it isn’t about the hungry but to cleanse our bodies and prepare us for the Lord. It allows us to be open to what he has for us. Yes it stinks and we feel the pangs of hunger, but our minds are focused on Him.

Scripture

• And when they had appointed elders for them in every church, with prayer and fasting they committed them to the Lord in whom they had believed. – Acts 14:23
• I ate no delicacies, no meat or wine entered my mouth, nor did I anoint myself at all, for the full three weeks. – Daniel 10:3
• And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward – Matthew 6:16

Reflection

The Bible is filled with countless Old and New Testament stories about fasting. From Moses to Jesus to the Disciples and everywhere in between there is fasting. In some cases it was “ordered” while in others it was a choice. In all cases though it was to become more in tune with God and prepare for forgiveness or prayer or a message from God. 

I have fasted for Yom Kippur before becoming a Christian. I felt the pain of being hungry but then I felt a calm. I was being filled by something other than food. I know tomorrow is going to be rough as I’m not eating solid foods and am only on a clear liquid diet. I will try to remember that while I am cleaning my colon for this test, it is also an opportunity to cleanse my soul and listen to God.

Charge

Have you ever fasted voluntarily? Have you taken the time to turn away food not for earthy gain but to be closer to God? It is not easy as we are accustomed to eating regularly. Try to give up a meal or two and reflect on it. Reflect on the hunger and see what message God may give you.

Lord, help my tests to go well tomorrow. While I am fasting from solid food, help me to be closer to you. Let me use this experience to empathize with others who don’t have food and let me focus on you. 

December 9 – Don’t Follow Me. I’m a Hypocrite

343 – Don’t Follow Me. I’m a Hypocrite

#faithbites #faithjourney hypocrite

I often say that I am wrong. Heck, most times I feel more wrong that right, but I digress. I use to think the saying “Do as I say, not as I do” was hypocritical. Now, I know it is. But the thing is, we are hypocrites. We do things wrong all the time, but that doesn’t make us bad people. In fact, our job is to pave the way for another who is greater than we are.

During service today, our Pastor talked about John the Baptist and how he was a rebel. He went against the Pharisee and had a great following, then this guy Jesus comes around. Unlike many of us, when he saw Jesus, he didn’t try to increase his own followers, but rather said, I must decrease for him to increase. John had a job: to pave the way for Christ to come. 

In your life, do you try to be the perfect Christian or do you point to the one who is?

Scripture

• John answered them all, “I baptize you with  water. But one who is more powerful than I will come, the straps of whose sandals I am not worthy to untie. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire. – Luke 3:16
• “I will send my messenger, who will prepare the way before me. Then suddenly the Lord you are seeking will come to his temple; the messenger of the covenant, whom you desire, will come,” says the Lord Almighty. – Malachi 3:1

Reflection

The scriptures above talk about the coming of the Lord and how John the Baptist paves the way for him to come to Earth. Now look at life today. We know that Jesus will come back one day. But how do we make the road ready for him? How do we pave the way? 

Our job, just like John’s, is to allow the Holy Spirit to work through us. We are to cast aside ourselves to help others see Christ. They are not to use us as example but rather to look at the one who is perfect: Jesus.

As a Christian, we need to admit that we are hypocrites. We are wrong, broke, and need Jesus to help us. The key is when someone calls us a hypocrite, we need to admit it. We need to say “You are right. I am broken. I need Jesus and that’s why I follow him. He helps me be better and follow his ways”.

Charge

What do you say when someone calls you a Hypocrite? Do you try to justify your actions? Maybe you justify the actions of others. Try something new. If someone calls you out, admit it. Admit that is why you follow Jesus as you need him for salvation and to be on God’s path.

Lord, help me to admit my brokenness. Give me your strength to admit when I am wrong and help to pave the way into people’s hearts for Jesus. 

December 8 – Old School is Sometimes the Best School

342 – Old School is Sometimes the Best School

#faithbites #faithjourney School

Today was my eldest’s birthday.  She wanted a Wreck-It-Ralph themed party, so where else should we hold it but at a retro arcade. This place had all the old video games that we grew up on and cost $0.25 to $0.50 a game. This reminded me of growing up and the fun I had. 

What was special about this was seeing kids and parents playing together. No phones, no distractions. Just great fellowship around some games that were over 30 years old.  The second thing that was awesome is no one complained about the selection of games, the difficulty or anything. Everyone just had fun with it. 

Retro or old school can be used to relive memories and create new ones. Faith is like that. We have the word of God that is between 2000 and 5000 years old. While we may interpret differently, his message still resonates today.

Scripture

• Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. – Hebrews 13:8
• The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever. – Isaiah  40:8
• The counsel of the Lord stands forever, the plans of his heart to all generations. – Psalm 33:11

Reflection

So many things change in our lives. The games we play get more and more complicated and harder to learn. Some change completely. I love the Fallout Series of games but from Fallout 2 to 3 it changed to a first person game and from 4 to 76 it became fully online multiplayer. It’s not the same experience as it was before. I prefer the old school.

In faith, God never changes. People change and how we think of him changes, but he doesn’t. 

Our lives are filled with so many new shiny sparkly things. But God and Jesus are old school. They love us yesterday, today, and tomorrow. They don’t need to be updated or changed. We don’t need Buddy Christ from Dogma to bring people around. 

We need to embrace his Word and love our neighbors. That is how we keep it real.

Charge

Do you like to kick it old school or new school? In your faith are you looking for something shiny and new or something that has always been there? I know how we understand God changes, but who he is does not. Look to his word always and it will lead you on his path.

Lord, help me to always stay true to your word. Give me the strength to avoid the devil’s temptations toward something that is shiny and new but is not your path. 

December 7 – Suck It Up Daddycup

341 – Suck It Up Daddycup

#faithbites #faithjourney suck

We all deal with pain and suffering. Some more than others. Looking at the pain I have experienced in my life and compare it to others. I am so blessed that I haven’t had the suffering that others have had. I know that others probably look at my life and some think that I’ve gone through nothing and others think that it’s a hard life.

Today was one of those days that no matter what I kept moving. Between going to breakfast with my eldest for an early birthday to eating lunch at her school with her friends, playing at recess, shopping, errands, cooking, baking, more errands, my knee is done. I am having trouble walking right now and the ice pack is calling me. But I suck it up.

When I look back on these events, I will see that I persevered. I also hope that my children will see that even when you are in pain, you can succeed. I also am trying to teach them at sometimes, you need to rest too. It’s a hard balance for sure.

Scripture

• For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised. – Hebrews 10:36
• But the one who endures to the end will be saved.- Matthew 24:13
• Because you have kept my word about patient endurance, I will keep you from the hour of trial that is coming on the whole world, to try those who dwell on the earth. – Revelation 3:10

Reflection

Being in pain is a big bag of suck. Having a terrible disease as a child sucks. Not being able to make ends meat sucks. This post isn’t to negate the pain and suffering, nor is it to say keep going and don’t take care of yourself. In fact, perseverance is succeeding and continuing in spite of what is going on. It’s learning how to do what you need to do and taking care of yourself.

Sure, my knee is in pain and it will sting in the morning. But now I will lay down, put ice on it, and take it a bit easier tomorrow. I also know that nothing I did today would damage it more. So I made the choice to suck it up and enjoy my family.

In faith, we are told that our journey will not be easy. We must have endurance and do those things that God wants us to. Jesus will come back and when he does those who persevered in faith will be saved. We are patient and we must have perseverance always. Even though we struggle, we have to look back and what we overcame and see the beauty that we were part of through God’s plan.

Charge

Think about your personal pain. Is it physical, mental, or spiritual? Do you want to give up? I know that it is hard, but before you do, reach out to someone. Pray hard and listen to God. He will give you the strength to overcome all your challenges.

Today’s picture selection by Cece.

December 6 – Should I take a short rest or a long rest?

340 – Should I take a short rest or a long rest?

#faithbites #faithjourney #D&D short

I like role-playing games as I can be anyone or anything I want and do things well beyond my mortal abilities. In most games there is a concept of rest between battles or activities. in Dungeons and Dragons, among others, there is the concept of a short rest or a long rest.

A short rest is a bit over an hour. During this time you can heal a little and get ready for the next encounter. You don’t get any of your spells back, you aren’t fully rested, and there isn’t a lot of time to prepare for what’s coming next.

A long rest is usually 8 hours or more. During this time you can heal fully, you get all your spells back, you can do major preparations, and are fully ready for the next encounter.

When I look at my life lately, it feels like a series of short rests with very few long rests. Meaning that while I’m still moving and getting things done, I am not fully rested nor do I have all of my gifts at the ready.

Are you getting enough of your long rests?

Scripture

• By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done. – Genesis 2:2-3
• In vain you rise early and stay up late, toiling for food to eat– for he grants sleep to those he loves. – Psalm 127:2
• “Six days do your work, but on the seventh day do not work, so that your ox and your donkey may rest, and so that the slave born in your household and the foreigner living among you may be refreshed. – Exodus 23:12

Reflection

All of creation took 6 days. It was so exhausting that even the Lord almighty took a long rest. If God needs a long rest, shouldn’t we have one as well? In the Psalm we even see that sleep is granted out of love from God. Then why do we not take him up on this gift? In Exodus, not only are we told to rest, but to allow our animals, slaves, and foreigners to be refreshed. God not only gave us rest but gave it to everyone from the lowly animals to slaves and foreigners. Yet, we still do not take a long rest.

I can go a long long time on short rests. I can check off boxes and do what needs to be done. But each day that a long rest is not had, I feel my compassion waning. It’s as if I just don’t have the fuel, even though I’ve eaten, to keep going.

The question I have to ask myself, is it worth it? Sure there are times when a short mental rest is all you need but in the long term, we may causing more damage than it is worth.

Charge

How often do you get a long rest? One that truly restores you and enables you to use all of your gifts? Maybe that one task or two that you are giving up sleep for, isn’t worth it. Take one day to yourself. If not a full day, try to get some rest that is filling and restorative.

Lord, let me understand that rest is a gift from you. Help me to make the tough choices to say no so that I may have a restorative long nap. Give me strength to know that resting is not a weakness but a way to be stronger in all things through you.

December 5 – What should I wear to Church?

339 – What should I wear to church?

#faithbites #faithjourney church

Before we get started, some days I have an idea for a #faithbite and then something else changes it. Today is unique in that the idea I had was supported by another message later in the morning. God is pretty awesome. And now, onto Faithbites.

Sunday morning is sometimes hectic at my house. Getting the kids up, dressed, fed, and out the door for church. A big debate is what are they going to wear. My children seem to care more about it than I do, but it’s still a struggle. Pants and a top? A sparkly dress? A paw patrol costume? Whatever.to me God wants us in his house no matter what we are wearing.
In an African facebook group, I am part of, there was a discussion about dress and this debate was brought up:

A gay man dressed like a woman, went to Church and the Pastor asked him to leave. In your opinion, was it right what the Pastor did? 

The post exploded with many saying the pastor was right as the man wasn’t decent and shouldn’t be in the house of God dressed like that. Others said the pastor was absolutely wrong as Jesus came not for the righteous but for the sinners. Scripture was brought up about decency as well as about loving God and loving people. For me, I wonder if they tried to understand the man would they be able to love him more and welcome him with open arms.

Scripture

• My brothers and sisters, believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ must not show favoritism. Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in filthy old clothes also comes in. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?

  Listen, my dear brothers and sisters: Has not God chosen those who are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the kingdom he promised those who love him? But you have dishonored the poor. Is it not the rich who are exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court? Are they not the ones who are blaspheming the noble name of him to whom you belong?

  If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, “Love your neighbor as yourself,”you are doing right. But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers. – James 2:1-9

• Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. – Proverbs 3:5
• For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, – Romans 3:23

Reflection

Last night, we had the neighbor’s children over for a bit to help out. As it was sundown, I asked their father if it was ok for me to show them the menorah, explain Hannukah to them, and light the candles. They were respectful, asked questions, and helped light the menorah. This morning when I dropped my eldest off a school, I talked to the principal about it. He said we need to understand each other to love one another.

Keep in mind, we don’t have to accept everything someone does to understand them or to love them. I seek to understand everyone as best I can to be more able to love them in the way they need. The man in the story above, in my opinion, shouldn’t have been turned away from God. We all sin and fall short of expectations. But God came to the sinners. He wants us to love and to brought to his word. If we take away anyone’s ability to know Jesus, how can they believe? How can they have faith? We should be open in our love, steadfast in our faith, and welcoming all to his table.

I am ignorant of the cultural norms of Africa and realize that religion isn’t practiced in a vacuum. I also know in our country, there is a discrepancy about how we worship and live. For me, I try to turn to his word and know that he is for all us as sinners.

Charge

When you look at someone different, do you judge them? Would you stop someone from hearing about the word because of who or what they are? While you may not actively try to deny them the word of God, by your actions, you may be doing that. Welcome, all who come to learn and worship.

Lord, help me in my judgments of people. Let me understand them so I may love them. Give me the strength to overcome any biases that would prevent me from sharing your word.

December 4 – I Don’t Want You To Die Daddy

338 – I Don’t Want You To Die Daddy

#faithbites #faithjourney die

Tonight I was watching a medical drama with the girls as usual. This episode was a bit rough as many were close to death. My eldest then asked me what I wanted them to do with my money when I died. She said it in a joking kinda of tone. I didn’t know where that came from. We chuckled. My youngest then said, “I don’t want you to Die Daddy”. She was very serious. I told her that I wasn’t going to die any time soon and it would be a long long long time before I died. She was sad about it. I asked her what happened when we die. She wasn’t sure.  I told her we would go and be with Jesus. While that helped a bit, she was still said. I told her I loved her very much and would be with her for a long long time.

I then left to get something from the store. On my way there I reflected on that conversation. For the first time in my life, I wasn’t scared about dying. Of course, I don’t want to die yet as there are many things I still want to see and do, but I’m not afraid. When it is my time, I know I am saved by faith.

Scripture

• “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.- John 3:16
• Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life. – John 5:24
• For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 8:38-39

Reflection

Of all the #faithbites I’ve done, finding scripture for this one was the easiest. The New Testament is all about eternal life in Christ. We see it in his words and actions. I have no fear. Some may say that there is no Christ, nor God. I know that is the Devil knocking on my door. But to play devil’s advocate, if I believe in God, and there is no God, would I know? I would die and that would be it. In my heart, I would die in faith and my heart would be at rest.

Of course, I don’t believe that, rather I know what the next life will bring. My children are being brought up in that eternal undying faith of Christ. Sure, it’s not easy to believe in this world, but I have seen so many wonders that I can’t help but believe.

Not being afraid of death, doesn’t mean I’m eager for it for I want to see my children grow, get married if they chose, have children if they chose, and see what God does with their lives. I’m eager to see all the people I have interacted with and what they make of the gifts God has given them. I am not afraid of death any longer.

Charge

Are you afraid to die? Being afraid of death isn’t the same thing as being eager for it. Remember that Jesus is in front of you, behind you, and at your sides. He will protect you all the days of your life and grants you eternal life. Use that knowledge to strengthen your faith and cast fear away.

Lord, help me to remember your promises. Give me the strength not to fear death as I know you have saved me. Allow me to be your servant all the days that I have here on earth.

December 3 – Are You Happy?

337 – Are You Happy?

#faithbites #faithjourney Happy

I’ve been feeling out of sorts the past few days so I decided to take a mental health day today. I got the kids out the door, came back home, and went to sleep. I slept for three hours and woke up happy. It’s faded since as the weight of the world has come back to me, but happiness is a great feeling to have. It’s different than being content, which I am most days, or ecstatic which comes and goes. The dictionary defines happy as “feeling or showing pleasure or contentment”. It also says fortunate and convenient. I can say I am always happy based on the second definition. I am very fortunate and blessed. To me, those don’t’ equate to the current definition of happiness, or rather is it our perception of what happy should be.

Have we changed the meaning of happy to be something that we can never reach and can only dream of it?

Scripture

• The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent.” – Exodus 14:14
• This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.- Psalm 118:24
• So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you. – John 16:22

Reflection

The Bible is filled with sadness and joy. Many of the characters go through trials and tribulations only to find happiness through worshiping God. I guess life is like that. As it says in Exodus the Lord will fight for you, you only have to be silent. We get in our own way of happiness and don’t allow God’s works to come through.

Yesterday at Church, I was running to the washroom before service started. One of my daughter’s friends mom stopped me and told me about essential oils for anxiety. She knew of a mix that helped her and others overcome some of their anxiety. She was even willing to make a bottle for me to try. To me, that was God being there for me. I just had to be quiet and say thank you.

We are so very blessed in our lives. Too often, I do not rejoice enough in what he has given me. I look at the sorrow and things I don’t have rather than knowing that all of this is God’s and he will make my heart rejoice. I just need to get out of his way.

Charge

Are you sad or lonely? Maybe depressed? Are you dreaming of being happy but happiness seems out of your reach? Talk to God. Then listen to him and be silent. He will give you answers and joy in your heart. This is not a one and done thing either. We need to continually pray, ask for forgiveness when we are wrong, and seek the joy that he gives.

Lord, give me the strength to know what happiness is and the knowledge that I deserve it. Help me to accept the happiness in what you provide rather than searching for something that isn’t real.

December 2 – Checkboxes or Impact?

336 – Checkboxes or Impact?

#faithbites #faithjourney Impact

I was laying in bed this morning enjoying the silence of the house when I started to think about the day ahead. I envisioned the whole day including what I would say, do, feel, and accomplish. To be honest, it was a bit disappointing.  Not that I got things done or didn’t, but rather that it was the same day I’ve lived before. I could check all the boxes of the day but didn’t see an impact. I’m not looking for earthshattering days every day, but to know exactly what the day is going to bring and how I’m going to react leaves something to be desired.

Sure there are unexpected things that will come up as that is life. But then, I will accomplish those and check those boxes. The challenge is how do we take these every day prescripted moments and transform them into impact moments?

Scripture

“You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people’s feet. “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. – Matthew 5:13 – 16

Reflection

As much as I want to check off boxes and progress, my goal is to positively impact those around me. In the Matthew verses, we see that amazing things like salt can be worthless when their taste is gone. We are like salt. It can be used to improve all of our food and is necessary to live or it can clump with moisture and need to be tossed out. When we cook, we use salt in pretty much everything, even cakes. It doesn’t need to be a special meal to need the salt to make it better. We can use our light and our salt to improve even these every day “routing” actions.

The only problem comes if our salt loses its saltiness. I can honestly say, I’ve been there before. This normally happens when I need a spiritual recharge. It could be communion, prayer, reading the Word, or just letting the Holy Spirit work through me. That recharge is available, the hard part is when we are going through the motions checking off the boxes, we sometimes forget that we need to check the recharge box too.

I know most of the boxes that I will check off today. My goal is to make those boxes have an impact in the lives of others.

Charge

Our lives aren’t just the extraordinary events. It’s the day to day activities and actions that build a life. While it can seem routine, it is up to us through the gifts God has given us, to make an impact. Take a moment to look at one of your checkboxes and find a way to positively impact those around you.

Lord, help me to not be consumed by the routine. Let me see your glory in everything I need to do. Give me the perception to know that when I turn to your, my actions with have a positive impact in those around me.

December 1 – Mommy, I Pooped! Time for a Celebration

335 – Mommy, I Pooped! Time for a Celebration

#faithbites #faithjourney celebration

Most of us take care of our business in the bathroom in a private manner. It isn’t polite to talk about what happens behind closed doors. But when you are four and have had many issues with your GI system, pooping in the potty is cause for a celebration.

I have one friend when she was writing her dissertation, would treat herself with a few M&Ms for every paragraph or page written. I reward myself with an hour or two of video games after a long writing session. Heck, a nice cup of coffee is time for a reward and celebration after a hard dad.

Too often in life, we don’t celebrate the little things. We just plow on, task after task, and only celebrate after the whole thing is done. While that is a reason to celebrate, taking little moments to reflect, recharge, and celebrate, can improve our performance, attitude, and stamina.

Scripture

• Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Reflection

Life is too short to not celebrate everything we do. If we believe everything is from God, then if we don’t celebrate little victories, we aren’t giving him the Glory. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying go on a cruise for every little thing, but enjoy what God has given you. Give him praise for the strength, determination, skill, and perseverance, he gave you.

In a time not too far in the future, my little one will stop celebrating her poops. It will just be a normal, easy, everyday task. That’s great as it shows progress. Right now though, if she wants to jump up and down and scream that she pooped, more power to her.

Likewise, when you go about your day, not all the tasks we do are normal and not all are easy. But nonetheless, remember, that God gives you the strength, power, and skill to get them all accomplished. A little celebration in his name is never a bad thing.

Charge

Do you make time to celebrate? Maybe it’s time for a little celebration after a long day or a tough task. Remember when you have your celebration give thanks to God and enjoy yourself.

Lord, let me celebrate all the wonderful things that I have accomplished through your name. Remind me that I don’t have to compare my accomplishments to others. Give me the strength to remember that my accomplishments are valid, good, and worthy.

November 30 – How Are You today? Crappy. Thanks for Asking

334 – How Are You today? Crappy. Thanks for Asking

#faithbites #faithjourney Crappy

I’ve had a rough day this morning between lack of sleep, stress, and anxiety. A person asked me how I was doing today. My first thought was to tell him how I was feeling, but instead, I said “Just Peachy” or something like that. I didn’t tell him how I felt because I don’t think he really wanted to know. We have so many of these small talk interactions where it seems we are talking just to talk.

I wonder how many people really want to know that you are having a crappy day. Even when someone ask “Are you ok?”, do they really mean it or are they trying to be nice? It is hard to judge and then you leave the interaction feeling a bit dishonest and you may have missed the opportunity to truly connect with someone. On the other hand, and this is where I fall, I usually share too much. Then I still don’t feel good because it seems I gave the person more than they wanted.

I wonder if there was a way to have a code word or hand gesture to let someone know how you truly were feeling or if they were ready for that honest conversation. If not, no harm no foul.

Scripture

• Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. – 1 Peter 5:7
• The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
      and saves those who are crushed in spirit. – Psalm 34:18
• But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.- Hebrews 3:13

Reflection

I don’t have an answer on when to share or not share. I know that in Hebrews, we are to encourage each other every day. To have honest and effective encouragement, you need to connect with someone. How else do you connect with them if you don’t share how you feel? It may be hard to know who those people, but when you do find them, you should connect.

When all else fails or you don’t know who to share with, besides just blasting it on the internet and hope someone says something, there is the Lord. He takes our anxieties. He protects and brings close the brokenhearted and crushed in spirit. I am blessed to have a relationship with him. This is when I pray hard and pray for emotional healing.

I don’t know if I should have told that person this morning that I was having a crappy day. Maybe they would be receptive and it would be a good moment. Maybe it would have turned awkward. I don’t know. I do know that I need to take those risks to build relationships while at the same time trusting in the Lord to heal my soul.

Charge

When someone asks you how you are, do you tell them the truth? Are you able to put into words how you are feeling and are they receptive? This is not an easy thing to do. The charge is to find one person whom you see and ask them how they are feeling or doing. Then be ready to really listen to them and be empathic when possible. For the best way to have a friend is to be a friend.

Lord, help me to know how to communicate to others. Give me the strength to know when to share and not share. Let my heart know that no matter what happens, I can always come to you for guidance, support, and healing.

November 29 – God is Pretty Incredible

333 – God is Pretty Incredible

#faithbites #faithjourney incredible

Some days the ideas for #faithbites just come to me while other days it’s a bit harder. Today’s #faithbite comes from my eldest. She suggested that I write about the Incredibles and how incredible God is. I said why not. While God doesn’t wear a supersuit, his is pretty awesom. And now, onto #faithbites.

All of us have had troubles and tribulations in our lives. We have had times when we think there is no way we can make it 5 minutes let alone until the next day or beyond. But somehow we pull through. While we have our specific God Moments, we also have his incredible nature.

There is no reason my kids should love me. I’ve yelled at them, dismissed them, and not been the person I want to be. But they love me, forgive me, and work with me to be better. That is God at work.

There is no reason I should be where I am at with my career. Heck, I went to college to be a high school chemistry teacher, and now I’m the director of faculty development at a medical college at an R1 university. Don’t ask me how that happened. That is God at work.

When the unexplained happens or you just can’t understand why things are the way they are, that’s God at work. We should praise him for his incredible nature.

Scripture

• “You are the Lord, you alone. You have made heaven, the heaven of heavens, with all their host, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them; and you preserve all of them; and the host of heaven worships you. –  Nehemiah 9:6
• Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall hurt you. – Luke 10:19
• Then the Lord God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living creature. – Genesis 2:7

Reflection

From the creation of everything in Genesis to the promises and covenants in the old testament to fulfilling those in the new and bridging the divide between man and god, God can do anything. Some use science to try to explain away God. I use science to prove how incredible he is.  We are blessed. All he asks us is to believe. Love God, Love People and we get all of his incredibleness.

I try to do better or work harder to be a better father but I will never be God. I will never be incredible. But through his direction, the salvation of Jesus, and the power of the Holy Spirit, I can move mountains.

My kids love me because I am a good father. I’m not great, not perfect, but good. I am better than mine and strive to be better every day.

My career has been successful because of my faith and following his word. I use his gifts to follow his plan.

I will never move a mountain or create the world, but I am part of his creation and we all work together to show how incredible he is.

Charge

Do you get down on yourself? Do you wonder why you have what you have? Maybe you are worried that you will never be as good as you want. Think about everything God has done for you. He holds you in his hand. He gives you his incredible power. It’s up to you to use it.

Lord, help me always be in awe of your incredible nature. Let me truly comprehend everything you have done for me. Give me the strength to use what you have given me only to support you and your ways.

November 28 – What Holds You Together? Laminin

331 – What Holds You Together? Laminin

#faithbites #faithjourney Laminin

This past week has been pretty rough. Bet we even holidays, sickness, and stress, my anxiety has been off the charts. So many things to do, not enough time to do it in, and no matter the coping techniques I tried, I felt that I was falling apart. I know that God keeps me together but sometimes, the stress of daily life is just too much. But God has a way.

At work today, one of my colleagues said she had to share something with me. It was something she was meaning to share for a long time but kept putting it off. But today she had to share it. It’s a God moment for sure. What she shared was a YouTube video entitled: God Is in Everything, Even Molecule That Holds Us Together. In this video a pastor talks about God holding us in his haands and he is with us at the molecular level.

Scripture

• I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
      your works are wonderful,
      I know that full well.- Psalm 139:14
• For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities;all things have been created through him and for him. ¹⁷ He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. – Colossians 1:16-17

Reflection

Now if you looked at the picture first before watching the video or reading on, you see how awesome Laminn is. For those of you who don’t know, laminin is a protein that is a cell adhesion molecule. It is what holds together all the membranes of our bodies together. Without it, our cells would collapse. If you look at the shape of laminin, it’s the shape of the cross. How amazing is that. There is a molecule that is shaped like the cross that literally holds our bodies together.

There are so many times when I question my faith. When I wonder if I am doing what I’m supposed to and fufilling God’s plan. There are other times when I feel so disconnected from everyone and everything, that I think it will all end. But to know, that the representation of Jesus is in my cells, literally holding everything together, it’s a level of connectedness I have not experienced before.

Call it the Holy Spirit. Call it divine planning. Whatever you call, it, Jesus is there to help keep you together.

Charge

Are you having questions about faith? Are you wondering how you are connected to the bigger picture? Maybe you don’t believe in a creator. I challenge you to look at the scripture above and the shape and purpose of laminin and not feel something. Share that feeling of connectedness with those around you. Through that sharing, you will feel Jesus helping to keep you together.

Lord, allow me to feel your presence always. Help me to know that you are in me, through me, and around me always. Let me live my life like laminin and help be the adhesive that brings people to your church.

November 27 – Are You A Misfit?

331 – Are You A Misfit?

#faithbites #faithjourney misfit

Tonight, as part of our annual tradition, my family sat down to watch Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. Every time before we watch it, I think of it with nostalgia, then as I watch it I remember how bad it is. Between Santa being a jerk, Donner rejecting his son, and on and on it goes. Rudolph even thinks he is worthless because he isn’t like everyone else. They shun him and he runs away. But then at the end, he saves the day because of his abnormality.

In my life, people call an outcast, misfit, not normal, and a hundred other things. These names have haunted me and really taken their toll on my self-worth. Why would God make me an outcast? Then I think that no two of us are alike, so don’t we all have something that makes us a bit of a misfit?

Scripture

(Normally I stick to ESV or NIV translations, but in this case, the MSG translation fit a bit better)

• So David got away and escaped to the Cave of Adullam. When his brothers and others associated with his family heard where he was, they came down and joined him. Not only that, but all who were down on their luck came around—losers and vagrants and misfits of all sorts. David became their leader. There were about four hundred in all. – 1 Samuel 22:1-2 (MSG)
• Then he turned to the host. “The next time you put on a dinner, don’t just invite your friends and family and rich neighbors, the kind of people who will return the favor. Invite some people who never get invited out, the misfits from the wrong side of the tracks. You’ll be—and experience—a blessing. They won’t be able to return the favor, but the favor will be returned—oh, how it will be returned!—at the resurrection of God’s people.” – Luke 14:12 – 14
• The Lord God, who gathers the outcasts of Israel, declares, “I will gather yet others to him besides those already gathered.” – Isaiah 56:8

Reflection

The bible is filled with outcasts and misfits from Moses to David to Paul to Peter and beyond. Some of the greatest leaders of the church were outcasts or weird or different. God chose them for a reason. He looked at what their abnormalities could be used for.

We are all created for a purpose (Romans 8:28). God made us in his image and perfect (Matthew 5:48). The world as a whole doesn’t know God and doesn’t know why he made us the way he did. I trust God more than the world. If is that uniqueness that some call an abnormality or weirdness or strange that may be how God plans to use us.

All the characters in Rudolph have a purpose. The misfit toys find their right owner. Even the Bumble helps to decorate in high places. What was scary is now helpful.

I hope that you never have someone, like Donner did to Rudolph, try to cover up your nose or make you feel less than perfect.

Charge

This charge is easy: Let Your Freak Flag Fly. Be who God made you. You may not fit a box and may be called weird, strange, or a misfit. But he has a purpose for you. He gave you skills and abilities to be perfect in his image. Let the Holy Spirit use those skills in you.

Lord, let me not be ashamed of how you made me. I am perfect in your eyes through Christ. Give me the strength to accept my differences and acknowledge that you created me for a purpose.

November 26 -Don’t be Scammed By Something That Is Too Good To Be True

330 – Don’t be Scammed By Something That Is Too Good To Be True

#faithbites #faithjourney scammed

This is hard for me to admit as I used to work in IT security. Not only that but I ran departments and know a thing or two about how scammers work. On Black Friday though, I fell for it. I found a deal on a 3D printer that was too good to be true. A $299 printer on sale for $29.99 plus $10 for shipping. Sure it was crazy, but on Black Friday who knows. I spent a lot of time examining the product to make sure it was a good printer. I didn’t even think to check seller. To make it worse, I posted it and my brother “bought” one too. For the rest of the night and the weekend, I researched the printer, looked at what I would print first including printer upgrades. I was excited as I never buy anything for my self.

Then I decided to check my confirmation number. I never received an email through my brother did. So I checked out the website and it was down. Then I tried to contact them and no responses. I even working with the domain host to find out what they can do. All that being said, I was scammed out of my money. The $40 doesn’t both me as much as the wasted time, the excitement I was going to have, and having someone else fall for it.

Guess what? Faith is like that too. If something is too good to be true, it might be.

Scripture

• Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.- 1 John 4:1
• But false prophets also arose among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you, who will secretly bring in destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them, bringing upon themselves swift destruction. – 2 Peter 2:1
• But the prophet who presumes to speak a word in my name that I have not commanded him to speak, or who speaks in the name of other gods, that same prophet shall die.’ And if you say in your heart, ‘How may we know the word that the Lord has not spoken?’— when a prophet speaks in the name of the Lord, if the word does not come to pass or come true, that is a word that the Lord has not spoken; the prophet has spoken it presumptuously. You need not be afraid of him. – Deuteronomy 18:20-22

Reflection

I was scammed in trying to get something that was too good to be true. In our passages, we see that God is true and eternal. But at the same time from the beginning, there have been false prophets and those who try to speak in God’s name but speak the devil’s world. All denominations have and continue to have these false prophets. Even those not attached to a church have false prophets. But how do we know what to believe?

I believe in the Word of God. I believe that it is inspired by God and needs to be looked at holistically. My personal denomination, Lutheran, was founded by Martin Luther who believed that the Catholic Church at the time, this is 500 years ago, didn’t follow the word of God. He had the word translated into the language of the people.

We are all human. We want something for nothing. How great would it be to hear someone say you get everything you ever wanted by doing bad? What if that person convinced you that the bad wasn’t bad was helped you get closer to God? These are the scams we see every day. I know that I did nothing to deserve the forgiveness of Christ but I accept it. This was foretold in the old testament, and it was a sacrifice from God to bring us together. To me, that isn’t being scammed as it is his word.

In looking back at my purchase, I should have been more diligent. I should have taken the time to research the company and not just the product to make sure I was getting the real deal. In our faith, we have to be even more diligent. We need to seek out the will of God through his word.

Charge

Do you use the same diligence in your faith that you do when searching for a “good deal”? Are you listening to false prophets including the world? Take time to go back to his word. See what the word says, then pray. He will guide you.

Lord, help me to not give in to the temptations of the world. Let me see what is true and not a scam. Help us all to know that you are with us and will never have us commit evil acts for salvation.

November 25 – Does Your Love Ever Run Out?

329 – Does Your Love Ever Run Out?

#faithbites #faithjourney love

I can say that I have loved many people in my life. Some as friends or family, others romantically. I can also tell you that through circumstance or actions, that those bonds aren’t as strong as it was. In some cases, through time and distance, the bonds are broken. I have been cheated on in my previous life, lied to by loved ones, and hurt. I’ve hurt those I love and seen human love run out over and over again.

I have also seen love fail. Friends in abusive relationships, divorce, adultery, backstabbing, and friends not being there when you need them. We have all be hurt, we have all had human love run out on us.

While we are all broken and our love is the same, God’s love is perfect. His never fails, never gives up, never runs out on me. We sang the song “One Thing Remains” by Jesus Culture at Church today. God is eternal and he will never fails us.

Scripture

• The Lord appeared to him from far away. I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you. – Jeremiah 31:3
• But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness. – Psalm 86:15
• For the mountains may depart and the hills be removed, but my steadfast love shall not depart from you, and my covenant of peace shall not be removed,” says the Lord, who has compassion on you. – Isaiah 54:10

Reflection

Have you felt perfect love? I have felt human love and it feels so good. When that love is gone or runs out, it hurts deep. Since I have found God, I can’t say I have not felt loved by him. I have been challenged for sure, but to say I have lost his love, I can’t imagine it, nor do I want to.

I’m not saying we shouldn’t have loving relationships here on earth. In fact, just the opposite. We should love our God and our neighbors. We should try to emulate God and love as he does. I am a realist and now that I will fail in my love. In some cases, my love has run out. I have seen others love in me run out.

I know that through prayer, I will always be loved by God. He will never forsake me. Earth may be hard to live in, but to live without his love is a place I don’t want to live in.

God has blessed me with so many things and some things like my anxiety that I don’t care for. My life is far from perfect, but to know, even for a second, what his perfect love is, makes it all worth it. My prayer is that everyone can feel a love that never gives us, never runs out, and never fails.

Charge

Has someone given up on you? Have you given up on others? Know that the Lord will never fail on you and will never won’t run out. Take a moment to thank him. Think about how it feels. Try to capture that on a daily basis. Then try to emulate that love in all your relationships.

Lord, help me to always feel your warm embrace. When human love fails, let me know that you are always here for me. Help me to improve all of my earthly relationships by loving as you do. Let my love never run out but if it does, let me be kind to those in my life.

November 24 – Are You Looking For A New Home?

328 – Are You Looking For A New Home?

#faithbites #faithjourney Home

For the past 17 years, we have not really had backyard neighbors. There was a shed directly behind our house, then the neighbor’s house was off to the side. In the past week, they started constructing what looks like a very large (and I mean very large) garage or shed or something. It is blocking our view of the fields and the road. Not a big thing, but I started to think about what it would look like to move to have a good view.

Of course, my mind went to what I would like in a new house. From the number of rooms to location, schools, church, fun things to do, gathering space, high-speed internet, and much more. When you are looking for a home, there are must haves and then nice to haves. While I’m not moving anytime soon, I started to think about church and worship.

My question to you, is are you looking for a new church home?

Scripture

• I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment. – 1 Corinthians 1:10
•  And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.- Hebrews 10:24-25
• My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? ³ And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. – John 14:2-3
• As we have said before, so now I say again: If anyone is preaching to you a gospel contrary to the one you received, let him be accursed. – Galatians 1:9

Reflection

God, in both the new and old testaments, tell us to meet together to spur one another towards love and good deeds. It also tells us that there should be one church of Christ and no divisions. We know that there are many denominations of Christianity, many that have split over one thing or another over the years. The biggest thing to think about, as it says in Galatians, is if they are preaching the Gospel of Christ. If they are not, then that is not a church that follows Jesus. Don’t get me wrong, I am no scholar and I can’t judge. I just try to do the best I can.

When I first started at my church, someone told me that God’s house has many rooms. You just need to find the room you are most comfortable in. In life, there are people we gel with and people we don’t. Church is like that. Some may have people more like you and some may not. But as long as they are teaching the Gospel of Christ, they are good churches.

All that being said, I want to invite you to find a church home. Don’t spend forever not worshipping as you are trying to find “the right one”. Go worship, explore, and pray. God will show you the answer.

I also want to invite anyone in central Illinois to join my family and me at Trinity Lutheran Church in Bloomington. No pressure. You can be our guests.

Charge

Do you have a church home or a house? A house is where you live, a home is where you are safe and thrive. If you have a church home, invite someone to your home. If you don’t, reach out. There are many who would invite you into God’s home.

Lord, help me to always have a home in your church. Be with me and everyone who needs you to find a place of like-minded people who share your word and spur each other towards love and good deeds.

November 23 – Do You Have The Skills to Do The Job?

327 – Do You Have The Skills to Do The Job?

#faithbites #faithjourney skills

Last night I was putting things away from Thanksgiving dinner and thought about how I would eat leftovers the next day. My favorite is a turkey sandwich with a little bit of mayo then warmed up in the microwave. That is always good. But then I realized I didn’t have any mayo. I wondered if I could find a recipe to make homemade and would it be as good. Then today I was researching a weighted blanket and realize how expensive they are. Then I thought could I do one myself. After looking up DIY ways to do it, I quickly realized that I didn’t have the skills to pull it off.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I probably could do it with lots of time, equipment, money, and help, but is that where my skills lie? How much time would it take for me to try to do something, that someone else could do much more easily, cheaper, and faster?

As my life normally does, I started thinking about being a good Christian. I wondered what skills and training we needed. While there are lots of specialties that you could do, to be a “good Christian”, you only need to do two things. Love God, Love People. That’s it. No special training. Not schooling or intense classes. If you treat others as you would want to be treated, pray faithfully, and believe, then you do it. it truly is something that anyone can do.

Scripture

•  Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” – Mark 12:30-31
•  If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen. – 1 Peter 4:11

Reflection

Previously we talked about how God has given us all different skills for his plan to unfold. We need to use those skills to truly be the person he wants us to be. But that doesn’t mean we need all of those skills to be a good Christian. It also doesn’t mean that we are perfect.

Listen, I mess up every day. Sometimes it’s by choice, other times, it’s just me messing up and I beg for forgiveness. I work on these traits every day. But to truly be Good, as we know no one is good except God and through God. (Mark 10:18).  The one thing I know is that if I love all and worship Jesus, all will be good.

So no, I didn’t make homemade mayo or a weighted blanket. I may try the mayo one day. But I know that others have made that and I can get it if I need it. Just like being a good Christian I can do on my own, learning more about myself and my faith, I need help. Luckily, I have many who will help me.

Charge

Do you consider yourself a good Christian? What skills do you use to be good? Are these skills that you were born with or have perfected over time? Remember, that we can’t be good on our own, that only through God are we good.

Lord, help me to be good through you. Allow me to use the skills you have given me to love you and others. At the same time, help me understand where I need to leverage others skills and where I need to improve mine.

November 22 – Thankful for What We Have and Don’t Have

326 -Thankful for What We Have and Don’t Have

#faithbites #faithjourney #thanksgiving2018 Thankful

I want to wish all of you a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving. This is a day when we are thankful for everything we have and everything we have is from the Lord.

Today’s Thanksgiving didn’t go as I had planned. We had planned to go to my sister-in-law’s house and share a great meal with family. My eldest got sick yesterday and ended up at prompt care. Then today had a 100-degree fever. When you have immunosuppresed family, you don’t take the risk. So my eldest and I stayed home. At first, I was disappointed that I didn’t get my traditional Thanksgiving meal or the time shared with family and friends.  But upon second look, it was something to be thankful for. A day with my eldest, watching TV, playing video games, snuggling, and just living life. Then my wife brought home food and it was just as good.

When we think about what we are thankful for, remember that we can be thankful for all things, even when things didn’t turn out the way we thought it would.

Scripture

•  give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.- 1 Thessalonians 5:18
• Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. – Philippians 4:6
• Praise the LORD.Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever. – Psalm 106:1

Reflection

As our verses say give thanks for all things in Christ. When things don’t happen the way we want, it’s ok. We can be a bit down, but then we can look at it with thanks. Tonight my wife and I were supposed to have a date night and a movie, but because of my eldest being sick we couldn’t. Instead, though, we had a family movie night at home, cuddling and enjoying the company. At the same time, my niece who was getting a night off a dialysis to babysit our kids would be able to take one next month to have a slumber party with her girlfriends. Something she never gets to do.

Sure, things didn’t work out for the short term, but in the long term, God has his ways. I have food in my belly, a roof over our heads, a job, and a family that loves me. These are the things that matter. The other stuff is icing on the cake and as we all know too much icing can be bad for you 🙂

Charge

Take a moment to look past those things you don’t have. Try to forget about the things you didn’t get to do. Instead, think of what happened because you didn’t get that and give thanks. Look at the small things in life and give thanks. Really, for all things give thanks to God as all things are his.

Lord, help me to always be thankful. Let me look past those things that I want and focus on what I need. Keep my heart full and thankful for everything you give to me and mine.

November 21 – Do you have enough?

325 – Do You Have Enough?

#faithbites #faithjourney enough

Do you ever ask yourself when enough is enough? Maybe it’s around owning things or taking trips. Perhaps it’s around the dinner table when you are just full. It could be when you are looking at doing things for others. Or in this time of the holidays, when is buying gifts for people enough. Sure you can budget well, thank you Dave Ramsey, but is it enough? When is enough, enough? When is it time for us to just stop and smell the roses?

I’m the wrong person to be answering that question. I struggle with that every day. From eating too much to volunteering too much to just doing too much. At the same time, I wonder if the too much I’m doing is the right stuff to be doing. I don’t have the answer, but I suspect I’m not the only one who feels like that.

Scripture

• Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” – Hebrews 13:5
• For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs. – 1 Timothy 6:10
• For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? – Matthew 16:26

Reflection

Money isn’t evil, rather the love of money is. At the same time material possessions aren’t evil, but coveting them over faith and love is. And we all know that what good is it to have the whole world but lose his soul? While these scriptures may not answer our question, I think it helps. If we you are doing something that takes you away from your family, worship, and praise, then it could be too much. If you are obsessing about money and things, then it could be too much. If you are spending all your time and energy at work and forsaking your other relationships, maybe it is too much.

For each of us there is too little, just right, and too much or in other words the Goldilocks zone. I don’t know about you but I’m never in the Goldilocks zone. I’m usually in the doing too much to get things I don’t need or impress others I don’t need. It is my hope through prayer, reflection, and true insight that I get there one day.

I also hope that I can raise my children to not love material things at the expensive of their soul and the non-material joys of life. If we all could do that, we would care less for our things and more for each other.

Charge

As we enter the holiday gift-giving season, aim for the Goldilocks zone. Set a budget that includes giving to your favorite charity or church. Have it pinch just a bit in your giving to God. Think about the person you are getting or making something for and how it will make them feel rather than the amount you are giving to them.

Lord, help me know when enough is enough. Give me your strength to say no when I need to and to say yes when it is your will. Allow me the insight to be ok with both answers.

November 20 – Vaccinated by Christ

324 – Vaccinated by Christ

#faithbites #faithjourney Vaccinated

Before we get started, I’m going to ask for a little leeway here. I’m going to use an imperfect metaphor, but I think it works. So bear with me 🙂 And now, onto faithbites.
Yesterday my youngest got her flu vaccine. Today, I had my oldest vaccinated against the flu. They were both very brave. My youngest cried a bit then was fine while my oldest was a bit fearful, but then was doing great. Yes, she was milking it for the sore shoulder, but she’ll be fine.

I hear all kinds of reasons people don’t get the flu shot. Oh, I got sick after getting it or I got it by still got the flu. There are folks who believe that all vaccines are evil and cause autism and other deformities. Some really wacky people believe it’s all a government conspiracy.

For me, I believe based on science they work. They will not protect you against everything. The flu shot is only good against some strains. Some will still get sick but the duration and intensity will be much less. So we chose to have our children vaccinated against the flu.

You may be wondering what this has to do with faith. To me, I think of Jesus as a vaccine. He protects us from some of the evils out there. He strengthens us and even though there are still evils and bad things that happen to us, the duration and intensity are much less. All things are possible with God.  (Matthew 19:26)

Scripture

• But the Lord is faithful. He will establish you and guard you against the evil one. – 2 Thessalonians 3:3
• My God, my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold and my refuge, my savior; you save me from violence. I call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised, and I am saved from my enemies. – 2 Samuel 22:3-4
• Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. – 1 Peter 4:12-13

Reflection

From Job to Daniel to Jesus to the Disciples, believe in Christ is not easy. We are told that we will have our reward in heaven even though our life is hard here. (Matthew 6:19-21). Our treasures of earth are short-lived while our rewards in heaven are eternal. In Luke Chapter 9:57-62 talks about the cost of following Jesus. This life is hard, but we will survive. We will be able to join the kingdom of heaven as we were baptized in the water and spirit (John 3:5).

Nowhere does it say we will have an easy life. We will struggle, we will suffer, but we will overcome all of these things. We have been vaccinated against the evils. No matter how strong the evil is, we will overcome it through him.

I know that my kids will get sick. We know that no matter how hard I protect them, they will have difficulty and struggle. But their vaccine will overcome all strains of evil and their duration and intensity will be diminished because of faith in Jesus.

Charge

Are you vaccinated against evil? Do you practice your faith daily? Do you share your faith with others? Have you realized that your life will be difficult but you will be rewarded in the kingdom of heaven.

Lord, be my vaccine against evil. Protect me and help me overcome all obstacles. Help me to understand that following you will be difficult filled with evil and temptations. Let all know that you will defeat any strain of evil that comes our way.

November 19 – Taking Time to Chat

323 – Taking Time to Chat

#faithbites #faithjourney chat

I was walking into work today thinking of the many things I had to do. Then I stopped at a colleagues office who I hadn’t seen in a few days and talked to her for probably 20 minutes or so. We chatted about work, life, school, health, Thanksgiving, and more. It was nice to catch up and gave me a little pick me up to start the day at work.

We live in a time where life is fast-paced and serious. We have so many things to do and so many serious issues taking up our time. When do we stop and “smell the roses”. Last night I had a good friend and her daughter come over and bring us homemade cookies. They came in and we just chatted for a few minutes. Nothing serious, just catching up.

These are the moments when we build the foundation of our relationships. Then when we face the struggles of life, we can build upon that solid beginning. A simple chat can have lifelong impacts

Scripture

• Follow the pattern of the sound words that you have heard from me, in the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. – 2 Timothy 1:13
• A friend loves at all times,
      and a brother is born for a time of adversity. – Proverbs 17:17

Reflection

Anyone who knows me, knows I like to talk. I can talk to anyone about anything forever. What most people don’t know, is that it is very hard for me to create deep friendships. I talk with people, relate, and have fun, but connecting on that level is hard. When we think about chatting with others, that is the first step. We should have words that are filled with faith and love of Christ. When we start conversing on that open and honest level, even if it isn’t about a deep philosophical issue or anything, we become closer. As it says in Proverbs, we start as a friend who loves at all times, then when those difficult times come, we have a new brother.

Taking a few minutes to chat with someone helps me. In most cases, it’s a casual hello and how is it going. I am rewarded by it and I hope those I chat with are as well. But sometimes, there are those simple conversations that turn into the deep moments. I have made some of my closest friends through conversations that started as a simple chat. Just remember, when we chat, if we do it with the love of Christ, the Holy Spirit can make amazing things happen.

Charge

Do you plan to chat with people in your daily life? Maybe you just have the same few people you have a casual conversation with every day. Take time to plan a chat. Just step outside of your office and your comfort zone and say hi. Maybe it will just be a nice little chat, maybe it will turn into a deep relationship. You don’t know if you don’t speak.

Lord, help me to be open to new experiences and friendships. Give me the strength to say hi and just chat. Provide me with the knowledge that not every conversation has to be deep and meaningful and that sometimes a simple chat can be just what you ordered.

November 18 – Do You Speak Churchenese in Public?

322 – Do You Speak Churchenese in Public?

#faithbites #faithjourney Churchenese

“Peace be with You”. “Love God, Love People.” “What a glorious day the Lord has made”. These sayings and many more make up Churchenese.  Our common language that shares our faith, Hope’s, dreams and goals. Do you only speak this on Sunday or at worship or do you speak it in public?

Today during worship our pastor introduced us to Churchenese. The language we use to live in the Word during worship. This can be scriptures, paraphrases of scripture, or just that warmth of Christ. It warms to soul and helps you to be part of a community.

The question is when you leave the comfort zone of Worship, do you still speak in Churchenese  or do you leave it at the door?

Keep in mind, speaking in Churchenese can be the specific words but also our intent of sharing the love of Christ.

Scripture

• Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conformto the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. – Romans 12:1-2
• Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. – Romans 12:9-10

Reflection

All that we have is from God and for God’s use. If we truly believe in his Word and his gifts, why wouldn’t we share that.

Many years ago when I graduated high school, I  was in a drive through for Arby’s with my mother. The guy gave us our food and I said “Thank you so much. Have a great day”. My mother, who was from California , asked me if I knew that guy. I  told her I didn’t and she said I should be careful who talk to.

To me, that’s a prime example  of speaking Churchenese.  I was warm and open to him, long before I knew the love of Christ. We don’t need to use the same exact words in public as we do in worship but through our intentions, emotions, and love of Christ, our words will come across. Think of it as a universal translator for Churchenese to common language.

As our verses show, we are to love honesty and give our bodies in service. How better than to speak the word in a way that others can understand in everything we do?

Charge

Do you share your faith in public? How do you share your relationship with Christ and all the gifts he gives you to others? Take time to find one person who doesn’t speak Churchenese to talk with. Use common words and the Holy Spirit will translate.

Lord, all me to be your vessel. Give me strength to speak your truth outside the comfort of Worship and your physical church. Hell us to always share your word in a way others can understand.

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November 17 – Write it Down and Hit Save

320 – Write it Down and Hit Save

#faithbites #faithjourney #RoadtoEdD Write

Today was another writing day on the #RoadtoEdD. Lots of searching, writing, and revising. When I was finished for the day, I wrote about the journey and was told to make sure I saved it and saved it in multiple places. Luckily I had already done that. I don’t know how many times I’ve lost something that I wrote or had an idea and didn’t write it down. You know those moments when you are in the shower or just about to fall asleep and BAM, you have a great idea. You tell yourself to write it down, but then you tell yourself you will remember it. Guess, what? Most of the time you forget it.

Now, with a dissertation, I can’t imagine trying to start over if I lost it. I get mad enough when I forget an idea I had right before bed. Now think about the Bible. Think about our history, our faith, the struggles and tribulation of all those 5000 – 2000 years ago. Imagine if it wasn’t written down. If the oral traditions were all that we had. How many things would be lost? How many people wouldn’t be able to read the truth?

Scripture

• Thus says the Lord, the God of Israel: Write in a book all the words that I have spoken to you. – Jeremiah 30:2
• Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, I felt compelled to write and urge you to contend for the faith that was once for all entrusted to God’s holy people.- Jude 3:3
• Then the LORD replied: “Write down the revelation and make it plain on tablets so that a herald may run with it. – Habakkuk 2:2

Reflection

Most of our worship services involve reading the word. Heck, much of our communication today is reading and responding to what others have written. In both Jeremiah and Habakkuk, the Lord tells the people to write down everything that is said so others can see it or run with it. This is how the word spreads. In Jude, we hear about those listening to false prophets, so he wrote a letter about salvation and what faith is. The Lord chooses this method to ensure not only the person who he is talking to gets the message, but so the herald (all of us) can run with it.

I don’t know when I’m done with my dissertation if anyone will read it let alone run with it. I hope what I’m writing helps people teach better, but that’s to be seen. What I do know is the word of God is truth, and without it, without it being made available to all of us, we would be lost.

Charge

What do you choose to write down? Only your most important thoughts? Everything? Have you thought about writing and sharing your story, just as the Lord shares his story with us? Take a few moments to write down your thoughts on faith. Share them with others. You may be surprised at how people react.

Lord, give me the strength to read and write. To read and understand your word, and write with your voice to share your Word with others. Help me to be strong and dedicated to sharing your word and using the words you want me to.

November 16 – Isn’t It Ironic, Don’t You Think? Or is it a Coincidence?

320 – Isn’t It Ironic, Don’t You Think? Or is it a Coincidence?

#faithbites #faithjourney ironic

I was listening to the 90s radio station this morning and Alanis Morrisette’s “Ironic” came on. I loved that song back then, but even more than the song was the debates and drama about the title. Should the song title be Ironic or Coincidental? The occurrence she talked about in the song was mostly coincidences rather than ironies. That being said, the song is still catchy, but the debate never left my mind.

Flash forward to #LifeInMedSchool. I listen to the words our students use like “edema” but we say swelling. That is just one small example where a word can mean one thing to someone and another to someone else. I am very lucky that I work with clinicians who will help me understand these terms, when to use them and not, and why there are so many more descriptive terms than just swelling for instance.

Add to that, last night I was helping my eldest with synonyms. They had to select the synonym but then decide on the shades of meaning between the two. This was difficult for an almost 9-year-old as we use so many words interchangeably.

Now let’s look at the Bible. There are probably as many different translations as there are pages in the Bible. Some have this book or that, some have extra verses, some use “the desert” to mean “the wilderness”. With all these different words, how do we know what is the word of God? Is it ironic? Is it Coincidental? Maybe just faith.

Scripture

• But he answered, “It is written, “‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” – Matthew 4:4
• Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. – Colossians 3:16
• Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him. – Proverbs 30:5

Reflection

Every word of God is truth. The word is never changing always present. Then how can there be so many interpretations of the Word? That is simple and complex. One is that words change in meaning over time. Another is different books were written by different people with different audiences, all with the guidance of the Holy Spirit. The main part to me is that one verse or one scripture isn’t what matters. Even Satan used scripture against Jesus during his temptation in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11). The point isn’t a single verse but the whole Word of God. We are to look at the overall message which is one of a loving caring God who wants us to love him and love others. Yes, there are rules ton how we should behave and treat each other. We even learn how to pray. The point is that we shouldn’t be having a debate on one word or one verse, but how we live the entire word.

While many English teachers debated about the song Ironic, the point was clear. Sometimes we wait too long to do something or we chose to do something and the opposite thing we expect happens. Maybe it’s a coincidence, maybe it’s irony, but it’s not what we were expecting. In the word, we will find scriptures of the Lord anger and vengeance (mostly old testament. We will find where we shouldn’t eat or drink with certain people or associate with them. But in the end, the entire work shows us to love God and love people.

Just like I have clinicians I talk to for medical knowledge, in addition to searching on my own, we all have access to priests, pastors, rabbi’s, imams, and others who can help us understand the word.

Charge

Do you ever find yourself debating with one person over one piece of scripture? Have you thought about how that piece relates to the whole work? Are you debating semantics or actual changing of the overall message of the Lord? When one of these debates happen, think about why the person is taking a difference stance than yours. Find common ground and then relate it to the entire work. Then you may find piece.

Lord, help me to always look at your word holistically. Let me find how it speaks to me today and share it with others. Do not let me get caught up in picking and chosing of scripture without looking at the entire value of your word.

November 15 – Responsibility for Your Actions – Good and Bad

319 – Responsibility for Your Actions – Good and Bad

#faithbites #faithjourney responsibility

About two to three inches of pearly white snow covered central Illinois this morning. It is beautiful unless you have to travel, shovel, or go anywhere. A perfect day to stay home, sit by the fire, drink hot chocolate, and rest. But alas, this was not in the cards me today. I went to work as it is part of my responsibility as a grownup.

As I was driviing to work, I saw a car in the median on the highway. I kept driving and thought it wasn’t my responsibility to call someone. The guy looked ok inside. Someone else would call it in and get help. But then I rememebered it is all of our responsiblity to help our neighbors. I called the county sherrif and let them know the information. About 20 minutes later, the same thing. I called and reported what had happened. I thought how would I feel if I was the person off the road and needed help.

Finally, I got into town, almost to work. The roads weren’t great, and I was driving pretty well. A guy started to change lanes into me, I honked the horn and he kept coming. I swerved off the road, hopped a curb or two and nearly slammed into a light post.  The car seemed ok until I saw the tire pressure light on. I got out and the other car kept going, rushing past everyone. My tire was flat as can be. So I sat on the side of the road, a few minutes from work, and stuck. $215 and 4 hours later, I was back on the road. Why didn’t the person even think to stop? Isn’t that their responsibility?

Scripture

• Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy. – Proverbs 28:13
• And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them. – Luke 6:31
• So then each of us will give an account of himself to God. – Romans 14:12

Reflection

Sure, I was upset at the guy for not stopping and seeing if I was ok. I am very blessed that it was only a tire and no one else got hurt. Things can be replaced, people can’t. I was also upset at myself that it took me a few minutes (maybe seconds) to call the sheriff for the first car of the road. I don’t want to be in the presence of God and have to justify why I hesitated. (Romans).  It is my responsibility to look out for others as it is theirs to look out for me and mine. In Luke, we see, do onto others as you ‘d have them do to you.

Once I was in a ditch with my daughter and hoped for help. I ended up calling and was ok. I hope that those two stranded motorists were happy when the sheriff/state police came today because of what I did. Not one car stopped or anyone calls to make sure I was ok. Do I hold that against them? No. It is our duty to educate and help others understand what God calls us to do.

Charge

Do you look out for others? Have you called the police or provided help when others needed help? Do you know that as part of God’s family, we have a responsibility to each other? Find ways that you can show your responsibility to look out for others in your daily life.

Lord, help me to know when I should help others. Help me to be ready to give the help and accept the help when needed. I know we are all responsible for your family here on earth. Give us your strength to be that family.

November 14 – Celebrate and Have Fun

318 – Celebrate and Have Fun

#faithbites #faithjourney celebrate

Life is pretty hard. We have probably seen the hashtag #adulting or #momlife or #dadlife or any of the others out there that help us express how hard things are. The news is usually grim. Death is out there, devastation, bills, politics, and so many things that weaken our resolve and stop us from enjoying life. I’m not going to lie and say that life is sunshine, puppy dogs, and unicorns. But you know what? There is goodness in the world. There are times to celebrate. We need to take our little victories and celebrate.

Tonight I was able to work through 6 pages of homework with my almost 9-year-old without screaming or fighting. To me, that’s worth celebrating. This morning there were cookies and brownies in the break room. Yay for chocolate.

So many things get us down, but to take those few minutes to look back at what we’ve accomplished and celebrate it. We get the strength we need to keep going.

Scripture

•  Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances;for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
• When the builders laid the foundation of the temple of the Lord, the priests in their vestments and with trumpets, and the Levites (the sons of Asaph) with cymbals, took their places to praise the Lord, as prescribed by David king of Israel. With praise and thanksgiving they sang to the Lord:

  “He is good;
      his love toward Israel endures forever.”

  And all the people gave a great shout of praise to the Lord, because the foundation of the house of the Lord was laid. – Ezra 3:10-11

Reflection

If we look at the Ezra verse, the builders just finished the foundation. They had a long long way to go until the house of the Lord was finished. So many more days of hard labor, toiling in the sun, and suffering to build the house. But they stopped, celebrated and gave thanks to the Lord for what they had accomplished so far. In the Thessalonians verse, we are told to rejoice always and pray continually and give thanks to God.

Do you give your thanks to God? Right now, I’m going to celebrate that I’ve written #faithbites before it was late in the evening. Is it a big thing? Nah, but It’s one less thing I have to do so I give thanks. I got it done and it’s not bad.

We should take those victories, give thanks to God, and keep on doing his good work. The journey is filled with many milestones, let’s celebrate, not just reaching the destination.

Charge

Do you celebrate little victories? Do you have a plan in place to make sure you give thanks to God and celebrate? Maybe you get a cookie for writing a couple of pages of your paper. Maybe you get to play a game if you finish all the laundry. Whatever it is, give thanks to the Lord for what he has given you.

Lord, help me not to be bogged down by the long journey ahead. Give me the knowledge and strength to celebrate all the little victories in my life.

November 13 – Helping Correct Someone with Kindness

317 – Helping Correct Someone with Kindness

#faithbites #faithjourney correct

Here’s a shocker for all of you: I am not perfect. I eat too much, don’t exercise enough, yell more than I should, and am not always the most pleasant person to be around. Sure, I apologize when I do wrong and seek forgiveness, but I am far from perfect. I am open to being corrected when it is done in a kind and loving manner. When it isn’t, not only does it not work, it damages the relationship and causes more discord than a kind word.

I asked my doctor for some help with my knee as it hasn’t been getting any better. I asked about medicine and a possible new brace. His response was the brace I am already using is what they recommend and that they could refer me to a weight loss surgeon to try to get some of the weight off the knee. That was the response? No medications and no nutrition talk. Just go to the weight loss surgeon. I thought the point was for me to put off surgery as long as I could on my knee rather than do a different surgery. Could that be an answer? Sure it could. But is that the first step and to do that in an email? No. This is where some kindness and compassion could help.

Scripture

• Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.- 2 Timothy 4:2
• Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. – Ephesians 4:32
• “You shall not hate your brother in your heart, but you shall reason frankly with your neighbor, lest you incur sin because of him.- Leviticus 19:17

Reflection

We all make mistakes and commit sin. It is our job to love one another and help them with complete patience and teaching. Forgive someone’s wrongdoings without hate and reason frankly with them. When we see someone err, we should be ready to provide constructive feedback in a loving and friendly manner. When we give it in anger or try to “fix” someone, we only hurt the relationship.

Sure, I need to lose weight. I get it. I could be talked to, reasoned with, given a plan for attack, and work the plan. But to drop a bomb like that, doesn’t help. In fact, it makes me want to go eat a big bowl of ice cream.

We have situations every day where we need to provide feedback to help others. Sometimes they will take the feedback, other times they won’t. Having a strong relationship is founded by being able to help each other grow. When you help them grow, grow with kindness.

Charge

How do you provide feedback? Do you provide it in a way to seek retribution? Maybe you want them to feel bad or know they did wrong? Think about how you would receive that feedback. Then think about how to rephrase that in a way that can give the kindness of the Lord.

Lord, help others correct me with a warm heart and kindness. Give me the knowledge to correct others in the same manner. Let us all growth through constructive feedback together.

November 12 – Time for Night Night

316 – Time for Night Night
#faithbites #faithjourney night

Waking up in the dark and going home in the dark is par for the course in the northern part of the country during daylight savings time. I am tired. Between work, school, family, church, home, and everything, I’m just tired. While there is the emotional tired we have talked about before, sometimes you just need a nice sleep.

Our bodies crave good sleep. We want to have time to rest, recuperate, and get ready for the next day. Too often we are concerned with doing the next thing that we don’t give our bodies rest.

Having two children, bedtime can be a struggle. When I tell them it’s time for night night, I often get “Why do parents get to stay up late” or “I’m not tired”. When I try to tell them they will really love sleep when they get older, they fight me on it.

But what does scripture tell us about getting a good night sleep?

Scripture

• If you lie down, you will not be afraid; when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet. – Proverbs 3:24
• It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep. – Psalm 127:2
• Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. – Matthew 11:28

Reflection

I have nights when I sleep but it is not restful. Times when all I want is sweet sleep. We talked about praying for comfort, and I pray for calming of my heart and mind so I can sleep. At work sometimes we talk about who got to work first and who stayed the latest or who worked the hardest. Sometimes it seems to be a badge of honor to work and work and only get a couple of hours of sleep. We can see in the Psalm that that is folly. Not having sleep is eating the bread of the anxious. We even see that the Lord has given us sleep. A chance to rest, a chance to give our burdens to Christ for sweet sleep.

Sleep is a luxury for many that we take for granted. I need to look at sleep as a gift from the Lord rather than something that takes my time from doing other things.

Charge

How much sleep do you get a night? 5 hours? 6 or 7? Maybe you get 8 or more? Is your sleep restful and sweet? Before you get ready for bed, try to give your burdens to Christ. Pray about your day and ask for restful sleep. Then take the time you need for that sweet sleep.

Lord, let me enjoy the sweet sleep that you give us. Allow me to not think of everything I need to do and instead enjoy what you have given us.

November 11 – Thank You For Your Service

315 – Thank You For Your Service

#faithbites #faithjourney Service Veterans

Today is Veterans Day in the United States. A day to celebrate those who serve and have served in our armed forces. This is a time to thank those who have sacrificed their time, their energy, and in some cases their lives, to protect our God-Given freedoms. While I have never served and cannot understand everything that goes into it, I can show my respect and thanks to them. Through their choice, I am able to celebrate my freedoms and was able to go about my life to make other choices than to serve.

My paternal grandfather did choose to serve. He was in the Army in WWII and part of the group that stormed the beaches of Normandy. Though I wasn’t old enough to talk to him about this as he died when I was very young, I remember looking at his medals and being proud of him.

My hope and prayer is that our veterans are safe, are rewarded, and have the full armor of God to protect them.

Scripture

• Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.- John 15:13
• Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”- Joshua 1:9
• Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. – Ephesians 6:11

Reflection

Thinking about the verses above, they break into two main sections. One is for the veteran and soldier themself and the other is for us who are blessed by their service. I don’t know of any soldier who goes into service to die. They don’t want to do this but they are willing to lay down their life if needed to protect us. Just as Christ laid down his life for the entire world, our soldiers are willing but hopefully, they don’t have to.

The second part is for our soldiers. May you always be strong and courageous, not frightened or dismayed. Even in the darkest night, God is with you to help, protect, and comfort. Through prayer and worship, the whole armor of God is given to you. May you wear it to protect you through all of your battles

The last thing I want to bring up is supporting our veterans and active duty doesn’t mean you have to agree with politics around why they are being deployed. These are two very separate things. We can disagree with the why of the orders and still wholeheartedly support our armed forces.

Charge

As you go through your day today, think about your God-given freedoms. Think about how you can exercise those freedoms as well as those who have helped to protect that right. Give a prayer for our veterans. Thank a veteran. Do a kind deed for them and appreciate their service.

Lord, please be with all of our veterans and active duty military. Give them the strength of your full armor, your blessings, and your protection. Help them in their coming and goings as they protect all of our freedoms especially the freedom to worship as we chose.

November 10 – Let It Go For Peace

314 – Let It Go For Peace

#faithbites #faithjourney peace

I don’t know about you, but I tend to be an easy going guy. I try to love people and help where I can. But sometimes, people do stupid things (in my opinion)) and it just sticks in my craw. They say something or do something or dress differently or a hundred of others things that just bother me. Of course, I don’t say anything about it, but I think about it. It slowly eats at me, wasting some of the precious time and energy that could be spent more productively. Only this morning did I realize that if I followed the advice of Queen Elsa and just “Let it Go”, would I feel more at peace.

No two people are the same, nor is how people will respond to a situation. If someone is doing something that they like and doesn’t impact you, why should we worry about it? Having you ever been walking down the street with his pants so low, you wonder how they stay up? Maybe you even get upset about it. I’m thinking, does it matter? Just let the guy be. We aren’t to judge. How about if someone dresses strangely? You have probably made a mental note about it and said something to someone else? What about when someone leaves the box of doughnuts empty on the counter? These are just a couple of examples, and there are a million more examples that are choices people make that don’t really affect us and are none of our business, but we stress about it.

For me, it starts with little things like the ones above and goes into more difficult situations. From gay marriage to political voting to religion to race and beyond. So many choices that people make can get in our hearts and frustrate, enrage, and bother us. In the end, we aren’t to judge. We won’t find peace by hashing and rehashing it. Only through our actions can people see our light. Let’s not use of the energy for that light on things that either don’t concern us or we shouldn’t try to judge.

Scripture

• “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; – Luke 6:37
• There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor? – James 4:12
• Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. – Ephesians 4:29

Reflection

Before we go further, let me clear. I am not saying we shouldn’t report illegal activities or that we shouldn’t intervene to help others. I’m am also not saying things that are cultural differences or actions are bad. We should respect other cultures always.

This is more about the little judgments, and big, that we make that we really shouldn’t. Sure, I would love everyone to do things the way I like and in what I believe, but that is not reality. The strength in our faith and life is the different skills and abilities that everyone brings. Even our Lord drank and ate with sinners and the “unclean”. We can learn from his example.

We are not the judge, jury, or executioner on faith and God’s law. There is only one judge on that and he will evaluate and judge all. Our job is to love, respect, and help others find Grace.

Yes, those little actions and some bigger actions of people tick us off. If we can remember that those people are also children of the Lord and our anger will not do anything but take our energy away, we could be better off. If we just let it go and find peace, then we will help others find grace.

Charge

What actions or activities do others do that just tick you off? Are there things that don’t directly impact you but irk you? Think about one pet peeve or one issue that takes your energy away. Can you find it in your heart to let it go and have the Lord give you peace?

Lord, help me to know when to be involved and when not to. Let me find peace in knowing the things that I should be involved in and those things that don’t matter in the long run. Let those who don’t know your peace find you in all that they do.

November 9 – Prayer Can Be Comforting

313 – Prayer Can Be Comforting

#faithbites #faithjourney comforting

Last night I stayed up a little too late. When I finally fell asleep I had some very powerful and disturbing nightmares. While I can’t remember exactly what it was about, I knew that it stayed with me. Waking up in a sweat, I didn’t feel good, and my heart was racing. I was felt alone and powerless. I then started to pray to God for peace and to calm me down. Through deep breathes and prayer, I calmed down and fell back asleep. When I woke up, I still felt a bit uneasy but I didn’t feel as alone anymore.

So many times we pray for material things or guidance. I often pray for compassion and insight as well. The act of praying for comfort and healing for myself isn’t something I do often. The act of praying is one thing but having that feeling of comfort wash over me was so welcome and unexpected. Prayer is an amazing gift: Call it a hug from God.

Scripture

• Even though I walk
      through the darkest valley,
  I will fear no evil,
      for you are with me;
  your rod and your staff,
      they comfort me.- Psalm 23:4
• And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you. – John 14:16-17

Reflection

I fear no evil as you are with me with your rod and your staff. Having the ability to call to God and know he is there no matter what eases my soul. There are many times when it seems like prayers are unanswered: promotions, wealth, employment, relationships, and more. Most of the times though you may not be listening to God or waiting for the right time. The prayers of comfort are unique in my opinion as they can be instantaneous. The calling for “another advocate” who will help you and be with you forever is answered almost immediately.

As one who suffers with anxiety, I have times when my world seems out of whack. Lately, more times than not. Being lost in this world is scary and can be downright terrifying. So many of life’s day to day challenges, leave us with a sense of dread, not belonging, not being good enough, or just not getting it. It’s in these times when a Hug from God can really bolster and provide much needed comforting.

I can’t control my dreams. I can’t control how others act toward me. What I can do though is ask for the comforting hand of God on my heart when I feel lost, confused, and unimportant.

Charge

Do you pray regularly? If so, what do you pray for? If not, is there a reason that you aren’t? In your prayers do you ever ask for comfort for yourself? When the world is loud and you feel unimportant, reach to God and pray. Pray for him to calm your nerves, soothe your hearth, and eas your mind.

Lord, help me in my suffering. Take away the pain and sense of isolation, loneliness, and lack of self-worth. Fill me with the Holy Spirit. Allow him to calm my nerves, slow my breathing, and relax my mind.

November 8 – Will I Mess It Up?

312 – Will I Mess It Up?

#faithbites #faithjourney mess

We like to be comfortable. Having the what we know is calming to our souls. While change can be good, change can be terrifying. While there may be an outcome that we want, if we make a change it can change things we don’t want. Call it the butterfly effect or ripple effect, our fear of making a change can be paralyzing.

A couple of weeks ago I was talking to a friend about my life. I told her how many things I liked and some things that I didn’t. A third friend asked something along the lines of why don’t you make a change. Before I could answer, the friend said: “He doesn’t want to mess it up”. She may have used more colorful words than that, but I’ll keep it rated G 🙂

That moment has resonated with me. Sure, we can make a change, but what else will it mess up. At the same time, maybe making that change is the path we should go on.

To change or not to change, is not easy. Not changing leads to the status quo which can have consequences, just like changing can have undesired or unexpected consequences.

Scripture

• He then began to teach them that the Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law, and that he must be killed and after three days rise again. He spoke plainly about this, and Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him. But when Jesus turned and looked at his disciples, he rebuked Peter. “Get behind me, Satan!” he said. “You do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” – Mark 8:31 – 33
• Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. For he who sows to the flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life. – Galatians 6:7-8

Reflection

When you read these verses, you may not see the relevance. What is interesting is that God doesn’t tell us to do this or not to do this. In fact, he clearly lays out what will happen. In Mark, he even calls Peter Satan, as his words are those words of the flesh, of someone not understanding the big picture. Peter is being the tempted to Jesus to not go to the Cross. Likewise in Galatians, God is saying you will reap what you sow. You want to reap earthly things, you will only get corruption. If you have faith and reap of the spirit, you will have everlasting life.

What does this all mean? Every action has a consequence. We often only see what happens in the short term rather than long-term effects. On a recent TED talk, they were talking about technology prediction and how if we only look at the short time, where there may be bad outcomes, the long-term could be good and we would miss out on it.

All in all, we need to make the choices that are within his word and help to lead us to righteousness. Sure, we may have short-term failures, but long-term rewards. I would love to jump at those things that can show a benefit, but at what cost? We need to look at and concentrate on what the Lord wants us to even if the short term is a mess.

Charge

We all live complicated lives with complex choices. Look at the choices you have before you. Some will maintain the status quo, some will not. If you chose to maintain the status quo what are you holding on to and what do you lose out on. When you make a change, what other unexpected ripples and loses may you have to get the gain?

Lord, help me to make the decisions that follow your word. Give me the strength to endure short-term loses for long-term gain. Provide us with the direction and support to see the consequences of our actions and the strength to live through them.

November 7 – You can be strong and flexible

311 – You can be strong and flexible

#faithbites #faithjourney flexible

I have friends who are of almost every political, religious, spiritual, and racial group you can think of. I have debate debates with them in a respectful and loving manner. Many times I have friends who tell me I need to “pick a side”. I’m not hard enough on someone or I’m trying to understand an opinion that is just wrong. Some have called me whishy-washy.

This reminded me of a grade school friend, whose father called him Mr. Jerkwater. Basically that he wouldn’t make up his mind, would be wishy-washy and could be mean. Looking back, that is nuts that a parent would use that term, but I digress.

You can be strong in your beliefs and still try to see where someone comes with. Understanding where they come from and what they believe in doesn’t mean that you are ok with it or believe the same thing they do. I am strong in my beliefs but try to understand daily with people’s opinions who I disagree with.

We have only to look to scripture for examples.

Scripture

•  If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far;  but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body.  – Philippians 1:22-24
• As Jesus walked beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” At once they left their nets and followed him.- Mark 1:16-18
• I desire to do your will, my God;
      your law is within my heart.” – Psalm 40:8

Reflection

Being strong-willed is a good thing. Understanding your beliefs, your values, your faith is what the Lord wants. What we need to be able to do is see all sides, be strong in our own, help others, and make the best decision we can with God’s help. In the Philippians verse, Paul is torn between helping in the flesh or being with Christ which is better. He sees both options as valid and God, being with Christ even better, but chooses to remain in the flesh and that is where he needs to serve. Likewise, when Jesus was gathering his disciples, he sees Simon and Andrew fishing. All it took was Jesus to come to them and they left what they wore to fish for people. Some would say they abandoned what they believed in and who they were to follow this stranger. In this case, though, they were strong in their belief that the Messiah their faith talked about had arrived, so they answered his call.

At the end of the day, we want to do God’s will. We understand his law and should want to help. The old adage of catching more flies with honey than vinegar is true. You can adamantly disagree with someone but can be strong in your faith AND flexible enough to listen to them to try to understand their position. When you understand their position, not agreeing with it, you have started a relationship that can move you both closer to God.

Charge

What is your normal reaction when someone disagrees with you? Do you shut them down with facts, figures, insults, or attacks? Do you try to belittle their position with morale superiority? Or do you try to find out where they are coming from? Sure, not everyone will want to engage. In those cases, the best option is to leave. Others will want to engage. Try to put yourself in their shoes. Listen to them, be kind to them, understand them. The Lord will help you get the right words.

Lord, help me not to be pig-headed. Let me strong in my faith and beliefs but flexible enough to listen to what someone else is saying. Allow me to be wrong, allow me to be bright, allow me to serve you through building relationships.

November 6 – I’m Not Like You But I Support you

310 – I’m Not Like You But I Support you

#faithbites #faithjourney Support

Today was election day in the US. A time for people to vote, to voice their opinions, and set the course for the next few years. Yesterday, we talked about being a Christian and voting. Today we will talk about acknowledging the difference in people and still supporting them.

I went to the polls this morning with my eldest to cast a vote. As I was leaving, a friend said to me “I voted for you, even though I’m not a Libertarian”. I thanked the friend and then thought about that. This is a metaphor for so many things in our lives. We don’t have to be like someone to love them. We don’t need to be in the same party, same church, same country, or same anything to see value in them as a person. We should want everyone to be successful as a child of God.

As the election ended and I didn’t win (I’m 1-2 for those keeping score at home) the first thing I did was congratulate my opponent who won and my opponent who lost. It was a three-way race. I also encouraged the winner to work hard for the county and the other opponent to not give up and not be discouraged.

We have these moments when we can look beyond what separates us to find our commonalities and say “I Support You”.

Scripture

• For God does not show favoritism.- Romans 2:11
• Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. – Romans 15:7

Reflection

God doesn’t tell us to love only those who vote Blue and hate those who vote red. He doesn’t tell us that anyone who votes red is evil. He says to accept one another and that he doesn’t show favoritism. We are also to love our neighbor. These are simple words but can be challenging to act on.

We have a choice in that we can see people who vote different or come from a different group or class as different. It is our choice on how we treat them. My hope is that we look beyond the labels and see what that person has to offer. God made all of us and has a plan for each one. It is up to us in faith to accept others, it doesn’t say like everyone, and treat them with love and respect.

When my friend said they voted for me even though they weren’t Libertarian. That warmed my soul. Cast of the labels and look at the person. You will be happier.

Charge

Tomorrow will be a challenge for some and easy for others. While this may be because of the election, it could just be a good or bad day. Reach out to those you see and accept them and love them, even if they aren’t one of you.

Lord, help me to always see the beauty in people. Let me look beyond the labels and traits that separate us and find your beauty within them.

November 5 – The Biblical View on Voting

309 – The Biblical View on Voting

#faithbites #faithjourney Voting

Tomorrow is Election Day in the United States. It’s a chance for us to vote for our next set of leaders. Many are disillusioned with the voting process, our government, and how the country is going. Many think if you don’t vote, the country is going to die. Some think if you vote for the wrong person, the country is going to die. I have encouraged many people to vote and have voted every time I have been able. (I don’t think I voted in primaries back in the day, but I can’t honestly remember).

This post isn’t to encourage or guilt people into voting. This post is about faith, as they all are, and what our faith tells us about voting, electing our leaders, and being participating citizens. If you chose to vote, I will love you. If you choce to vote for someone I don’t like, I will love you. If you chose not to vote, I will love you.

Scripture

• Choose for your tribes wise, understanding, and experienced men, and I will appoint them as your heads.’ – Deuteronomy 1:13
• He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding; – Daniel 2:21
• Moreover, look for able men from all the people, men who fear God, who are trustworthy and hate a bribe, and place such men over the people as chiefs of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties, and of tens. – Exodus 18:21
• First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. – 1 Timothy 2:1-2

Reflection

After the last presidential election, my daughter wasn’t happy with the results, as many of us weren’t. I asked her who was King of Kings and Lord of Lords. She pointed up to the heavens. That’s what our faith tells us. That God appoints people as our heads after we choice wise, understanding, and experienced men. (Yes, this is now men and women). At the same time, we see that God removes and adds kings, he also wants us to choose men from all people. This isn’t limited to the rich or to one party or one ideology. We should select people who fear God, are trustworthy and hate a bribe.

We should partake in the process that God has laid out. Choosing wise people to lead us, and then pray for them. Pray that they serve God so that we may all lead a peaceful, quiet, godly, and dignified life. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t seek a peaceful and dignified life. I know people who have differences of opinions on what that should look like. But if we look to God for direction, pray, and ask for guidance, then he will bless our leaders and appoint them as heads.

I don’t know what tomorrow will bring. I know that some will be happy and some will be upset. Some people will get what they want and others will not. As always I pray for our country, for our citizens, and our leaders. I don’t believe that one election will be the end of our country but how we participate and what happens time after time can set a course that is follow’s God’s path or doesn’t. It’s up to us to decide.

Charge

Personally, I hope everyone votes. I hope that everyone feels that they have a voice and a place in our system. The charge today is not to vote, but rather to pray for our country, for our leaders, and our people. Seek God’s guidance for how we leave Tuesday behind and live on Wednesday.

Lord, I pray for your people. Help them to choose the path that is best for them, voting or not voting. If voting is the path for them, help them chose the right people that will lead according to your will.

November 4 – We Cling to the Someday

308 – We Cling to Someday

#faithbites #faithjourney someday

Today at church we celebrated All Saint’s Day. Before today, I didn’t realize what it was. I knew it was always November 1st and I thought it was about the Saints. Today I realized, at least in the Lutheran belief, that all of us are saints. During service, we remembered each and every person who passed during the year. I counted 37 names people. 37 lives ended but a new life beginning with Jesus.

Christianity is all about that someday. The day when we meet Christ; when all of our pain, tears, and suffering are gone. On the day when we rejoin our extended family in him. Our brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, friends, and others who have passed before us will be there greeting us.. There will be no death, no tears, no sorrow, just love, and peace.

We cling to that someday, when our faith, our perseverance, and fortitude will be realized. That we will see our God, our Savior, and our loved ones. I don’t know about you, but the hope of that Someday makes my soul sing.

While that someday isn’t here yet, we do know who God blesses in preparation for that day.

Scripture

“Blessed are the poor in spirit,
    for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn,
    for they will be comforted.
Blessed are the meek,
    for they will inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
    for they will be filled.
Blessed are the merciful,
    for they will be shown mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart,
    for they will see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers,
    for they will be called children of God.
Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,
    for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. – Matthew 5:3-10

Reflection

The verses above are from the Sermon on the Mount. These are specifically called the Beatitudes, meaning “supreme blessedness.” Why would I use these in a day celebrating and remembering those who have gone on before us? Maybe because it was in the sermon this morning? 🙂 While that is true, when we think about those who have reached their someday, they are blessed. We want to be with Christ because we experience many of the experiences on a daily basis. Have you been a peacemaker or persecuted? Maybe you are hungry or merciful. These are all blessings in his word.

Those who are no longer with us are like us. They have had these life experiences. It also gives us a chance to look at the world around us. If God blesses the people who go through these experiences or act in a certain way, shouldn’t we?

Shouldn’t we bless those who are hungry and thirsty by giving them food and drink? Shouldn’t we refrain from persecuting others?

While I don’t know all the answers, I do know that God is here and he is blessing us. He lets us know how we are blessed in order to have faith in him, all the while knowing that our Someday will come.

Charge

Are you remembering someone who has passed? Take time to know that they are waiting for you at the great family reunion when Someday comes. Are you feeling let down by the Lord or not welcome in his family? Take a moment to realize that this is not true. You are always welcome in his family. He forgives all your actions. Know he loves you.

Lord, help me to remember those who I have lost in the past year. Help me empathize with others who have losses much greater than mine. Let mek now their ear, their friend, and bring them closer to you. Remind us all that Someday will be here soon.

November 3 – You Will Be Blessed

307 – You Will Be Blessed

#faithbites #faithjourney Blessed

Life, like faith, is a journey. We come and we go. We learn and we teach. Always changing but always staying the same. I know I probably sound like a fortune cookie but bear with me.

Tonight, my wife and I were walking through Hobby Lobby and I saw a sign that had today’s scripture on it “You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out” – Deuteronomy 28:6. I probably have seen verse before but it didn’t register until today. So many times we think we are blessed when we get something or win something. (The going in). But when we leave, it is usually a sad thing. We are leaving behind something. What if we thought about opening doors and closing doors in the same light. That we are being blessed with new opportunities and new challenges. If we looked at life like that, would we have a better appreciation for what God has given us?

Scripture

• You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out. – Deuteronomy 28:6
• the LORD will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore. – Psalm 121:8

Reflection

Not only do we see that we will be blessed in our comings and goings but that the Lord will watch over us both now and forevermore. We have nothing to fear when we look at the world this way. God is watching us and he will bless us.

There are many times in my life when I have fear. Will I finish this dissertation (my comings)? Will it lead to something better for my family (my goings)? If I make this choice rather than that choice, am I doing what is right?

I have faith that the Lord knows the answer. He will make sure that my choices are good and that I am blessed. He is always watching, blessing, and protecting.

Charge

Do you think about your comings and goings? Do they concern you or worry you? Are you losing sleep over your choices? Think about the Lord watching you when you come and when you go and all the while he is blessing you. Don’t forget to take time to feel his blessings and know that if you make your choice in good faith, he will bless it.

Lord, give my friends, family, and I blessings. Watch over us as we come and go. Give us the strength to continue on your path.

November 2 – Turn Down All The Sound

306 – Turn Down All The Sound

#faithbites #faithjourney Sound

The world is a pretty noisy place. From people to social media to construction to nature to everything in your head, there is a lot of sound. With all of this comes the brain processing power to try to tune it out. Some days, I am better at it than others. I posted early on Facebook today that there is physically being tired, mentally being tired, and spiritually being tired. Today is a spiritually tired kind of day. It isn’t something I can put my finger on it, but I just feel exhausted.

As I thought more about it, I realized it was all of the noise in the world that was getting to me. Yes, there are long days which drains the body. Sure there are debates and conversations that drain the mind. Lately, I have been engaging in many conversations and thinking about life that all deal around my faith and Christianity. Maybe it was spurred by the attacks in Pittsburgh, maybe by people not acting in a way that I think is Christina, who knows. But I am spiritually wiped.

After more thought, a song came to me that helps me. It’s a pop song by Meghan Trainor called “Kindly Calm Me Down”. The funny thing about it is I thought I had mentioned it in a previous #faithbites. When I looked back, sure enough, I did, back on January 10. Seems like a lifetime ago. If I’m finding inspiration in my own writing, I only hope that others do too.

What do you do when you feel spiritually tired?

Scripture

• Truly my soul finds rest in God;
      my salvation comes from him – Psalm 62:1
• The Lord is in his holy temple;
      let all the earth be silent before him. – Habakkuk 2:20
•  “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. – Matthew 11:28

Reflection

“When my world gets loud, could you make it quiet down?

When my head, it pounds, could you turn down all the sound?” – Meghan Trainor

We all have those days when the world is loud when the noise goes beyond the physical and is in your soul. We know that our when we are weary and burdened, our souls find rest in God and our Salvation through Christ. Those are amazing words of comfort and calm. At the same time, to know that the Lord is in his temple and the world will be silent before him, helps even more. To know that there will be a day when I join the Lord in his house and all the noise will be quieted down. I can’t put into words how great that would feel.

There is no magic wand or tip to be happy all the time. No potion or trick to have your soul not be burdened. I believe if you care and you are active, your soul will be weighted down. That is when it is time to come to the Lord, and get rest.

Charge

Are you weary and tired? Do you feel like you are defending your faith in a battle running low on supplies? Know that the word of the Lord will comfort you. He will put people in your life to help you in that battle. He will give you rest. Write down those things that make you weary. Bring them to the Lord. Then listen to his answers. He will quiet all the sounds.

Lord, grant me rest. Help me to understand your plan and my purpose in it. Give me the strength to know when to fight and when to rest. Give my fellow warriors both your strength and your rest.

November 1 – Looking in the Mirror

305 – Looking in the Mirror

#faithbites #faithjourney Mirror

When you look at the mirror, what do you see? Normally you see your reflection. If you are like me, most of the times, my reflection doesn’t seem to match who I really am. The funny thing though, is looking at my kids seems to give me a reflection from when I was a child.

Tonight, my youngest was acting super goofy. When I looked at her eyes, I saw myself and as I was getting mad, I felt what my dad must have felt. My wife often says my dad is in heaven laughing at this. My youngest is putting me through what I must have put my dad through.

While it’s awesome to see that reflection, I often wonder what other people see when they look at me. Do they see my heart and soul? Maybe it is the face I see when I look in the mirror that isn’t a true reflection. Who knows. I do know that God sees us for who we are and Jesus can be the best reflection of who we want to be.

Scripture

• Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror – James 1:23
• As in water face reflects face, So the heart of man reflects man.- Proverbs 27:19
• But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit. – 2 Corinthians 3:18

Reflection

When writing #faithbites, sometimes the scriptures are a bit of a stretch, other times they are right on. The funny thing is I almost always right first the search for scripture. To see that they lined up perfect, must be I’m onto something.

In James, we see the exact illustration of my example above. When you look in the mirror you stare at it, but you aren’t doing anything. Hearing the Word of the Lord and not acting is the same thing. You have the gift but aren’t sharing it. When you look at the mirror, you are confined to your own mind, not sharing who you are with others.

At the same time the Proverbs verse shows the physical reflection and the spiritual one. The heart is a reflection of who you are. As I asked earlier, are others seeing your heart reflected, or are they seeing a mask?

Lastly, if God created us in his image, wouldn’t we want to show that? We want to be transformed. We are gifted with his likeness, his glory, his image. We want to show that in all we do. That mirror we hold up should be one that when people look at our reflection, they see our Lord.

Now, my little one is my reflection through and through. I joke with my wife that she’s her kid. She always says she’s a mini-Sol. I try to take that as a learning experience. How to show intense joy and compassion while seeing what I look like when I’m stubborn or angry. This is my mirror and I hope to use it as best I can while looking upon the glory of God.

Charge

When you look at yourself what do you see? Do others see what you want them to see? Try to think about how you can change that if you want to change it. Write down some of your actions. While you can’t force others to see you how you want to be seen, you can make some changes that benefit you and show the glory of God.

Lord, help me to be a reflection of you. When people hold me up as a mirror they see your love, your grace, and your salvation. Where I have a negative reflection, help me to change that to better serve you.

October 31 – The Holy Spirit is Within You

304 – The Holy Spirit is Within You

#faithbites #faithjourney #Halloween Spirit

Happy Halloween to those who celebrate. Hope you and yours had fun today. As I’ve said before, I get inspired for Faithbites from the strangest of things. I figured since it’s Halloween and the time of ghosts, goblins, and the supernatural, why not talk about the Holy Spirit or Holy Ghost as some say.

I have to admit, out of the Trinity, he is the one I didn’t get. Understanding the Father and the Son was easier for me. That was easy as we have that in everyday life. I could even get behind that God turned himself into flesh and became the Son. But this Holy Spirit idea was beyond me. Before I was baptized the closest thing I could equate it to was the force from Star Wars. Obi-Wan described the force as “It’s an energy field created by all living things. It surrounds us and penetrates us; it binds the galaxy together.”. Maz Kanata described it as “Close your eyes. Feel it. The light…it’s always been there. It will guide you.”

It wasn’t until I went through my baptism that I realized that the Holy Spirit is God’s Messenger, creating faith, and filling you with his power.

Scripture

• But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” – Acts 1:8
• But as for me, I am filled with power,
      with the Spirit of the Lord,
      and with justice and might,
  to declare to Jacob his transgression,
      to Israel his sin. – Micah 3:8-10
• For we were all baptized by^[a] one Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink.- 1 Corinthians 12:!3

Reflection

Ok, so the Holy Spirit doesn’t seem like a Ghost that you see on Halloween. We also know that he is God and was there since the beginning. (Genesis 1:1-2). Now when I look at the three verses above, I can see why He reminded me of the force in Star Wars. You have power, justice and might, and through that Spirit, you are all one body (like Obi-Wan said).

I don’t mean any disrespect. We see Christ-like imagery in popular culture from Star Wars to Superman to Chronicles of Narnia and beyond. Understanding that he is God’s messenger, creating faith, giving us power through Christ, and binding us together in God’s kingdom. I don’t know about you, but that’s pretty powerful.

While I don’t get force lightning or mind control, I get eternal life and the power to connect to people through God’s word. He strengthens us through Christ so we can complete his plan here on earth.

Charge

Do you feel the Holy Spirit in your life? That feeling of right and wrong? That little angel on your shoulder. Maybe it’s when you don’t know what words to use but the words come and you connect with someone? Listen to that voice. Take time to hear the messenger of God in your daily life.

Lord, let me be your vessel. Allow the Holy Spirit to flow through me, connecting me to those around me. Help me to understand the messenger and share in your name.

October 30 – Are you a Citizen of God?

303 – Are you a Citizen of God?

#faithbites #faithjourney Citizen

Today’s #faithbite is inspired by the President of the United States saying that he could end birthright citizenship by executive order. This post isn’t about that as I try to stay away from politics as much as possible. Instead, this will focus on what it means to be a citizen.

Merriam-Webster defines Citizen as: 1) an inhabitant of a city or town, 2A) a member of a state, 2B) a native or naturalized person who owes allegiance to a government and is entitled to protection from it, 3) a civilian as distinguished from a specialized servant of the state.

I want to focus on #1 and #2B. We all have a place we call home. Maybe it is the place we were born in or maybe it is the place we moved to and now is home. We love the land, the people, and our way of life. There are things that we want to change of course, but this is who we are. We work to defend it, protect it, and improve it. At the same time, we owe allegiance to the government and have expectations from that government. We want to be protected and ensure that we can live in our home. Not all governments fulfill that responsibility just as not all people show allegiance to a government. This is a two-way street.

All that being said, this applies to our faith as well. We have citizenship in the Kingdom of God. Whether we were born into it or baptized later, we became citizens. As we owe worship to God, we expect his protection.

Scripture

• But our citizenship is in heaven, and from it we await a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, – Philippians 3:20
• So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, – Ephesians 2:19
• There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. – Galatians 3:28

Reflection

In our times we have so much talk of the other. We find ways to keep ourselves separate from those people. Their language is different, their desires are different, they are not from here. But from a Christian point of view, we are all citizens of the same God. We have citizenship in heaven and are no longer strangers and aliens. We are all together in the worship of Christ.

By the definition above we owe allegiance to God. This is stated in both the First Commandment and in Matthew 22. There is one God that we should love and work for. We should follow his example in all that we do. We welcome those who are in need and love them. At the same time, we deserve protection from God as we are his citizens. 1 Corinthians 10:13 states it well that God will not let us be tempted beyond what we can bear. in 2 Thessalonians 3:3, the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen and protect us from the evil one.

I believe that through these scriptures, and many more, we fit the definition of Citizens of the Lord.

Charge

Do you believe in the word of God? Do you believe we are all one family and have citizenship in his kingdom? If so, show that in all your actions and all your doings. Be one who welcomes those who need help. The Lord will protect you from the evil one, and that evil one is not in the family of God.

Lord, help me to be a productive citizen in your house. Let my words be your words and help others to find peace. Help us all to be better citizens for you and help to unify all of your people.

October 29 – The Plague has Struck Our House

302 – The Plague has Struck Our House

#faithbites #faithjourney plague

Want a good sign that the seasons are changing in Illinois? Look for the sick kids. The awesome thing about sick kids is they just want to cuddle their parents. Snuggles, love, and compassion are commonplace in our house. So is passing the plague from one to the next. So far, it’s just me, my wife hasn’t gotten it yet. When sick, I often wonder how much mucous one nose can produce. The answer is more than you want.

What strikes me as interesting is how different people react when sick. Some like my spouse and my children, just want to be babied, snuggled and waited on. Me on the other hand, I just want to sleep and to be left alone. A nice bowl of soup delivered to me would be nice, but I digress.

We tell people when we are physically sick. Some, like me, even share when we are mentally ill. Very few share when we are spiritually sick. Our spirits get the plague as well, and it is very easy to spread.

Scripture

• A man’s spirit will endure sickness, but a crushed spirit who can bear? – Proverbs 18:14
• And Jesus went throughout all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues and proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom and healing every disease and every affliction. – Matthew 9:35
• Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. – 3 John 1:2

Reflection

Those who know the story of Jesus, know of the miracles he and the disciples performed. They went from village to village and town to town, curing the sick, healing the wounded, and spreading the Good News. Some were healed spiritually as their bodies were also healed. Some like the old man who said he could see but men were looking like trees, needed more Jesus. (Mark 8:24).

I have days when my body is weak but my spirit soars. I have other days when both are weak. Still others and I’m hoping they outnumber the others, when both my body and spirit rise up. The funny thing is, I know that even when my body crumbles, my spirit will endure. The other way usually doesn’t work. You may have a good body, but if there is no belief, what is the purpose?

In this crazy world, I look to build up my spirit and the spirit of those around me through Jesus. Then we can all bear together the plague of our world both medical and physical.

Charge

Think about your body. Is it healthy? Is it strong? Do you suffer from any maladies? Then think about your spirit. Is your spirit healthy? Is your spirit strong? What steps can you take to ensure your spirit is always strong? Take one day at a time.

Lord, heal my body and my family’s bodies. Let this sickness leave us. Help us to always follow you and be strong of spirit. Show us the way to endure anything this world throws at us through your love and example.

October 28 – What Do You Expect In Worship?

301 – What Do You Expect In Worship?

#faithbites #faithjourney Worship

What do you expect when you go to worship? During this morning’s Reformation Sunday service, our pastor spoke about many things that you might expect when you come to worship. The lights should be on. There should be proper heating and air. I expect doughnuts but I’m spoiled. He also talked about what should happen during the service: The Good News of Jesus, Our Sins, Forgiveness, and Eternal Life. After the sermon, I mentioned to him, that I felt one was missing: safety.

We should be able to worship in the house of our choice, with the people of our choice, and not fear for our physical safety. Yesterday, 11 people were killed in worship. One, that struck me even more, was a 96-year-old Holocaust Survivor. She made it out of the camps to die in America at worship. Our country is built on religious freedom, for me and many others, this is unthinkable. I also know this isn’t the first time. We had the Church shooting in Charleston a few years back where people were gathered for Bible study. This is not the America we can be. We need to love one another. The bible doesn’t say we have to get along with each other or believe everything they do, but we have to love one another.

While I originally meant physical safety, there is another type of safety: Saftey of your soul. Meaning that when you worship and believe in Christ, you will have eternal salvation. Before the Reformation, many didn’t have the true word of Christ. They had a view that didn’t put the scriptures in their hand. They had middlemen and charges to receive salvation. When we worship, we should always know we have the Good News and our soul is in good hands.

Scripture

• Obviously, the law applies to those to whom it was given, for its purpose is to keep people from having excuses, and to show that the entire world is guilty before God. For no one can ever be made right with God by doing what the law commands. The law simply shows us how sinful we are. – Romans 3:19-20 (NLT)
• We are made right with God by placing our faith in Jesus Christ. And this is true for everyone who believes, no matter who we are.- Romans 3:22
• You are my hiding place;
  you will protect me from trouble
  and surround me with songs of deliverance.- Psalm 32:7

Reflection

I know many people from different faiths, backgrounds, races, creeds, orientations, and more. I don’t hate them for who they are, actually I love them for who they are. There are times when people drive me crazy because of what they believe or how they act, but I am to love them. I can’t fathom, coming into a house of worship for the sole purpose of killing those in worship. While I don’t know what tomorrow brings, I believe that God is my hiding place and will protect me from trouble. As someone said, it will be ok. If it’s not ok, it will be ok. He is there and will surround us.

The lord is our refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). While I know the law of the Old Testament, I know that there is no way I can fulfil it. IMany of my friends, work daily to uphold the law and I support them in their faith. I am justified (meaning declared blameless) through Christ. He fulfills the law and ensures my salvation.

There are people in the world who are filled with hurt, anger, and love. My life wasn’t shattered as those lives in Pittsburgh was and I am blessed for that. My sense of security in worship is a little more heightened.

I pray for peace, love, and understanding. That my expectations of hearing the Good News, being physically and spiritually safe, will always be meet in worship.

Charge

What are your expectations in worship? Are they being met? Think of ways to improve your worship experience. Listen to God, make him your strength, and your refuge. If you aren’t hearing the Good News, find someone who will share it with you.

Lord, help those in pain at this time. Instill a sense of peace and safety for all those in worship and in their homes. Give them the understanding of the world, but let your light always shine through us.

October 27 – One Family of God

300 – One Family of God

#faithbites #faithjourney family

Before we get started, this is the 300th day of the year, meaning I have been writing #faithbites or sharing scripture for 300 days straight. I was hoping to have an uplifting message for #300 but today my heart breaks. I thank you all for reading and commenting. 65 days to go. And now, back to faithbites.

11 gunned down while worshipping in a synagogue in Pittsburgh. 11 lives ended in a place where all are welcome. A place where God is present and all worship. One person targetting others because of false news and hatred. While I am now a proud Christian, I will always be a Jew. I am proud of my heritage. I am proud of the struggles of the Jewish people and that we are all sons and daughters of the same God.

My heart breaks at the number of attacks, killings, attempted bombings and more going on. I am actually at a loss for words. This isn’t what we should be as Americans. This isn’t some outside force that is attacking us. It’s not “rapists and murders” from an unknown country. It’s not a foreign power trying to take us over. This is us as Americans doing this to ourselves. We are one nation under God.

God has us all as part of his family. When we remember to love God and love people, the other differences seem so tiny.

Scripture

• So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith. – Galatians 6:10
• If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together. – 1 Corinthians 12:26
• A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. – John 13:34

Reflection

My words are shallow and trivial compared to the words of God. We are in his family, in his household. In Galatians, we see that we need to do Good for EVERYONE, especially those who are of the household of faith. What does that mean? Should we not be nice to those who are not like us? Maybe just ignore them? No. we do good by them. No killing, no murdering, not bigotry, or hate or anger.

In 1 Corinthians we see that we all suffer together when one suffers. When one is honored we all rejoice. I know some will say that people are gunned down everyday or that bad things just happen. While that is true, it doesn’t lessen the pain we should all feel. I know that I am desensitized at times, but I will try to rejoice and suffer with those in need and pain. Moreover, I will give my time and soul to help them.

I have talked about this in most of the faithbites. John 13:34 or more simply love each other as Christ loves us. It doesn’t say only the Christians, only the Caucasians, it doesn’t say any of that. We should love all of his children.

I don’t have the words to share my disgust, hurt, and pain at what is going on. But we can change this. We can be the difference in the world. Love God, Love People. It’s that simple.

Charge

Do you feel the joy and sadness of others? Maybe you get jealous when someone has joy or maybe you ignore when someone is sad. We all do it from time to time. Try to listen deeply, truly, and fully to your friends and neighbors. Reach out to those who are different from you. Share the love of God with those who are willing. Even when they are not, be the love in the world that Jesus was. We are all his family.

Lord, help me always be part of your family. Heal my heart and those in the world feeling hurt, ignored, slighted, or unloved. Your love is always around us, let me feel that in all I do.

October 26 – Accepting at Face Value or Intentions Matter

299 – Accepting at Face Value or Intentions Matter

#faithbites #faithjourney Intentions

Have you ever said something well-meaning, but someone took it the wrong way? How about when you said something, but others tried to pick it apart when what you meant was pretty obvious? In the past few days, I have had many of those situations. A simple Facebook post, a brief conversation, or a sentiment that wasn’t shared. The funny thing is that when we pick apart what is said, rather than trying to understand the whole sentiment, we all lose.

I’m not saying we should agree with what someone says. I’m saying we should look at what they said in whole and try to find the meaning. If we don’t understand then we ask for clarification. Once we have the clarification, we can judge our response on the intent of the message, not necessarily every little word.

Scripture

• For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart. – Hebrews 4:12

Reflection

I chose this verse as it shows us many things. First, the word of God lives in us. Second, it carries all things. Third, it knows the thoughts and intentions of the heart.

Many times, we hear someone quote one verse of scripture and believe the Bible revolves around that one. Or when people have a battle of scriptures both trying to undercut the other person’s understanding. The thing about the Bible is it needs to be looked at holistically, from the point of view of the writers, and what was going on during that time. To pull just one verse and rest an entire argument on it, can make you miss the true intention.

When you talk to someone and they use a wrong word, try to understand what they meant. Maybe give them a better word in private that more clearly explains what they were trying to say. Try not to nitpick at every word and judge what they meant by a misplaced word.

Our country is filled with enough hate and division based on words. Many intended, many are not.

Charge

Be willing to listen to what is said. Try to help the person, in private, get their message across better. Understand that words flow and mean different things to different people. A wrong word choice, in many cases, is just that. The speaker thought they were getting their point across. Be the friend who helps and don’t tear down. Words matter for sure, just sometimes a wrong word is an accident, not on purpose.

Lord, give me the right words when I speak. Help my intentions to be clear in everything I say and do. When they aren’t, help me be open to others suggestions. Help me to do the same in return.

October 25 – By Surrendering You Win

298 – By Surrendering You Win

#faithbites #faithjourney surrendering

You probably read the title of this faithbite and thought, how can you win by surrendering? It goes against all of our logic. In most cases, we have to try harder, be better, fight more, give more, do all of these things to win. It’s as if the very act of fighting is tied into our concept of success. If we didn’t “overcome all odds” or “fight with all our might” we have failed.

I’ve talked on several occasions about surrendering as well as the many changes in my life. It is hard to let go of things. Today as I was cooking and reading work email, I saw tasks being done by others that I thought I should do. I thought if I was louder, more present, more something then that task would either still be mine of fall to me. Then I realized something, that if I let the other person do it, it isn’t surrendering, but freeing me up to do other tasks.

I guess it’s human nature to try to hold onto our routine or familiar. We know how to do these things, we do them well, and know we will get praise for them. At the same time though, we are limiting ourselves for future growth. Give those other people a chance to learn and succeed, as we learn and succeed at something new.

Scripture on Surrendering

• I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. – Romans 12:1
• Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. – James 4:7
• He must increase, but I must decrease – John 3:30

Reflection

When I think about surrendering, I think about the scene in The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe, where Aslan is killed. He surrenders, dies, and is brought back. He says “when a willing victim who had committed no treachery was killed in a traitor’s stead […] Death itself would start working backwards”. 

When we surrender to Christ, we aren’t doing that because we committed a sin. We also aren’t doing it because we haven’t tried ourselves. When we truly surrender to Christ, we trust in him, allowing him to increase his presence, and give away any pretense that we are God and can do things on our own.

The devil is ever present as is sin. The sin that we do have is believing that if we fight harder and try harder to hold on, that we will win this contest for our souls. The truth is, we can’t do it alone. Through prayer and surrender, we are asking God to fight on our behaves. For him to influence our lives for something better.

I know change is hard. I’m struggling right now, but I believe if I give it all to him through true surrender, the Lord will provide.

Charge

What does surrender look like to you? Are you in a period of change in your life? Maybe you are struggling and grasping at straws to hang out. Try something new: let go. Surrender fully to the might of God. It is not a sign of weakness but of ultimate strength.

Lord, hear my prayers. Allow me to get out of my own way and surrender to you. Let me know that you will be there, the devil will flee, and your path will be revealed to me.

October 24 – Two Roads Diverged In a Wood But Where to?

297 – Two Roads Diverged In a Wood But Where to?

#faithbites #faithjourney Woods

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could… – Robert Frost

Scripture

• I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you. – Psalm 32:8
• ‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’ – Jeremiah 33:3
• “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. – Matthew 7:7-8

Reflection

I love when I search for scripture as I learn more every day. Today, I was surprised and pleased to see my baptism verse, Jeremiah 33:3. This appealed to me two years ago as well as today. Call out and he will answer. Knock on the door and it will be opened for you. God will counsel you. These are strong affirmative words and thoughts when you feel directionless.

What I wrote above is also true. When people perceive you to have so many opportunities, so many choices, but you can see the path through the woods. It makes you feel guilty, small, and ungrateful for what you have.

I know that through prayer, sleep, and a fresh set of eyes (coffee might help too), I can see the path in the woods. Then I like Frost, will take the one less traveled by and that will make all the difference.

Charge

October 23 – The Human Connection

296 – The Human Connection

#faithbites #faithjourney connection

We are busy people running from meeting to meeting, task to task, social media feed to social media feed. We are always on the go, usually at the expense of that human touch and connection. Today, I had the opportunity for touch and for talk, with friends. I was able to give a shoulder rub to a friend who needed it and talk deeply and openly. It was warming and helpful to have that bond. It wasn’t about work or politics or anything, just about us as people and how we felt. As a person, I very rarely open up about everything that is on my heart and mind, but this afternoon I was fortunate to. I am thankful for the trust, the respect, and the openness of these friends. I am still in awe about how much I needed that. To have that connection with someone without judgment, without fear, without repercussions is amazing.

In our society, we are more “prude and proper” than we should be when it comes to that human connection. I’m not saying anything sexual or unwanted but hugging, touching, shoulder rubs and more is something that we don’t often do unless we are in a romantic relationship. Often times we see massage as leading to something else.  We also don’t talk about our innermost feelings unless it is to a loved one (sometimes) or a therapist.

That ability to connect by touch, emotion, and thought, is powerful.

Scripture

• And all the crowd sought to touch him, for power came out from him and healed them all. – Luke 6:19
• Greet all the brothers with a holy kiss. – 1 Thessalonians 5:26 (or 2 Corinthians 13:12)
• And wherever he came, in villages, cities, or countryside, they laid the sick in the marketplaces and implored him that they might touch even the fringe of his garment. And as many as touched it were made well. – Mark 6:56

Reflection

Scripture is filled with verses on what we should touch and what we shouldn’t. Many stories of how the touch of Christ healed people, even touching his garments healed them. I personally like 1 Thessalonians 5:26, greet all the brothers with a holy kiss.

We have become so attached to our devices, to our standards, that we have lost some of this connection. The ability to connect with someone in a non-sexual, non-romantic way. To me, this is an extension of “Love God, Love People”. In some parts of the world, cuddle parties are springing up. There is no sex, nothing immoral. Just another way to connect with each other.

If you believe in God, do you think he would give touch so much power if we weren’t meant to share that? I don’t think so. Again, I’m not talking about unwanting touching. I’m talking about touching both of the body and of the soul through deep conversations.

Today, I am thankful that I have that relationship with some friends. That I can let down my guard through the gift of touch and talk. I hope and pray we are raising our children to appreciate that touch and talk. It is important for personal and spiritual growth.

Charge

How do you connect to people? Are there people with whom you can talk deeply and openly with? Do you have a friend or friends with whom you can share a touch or a connection? Find a person or persons who you can hug, massage, and talk to. You won’t regret it.

Lord, help me to share your gift of touch with others. Let me touch and my words bring peace, relief, and relaxation. Allow me to do so in a way that follows your law and is helpful and never harmful.

October 22 – What is a Christian?

295 – What is a Christian?

#faithbites #faithjourney Christian

If I asked you, what was a Christian, could you answer? Would you say you were one or would you say you are a Lutheran or Catholic or Protestant or one of the multitudes of sub-denominations out there? I posted something on facebook today regarding the rules of the Bible and how Jesus changed the laws. Some agreed, some didn’t. During the discussion, I realized, that it is hard to say you are a Christian without having a twenty-minute story of what kind of Christian you are. (Yes, I’m exaggerating here). The truth though is we make it more difficult than it needs to be.

Before I was baptized, I was always confused about the many denominations of Christianity. I also believed that there were only three main Jewish Denominations (Orthodox, Conservative, and Reform). I later learned there were a few more. But when I started looking at Christianity, I was so confused. Some of the denominations are so similar but one scripture or one doctrine separates them.

I hear the refrain, What Would Jesus Do. I wonder what he would think if he saw his church today.

Scripture

• and when he found him, he brought him to Antioch. So for a whole year Barnabas and Saul met with the church and taught great numbers of people. The disciples were called Christians first at Antioch. – Acts 11:26
• I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment. – 1 Corinthians 1:10
• There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— one Lord, one faith, one baptism, – Ephesians 4:4-5
• I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting him who called you in the grace of Christ and are turning to a different gospel— not that there is another one, but there are some who trouble you and want to distort the gospel of Christ. But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach to you a gospel contrary to the one we preached to you, let him be accursed. As we have said before, so now I say again: If anyone is preaching to you a gospel contrary to the one you received, let him be accursed. For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. – Galatians 1:6-10

Reflection

Ok, I know I threw a lot of scripture up there. I hope that you find it interesting and fulfilling. The Acts verse is the first time that followers of Christ were called Christians. The funny thing is these weren’t the Christians in Jerusalem.  We are told many times throughout the bible that there is one lord, one faith, one baptism, and we should all be a servant of Christ.

I know this #faithbite may upset some. To be honest, I don’t know what Jesus would do if he was here today. I don’t know the right way or the wrong way to worship him. I know that I trust in him, believe in him, and search for answers from his word.

In our church, Lutheran Christian, we have the 5 Solas:

• Sola Scriptura – Scripture Alone
• Sola Fide – Faith Alone
• Sola Gratia – Grace Alone
• Solus Christus – Christ Alone
• Soli Deo Gloria – To the Glory of God Alone.

For me, this is all about God, not man. If we follow his word, then we have salvation. The dictionary says a Christian is “a person who has received Christian baptism or is a belief in Jesus Christ and his teachings”. To me, that is pretty simple. You follow Christ’s teaching through the scripture, understanding the parables and how he answered the laws of the old testament. One verse isn’t being a Christian. Full understanding, faith, and study is the path to a Christian life.

I know this may upset some of you. That isn’t my goal. My goal is to understand my faith, share it, and understand Solus Christus – Christ Alone

Charge

When someone asks you what a Christian is, do you have an answer? Do you tie your answer to your denomination or is it to the scriptures or a mixture? Can you follow Christ fully and believe in his word? Through the water and the blood, you have salvation.

Lord, help me to live a Christian life. Give me the strength to not get bogged down in doctrine, names, and dogma. Let me always follow your will.

October 21 – Pictures: Memories or Fantasies

294 – Pictures: Memories or Fantasies

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Baptism is a beautiful thing. It’s a time when spirit is created in a heart. Today, we welcomed two young children into the Lord’s family. As I was watching the first baptism, they showed a picture of a little baby boy, curled up, eyes closed, wearing a bow-tie, a diaper, and he looked so peaceful. The picture has me thinking of my kids when they were that age and all of the work we went through to get those pictures. Heck, they are beautiful and cute, but are they real or fantasy?

I’m not saying there is anything wrong with those pictures. It just got me thinking about how we share pictures of ourselves on social media, with friends and families. Are those pictures showing realities or fantasies? Is it who we really are, or is it who we want to be?

Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with having awesome pictures and having fun. The question is are we allowing people to see us as we are or how we want them to see us?

Scripture

• But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” – 1 Samuel 16:7
• Do not be conformed to this age, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may discern what is the good, pleasing, and perfect will of God.  – Romans 12:2

Reflection

We often put on airs about who we are, what we like, and what we believe in. We do it belong to this world, often at expense of what we should be doing, which is the Lord’s work. We like to live out our fantasies by showing perfect food, perfect children, perfect clean houses, and so much more. When in fact, most of the time our dinner is a failure from NailedIt!, our children are running amok, our houses are a hot mess, and we are as broken as the next person. That is what it is to be human. God wants us to follow what is good, pleasing, and perfect and 1 Samuel shows us not to care about appearance but see people as the Lord sees them.

One of my best friends in college, God rest his soul, used to tell me: Be Yourself. If people don’t like you when you are yourself, screw ’em”. (He used a different word than screw, but this is a family friendly blog). So true. I try to live by that as much as I can.

There is nothing wrong with beautiful staged pictures once in a while. That baby who had faith created in him was beautiful. Just remember to be yourself.

Charge

Are you who you say you are? Do your pictures, your words and your attitude portray the real you? God will protect you. Try to be authentic in everything you do and every encounter. While it opens you up to injury, the rewards are amazing.

Lord, help me to live my life in an honest and true manner. Help me to enjoy my realities and not always strive to live in my fantasies. There are so much joy and love in the world you have created.

October 20 – Big Picture or Little Pieces?

293 – Big Picture or Little Pieces

#faithbites #faithjourney picture

Some people say you have to look at the big picture to understand life, the universe and everything. Others say that the big picture is too big, too daunting, and you need to take it step by step. For me, I’m an in-betweener. I want the big picture and the small steps as the big picture alone is  overwhelming and the little chunks alone don’t relate.

Today, while working on my special field lit review (#RoadtoEdD) I was frustrated as some sections were overlapping and I was getting bored with the lit review. For me seeing what the end product would look like was essential, so I created a complete outline. I know it will change as I write. But for the first time since I starting on Ed.D. I felt that there was an end in sight. I could see what the final product would look like. Yes, there is so much reading, writing, and thinking to do, but the picture is clearer. I can see the picture and the puzzle pieces to get there. (Hopefully, I won’t have to force the pieces in, but that’s what the glue is for right?).

As is the case in my life, I related this to my faith. I want to know everything that God wants me to do. I want to know his plan for me, my family, the future, everything. And of course, I want it now. At the same time, I have the day to day tasks I need to do to serve him. It is easy to get lost in the daily while hoping for the future. At the same time, it is easy to lose the future while checking off the tasks.

The best illustration is likening the whole Bible to faith, and one verse to a small task. Eventually, I want to understand the whole Bible (my faith) but I will be happy with the verse or chapter (daily worship) as I know it is connected together by his plan.

Scripture

• And the Lord said, “If you had faith like a grain of mustard seed, you could say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be uprooted and planted in the sea,’ and it would obey you. – Luke 17:6
• And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” – Acts 16:31
• Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. – John 14:6

Reflection

If you have never seen a mustard seed it is quite small. But a mustard plant is much a larger. Think about an apple seed turning into a great apple tree. Does the seed know what it will become? Is it concentrating on being the tree or growing? Our faith is like that. We know we will turn into the mustard plant or the apple tree but we don’t need to worry about it. As the Acts and John verse say, we are saved through Jesus. We know what awaits us if we believe in him: peace and eternal salvation. We should concentrate on being the mustard seed and growing. His hands will guide us.

When I go back to looking at my dissertation, if someone told me what it would look like at the end, I’m not sure if that would have helped or hurt. I believe through the process of developing, revising, and getting feedback, I am growing. I know at the end I will earn an EdD and be done with formal learning for the rest of my days. (We’ll maybe, never say never). But having that outline, knowing that end state, and now having all of the little pieces to work on, make me feel more content. I am assembling pieces that I know fit together like the picture on the box 🙂

Charge

Do you believe that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life? If so, don’t fret trying to understand all of him at once. Surrenderr to him and work on those small manageable pieces of your daily worship. Pray, share your story, share his story, have fellowship, and give thanks.

October 19 – We Like You

292 – We Like You

#faithbites #faithjourney Like

Today was my third and final day of facilitating a problem-based learning group this block. I was nervous about it on Monday but by today, I really enjoyed it. After the session was over, I asked the group for feedback, knowing that I would get formal feedback later in the semester. The group said they really liked me and have a good time. At that point, I said that’s good as I will be back in a few weeks. They said they were happy about that and I’m welcome back any time.

That made me feel good. I know we shouldn’t rate ourselves based on others opinions but at the same time, it is nice to be liked. Their verbal feedback helped me to know that I was doing a good job and my effort was rewarded. Plus, who doesn’t like to be liked? Now, the formal feedback could come back and tell me I’m terrible, but I don’t think that will happen. I always like good constructive feedback.

We try to be strong in our life and our faith, many times saying we don’t care what others think. But deep down, knowing someone cares for you, loves you, and likes you is powerful.

Scripture on Being Liked

• For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. – Galatians 1:10
• Do nothing from rivalry or conceit but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.- Phillippians 2:3-4
• The poor is disliked even by his neighbor, but the rich has many friends. – Proverbs 14:20

Reflection

Ok, I’ll be the first to admit that those three scriptures seem all over the board. If I’m liked, I’m not a servant of God? If I have humility then others will like me. The poor is disliked by his neighbors? Sol, what are you doing here?

Let’s see if I can clarify. When we do things to be liked, it often times draws us away from faith and God. Our motivations are not pure and we are poor in spirit. When we are humble, count others more than ourselves, and please God, then we are rich in his eyes, and are liked. Sure, there are people who will like us no matter what and others who will despise us no matter what. The point is that when we follow God, we are made rich. When we to do things for other without wanting to be rewarded we are rewarded. Sure, none of this is black and white. We may follow God and still want a little “love” back. It’s not easy to be 100% selfless. This is part of the process of faith, learning, and following God. We make mistakes, we learn, we try again.

Had I facilitated this group years ago, I would have tried to get them to like me. I would have bent over backward for them and done things outside of my scope. While I would have been admired, I wouldn’t have been helpful in their learning. Today, the appreciated the effort I put in as well as how I did it. They achieved the learning objectives and I was liked. It is a win-win.

Charge

Do you like to be liked? What do you do to earn that love from others? Do you serve them and try for it or do you follow the Lord and receive his gifts? Next time you are seeking affection, try to put others and God first. Follow his lead, you will be surprised by how you are rewarded.

Lord, help me not to seek to be liked but to have your strength in my interactions. Allow me to always be humble and put others needs before my own. I know that you will always provide.

October 18 – What is Your Professional Identity?

291 – What Is Your Professional Identity?

#faithbites #faithjourney professional

Yesterday I was having a conversation with a colleague about other colleagues. As you know, I try to understand why people d what they do. He explained to me, that their actions are based on supporting and advancing their professional identity. Other colleagues don’t behave that way as it’s not part of their identity. This struck me deep.

I have never thought about my professional identity. I try to behave mostly professional and I do my best at whatever I do. But I never thought that is what defines me. My work is something I do and something I enjoy (most of the time but we all have bad days). I consider myself an educator, organization developer, and a technologist. Those are skills In have but aren’t part of my being. Or maybe it is?

Have you thought about your identity? Do you have a whole person identity or a work one, the a hike one, then a community one. All day in all an identity to fit the group you are with?

Scripture

• But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. – 1 Peter 2:9
• As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: – 1 Peter 4:10

Reflection

In previous #faithbites, we have talked about gifts and talents. That the Lord has granted us all different gifts to use together. When we talk about identity to me it’s I’m a man who follows Christ. I have these other skills but they are not markers of identity.

Sure, I want recognition for the work I do. I want to see advancement but my job isn’t me. It’s something that helps me meet people, provide for my family,  and share his word

Do you have a separate professional identity? If so, how does it help you be a better servant of the Lord?

Charge

Think about how you describe yourself. What traits or characteristics do you use? Is your profession in their before or after your declqdeclar of faith? If so, take a moment tobreadjust. Have your faith in our God first and forwmfor. He will reward and protect you.

October 17 – Neverending Questions

290 – Neverending Questions

#faithbites #faithjourney neverending

1. That’s the average number of questions a 4 year old asks per day. That’s quite a few question. Add to that an inquisitive eight year old and who knows how many questions that is.

As a parent, I answer as many questions as I can. It seems that they come nonstop and when there are two at once, my brain melts. Not only do I not know all the answers, I can process the questions as fast as the come.

Faith is kinda like that. I have so many questions about faith that I ask and in prayer I ask questions everyday. Some times I get answers, most of the time more questions.

Keep in mind that I am one person. I’m gone the millions if not billions asking God questions. I can’t imagine how much patience he has.

Scripture

• And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him. – 1 John 5:14-15

Reflection

Tonight, I chose only one scripture as I felt that says it all. We know God is always there for us. He answers our prayers and our questions when it is his will. He wants us to come in prayer. We ask our questions, we ask for many things, and he answers.

God is also very patient. A billion people can ask 300 questions a day and he would never get upset or lose patience. As it says in 1 Corinthians: love is patient,love is kind, etc. Since God is Love, God is patient, God is kind.

Charge

Go ahead and ask your 300 questions. Ask a million of them. Just make sure to listen to the answers. God will give you answers and never lose his cool.

Lord, help me to have patience like Christ. Let me answer those questions I can answer, and if I can’t, give me the strength to ask you and listen to you.

October 16 – Can you Pray Harder? Isn’t Prayer Binary?

289 – Can you Pray Harder? Isn’t Prayer Binary?

#faithbites #faithjourney pray

Have you ever seen a woman who is far along in her pregnancy? Many people, including myself, say “she’s very pregnant”. Someone once told me that being pregnant was a binary condition; either you are pregnant or you are not. There is no such thing as very pregnant. Why am I talking about pregnancy in a faith-centered blog? The reason is up until the other day, I thought prayer was binary: You prayed or you didn’t.

Sure, there is the quality of prayer. Back in college, long before I accepted Jesus as my savior, I dated a Catholic woman. I went to mass with her and her family. I saw people half-heartedly cross themselves and seem to go through the motions of praying or worshipping without putting their hearts into it. Of course, that was my opinion, and I didn’t really know if that was the case. I also thought that God would rather have you not go to church, then be present in body only.

That brings us to the other night. I have been having a rough couple of weeks with depression, anxiety, stress, not accomplishing things, being self-centered, and just not knowing how to turn. Then I prayed hard. I don’t know what that actually means. I said my normal nightly prayers, but kept on going. I for the first time in my life, for a moment, gave in. I surrendered in prayer. I felt a warm presence and felt that I could accomplish all things through him.

For the first time, I realized that prayer could be more than you do it or you don’t. It was no longer binary to me.

Scripture

• When you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words – Matthew 6:7
• When you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind – James 1:6
• When hard pressed, I cried to the Lord; he brought me into a spacious place – Psalm 118:5

Reflection

As I chose the verses for tonight, I never realized that they all start with an action. It is all about when you pray or when you are hard pressed. Praying hard doesn’t mean using more words (Matthew 6:7). It means to pray without doubt (James 1:6). It means to truly believe and give surrender to the Lord (Psalm 118:5). The Lord brings you to a spacious place.

That night when I prayed, I felt calm. I didn’t need my extra meds to calm down. Sure, it took a lot of prayer and belief, but I felt his presence. When you pray and you don’t get what you want, is it because God isn’t listening? Maybe he doesn’t want you to have what you want? Maybe you need to pray harder. God has his plan for sure, but when we surrender to him and truly give into his Grace, he may surprise you.

Of course, life isn’t sunshine, puppy dogs, and unicorns. I still struggle every day. But I know now that there is a level of prayer that I can reach and he is there for me.

Charge

How do you pray? Do you feel something through prayer? Maybe his presence, maybe an answer. Tonight when you say your prayers, try to pray harder. GIve into his Spirit. Acknowledge that you can’t do it without him. He wil lead you on the right path.

Lord, give me the strength to pray hard. Help me to realize that alone, I can’t accomplish your plan. Remind me that I need you in my life: fully and deeply.

October 15 – If You Can’t Teach, Can You Facilitate?

288 – If You Can’t Teach, Can You Facilitate?

#faithbites #faithjourney facilitate

If you asked me a year ago if I’d be teaching in a medical school, I would tell you no way. I’m not a doctor, nor do I have enough training as a basic scientist to teach them anything related to the curriculum. Yet, today, I had my first day as a substitute facilitator for one of our groups. I was told I did very well and received some feedback.  I know it was only one day, but I think I got this down. Did I have to study a bit? Sure. Did I ask questions? Sure. Do I know everything there is to know? Nope. I knew enough to follow the notes and asking good questions for our students to learn.

I liken this to ministry. Many of you have said you want to share your story but don’t know how to.  If you are a witness, maybe you will say the wrong thing or not know scripture off the tips of your tongue. Guess what? You may not be called to be a teacher or a scholar of the Bible. That’s ok. You can be a facilitator for Jesus.

Scripture

• And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. – Hebrews 10:24-25
• As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: – 1 Peter 4:10
• “And to the angel of the church in Philadelphia write: ‘The words of the holy one, the true one, who has the key of David, who opens and no one will shut, who shuts and no one opens. “‘I know your works. Behold, I have set before you an open door, which no one is able to shut. I know that you have but little power, and yet you have kept my word and have not denied my name. – Revelation 3:7-8

Reflection

My dad once said to me, that I would never be an Olympian but I could coach a champion. At first, I thought it meant that I wasn’t good enough to be a champ. But then I realized that the ability to coach and facilitate was my role in life. I could bring people to Christ through his works and not my own. I could lead them to teachers of religious law and doctrine. Through this, we can facilitate the work of the Lord without being a teacher.

Don’t let not having the perfect words or perfect actions stop you from sharing the Lord. He will work in you and through you. Most aren’t looking for the perfect scripture or the perfect doctrine. They are looking for the living Christ and a connection. You can be that connection.

Charge

Do you consider yourself a witness for Christ? Do you want to be? Most of us are not meant to be teachers of religious law or doctrine. We are not commanded to be a shepherd for an earthly flock. In fact, God was us to be his facilitators. Take a minute to share your story with someone. No need for perfect scripture or perfect words. Your story has power through the Holy Spirit.

Lord, allow me to use the gifts you give me. Help me to realize that I don’t need to know the ins and out of your word to facilitate others coming to you. Help me as I grow in my faith to share my story with others.

October 14 – Just One Thing

287 – Just One Thing

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If I asked you what the secret to life is, could you tell me? Do you know? Maybe you would say the answer is 42 :-)Today’s sermon was what is Your One Thing? The interesting twist on this, is there are usually two one things. The thing that you strive for and the thing that takes you away from what you strive for.

I have done so many things in my life that I am proud of and some not so much. I have used much of my life as a checklist. Once I know this off, I can knock the next thing off and the next thing off. But what is the point? It’s like video games. I love to play games and get achievements but when the game is over, have I gained anything? Sure, it was entertaining and fun, but have I changed? Maybe, probably not.

In life, we have things that distract us from faith and family. Maybe it’s searching for that next promotion or job. Perhaps it’s trying to achieve righteousness by checking off boxes: Went to church – Check. Went to Bible Study – Check. Didn’t Commit Adultery – Check. While we have done these things does it make us Good and worthy of salvation?

Don’t get me wrong. Having goals and aspirations are great, but what do those goals let us do?

Scripture

• “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone. – Mark 10:18
•  For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— ⁹ not by works, so that no one can boast. – Ephesians 2:8-9
• One thing I ask from the Lord,
      this only do I seek:
  that I may dwell in the house of the Lord
      all the days of my life,
  to gaze on the beauty of the Lord
      and to seek him in his temple. – Psalm 27:4

Reflection

Again, I ask, what is that one thing you want? King David (Psalm 27:4) only wanted to dwell in the house of the Lord. His one thing was salvation. We also see in Ephesians, that no matter what we do, we can’t get to the house of the Lord through works and deeds, only faith. In the Mark text, the Rich Man calls Jesus “Good Teacher”. Jesus says the only one who is good is God. If that’s the case, what chance do we have to be in the house of the lord? None….by our selves. We need the salvation and peace of Jesus to help us get there.

That being said, how do we know what our one thing is? That is easy, it should be Jesus. But we are people of the world. We want bigger, better, more beautiful things. We want to accomplish stuff. There is nothing wrong with that if it doesn’t take away from our faith and trying to be Christ-like. Yes, I said it’s easy to know what our one thing is; it’s very hard to always concentrate on him.

I am far from perfect. I want so many things in life. It wasn’t until today’s sermon, that it hit me. I’m trying to fill my life with stuff, things, tasks, and journeys, rather than focus on the one thing.

As soon as the sermon started today, I thought about the movie City Slickers, and Curly talking to the city folks. He said the secret to life is One thing. Billy Crystal replies….your finger? Then Curly says it’s just one thing. You have to figure it out and stick to it. Our one thing is Jesus.

Charge

Do you try to fill your life with things? Do these things distract your faith from the Lord? Can you remember that faith is not eqaul to the sum of our activities? Today’s charge is easy in words, hard in actions. List all of the things you do. Do they help or harm your relationship with God? If it’s the latter, try to remove those things. Surrender to the Lord. You will be rewarded.

Lord, help me to always be open to you. GIve me strength to do those things that bring me closer to the one thing: Jesus.

October 13 – Nervous About Change

286 – Nervous About Change

#faithbites #faithjourney Nervous

Life is full of change. I think that is something we can all agree on. Some change we like, other change terrifies us. I try to be an optimistic person who is excited for the future and for change. Sometimes though, like now, I have nerves on top of nerves. The funny thing is, these are things I should not fear, but be excited for.

Tomorrow, we join a new small group at church. While I believe I know everyone, this is a different group than the one we have been a part of for the past two years. Different people, different atmosphere, and different function. Sure, it’s still great people with great fellowship, but I have fear and nerves around it. Will my kids like it? Will my wife and I get the spiritual growth we had in our other group? Can we have the same family feeling we had with our other group?

At the same time, starting on Monday, I get to facilitate a class at work for a week. It is an exciting but nervous time for me. It’s a change that I want, it’s something that a trusted colleague wanted me to do, and I know the students. But yet, I have extreme nerves about it. All the “you’ll do fines” in the world, doesn’t help that go away.

The strange thing though is that in my faith, I know Jesus is already there. I know I have nothing to fear or be nervous about, but it is still there.

Scripture

• I am with you and will watch over you wherever you go – Genesis 28:15
• “The Lord your God is with you, the Mighty Warrior who saves.” – Zepheniah 3:17

• The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold – Psalm 18

Reflection

I know that God is there and watches over me. I know there is nothing to fear as I am saved. The funny thing though, is I still feel nervous. Tonight I went out to get some hot chocolate and it hit me. Knowing that Jesus is there, doesn’t take away all the fear, but it gives you a safety net. It’s like going into a haunted house. You know you will be ok, nothing can really hurt you, but you are still afraid. Or going on a rollercoaster, it will scare you, but you will be ok. (Yes, I know there are freak accidents, but I’m talking about the normal times).

I think even though the Lord is my rock, salvation, and fortress; it is ok to still have a little fear or nerves. It helps to keep you alert and ready. I know that isn’t comforting at times, but in my heart of hearts, He is already there waiting for me.

Charge

What are you afraid of or nervous about? Is it something new or a change you weren’t expecting? Do you still feel nervous even though you know God is there? In those cases, listen to the Lord’s words. Feel the fear and the nervousness, but use his strength to channel it. He will guide you and protect you.

Lord, help heal my heart. Take away the nerves and fear I have. Empower me to change the feelings into those of action to benefit those around me. Help me to always find my place through serving you.

October 12 – Burr It’s Cold Out There

285 – Burr It’s Cold Out There

#faithbites #faithjourney Cold

On Monday in Central Illinois, it was in the 80s. On Friday, the high was 44. This morning when I got up and went to work in was in the low 30s and it was COLD. I pulled out my winter coat, my ice scraper, and scrapped frost of my car. It was freezing.I was saddened and not ready for the cold. Why? I hate the fall. I know, I’m weird. To me the fall and then winter is the signaling of death and dying. I’m a Spring and Summer kind of guy.

The funny thing is, that I do like some things in fall. My wife’s birthday, pumpkin pie, our anniversary, and Halloween. Why I don’t like fall, who knows. This got me to think about life in general. In everything we don’t like, there is always something good. I don’t like cold, but like snow. I don’t like winter but love the holidays. Sometimes I hate the humidity in summer but love the beach, water, and sun. I guess for everything there is a season. (Queue the music….scripture)

Scripture

• For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing – Ecclesiastes 3:1-22
• While the earth remains, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night, shall not cease.” – Genesis 8:22
• Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.- Hebrews 13:8

Reflection

There are good times and bad. Times to reap and times to sow. Times for everything under heaven. From the beginning of the Bible God is there and like it says in Hebrews: Jesus never changes. We have our ups and down, he is constant. Our faith rises and falls, he is constant. We are righteous and sin, he is constant. It helps me to know that no matter what the weather is, no matter how cold my heart may feel, he is constant.

The past two weeks have been rough for me. Anxiety, health, knee, and maybe the changing of seasons. I have felt like my heart is cold and not open. I know though, that Jesus is there. He is constant.

What is your favorite season? Is it one of the four on the calendar or maybe the season of love and forgiving? What about the season of joy and serving? There are times for all of these seasons and more.

Charge

How does the weather affect you? Are you depressed in the winter and happy in the summer? Maybe the winter gets you going and the summer depresses you. Have you ever thought about the seasons of your life? Make a note to yourself that Jesus is constant. He is here to help you in all the seasons of your life no matter how hot or how cold.

Lord, help my heart to be warm even as the weather cools. Allow your Spirit to fill me and spread your love even when I am feeling cold.

October 11 – Tiny Acts of Kindness

284 – Tiny Acts of Kindness

#faithbites #fiathjourney Tiny

I was blessed to spend the day with my youngest. We did a little bit of shopping then went to McDonald’s for lunch. When we sat down to eat, there was a group of people at another table: two adults 50’s or 60s, a younger adult (30s) in a button-down with a tie and jeans, and then two little kids (1-2 years old). At first, I thought the older people were a couple meeting with their financial advisor. After a bit, it seemed that they were brother and sister and in dire straights financially. They were talking about making ends meet and what services could help them. I think the younger guy worked for social services.

They didn’t have any food or drinks, just meeting. While Alice and I were eating, the little girl (maybe 2) was waddling over to us and smiling. I looked at the lady (grandma?) and asked if she could have a fry. She said yes, then the girl took it over to the older man and he broke it in two: one for her and one for the little boy. I got up and gave them another.

As we were eating the girl was coming back and then I gave her a couple and my youngest wanted to give her some too. The older folders were so thankful for us. I sat there, glad we could help but felt guilty for not giving them more. They seemed happy and the two young kids loved their fries.

For me, it was a very tiny offering, but for them, it seemed like a great act of kindness. Do you ever wonder how a tiny act can have big impacts?

Scripture

• Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” – Luke 6:38
• Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. – Ephesians 4:32
• Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it. – Hebrews 13:2

Reflection

Even recalling the story to write this, I have a knot in my stomach. Happy that my daughter wanted to share her food. Happy that that family saw kindness. Sickened though that I know that family was having a rough time and I couldn’t help more. The Dad/Uncle (not sure) had joked, great, we don’t have to feed them for three days. I knew he was joking but at the same time, I wonder how tight it was for them. I pray that the Lord gives them all of his bounty.

I wonder how many times in life, our tiny acts of kindness, have a large impact. I know the Lord has given greatly, his life, and we have received greatly, salvation.

Charge

How do you help others? Have you given a tiny french fry to someone and seen results? Maybe a quarter at the grocery store? Maybe a stranger who is short of money at the gas station. We all have the power to drastically impact others lives, through a tiny act of kindness.

Lord, help me to be as generous as possible. Give me the strength to open up my plate, my wallet, and my heart to others. For those who I can’t help in your name, send another messenger.

October 10 – The Nothing

283 – The Nothing

#faithbites #faithjourney nothing

One of my favorite movies as a kid was “The NeverEnding Story”. It’s an awesome fantasy story where a kid from the real world is reading a book that reflects what is happening in his life. The main “villain” is the movie is called “The Nothing”. Towards the end of the movie, you met this evil wolf that you assume is the nothing but he isn’t and the nothing truly is nothing. The absence of everything. That always got to me, not to mention the awesome luck dragon Falcor.

Having depression and being busy, something we see so many things but feel nothing. It’s the emptiness in our heart while feeling the need for a connection. How do we connect? How do we prioritize? No matter what we do, it seems like we are falling deeper and deeper into the emptiness. (Hint: That’s the villain in the sequel.)

When the Nothing approaches, what can we do?

Scripture

• Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. – Matthew 11:28-29
• Let him not trust in emptiness, deceiving himself, for emptiness will be his payment. It will be paid in full before his time, and his branch will not be green. – Job 15:31-32

Reflection

Throughout the Bible, we see that God is our strength, our refuge, and our salvation. There are times though when that is hard to remember. When we look at our life, even though it has good things, and we feel empty. We feel like “the nothing” has come for us.

Call it the way of the world. Call it sin. Whatever you want to call it, we all feel it at times. That no matter how good we are, we aren’t good enough. That no matter how light our schedule is, we don’t have enough time or strength to complete everything.

It’s at these times when I try to look to the Lord. When I learn from him and seek rest. While physical rest helps, knowing that the Lord is by my side helps. I wish I was strong enough to fully give over and trust the Lord becuase I know if I did, he would make it better. I hope that as I continue to study his word, live with his people, that I will truly give up my problems to him.

Bastien eventually defeats “the Nothing” by giving the Child-LIke Empress a name. I know the name of my Salvation: Jesus Christ

Charge

Think about how you feel today? Are you completing your tasks? Are you ahead of schedule? Maybe you are feeling a little depressed. Maybe a bit empty. Has The Nothing taken residence in your heart? If so, give your problems a name. Call out to the Lord. He will answer.

Lord, I know I that you will solve my problems and heal my heart. Give me the strength to do so. Allow my mind and my heart to act in unison turning over all my worries, concerns, and nothingness to you. For we are in your family and feel your warm embrace. 

October 9 – Who Controls You?

282 – Who Controls You?

#faithbites #faithjourney Controls

Today’s #faithbite was described to me by my eldest. Kudos to her for wanting to give me an idea. And now, onto faithbites.

There is a game called The Sims. If you haven’t heard about this game, it’s a game where you control people (Sims) through their daily lives. You create what they look like, their personalities, their clothes, their house, everything. Then you have to help them achieve their Whims (wishes, dreams, and desires). This can be anything from going to to the bathroom, eating food, going to work, taking a showing, whoohooing (yup, it’s in there), and everything you can think of. In a sense, it’s playing God.

My eldest told me that life is like playing Sims. God is there who tells you what to do and helps you do it. But sometimes, the Devil comes in and controls you, making you do things God doesn’t want you to do. The Sims don’t know who controls them, they just do what they are told. When they do bad things (put garbage on the floor, leave the door unlocked, burn down things, be nasty to each other), my eldest says that’s the Devil controlling them as she didn’t want them to do those things.

Who controls you?

Scripture

• Many are the plans in a person’s heart,
      but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. – Proverbs 19:21
• In their hearts humans plan their course,
      but the Lord establishes their steps. – Proverbs 16:9
• The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work. – 1 John 3:8

Reflection

In days past, you heard more about demonic possession and evil spirits. Most days, we just see the evil that people do. Guess what? That is the devil. That is Sin. He doesn’t need to directly control us as we have strayed from God. The Devil just watches what we do now. Even though this world seems broken, and we don’t feel in control. God is always there. He knows his plans for us and controls us if we let him. All we have to do is turn our loves back over to him. That’s it. We just need to renounce since, renounce the Devil’s controls, and then we are saved.

If we go back to our video game, when the Sims do bad, my daughter doesn’t kick them out of the family. She doesn’t leave them to perish. She helps them do good things, accomplish their whims, and helps them live good lives. Jesus is like that. No matter how many times we sin. No matter how many times we screw up, Jesus always forgives and welcomes us.

Charge

Who controls you? Have you given yourself to the Lord? Are you willing to renounce Sin? The Lord will forgive you, give you peace, and salvation.

Lord, help me to give up control to you. Allow me to turn away from Sin. Heal my heart and forgive me. Allow me to follow your plans.

October 8 – Telling My Story

281 – Telling My Story

#faithbites #faithjourney story

What is your story? What is my story? I have been alive for over 41 years, I have written faithbites for 280 days but have I told my story. If someone asked me to tell my story, I wouldn’t know where to begin. I guess that is why I get frustrated when I’m talking to someone and I get cut off. Or in some cases, when I can’t finish a thought before a kid or someone else starts talking. It’s the feeling that I have something to say, but either don’t have the words to say it, the time to say it, or the space to think and say it.

Maybe I have been inspired by the #metoo movement. Perhaps listening to our medical students and their stories have moved me. It could be being involved in politics and trying to learn about other people that I want to share my story.

I think the key is God is part of my story, a very large part. While I haven’t always been active in formal religion, he has always been there.  If we share God’s story, the Good News, are we sharing our own?

Scripture

• It has seemed good to me to show the signs and wonders that the Most High God has done for me. – Daniel 4:2
• Oh give thanks to the Lord; call upon his name; make known his deeds among the peoples! – 1 Chronicles 16:8

Reflection

When I read over past #faithbites, I see the word “I” a lot. I know this is in the first person but it truly isn’t about me. My story is a way to see what God has done in my life. Think of my life as a frame and God is the picture inside of it. When I feel that I can’t think or write or share, I get upset and depressed. I don’t think it’s about me, but not being able to share and act upon the signs and wonders that the most high God has done for me.

Today at work, I didn’t get done what I had planned too. But through my knowledge and my network of contacts, we were able to solve a very challenging problem. The whole time I wasn’t thinking about me, but the impacts to the students who were held back a bit because of it.

When I told people about it, I wanted to toot my horn a bit because it was a challenge, but at the same time showing the teamwork that helped us solve it.

This is all we can do. Share our truth, our story, or God. In that sharing, others are touched and can feel a glimpse of what being touched by God feels like.

Charge

We’ve talked about God Moments before , and how to look upon them. Now it’s how to share them. Look at your story. Can you see how God has touched you? Take a minute to tell one person about your story with the lens. You are preaching but his works come through crystal clear.

Lord, help my story to be less about me and more about you. Give me the patience, wisdom, and strength to know when, how, and where to share. Help me to feel fulfilled when I can share and when I can’t, let me see other outlets for that energy.

October 7 – Warm Comforting Arms

280 – Warm Comforting Arms

#faithbites #faithjourney Arms

Close your eyes. Think of a time you felt safe, warm, and comforted. It may have been when you were a kid in one of your parents or grandparents arms. Maybe it was as an adult in the arms of a lover. Perhaps when your kids or friends wrap their arms around you. The peace you feel through that simple touch. Your trust in that person makes you feel safe. Nothing can hurt you at that moment. To be like a child: safe, secure, and protected. That is what we are searching for. The truth is you don’t have to search far.

During today’s sermon, our pastor talked about having childlike faith with the main message of “a trust so complete”. A key in his outline was “a child doesn’t need all the answers. A gentle touch or a loving look will give complete security.”

I can’t tell you how many times I have help someone who is frantic, upset, crying, screaming and yelling. My words may not help, but wrapping my strong arms around their trembling body calms them. For an instant, they feel secure and safe. There is power in a warm embrace.

When you think you aren’t worthy, when life is too hard, when no one wants to hug you, there is always one person: Jesus. He will engulf you with his arms and love. You don’t have to do anything but ask.

Scripture

• And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. – Luke 15:20
• And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself.” – John 12:32
• People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them. – Mark 19:!3-16

Reflection

Our verses today share the warm embrace of the Lord. The first verse is a story where a son lost everything and thought his father wouldn’t take him back. He loved him, embraced him, and kissed him. He was never alone. We also see Jesus countless times, especially in the Little Children Verses, that he wants us to come to him. He doesn’t care who you are but wants to love you. Jesus tells us to receive the kingdom of God like a child.

As we become adults, it is harder for us to just give in. To allow Jesus to help us rather than saying I can do it myself. Our life experiences and moral defensiveness get in our way. We try to explain his love and faith. Faith isn’t something that can be explained. Eternal nonjudgemental love is something that we can’t explain. We need to get out of our own way.

At the end of the service, I was standing and singing. In front of me was a little girl, maybe two or so. I had made eyes at her before this service and we were ‘singing’ together. During the last song, I reached over the pew, picked her up, and we dance and sang together. Her grandmother, who knows, I was shocked. Not that I picked her up, but that she came to me. She doesn’t go to most people. At that moment though, she felt secure in my arms, and I felt the love and warmth of wrapping someone in my love. I wonder if that is how Jesus feels when he wraps all of us in his warm embrace.

Charge

Think about the last time you felt happy, comforted, and secure. Think about how that made you feel. Imagine if you could have that all the time. Pray. Close your eyes and imagine Jesus in front of you. His arms wide, hugging you, telling you everything will be ok, and blessing you. Then share that feeling in all you do.

Lord, help me to not get in my own way. Help me to feel your loving arms around me telling me it will be ok. Allow me to know you are my father and will never let anything bad happen to me. You will protect me through all things

October 6 – The Leaders We Deserve?

279 – The Leaders We Deserve?

#faithbites #faithjourney Leaders

A new Supreme Court Justice confirmed. In 30 days we will vote for local, state, and national representatives. 758 days from now we will elect our next president. In between those formal elections, we will make numerous appointments to leadership positions. But what does our selection of leaders say about us?

Many were upset at the last presidential election. The country seems divided tonight after our new Supreme Court Justice was appointed. In Illinois, our gubernatorial election is one of the most expensive and ugliest on record. Even our local county elections show a divisiveness in leadership that I have never seen before. But are these the leaders we deserve? Is the government that should represent us?

Scripture

• When the righteous increase, the people rejoice, but when the wicked rule, the people groan.- Proverbs 29:2
• Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. – Romans 13:1
• If a king faithfully judges the poor, his throne will be established forever. – Proverbs 29:14
• It is an abomination to kings to do evil, for the throne is established by righteousness. – Proverbs 16:12

Reflection

I am a firm believer in democracy, freedom, and equality of opportunity. I also believe in one God, he is our authority. We need to listen to him and his plan for us. When we have our leaders look out for the poor, the infirm, and the helpless, they will lead forever. When our leaders do evil, it is an abomination to God.

What am I trying to say right now? We will choose good and bad leaders. We will feel that this person is evil or this person is our salvation. All through this, there is one God, one king. He will guide us, love us, and get us through these trials and tribulations. I have faith that he will guide us and our leaders.

Charge

Are you not happy with how our country is going? Vote. If you don’t like the choices, run? If you are feeling lost, confused, or troubled. Pray. The Lord is with us. All authority comes from him. Remember that when the news gets you down. Remember that when false prophets come forward. There is one King.

Lord, help me to not be sucked into the vitriol of our politics. Allow peace and love to prevail in the hearts of all. Change the hearts of those leaders who do evil. Strengthen the hearts of those leaders who serve your will.

October 5 – God Moment: Coffee or Conversation

278 – God Moment: Coffee or Conversation

#faithbites #faithjourney #coffee

Today, as like most days, I was very busy. I normally finish one meeting then head off to the next one. Today though, after I was done teaching some folks how to do a task at work, I found myself with a half an hour free. It wasn’t enough time to go back to my office. I thought that maybe I would treat myself to a cup of coffee. I started to leave the building, then something told me not to go. Instead, I felt that I needed to look around the building and see what was going on.

As I walked around, I found several of our students studying for their first major exam on Monday. I said hello to the first group, asked how they were doing, then left. The second group was different. I came in, sat down, and we talked. From the test to life to medical school to balance to everything. It was one of the deepest conversations I had in a long time. I felt their frustrations and then I felt some relief after the conversation. What struck me, was one of the members told me three times how appreciative he was for my time and how he felt better. He told others that it was time well spent and helpful.  At that moment, I felt a sense of happiness and joy that I haven’t in a long time.

I was meant to not get that cup of coffee. That was a God Moment.

Scripture

• The Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything and make you remember all that I have told you. – John 14:26
• Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. – 1 Corinthians 12:7
• In the same way the Spirit also comes to help us, weak as we are. For we do not know how we ought to pray; the Spirit himself pleads with God for us in groans that words cannot express. – Romans 8:26

Reflection

Some would say my story is just one where I was lucky. I happened to change my mind, save a couple of bucks on coffee, and just wanted to be nosey. Other’s would say that was direct intervention from the Holy Spirit. Putting me where I needed to be to help others. Either way it was a good thing. To me, it was the Holy Spirit. I needed to be there; to listen, to comfort, to help.

Later I shared that story with a friend who cried. These tears were for many reasons: stress, feeling like we weren’t doing enough to help, feeling like we could make connections and we have the power to make things better.

I don’t always know the right words to say. Heck, I don’t even know if I should say what I say and when. Knowing that I can provide a little bit of comfort, solace, and compassion to another, is awesome. I thank God for that.  The Holy Spirit is through us and in us. He empowers us to help others.

Sometimes getting that cup of coffee is what I needed, today, I had to be somewhere else.

Charge

Have you had a God moment? Have you had a time when you were going to do something else but then felt an urge or a need to do something different? That is the Holy Spirit working through you. Listen to him. Maybe someone inspired you to do something different, that could be God giving you a message. Look at ways that you can empathize and share God with others. You never know why you are put where you are put, but you are there for a reason.

Lord, help me to always be washed in the Holy Spirit. Let me listen to Him and be where and when you need me. Give me the strength to not second guess myself but allow me to be where and when you want and need me.

October 4 – Be Kind

277 –  Be Kind

#faithbites #faithjourney kind

The world is pretty ugly right now. Lots of nastiness out there. I was in a meeting and the way people discussed things was not showing love or kindness. It struck me as odd at first, but then, I realized why should I be surprised? This is the climate we are living in. Those who are kind and loving are said to take a side or be naive. If that’s the case, then I will be naive. I want to live in a world where kindness is the norm.

Scripture

• Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant – 1 Corinthians 13:4
• Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. – Ephesians 4:32
• Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. – Hebrews 13:2

Reflection

It’s funny that many people have lost the ability to show kindness. It is hard when we seek self-satisfaction or to win. But if we look at our faith, we have a God who loves us and wants us to love each other. Our scriptures are clear: be patient and kind, forgive one another, show hospitality, and be Christlike. We don’t have to agree, but we should still love.

I honestly don’t have much to add today. I try to approach everyone with kindness but sometimes I fail. There is nothing to be gained in life that can’t be gained through kindness and love.

Charge

Do you show kindness? When you disagree with people are you still kind? When something doesn’t go your way, do you show love and kindness? I know I don’t always but I try. Think about those little moments where you can show kindness to others. It will be rewarded.

Lord, help me to be kind in everything I do. Let me serve as you served when you were here. Loving the Father and People. I know this isn’t easy and I will fail at times, but give me strength.

October 3 – Letting Others Go First

276 – Letting Others Go First

#faithbites #faithjourney letting

I am a man with a plan. I have a direction in my head and do what I need to accomplish that. One way it manifests itself is doing simple tasks like cooking in the kitchen or walking down the hallway. If I am cooking in the kitchen and someone steps in my path or gets in my way where I’m heading, I get a little upset. Tonight, I was trying to walk down the stairs and my youngest kept walking in front of me. That irks me like nothing else. (I know, it’s like I expect everyone to read my mind and know exactly where I am heading. But in those moments, rationality isn’t at the forefront).

Call this part of anxiety. Call it part of being a control freak or a type A. But it irks me. Tonight though, after my youngest stepping in front of me 5 times, I hung back a bit. I let her go first. And guess what? It was ok. I let her do what she needed to do, then I did what I needed to do. Maybe I lost 5 seconds, but did it matter? By letting her go first, she did what she needed and I was ok.

In life, are there times that we win by letting others go first?

Scripture

• So the last will be first, and the first will be last.” – Matthew 20:16
• The greatest among you will be your servant – Matthew 23:11
• For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” – Mark 10:45

Reflection

Servant Leadership is something we have discussed before and it emphasized throughout the New Testament. Jesus was the epitome of servant leadership. From the Matthew verses (the last being first and your servant will be the greatest) to the Mark verse of Jesus being one to serve, we have an example to follow.

Maybe letting someone walk in front of me isn’t servant leadership. But it does show that we need to have humility and to let others take the led. To let them go first and we are there to help them. A prime example is with my youngest and Band-Aids, which she looks to as an accessory rather than a healing aid. I can put on a bandage much quicker than her, in a better way, and in a way that doesn’t waste a bandage. But when she does it, she is learning. I have to wait for her to ask for help.

This shows us that we need to let others do and go first, then we help them when they want it. This is not easy. It is something that takes a lifetime of work.

Charge

When in your life can to let others go first? Maybe it makes you 5 second late. Maybe someone else gets the last chip. But maybe, they have learned to do something on their own. Maybe they have seen that you can give them a chance to shine. Take a minute to look at the simple things from walking in front of someone to always volunteering to do something. Can you serve even more by letting others lead?

Lord, help me to be patient and kind. Give me the strength to take a back seat and let others surge to the front. Fill me with a sense of servitude and accomplishment by helping others achieve their dreams.

October 2 – I am so Thirsty

275 – I Am So Thirsty

#faithbites #faithjourney thirsty

I woke up this morning very thirsty. I figured I’d get a drink when I was showered, changed, and ready for work. Throughout my shower, even though I was covered in water, I was thirsty.  After getting dressed, the first thing I did was drink a big glass of water. As the water was filling the glass, I thought how easy it was to get the water. All I had to do was lift the handle and there was water. I then thought about how many places in the world didn’t have that luxury of lifting the handle when they were thirsty.

This little event reminded me of how many things are just a handle lift away. From telling someone how you feel, to completing that next project, to connecting with others, to rediscovering your faith. We are all thirsty for something, and while we think there is no water in sight, it is just a handle lift away.

Scripture

• But whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” – John 4:14
• The Spirit and the Bride say, “Come.” And let the one who hears say, “Come.” And let the one who is thirsty come; let the one who desires take the water of life without price. – Revelation 22:17
• On the last day of the feast, the great day, Jesus stood up and cried out, “If anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink. – John 7:37

Reflection

As I continue to write this #faithbite, the thirst is coming back. I will go back upstairs and drink another glass of water. Unlike that cup of water, the water that the Lord gives us is eternal and we will never thirst again. Just like lifting the handle to get a glass, accepting Jesus is that easy. You don’t have to go through a ceremony, no trials or tribulations, no quests. Just believe and you will be born of the water and the spirit. He is there to always quench your thirst. As in Revelations, there is no price, just drink.

I can’t imagine never having thirst again. Never need another glass of water. In my faith, though I am never thirsty for salvation, I’m thirsty to do more and learn more about Jesus. I want to live my life like his and share His word.

The funny thing, though this is about faith, that action of lifting the handle for water, is what you can do with any of those obstacles in your life. They are there, it’s our fear and self-doubt that stop us. With faith, all things are possible.

Charge

Are you stuck? Are you thirsty? The Lord is by your side. He will help you to never be thirsty again. He will give you strength. Take a moment to look at those things that are closer than you think. Pray on it. Then lift the handle and drink.

Lord, give me the strength to never be thirsty. Help me to see that everything is possible and within my reach with you.

October 1 – Lead by Observing

274 – Lead by Observing

#faithbites #faithjourney Lead

Today, like most days, I was sitting in class with our med students. While I”m helping the faculty out, I am also learning both the subject matter and about myself. For those of you who know me, you know I like to talk. I can add to almost any conversation by my experience and/or my curiosity. I love to talk and I love to learn. Today though, I was quite. I listened, I learned, and I was a shoulder for someone to share with. In that moment, by not talking, I showed that I could lead by just observing.

How many times in life to we feel we need to add to the conversation. That by saying something we are helping or moving something forward. At times, that is very true. Other times, just being there, and being a presence is good enough. I had a former mentor who like me, she liked to talk. She said she used to talk in every meeting, then played a game with herself of how long she could go without talking. Then when she did need to say something, people paid attention to her. Another time when I volunteered for my fraternity, I was placed on a committee, not for my knowledge but for being warm, open, and a “teddy bear”.

I truly believe that at times, by just observing and being present, we can be the best leader the group needs in that situation at that time.

Scripture on Leading by Observing

• The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered. – Proverbs 17:27
• And He did not answer him with regard to even a single charge, so the governor was quite amazed. – Matthew 27:14
• But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect – 1 Peter 3:15

Reflection

Our three verses show three different sides of leading by being silent or observing. The first shows us that words can get us into trouble, those with knowledge know when to use words and when to hold back. In the second verse (and there were like 10 similar to this) it showed Jesus being silent even when threatened with death. He was leading by not responding to the charges. He was showing ultimate strength. The third verse tells us when to talk. We are quiet but when someone asks, we should be prepared to give an answer. While this is referring to sharing the Good News, it is also about anything. Share when others need it. Sometimes we feel it, sometimes they ask for it.

This is not easy for me. I want to help others and feel I have the words to do it. Sometimes, just being there: silent, compassionate, and stable, is all they need from their leader.

Charge

Think about how you lead. Do you use your words to change a situation? Maybe just your presence changes the dynamic. Do you listen for the spoken and unspoken needs of people for your help? Take time to look at how you interact with people. Sometimes just saying “I Believe You and I’m here for you”, is enough.

Lord, help me to show restraint in my words. Let me led through my presence and when I speak, let it be your words to help and comfort others.

September 30 – A Prayer for Understanding

273 – A Prayer for Understanding

#faithbites #faithjourney understanding

In my life, I like to learn. I am willing to listen to anyone and try to understand where they are coming from. There are times when I think they are off their rocker as I don’t believe in what they believe, but I try to listen and have a deep understanding for who they are. In most cases, there is something that happened to them for why they believe what they believe. The same can be said for people who believe what I believe.

In the case of a certain worldview, most people have that view through something that happened to them. Only through active listening and understanding, can we figure out what that is. Once we do, then we can understand. (Understanding does not equal belief or acceptance)

In the case of faith and God, most people found their faith through an experience. Only through active listening and understanding, can we figure out what that is. Once we do, then we can understand. (Understanding does not equal belief or acceptance)

Even the internet trolls out there have a truth for what they believe. Only through active listening and understanding, can we figure out what that is. Once we do, then we can understand. (Understanding does not equal belief or acceptance).

I pray for us all understand better. Then we can build a relationship from that point.

Scripture on Understanding

• Now the whole world had one language and a common speech.  As people moved eastward, they found a plain in Shinar and settled there.

  They said to each other, “Come, let’s make bricks and bake them thoroughly.” They used brick instead of stone, and tar for mortar. Then they said, “Come, let us build ourselves a city, with a tower that reaches to the heavens, so that we may make a name for ourselves; otherwise we will be scattered over the face of the whole earth.”

  But the Lord came down to see the city and the tower the people were building. The Lord said, “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them. Come, let us go down and confuse their language so they will not understand each other.” – Genesis 11:1-7

• “Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” – Colossians 4:5-6

Reflection

Language is an interesting thing. In the Tower of Babel story above, we see that there was one language until God changed that due to man’s hubris. They all spoke one language and worked to think they were better than the Lord. Today through technology and globalization we have the ability to speak one language but we are still separated. We don’t understand what is meant behind the words. That is the issue in many cases. Through deep love and understanding, we can learn about the person.

In the Colossians verse, we are told still to be wise on how we treat outsiders (unbelievers). We should be full of grace but learn how to answer everyone.

I am no saint. I mess up all the time and let my emotions get int he way. Imagine if we understood the root of why people believe they believe. No, we can’t “save” everyone. Trust me, there are some people who I want nothing to do with at all once I know why they believe what they believe. But, through that dialogue, we do grow. We get closer to the commandment of Love God, Love People.

Charge

In life, we will run into so many people who are not like us. Those who scare us, humiliate us, love us, respect us, and challenge us. All of those beliefs and actions have a root. See if you can understand why they act the way they do. Try to better understand why uou do what you do. This isn’t perfect and takes work. But imagine if we understood everyone’s rationale.

Lord, I pray for the world. I pray for a deeper understanding on why we act the way we do. Help us to understand each other’s motives. Allow us to know that you are there with us even when we don’t agree with what is said or what the person believes. Aloos us to treat others with Grace.

September 29 – Daddy, You Need a Foot Rub

272 – Daddy, You Need a Foot Rub

#faithbites #faithjourney foot

Today was rough day. I awoke in the middle of the night with a migraine behind both eyes. All I wanted to do was sleep. My youngest, on the other hand, was having a very defiant day. Her house her rules. Her normal lightswitch behavior was on speed repeat. No matter what happened, there was good and bad, but we made it through. During each of these bouts, she did come and ask for forgiveness and a hug.  As we were starting to wind down, folding laundry, she out of the blue said “Daddy, You need a foot rub”. Then she said she needed to use ocean, a.k.a lotion. She proceeded to give me and my wife both foot rubs. It was very nice, if not overkill with the lotion :-).

As I think about my behavior over the years, both the good and bad, I can’t remember how many times I’ve asked for forgiveness. I only wish that every time I hurt someone it could be solved with an “I’m sorry”, have a hug, and a foot rub. While I know that isn’t how life works, given and receiving of forgiveness, true forgiveness for a true apology, heals the soul.

Scripture on True Apologizing

• Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. – James 5:16
• Knowing their thoughts, he said to them, “Every kingdom divided against itself is laid waste, and no city or house divided against itself will stand. – Matthew 12:25
• If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. – 1 John 1:9

Reflection

I’m a person who loves to have my feet and back rubbed. It is a release of tension, pressure, and helps set things right again. My daughter knew I was stressed, knew she was part of it, and wanted me to forgive her. Then know I liked to have my feet rub, she wanted to give a foot rub. This eased my mind. (And no, this isn’t a repayment for being bad, she knows that it is a nice thing to do.)

She is laying next to me right now, knowing she is loved. I am loved. She is forgiven of all her bad behaviors today. I know tomorrow, will be more of the same and as she grows, she will learn what is right and wrong. Eventually, these behaviors will change.

I am thankful that we have a father in heaven like this. I sin every day, and every day I ask for forgiveness and he gives it. He helps me correct my behavior. It’s not perfect. Tomorrow, I will probably make some of the same mistakes again. At the same time, I know I have friends and family, who knows my true heart and when I screw up, they forgive me all the time.

I pray that everyone has that type of heart. A heart to sincerely apologize and sincerely forgive.

Charge

Has someone wronged you? Have they asked for forgiveness? Can you forgive them? Will you ask the Lord for strength to forgive their sins and accept their apology?

Have you wronged someone? Have you asked for forgiveness? Will you be able to accept it if they give it to you? WIll you ask the Lord for the strength to honestly apologize and to accept their forgiveness?

Lord, let me soul be healed. Let all those who I have wronged forgive me. Let me forgive all of those who have wronged me. I confess all of my sins and ask for forgiveness.

Sept 2 – Sol has it totally together right? Wrong

245 – Sol has it totally together right? Wrong

#faithbites #faithjourney together

Scrolling through Facebook, you see wonderful pictures of vacations, well-behaving kids, promotions, houses, cars, and new opportunities. You go to work and ask “How are you doing, Buddy”? The response is anywhere from great to ok to just ducky, maybe no response. Then you look at yourself and feel that something must be wrong, because everyone has their stuff together, and you don’t. Guess what? You’re wrong. No one has their stuff together. This #faithbite is strongly influenced by our sermon today: Jesus on the Move – Inside Out.

I love superheroes and one thing most have in common is a mask they wear. In the comics and movies, they wear it to protect their loved ones from evil-doers who may harm them. They try to stay hidden while doing good work. Imagine the good work and trust that could be built if the hero didn’t have to fear and could show his or her true identity.

I am far from having my stuff together. To use a phrase of the day: I’m a hot mess. The truth though, is we are all hot messes. None of us have it together and none of us can do it by ourselves. In fact, when we act like we can, that’s yet another mask we wear. The I am so strong I don’t need anybody but I’m crumbling inside.

Here’a video we watched today that is funny and sad. It is how we perceive others and how we think others want to be perceived.

What mask are you wearing and why?

Scripture on Having it All Together

• These people come near to me with their mouth
      and honor me with their lips,
      but their hearts are far from me.
  Their worship of me
      is based on merely human rules they have been taught.
  Therefore once more I will astound these people
      with wonder upon wonder;
  the wisdom of the wise will perish,
      the intelligence of the intelligent will vanish. – Isaiah 29:13-14

• You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to human traditions.”

  And he continued, “You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe your own traditions! For Moses said, ‘Honor your father and mother,and, ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is Corban (that is, devoted to God)— then you no longer let them do anything for their father or mother. Thus you nullify the word of God by your tradition that you have handed down. And you do many things like that.”

Reflection

“I’m a good Christain so ……..”. “If I go to church every Sunday, I’m doing it right”. “If I check all the boxes off, I’m in God’s good graces”. The funny thing is, all of these statements are usually false. Those who say they are a good Christian, usually follow up with a statement that isn’t Christ-like. Those who check the boxes and worship with their lips but not their heart are doing a disservice.

When I was in college, I dated a Catholic girl and when to mass almost every Sunday for a while. When I saw people crossing themselves, it looked, in my opinion, to be half-assed. It looked like they were doing the motions but not feeling it. Of course, I can’t say for sure, but it’s what I felt. Many said it was an accurate description.

I try to be honest in #faithbites and in my life in general. My life is a hot mess and I look for guidance and support. I don’t need to hide my mental illnesses or my physical illnesses. Only God’s judgment matters. But like everyone else, I have a mask up at times. I’m working to truly know who I am, so I can share it.

I am the guy, when you ask ‘how are you doing’, will give you a 10-minute story. Then I feel bad for it as the person who asked probably didn’t want the truth. I wish I knew when the person really wanted the ‘everything is peachy answer’ and when they really cared and wanted the truth.

Charge

The first step in making a change is admitting there is something that needs to be changed. Do you have it all together? If you do, stop reading this and go about your day. If you don’t, admit it, and see how you can go about changing that. Next, think about a small mask you wear. Then try with a few people to remove that mask. This shows your true nature and your true nature is beautiful.

Lord, help me to show my brokenness. Help me to remove any masks I have and let me be ok with the fact that I don’t, nor will I ever, have my stuff together. You help me become more whole and together.

September 28 – Greater than the Haters

271 – Greater than the Haters

#faithbites #faithjourney haters

Today has been a rough day for me emotionally. Anxiety has been a wreck and all of the vitriol about sexual harassment, misconduct, abuse, #meetoo what is reporting and what isn’t reporting, why people didn’t report (#whyIdidntreport). So much blame, hate, ridicule, ignorance, and blindness was really getting to me. But then two things happened. Lunch with my daughter and then family movie night.

We had Chinese food and I got a fortune that said: Your skills are needed by others at this time. That helped a bit as I realized I do have a role to play.  Then I took a nap.

Tonight we were watching Hotel Transylvania 3 for family movie night. Minor spoiler here: At the end, Dracula jumps into a chasm to save his mortal enemy. As he’s going down, Frank asked what is he doing. Then the mummy says “You gotta be greater than the haters”. Yes, this is a cheesy kids movie. Yes, it’s not even a really good one, but that message really hit home.

Good people do bad things. A bad thing shouldn’t ruin your life, if you experienced it or if you caused it. There is forgiveness and there is justice. We need to rise above the hate and the vitriol. How hard is to apologize? How hard is it to be listened to and supported?

Scripture on Rising Above

• What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us,who can be against us? – Romans 8:31
• I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.- Romans 8:18
• Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9

Reflection

I don’t know how many times I have talked about Love God, Love People. (I could probably find it in a database query, but let’s just say a lot).  We have sin and temptation all around us. We are told, nay, commanded to love each other. You can believe two different people and their understanding of a situation. You can be empathic without having had the same exact experience. Nothing, and I mean nothing, is made better by lashing out at someone.

I believe in justice. I believe in supporting and loving everyone. We as a people need to be greater than the haters. There will also be those who tear us down, but the Lord will always lift us up.

Charge

Do you love or hate? When you question someone, are you doing it to increase your knowledge or hurt someone? How do you express your empathy towards someone? Do you assume what someone has gone through? Tonight, we have many questions. The charge is to take one of them and reflect. Find out what God is telling you and tweak how you would answer it through your behavior.

Lord, help me to always be compassionate. Help me to listen, be strong, and be firm. Give me your strength to be greater than all haters.

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September 27 – Are You Enjoying Yourself?

270 – Are You Enjoying Yourself?

#faithbites #faithjourney Enjoying

“Are You Enjoying Yourself”? That was the question one of my advisors for my EdD asked me yesterday. I was meeting with two of them to discuss my dissertation, project, and life in general. When she said that, I asked: “Do you mean the dissertation or work”? She responded that she was talking about working on the dissertation. It took me a while to think about that. While much of it has been stressful and time-consuming, there have been times when I feel more connected to the literature and feel that I am making an impact. Until that moment, I never thought about “enjoying” my dissertation.

As I was walking to my car after that meeting, that questions stayed in my mind: “Are you Enjoying Yourself”? The question started taking on a life of its own. What should I be enjoying? What am I doing just to do it? How should I live my life. We have talked many times about just checking off boxes or being too busy in life. This question was different. I can do many things with all my energy and not enjoy it. I hope to be someone who is enjoying everything but I know that there are times in life when things are just hard.

How do we make sure we are enjoying life?

Scripture on Enjoying Life

• Behold, what I have seen to be good and fitting is to eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun the few days of his life that God has given him, for this is his lot. – Ecclesiastes 5:18
• Rejoice, O young man, in your youth, and let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth. Walk in the ways of your heart and the sight of your eyes. But know that for all these things God will bring you into judgment. – Ecclesiastes 11:9
• I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” – John 16:33
• And my spirit rejoices in God my Savior – Luke 1:47

Reflection

Life is amazing. We are so blessed to be in His presence and in his grace. We do have tribulation, sometimes seemingly more than we can handle. But as the Gospel says, “I have overcome the World”. We don’t need to live in despair or anguish. We can enjoy the life God has given us. The two Ecclesiastes selections (I really dig that book) show us how we are to live with what God has provided us and find joy, and cheer. We are to “find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun”.

I get that this is hard. The world is pretty messed up right now. Social media is a nightmare. The news is almost always scary and getting weirder by the day. But our hearts can rejoice in the Lord and find moments to enjoy His creation.

I like to take a line from Office Space and tweak it a bit “I can’t say I’m enjoying my Dissertation, Bob”. Sorry, had to do it. But as I get closer and talk to others about it, I am seeing the end result. Likewise, we all have those moments we can dig in and say “Yes, I truly enjoyed that”.

Charge

Are you enjoying life? How do you show it? How do you know it? Think about ways that you can take a minute and smell the roses. Is there something you can do at the end of the day to look back and find one thing that was good. Enjoy those moments. Know that while life is hard, there are so many wonderful moments. You just have to be open to them.

Lord, help me to enjoy my life. Give me the strength to overcome obstacles and grant me vision to know when those enjoyable moments are happening.

September 26 – Are You A David or Goliath

269 – Are You A David or Goliath?

#faithbites #faithjourney David

Tonight my wife and I were watching a new season of Survivor. This seasons theme is David Vs Goliath. One tribe, David, was made of people who overcame many obstacles from physical to socioeconomic to life experiences that challenged everything about them. The Goliath tribe on the other hand, while having an awesome work ethic, had a better up bringing , more beauty, and many more advantages in their lives.

From the beginning, while the Goliath tribe did better physically, the David tribe was more compassionate, more collaborative, and more sociable than the Goliath tribe.

In life we want to have both David and Goliath traits but which ones are you key traits?

Scripture

• A champion named Goliath, who was from Gath, came out of the Philistine camp. His height was six cubits and a span.He had a bronze helmet on his head and wore a coat of scale armor of bronze weighing five thousand shekels;on his legs he wore bronze greaves, and a bronze javelin was slung on his back.His spear shaft was like a weaver’s rod, and its iron point weighed six hundred shekels. – 1 Samuel 17:4-7
• David said to Saul, “Let no one lose hearton account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.” Saul replied, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a young man, and he has been a warrior from his youth.”

  But David said to Saul, “Your servant has been keeping his father’s sheep. When a lionor a bear came and carried off a sheep from the flock, I went after it, struck it and rescued the sheep from its mouth. When it turned on me, I seized it by its hair, struck it and killed it. Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them, because he has defied the armies of the living God.The Lord who rescued me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will rescue me from the hand of this Philistine – 1 Samuel 17: 32-37

Reflection

For today’s scripture, I chose two parts of the David Vs Goliath story. The first describes how strong and powerful Goliath was. He was given so many opportunities from strenth to size to weapons and wealth. He had every opportunity. I chose the David description to show his youth,his disadvantages, but also how others under estimated him. Then he stood up to Saul first and explained how strong he was. Most important, he had God on his side. We know how this ends. 2000+ year old Spoiler warning – David wins.

In our lives, I think most of us have been David’s at one time or another. Some much more often than the rest. There are some who are mostly Goliath’s with a bit if David thrown in. Being a Goliath isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it’s how you use it. Being a David isn’t necessarily a good thing, it’s how you use it.

God has given us all skills and abilities. The key is that God is with us and all things are possible. We have to chose which strength for which tasks.  it doesn’t matter where we start, it’s what we do with God on our side.

Charge

Are you a David or Goliath? Does it matter? Look to the Lord for the strengths he gives you. We all have the strength of Goliath if we have the faith of David.

Lord, help me to always be humble in all I do. Allow me to be like David and use the strengths you give me.

September 25 – We Don’t Agree, but I love You

268 – We Don’t Agree, But I Love You

#faithbites #faithjourney Agree

In high school and college I remember having debates about religion, sex, politics, and pretty much any topic that went late into the night / morning. There were many times that I did not agree with the other person. It may have been a political stance on a religious topic or any conspiracy theory of the day. Keep in mind, I went to school with the OJ Chase, Clinton Impeachment, Princess Diana’s death, NAFTA, and more. So many things to disagree with. But I don’t remember one time when I got into a knockdown, drag out, screaming match where I thought the other person was devil spawn.

But unfortunately, that is not how today’s world is. And yes, there are many people who have these conversations still but it’s not what we hear. For instance, if you say you believe an accuser but want an investigation, you are a misogynist and should hang. If you believe in the accused, you are definitely ripe to be hung up. If you believe the accuser, you must hate the person being accused. How about you dislike a candidate, then you must think everyone in their party are demons. If you believe a police officer in a shooting you are a bigot. If you believe the victim, you are anti-cop.

Guess what? We can have a difference of opinion and still like each other. I can hate country music but see where some people like it and it has value. If you ask me what fruit I like and I say apples, if your response is you hate pears, then you are missing the point.

Scripture on Loving Through Differences

• You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord. – Leviticus 19:18
• As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions. – Romans 14:1
• Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; – James 1:19

Reflection

Listen, it is perfectly ok to be upset with someone who has a different opinion that you do. Hey, I love pineapple on a pizza but some think I am going to hell because of it. (Yes, that’s a joke).That was making light of serious issues going on. But, where is the love for one another? There are people who I can’t stand and wouldn’t have a pizza with them (Hawaiian or otherwise) but I don’t hate them. I don’t group them or think they are going to hell.

I hope that in scripture we can see that are to love our neighbors and not quarrel over opinions. At the same time we want to distance ourselves from some people, we need to not cast nets that we know not.

Charge

How do you act when you disagree with someone? When someone is wrong on an idea, a concept, or an action, how do you respond? Try to think about their action and why they are saying what they are saying? Perhaps saying nothing is the best solution in that time. Maybe, talking to them in private is a good way.

Lord, help me to understand those with differences of opinion that me. Help me to realize that they are still my brothers and sisters even if I can’t stand them. Help me to not be part of the tribal issues we have in our world.

P.S Picture selected by Cece.

September 24 – Trust but Verify

267 – Trust But Verify

#faithbites #faithjourney verify

A slight warning before we start today. This topic has a potential trigger warning as it talks about sexual allegations and truth. And now, onto faithbites.

“He said, she said”. “He was just a kid”. “How do we know what happened 30 years ago?”. “No man is safe if women can accuse men of sexual attack without evidence”. “She’s lying”. “She asked for it”. “He’s a good guy”. “It was just 20 minutes of fun”. These are all statements that have been made in the #metoo era. Today, I even say a #himtoo tag. I don’t get too angry that often but well-meaning people can be so off kilter sometimes. This attacking of people has to stop. We have to love God and love people.

If an allegation is made, it should be investigated and appropriate legal measured followed. If you have wronged someone, genuinely apologize, ask for forgiveness and accept the consequences. Meme’s like #himtoo is shaming women (and me) into not reporting what has happened to them. We have all made mistakes in our lives. I personally have wronged people and have been wrong. Some things I talk openly about, others I don’t. For instance, on one comment I was going to discuss something in my past and because of fear of retribution or even non-belief I didn’t. It is easy to see why someone 5, 10, 20, or more years later still has an issue reporting things.

In politics, we are not only elected capable people, but also role models. While someone may able to do the job, they may not have the highest of moral character. It is up to the people to vote yes or no on them. I apologize if this is rambling a bit, but this is one of those things that ticked me off.

No one should be afraid to report what has happened to them. They should feel safe, supported, and secure to tell their story. At the same time, the accused should have the ability to tell their story. Unless you were in the room, you don’t know what happened.

All that being said, we need to listen, learn, and support all people. Love God, Love People.

Scripture

• One witness is not enough to convict anyone accused of any crime or offense they may have committed. A matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses. If a malicious witness takes the stand to accuse someone of a crime, the two people involved in the dispute must stand in the presence of the Lord before the priests and the judges who are in office at the time. The judges must make a thorough investigation, and if the witness proves to be a liar, giving false testimony against a fellow Israelite, then do to the false witness as that witness intended to do to the other party. – Deuteronomy 15:19
• A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will not escape. – Proverbs 19:5
• Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. – Ephesians 4:25

Reflection

We have spoken at length about loving God and loving people. Now we are speaking about truth and bearing false witness.I am much more concerned about someone not speaking than bearing false witness. The truth will come out in the investigation and what happens. By silencing those who speak, we harm them spiritually and mentally. We need to allow everyone to speak their truth. Some are not truth and will fall over time and through a compassionate, honest investigation. Others will hold true for every.

We as a society must listen. If we weren’t there, then we did not witness. If we did not witness, we can’t judge.

Some may agree with this post, others may not. To me, we must trust and then verify. We trust in the Lord and trust that he will bring the Truth and the Light.

Charge

When you hear an accusation, what do you do? Maybe you believe, maybe you  dispute? Do you listen? Let us approach all allegations in the spirit of love and understanding. Let us know judge but allow the process to unfold.

Lord, help me to always be compassionate to others as they share their truth. Let me listen to them and not judge. Let me provide a safe haven for those who need a shoulder to rely on.

September 23 – Phoning it In

266 – Phoning It In

#faithbites #faithjourney phoning

As a note we are under 100 days till the end of the year. We can do this.

Today was a day I just wanted to phone it in. For those of you not familiar with the term, it means to do something without all your effort. In other words, to half-ass something. Basically, doing the barw minimum possible

I personally hate feeling like that. For me, I want to be someone who gives 110% 110% of the time. (yes, I know 100% is Max). This is vicious cycle: On days when I am phoning it in, not only am  I not do my best, I feel guilty for not doing my best. Then why do it in the first place? The only answer I can think of is exhaustion.

Scripture

• So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. – 1 Corinthians 10:31
• Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, – Titus 2:7

Reflection

Until I looked up the scripture it didn’t click for me. When you don’t do 100%, you are not living up to the promises of God. We are created in his image and given his authrotiy to make disciples. We can do so many things, when we chose not to,  we aren’t giving God his Glory.

This in an of itself should make me not want to phone it in. But in some cases, it is still hard.

We need to think beyond ourselves and how it impacts others. What if you were on the receiving end of someone just phoning it in? Wouldn’t you be disappointed or upset? If you wouldn’t want it done to you, let’s not do it to others. Let’s give God all his Glory

Charge

When you are tired and down, are you thinking of phoning it in? If so, stop. Can the task be done by someone else who has the energy to do it? If so, give it to them. If not, can it be done later? Ask for the energy from God to be 100% into your task. He will answer.

Lord, grant me the strength and energy to give you Glory 100% in everything I do.

September 22 – It Only Takes One Moment to Change a Life

265 – It Only Takes One Moment to Change a Life

#faithbites #faithjourney moment

Before we get started, I have to say thank you to my wife Amanda for watching the kids at the festival so I could run the welcome booth. No way I could have done it without her. And now, onto #faithbites.

Last night was the fall festival at my eldest’s school. It’s a chance for teachers, family, friends, students, administrators, to eat food, play games, win prizes, go on jumpy houses and have a great time. This is an event my family looks forward to every year. This year, I wanted to do something different, so we set up a booth to share information about our church. While almost everyone attending the festival attends the school, only a little over half go to the church. I thought this was a moment I could make a difference.

During the first hour, not one person stopped by the booth. And yes, it was right when they walked in. I greeted almost everyone who came in, wished them well and waited. During this time, I was wondering if I made a mistake. Was I not the right person to be at the booth? Should we have not even tried to do that? By the end of the night, I had talked to two families about the church. No one filled out a guest card but the two families seemed to like what we were saying.

Did I waste my time manning the booth instead of running around? Was it a stupid idea? Of course, there are some things we could do better. I was thinking though, what of the other people who walked by and heard me talking? What about the folks who just had a warm welcome to the festival? Maybe that was enough to open their hearts/

Scripture on Sharing the Good News

• “Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?
  And I said, ‘Here am I. Send me!’”- Isaiah 6:8
• “Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven” – Matthew 5:15-16
• “When you are brought before synagogues, rulers and authorities, do not worry about how you will defend yourselves or what you will say, for the Holy Spirit will teach you at that time what you should say” – Luke 12:11-12

Reflection

The Isaiah verse is one of my favorites. I would not be there if God didn’t want me to be there. I was the right person to share the news. God, here I am…send me. There may not have been hundreds of people who wanted to learn about the church. I do know there were at least two moments when people asked what we were doing and what we were about. My hope is those moments shape their faith live.  Finally, in Luke, I have to remember to get out of my own way. God is here for us and sends the Holy Spirit to give us words. My words are not always correct, but they always come from a good place, God.

While the booth wasn’t a smashing success, who knows what that will bring in the future. Seed now, harvest later.

Charge

Are you hard on yourself when you don’t think you had the impact you should have? Have you thought that maybe, that one moment or one connection, is what God had in mind for you? Think about how to use those moments. What’s better? One good connection or 100 Hi how you doing? In most cases the one connection. Keep putting yourself out there for God.

Lord, help me to be your servant. Help me to think of quality and not quantity. Lord, be with those families I talked to and those around us. Help them to find comfort in your family and your house.

September 21 – Make “One Day” Today

264 – Make “One Day” Today

#faithbites #faithjourney today

The campus was pretty crazy today. I was walking behind two people on the other side of the street from our Alma statue. One of the people asked the other what was going on and the other wasn’t really sure. But then she said “one day” we should go over there and check it out. Part of me wanted to go right up to her and say, why wait. Let’s go right now. But I reigned myself in.

How many times do we say “I’ll do that tomorrow” or “I’ll get to it someday”? What if there is no tomorrow? Would you regret saying “One day, I’ll get to it”? As Nike says “Just Do It”!

Scripture

• Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring. – Proverbs 27:1
• Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad. – Proverbs 12:25
• Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. – Colossians 4:5

Reflection

I’ll be honest, these scriptures are all across the board. Or maybe they aren’t? We have a limited time on this Earth. We don’t know when it will be time to join Jesus in heaven. Maybe it is tomorrow, maybe it is a hundred years from now. We don’t know. We should show wisdom in choosing what we need to do and how we treat each other. We need to act as Christ did and show love, understanding, and respect for others. If you were going to give a helping hand to someone, do it today, don’t want until tomorrow.

The second Proverbs verse really hit home. When we put off things we want or need to do, it builds anxiety. I never thought about that before. As someone who suffers from anxiety, I know that putting things off doesn’t make me feel good, but I didn’t realize how much that ties to anxiety. Often times, there are so many things that I have to do on my list that I don’t get to the things I want to do. So those items get pushed down, which increases the anxiety.

So let’s not say “one day I’ll do it”, instead let’s say “I’m going to do it now”.

Charge

What are you procrastinating on? Is it something that is on your have to do list, maybe it’s on your want to do list? Don’t push those things down, as they will weigh heavy on you. Take a minute and then do something. You don’t have to save the world to make an impact on it and yourself.

Lord, help me to not procrastinate. Help me to understand that tomorrow may never come and that I should do what is in my heart to follow your word and your direction.

September 20 – LOL (I mean really Laugh Out Loud)

263 – LOL (I mean really Laugh Out Loud)

#faithbites #faithjourney laugh.

When was the last time you just laughed? Take a second and just laugh. It doesn’t matter what it is about, just laugh. It feels good. When I was younger (yup, get off my lawn), LOL, really meant something that made you laugh out loud. Today’s whippersnappers think it means ok. Everything is lol. Are you one of the people who are afraid to give a good full belly laugh as they may be judged. WHO CARES?

At work the other day, I was deep in reviewing applications and writing my dissertation, when I heard nonstop laughing down the hall. I went down to see who was having a party, and it was colleagues, having a good time. It wasn’t work related or anything, just fun. I wanted to be in that laughter. To forget about the stress and the challenges of the day, and just laugh. This morning, a colleague was being a bit sassy and slap happy as was I. THe colleague asked how much sleep I got and I said not much and the colleague said they are like that when sleep deprived. It was a fun meeting.

If God gave us emotions, he knew we needed laughter.

Scripture about laughter

• Then our mouth was filled with laughter, and our tongue with shouts of joy; then they said among the nations, “The Lord has done great things for them.” – Psalm 126:2
• And Sarah said, “God has made laughter for me; everyone who hears will laugh over me.” – Genesis 21:6
• This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. – Psalm 118:24

Reflection

We know happy laughter and we know when we are laughed at. The bible is filled with people laughing at Christians, Christ, and believers. This is not about that evil laughter. This about the joy that the Lord brings. Our laughter of harmony and happiness we give praise to God. We should rejoice and be glad in it. From the beginning, in Genesis, even Sarah shouts the joy of laughter from God.

From the Mayo Clinic, we get: stress relief, stimulate organs, relieve stress response, soothe tension, improves immune systems, relieves pain, improves mood, and just helps us feel better. So not only is it good for our bodies it is also good for our souls.

Charge

This charge is easy: laugh. Then don’t hold back. Don’t worry about what someone will think of you or how they will react. Have a good time and laugh. There is time enough in life to be serious. Always remember to praise God through your humor and laughter.

Lord, let me always have my humor. Let me laugh fully and completely showing respect and praise for the gift you have given us.

September 19 – Let the Children Sing

262 – Let the Children Sing

#faithbites #faithjourney Sing

As I write this, I’m sitting in the back of our children’s choir practice. These children from different schools, different grade levels, boys and girls, all with different abilities sing together in harmony. (Well…mostly harmony, but they are learning). I can hear different voices but also hear the combined voice of all them. What amazes me, is that their teacher can pinpoint each child’s voice, and what they bring to the overall sound. I know I couldn’t differentiate that unless I was singing then you would hear me in the key of way off.

As children of God, we are just like that. We are all part of the chorus of life, but God knows each of our voice. He can tell when we are singing loud, soft, not singing, or singing in the key of way off. While we are all individuals, we bring something to the chorus that makes it much stronger than us as individuals. What is your part in the choir of God?

Scripture on Each Playing Their Part

There is one body, but it has many parts. But all its many parts make up one body. It is the same with Christ. ¹³ We were all baptized by one Holy Spirit. And so we are formed into one body. It didn’t matter whether we were Jews or Gentiles, slaves or free people. We were all given the same Spirit to drink. ¹⁴ So the body is not made up of just one part. It has many parts.

¹⁵ Suppose the foot says, “I am not a hand. So I don’t belong to the body.” By saying this, it cannot stop being part of the body. ¹⁶ And suppose the ear says, “I am not an eye. So I don’t belong to the body.” By saying this, it cannot stop being part of the body. ¹⁷ If the whole body were an eye, how could it hear? If the whole body were an ear, how could it smell? ¹⁸ God has placed each part in the body just as he wanted it to be. ¹⁹ If all the parts were the same, how could there be a body? ²⁰ As it is, there are many parts. But there is only one body.

²¹ The eye can’t say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” ²² In fact, it is just the opposite. The parts of the body that seem to be weaker are the ones we can’t do without. ²³ The parts that we think are less important we treat with special honor. The private parts aren’t shown. But they are treated with special care. ²⁴ The parts that can be shown don’t need special care. But God has put together all the parts of the body. And he has given more honor to the parts that didn’t have any. ²⁵ In that way, the parts of the body will not take sides. All of them will take care of one another. ²⁶ If one part suffers, every part suffers with it. If one part is honored, every part shares in its joy.

²⁷ You are the body of Christ. Each one of you is a part of it. – 1 Corinthians 12:12-27

Reflection

Thanks for reading that long passage. I tried to shrink it but it is good in how it is written. It illustrates how we all have a part to play. Maybe you sing alto or tenor or bass or in the key of way off. You are part of the choir. The choir needs a director, someone to print copies of the music, someone to set up the times for singing, reserve the space, feed and water the singers, and a hundred other jobs.

God looks to us in that same light. I will never be an Olympian or a billionaire. I won’t be skinny or invent a world-changing device. God gave me the power to relate, to comfort, and to teach. When he hears the choir of his children, he hears each one of us and how we all move together.

Charge

What is your part in His choir? Are you a singer or a leader or a helper or something else? Realize that you do have a part to play. He made you in his image with specific skills. When you look at what someone else has done, don’t have envy or regret. Know the Lord has given them different gifts. Look at yours and how you maximize them.

Lord, help me to remember I am part of your choir. While I may think I am singing off key, I am singing the song you want me to sing. Let me never forget that all parts are equally important in your Choir.

September 18 – Seeing Clearly

261 – Seeing Clearly

#faithbites #faithjourney seeing

I’m getting old. I’ve worn glasses since I was around 12 or 13. They are part of who I am and I’m used to it. Without them, I’m pretty blind. Smudges for most things. About a month or two ago, I noticed I have a hard time reading medicine bottles, even looking at my phone. When I take the glasses off, I can see better.

Tonight, I spent some time looking up bifocals. Old man Sol here. The good thing is there are glasses and surgeries that can help clear up my vision. Sometimes clearning our spiritual vision isn’t so easy.

Scripture on Seeing Clearly

• ²² They came to Bethsaida, and some people brought a blind man and begged Jesus to touch him. ²³ He took the blind man by the hand and led him outside the village. When he had spit on the man’s eyes and put his hands on him, Jesus asked, “Do you see anything?”²⁴ He looked up and said, “I see people; they look like trees walking around.”

  ²⁵ Once more Jesus put his hands on the man’s eyes. Then his eyes were opened, his sight was restored, and he saw everything clearly – Mark 8:22-25

Reflection

We like to be right. We like to know that we see clearly. The first time I couldn’t read a pill bottle with my glasses on I freaked out. It was my first experience not really being able to see. Yes, I know what it’s like without my glasses but this was a new experience.

The man in the story believed, but he needed more Jesus. How many times do we go around thinking we know God’s word but really it’s men looking like trees?

Our first experience may not be enough.we need more prayer and mote communion with him. I have seen so many who believe but only partly, or only in Sunday, or only on paper. They aren’t blind but don’t see clearly.

I can take my glasses off to read through pill bottle now that I know what’s causing it. Can you take off your spiritual glasses when your vision isn’t clear?

I look forward to eyes that can see and a heart that can spiritually see the truth.

Charge

How is your vision? Can you see or do you need a new pair of spiritual glasses? Think about your actions and responses to situations. Is that how Jesus would want you to behave? Maybe you need a checkup

Lord, help me to see clearly. Help me to know I can come to you for a spiritual eye check-up at any time

September 17 – Just Keep Swimming

260 – Just Keep Swimming

#faithbites #faithjourney swimming

It’s been 260 days and I haven’t missed a #faithbite. (Well on January 4th I did, but I did two the next day). It’s one of those things that is part of my daily routine. Tonight as I was laying in bed saying my prayers, I realized I hadn’t done my #faithbite today. I was in bed, warm, tired, and the haze of sleep was about to take me over. Then I realized something, I committed to doing this and need to finish it. Or in the word’s of Dory, “Just Keep Swimming”.

We all have those times when it is dark or we are tired or we just don’t want to do something. We come up with a million reasons not to do it. But most of the times, we just keep swimming. For me, #faithbite is a commitment I made to my self and a friend of mine last year. It is helping me explore God’s word and hopefully helps you too. For others, it is out of a sense of family, loyalty, or whatever. But we keep doing it as God has a mission for us. So we keep on swimming.

Scripture on Continuing on the Path

• My feet have closely followed his steps;
      I have kept to his way without turning aside. – Job 23:11
• You make known to me the path of life;
      you will fill me with joy in your presence,
      with eternal pleasures at your right hand. – Psalm 16:11
• Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. – 1 Peter 5:8

Reflection

Before I chose the scriptures for today, I had the scene from Finding Nemo where Dory sings “Just Keep Swimming”. In that scene, they are swimming through the darkest part of the ocean, they can see nothing. They just keep going. Then they see a light, but instead of it helping them, it’s a creature trying to eat them. That’s a pretty good representation of the enemy prowling around if you aren’t alert and of sober mind. Or if you are just swimming around and not following his footsteps.

The Lord works in mysterious ways. We are given a path, a purpose, and a mission through Christ. When we follow him closely with an alert and sober mind, we will have eternal pleasures. This is a great image for me to think about when times are tough.

So while I am extremely sleeping and just want to go to bed, the Holy Spirit said not quite yet. You’ve got a little more swimming to do before you go to sleep.

Charge

What tasks do you have to do for the Lord before you sleep? Is it prayer? Maybe it’s calling a loved one that you’ve been meaning too. Maybe it’s reading His word. Whatever that nagging feeling is telling you to do, it’s probably the Lord telling you to keep on swimming.

Lord, help me to keep your footsteps ever present in my sight. Let me know be devoured by the devils around me or the devils I cause.

September 16 – I Believe (In What?)

259 – I Believe (In What?)

#faithbites #faithjourney believe

There are days when God just seems to be telling you something and you need to listen. Today’s sermon matched up perfectly with an experience I had before service.

I was in the basement at church walking up to service and someone asked how everything was going. She could see my knee brace as I was wearing shortz and knows what I’ve been trying to do with work, school, faith, and life. I said it’s ok. Some good days, some not so good. She asked me how I do it all. Without missing a beat, I said “Prayer”.she smiled and we talked about time management. Believe it or not, my faith and prayer is helping balancing everything.

The message today at Church was those teachable moment. We tell people that we believe in them or to have faith. But we don’t say what to believe in or what to have faith in.

When we fail, we say, Why Couldn’t we do it? It’s because we didn’t put our faith in the right place. The main point no of the sermon was a “weak faith in Jesus is stronger than the greatest faith in ourselves”. When we believe and out our faith in soemthing imperfect like ourselves, we can’t do it.

Scripture

¹⁶ “What are you arguing with them about?”he asked.

¹⁷ A man in the crowd answered, “Teacher, I brought you my son, who is possessed by a spirit that has robbed him of speech.¹⁸ Whenever it seizes him, it throws him to the ground. He foams at the mouth, gnashes his teeth and becomes rigid. I asked your disciples to drive out the spirit, but they could not.”

¹⁹ “You unbelieving generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy to me.”  – Mark 9:16-19

Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!” – Mark 9:24

Reflection

In the story above Jesus comes to w town and hears arguing. Basically, a boy was possessed and the Disciples were asked to heal the boy. They we’re unable to and then Jeaus was brought in. He healed the boy .When he talked to the Disciples, they asked why he could cast out the demon but the Disciples couldn’t. Jesus replied that these demons could only be cast out by prayer. The disciples believed in theirselves and their ability to heal and cast out but not where the source of their power was from, Jesus

The power of prayer is amazing. In my life when I look back at how things have gone, I can see exactly when I started praying. I believe in God. At the same time, I am not perfect in my belief.

Like the father in the story above, I believe but ask for help in my unbelief. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (Phillipians 4:13).

In a nutshell, while there are many things we can do, our belief in something oerfect, something bigger than ourselves allow us to do all things.

Since I’m writing my dissertation, I liken this to citing your references. I didn’t create this knowledge but use it. God doesn’t ask for credit but we should give it to him. Because unlike the knowledge I found, his power is in me daily.

So when you need help, ask him. When you have faith, have faith in a perfect savior. Perfect savior, perfect love, perfect results.

Charge

Who do you put faith in? Do you look to yourself for strength or God? How do you put your faith in him. Take daily time to pray. Ask and ye shall receive.

September 15 – You Are Loved

258 – You Are Loved

#faithbites #faithjourney loved

Guess what? You are loved. Not because work what you have done. Not because of who you are but because you are a child of God. Pretty awesome to know you are loved. No matter what the world says, you are loved.

Today I took the kids to our local pumpkin farm. They had a truck that was painted in chalk paint so you could draw on it. I picked up a piece and wrote up high: You are loved. I then drew a cross underneath it. A lady that either I need the farm or worked there told me thank you for writing that. I told her too often we forget God’s love.

Scripture about Jesus’s Love

• Know therefore that the LORD your God is God, the faithful God who keeps covenant and steadfast love with those who love him and keep his commandments, to a thousand generations. – Deuteronomy 7:9
• Give thanks to the God of heaven, for his steadfast love endures forever. – Psalm 136:26
• God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. – Romans 5:8

Reflection

If God is eternal and his love endures forever then he loves us forever, no matter our sins. There are times when we are under water and think we are alone but God loves us. There are times when we are on top of the world, we are stilll loved.

The world may tell you otherwise, but Jesus loves you .

By writing that on the truck, I touched at least one person. I hope this helps others remember.

Charge

Are feeling under water? Do you feel alone? Maybe unloved or unwanted? Guess what? You are not alone and very much loved. Help others by sharing the love of God in your daily activities. It just takes a smile and love.

Lord, help me to always be aware of your love. Help me always  to share your love with others.

September 14 – If You’re Gonna Walk on Water Would You Drop a Line My Way

257 – If You’re Gonna Walk on Water Would You Drop a Line My Way

#faithbites #faithjourney #countingcrows line

Have you ever had a day when you just don’t feel good enough? A day when you feel you are drowning or underwater? Maybe it seems that others seem to walk on water and the only thing you can do is walk on the bottom? If you didn’t answer yes to at least one of these questions, I’d guess you may be lying to yourself.

The title of this #faithbite is taking from one of my favorite Counting Crows Songs: Omaha. The lyric is: “Hey, mister, if you want to walk on water. would you drop a line my way?”

For years I’ve listened to the song, sung alone but it wasn’t until today that I got it. I’m slow sometimes. The person singing is underwater and drowning. He wants the man to drop a line to him.

Picture that in your head. You are underwater and can’t get to the surface. You see someone walking on the top of the water. How would you get help? Having a line dropped your way would be good I think.

Guess what? There is someone who walks on water: Jesus.

Scripture on LifeLines

• It’s an unbreakable spiritual lifeline, reaching past all appearances right to the very presence of God – Hebrews 6:19 MSG
• We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain. – Hebrews 6:19 NIV

Reflection

We know that Jesus walked on water (Matthew 14:22-33). We even know that his disciples thought he was a ghost and were afraid of him. Even after he identifies himself, the disciples still do not believe. Peter challenges Jesus to order him to come to him on the water. Jesus enabled Peter to walk on the water but when he was afraid he began to sink. Jesus said you of little faith, why did you doubt?

I have had many times when I felt like I was on the bottom sinking in. My faith has been challenged. I know that Jesus is there and he will help any one of us to walk on water.

But what do you do when you are walking on water? Do you drop a line to people below you or as the song Omaha continues “Hey, mister, if you want to walk on water ‘Cause you’re only going to walk all over me”. Not only should we trust in the Lord but when we are on top, we need to make sure we don’t walk all over people. How do we show them His love through us? What kind of lines can we drop to people?

A friend of mine dropped me a line. It was a funny video of a guy just saying you are awesome. That he loves me and Jesus loves me. It’s pretty cool. I then dropped a line to others to share how awesome they were.

We have an unbreakable spiritual lifeline, we just need to know that his name is Jesus

Charge

When you are on top do you drop a lifeline or do you walk all over people? Think about what it feels like to be on the bottom. Then, think about how you can help others. Maybe it’s a funny video or a simple text. Maybe it’s bringing them a dessert or a piece of candy. Perhaps its just being an ear for them to talk to. How you drop a line is up to you. Dropping a line is what we should do.

Lord, help me to realize that I am on top of the water most days. Allow me to drop a line to those in need. At the same time, allow me to grab a line when it is tossed to me as I need it more than I will know.

September 13 – Don’t Forget to Save

256 – Don’t Forget to Save

#faithbites #faithjourney save

So I just realized that this faithbite has technology in it and it is #256 which is a common computer number for memory and such. Kinda cool. Ok, now onto faithbites…

Last night I was working on my dissertation and through a stupid copy and paste error, I lost about 40 minutes of work. And no ctrl + z didn’t work. For those of you who don’t know, that’s an undo command. I was pretty ticked off, but let it go. It reminded me of those “old days” before autosave and autorecovery where if you didn’t remember to save and then the computer crashed or the power went out, everything was gone. I can’t remember how many papers in college I lost or video games that I lost progress in because I forgot to save. Then came the autosave after x minutes, then the instant save. I can’t wait until that is more prevalent in everything, but I digress.

Why am I talking about remembering to save often or autosave? Because with Jesus, you don’t have to remember to be saved. Once you are born of the water and the blood you are saved. As long as you do not reject him, you are saved. Even though your sinful acts, you are saved. It doesn’t matter how good you are or bad, because your works don’t grant saving, only through his sacrifice are you saved. Pretty amazing that even though we don’t deserve it, we have salvation.

Scripture on Being Saved

• For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast. – Ephesians 2:8-9
• But if it is by grace, it is no longer on the basis of works, otherwise grace is no longer grace. – Romans 11:6
• but Israel, pursuing a law of righteousness, did not arrive at that law. Why? Because they did not pursue it by faith, but as though it were by works. They stumbled over the stumbling stone, – Romans 9:31-32

Reflection

We are saved by grace alone. We should want to live like Christ, but there is nothing we can do in our power to earn salvation as we are broken, sinful creatures. In the old testament, man tried to live by the Law to bridge that gap. They were ultimately unsuccessful because we can not keep the law, it is impossible. Christ died on the cross to bridge the divide of sin between man and God. Through that act the law of man was fulfilled. Thus through Christ we are saved.

I think about the number of #faithbites I have lost to computer glitches or the number of newsletters wiped away because I forgot to save. I can’t imagine how life would be if I have to constantly think about what I need to do to have salvation. If I had a checklist that I had to live by or a todo list to earn salvation. My whole life would be wrapped around that and I would still fail.

We are blessed to not have to live by the 660 some laws of the old testament. We are blessed that we have salvation through Christ alone. Yes, we should follow his commandments: Love God and Love People. They aren’t required as no amount of works can save us. If we believe in Christ, are born of the blood and water, and confess our sin, we are saved.

Charge

Do you try to earn your salvation? What do you do on a daily basis to try to make yourself a good or better person? What if you truly believed that you were saved by Christ alone? Would that change your outlook on life? In my case, I choose to be better, not because it earns me salvation but because it is pleasing to the Lord. If I am created in his image, I want to show that.

Lord, help me remember that I am saved by you alone. That my works can never bridge the chasm of sin.

September 12 – Our Own Special Brand of Crazy

255 – Our Own Special Brand of Crazy

#faithbites #faithjourney crazy

I’ll be the first to say it: I’m crazy. Call me goofy, nuts, wacky, or just plain crazy. I do things that many people would think is nuts and that is just who I am. For instance, I showed people the plan to finish my dissertation (including the qualifying exams in 7 months). As Maui says in Moana: This is straight up kooky-dook.

In this case, I’m not talking about how many with mental illness are called crazy. I would probably fit that definition as well. Rather the experience when we are so passionate, so fanatically, so invested, that we do some wild and nutty things. For some of you, it’s travel around the country to see your favorite band. For other,s it’s waiting in line for hours and hours before a movie premieres. (Alot of that has gone away since Fandango took over, but you get my point). Still,l others volunteering a million hours a week for a cause and on the other end, people who camp out on Thanksgiving Day for those Black Friday ads. Whatever it is, we all have our own special brand of crazy.

A few months ago, I was walking with a friend’s three-year-old daughter. I was joking with her and asked if I was silly crazy or Criminal Minds crazy. She answered Criminal Minds. (For those of you who don’t know, that is a show about a group of profilers from the FBI who search for serial killers).

When we show our passion for God, does it come off as good crazy or Criminal Minds crazy?

Scripture on Passion for Christ

• If it seems we are crazy, it is to bring glory to God. And if we are in our right minds, it is for your benefit. Either way, Christ’s love controls us. Since we believe that Christ died for all, we also believe that we have all died to our old life. 2 Corinthians 5:13-14 NLT
• Then Jesus entered a house, and again a crowd gathered, so that he and his disciples were not even able to eat. When his family heard about this, they went to take charge of him, for they said, “He is out of his mind.” – Mark 3:20-21

Reflection

If we are crazy for Jesus, then he is crazy for us. Even his family thought he was crazy for his behavior. Why? He didn’t follow the laws of man but the laws of God. Likewise, when we “get our Jesus on”, we may seem pretty weird or strange to others. I can be found at times singing random Christian songs. In church, depending on the song, I like to get my groove on. To others, especially those who are around, think I’m a bit nutty, but that’s ok. We are told, “to make a joyful noise” (Psalm 98:4).

Before I found Jesus, I used to use the term “Jesus Freak” as a derogatory term. I thought those people were weird. Sure, some of them were doing it for the wrong reason, but others just loved Jesus and wanted to share it with others. I guess if I am going to be called a freak, being one for Jesus isn’t too bad.

The one word of caution I will give. There is a difference between being crazy for Jesus and being fanatical and losing Jesus. We want to follow his word and rejoice in it, rather than using his word for our own aims. Big Difference.

Charge

Do you let your freak flag fly for Christ? How do you show you are nutty for him? Can you use this enthusiasm and passion to help others find him? Take a minute to write down how you share Christ with others and how you show your crazy. Then share him with others.

Lord, let me always be a Jesus Freak. Allow the Holy Spirit to give me the strength to let my true feelings show in an open and non-threatening way.

September 11 – Are Your Goals S.M.A.R.T?

254 – Are Your Goals S.M.A.R.T?

#faithbites #faithjourney goals

Goals give us purpose in life. I believe we all have goals, most just don’t write them down. When I think about goals, I try to think about why I’m doing something and where it is going to lead me. Tonight, for instance, I received a detailed plan of all the steps I need to complete to finish my doctor of education degree and graduate in May. This is an insane amount of work even if you were working on this full time. My brain is spinning on how on God’s green Earth I am going to do this.

I, being trained in goal setting, look to the S.M.A.R.T. method. Your goals should be Specific Measurable Attainable Relevant and Time-specific. (And yes, I know you can have S.M.A.R.T.E.R. goals by adding Evaluate and Revise). When I apply this model to getting my degree, all of them are spot on except the A. Is it attainable in the timeframe I have. Is it worth the sacrifices that I will need to make? Could waiting another semester make it better? These are the decisions, I have to make. What decisions do you make when you create goals?

Do you apply the S.M.A.R.T model to making spiritual goals? If not, why not?

Scripture on Goal Setting

• “But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded.” – 2 Chronicles 15:7
• May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed. – Psalm 20:4
• Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. – Proverbs 16:3

Reflection

In my life, I look to the future always. I’m a big planner, dreamer, and hoper. To be able to check things off my list is great. The thing that I forget, and many of us do, is to enjoy the process. The destination is great, don’t get me wrong, but how you got there is important.

In faith, some will set a goal to read the bible or participate in x number of church activities or be in so many groups. While that is something you can check off, why did you do it? After the marathon is run, did you get something out of it? That is where the R (relevant) in S.M.A.R.T comes in. If a goal was truly relevant, then the journey and destination are both worthwhile. If it isn’t, the destination is just a checkbox and the journey is a drag.

I see the dissertation process as dry and tedious. Likewise, I have looked at graduation as a checkmark. It’s a vicious cycle. What if I looked at the dissertation as the culmination of my work and the writing of it as growth journey. Then, it would be worthwhile. In faith, we need to look at why we do the things we do. Then, we get more out of the journey than just the destination.

Charge

What are your S.M.A.R.T goals? Have you thought about setting goals in your life for work, school, or home? What about in faith? Take time to think about how you want to grow your faith. Then make a goal and a specific plan to get there.

Lord, help me have the strength and dedication to complete all of my goals. Allow the Holy Spirit to work through me to grow my faith, making all things possible.

September 10 – Words May Change, but the Message Remains

253 – Words May Change, but the Message Remains

#faithbites #faithjourney #concert message

You have all the albums (or for you whipper-snappers, all the downloads). You’ve listened to the songs over and over. You’re prepared to sing along on every song with every word just like it is on the recording. Then it happens, a new word is added or the singer changes the phrasing. Maybe there is a new instrument added to the mix. You are thrown off. The song is different. But has the message changed?

This is how I felt going into the County Crows concert. I have heard almost every song of theirs and know most by heart. I can hit the notes, the inflection, and have perfect phrasing. (Well..at least in my head as we all know I can’t sing). Then at the concert, they changed some of the songs. In one case, he stopped singing in the middle and told a story while the band was playing. I was shocked. That’s not the version of “Round Here” or “Mr. Jones”, I know. For the first second, I was upset. I wanted the version I knew. After all, I was prepared. But then as I listened more the message became deeper and fuller. I had a better appreciation of the song in all of its forms. Now I want to hear the recording and the live version again.

As happens in my life, I started thinking about religion and the Bible. I have had a problem with all the different translations. How could that still be God’s word? Then it hit me, the words may be different but the intention and the message are the same.

Scripture on Message

Numbers 6:24-26

“The Lord bless you and keep you;
The Lord make His face shine upon you,
And be gracious to you;
The Lord lift up His countenance upon you,
And give you peace.” ’ – NKJV

OR

“‘“The Lord bless you
and keep you;
25 the Lord make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you;
26 the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”’ – NIV

Psalm 51:5

Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me. – KJV

OR

Surely I was sinful at birth,
    sinful from the time my mother conceived me. – NIV

Reflection

These are but two examples of translations. At first, I was troubled by this as I wanted the direct word from God. The benediction in Numbers is used to close every church service. Some pastors use the word favor others use countenance. These mean different things. Countenance is a person’s face or facial expression where favor means approval, support, or liking for someone or something. I personally prefer countenance. The idea that God has given his approval through his face on me is amazing. At the same time, favor isn’t bad. It shows his approval.

The Psalm can actually be translated very differently. The KJV version looks like the act of conception was a sin whereas in the NIV it looks like you are sinful from being born. There is truth in both of them. This is where some people lose the message of the Lord. For me, I think I got it.

We can’t understand God. We don’t have the words for it. Just like in a live concert, the words may be changed to reflect current events or evolved over time as the sing/songwriter has evolved. Does the Bible evolve? No. We just have a better understanding of it.

This may be a bit confusing. In the end, God has given us his word and his word is good. As it says in Hebrews 4:12 – For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.

Charge

We may get a message from one source in different words than from another. The same source may even be translated differently. The bottom line though is the message is the same and is the truth. God’s word doesn’t lie. How we interpret it can cause issues. Think about the challenges you have in studying the word. Take time to write down those confusions and look at different translations. Does that help? Maybe there is a pastor or priest who can help you gain clarity.

Lord, help me to always believe in your word. Help me, even when words fail, to understand your message.

September 9 – Hold On To These Moments As They Pass

252 – Hold On To These Moments as They Pass

#faithbites #faithjourney #concert moments

Sitting on a grassy hill on an overcast day, music blaring, people singing, lights flashing, and my oldest laying in my lap cuddling. That is a moment I never want to forget. She complete trust me in to keep her warm, to protect her, and to always be there for her. This is but one of the many moments we had at the Live / Counting Crows concert yesterday. In “A Long December”, one of my favorite lyrics is: “I can’t remember all the time I tried to tell myself to hold on to these moments as they pass”. That was one of those moments I never want to forget. (Yes, I know I already said that. This is how powerful that moment is). Life isn’t made of up huge life-changing moments, just small touching moments. In our crazy busy life, it’s easy to go through the motions, check things off the list and go onto the next.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve had times when I look back at a day or even an event and I have almost no recollection of it. I remember it happened but have no early idea on what happened. It was as if I stepped “out the front door like a ghost into a fog where no one notices the contrast of white on white”. (Yup, another Counting Crows lyric).

How often do you walk through life like a ghost? Do you forget those precious moments? How do you hold on to them?

Scripture on Memories

• But God remembered Noah and all the beasts and all the cattle that were with him in the ark; and God caused a wind to pass over the earth, and the water subsided. – Genesis 8:1
• “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.” – John 14:26

Reflection

The coldness of that night on the hill will be forgotten. As will the long drive home and even the playlist. What I pray is that both my daughter and I don’t forget the warmth that we shared both in body and in having this time together. Just like that, we are to remember God and he is to remember us.

Very early in the Bible (Genesis 8), God didn’t forget his promise to Noah. He took care of him and made good on his promise. He dried up the waters. God made Noah, his family, and the animals prosperous. God will never forget or forsake us.

Likewise, Jesus knows sometimes we have trouble remembering him and what he has taught us. God has given us the Holy Spirit to help us remember him. It is through the Holy Spirit where we feel God and our faith grows.I had an adult baptism and remember some of that day. Especially my daughter biting me, but that’s another story. I don’t remember the specific order of service or who said what when. My daughters surely don’t remember the moment of their baptism but they remember what happened that day. They have the Holy Spirit in their lives and he grows their faith daily.

Charge

What moments will you remember? Why and how do you keep those memories? Create diary, a blog, or something to help you remember what truly is important in life.

Lord, help me to hold on to these moments as they pass. Give me the strength to remember the feeling and why those moments were so important to me.

September 8 – 1.21 Gigawatts. A Bolt of Lightning

251 – 1.21 Gigawatts. A Bolt of Lightning

#faithbites #faithjourney Lightning

Today is a cloudy, dreary, rainy day in central Illinois. It’s hard to get motivated and have the energy to keep going. When I looked back at this week of #faithbites, many were about getting things done or using the power of God to keep it all together. The one thing these all have in common is energy. You need the energy to be able to do just about anything. When I thought about the amount of energy I need, the only thing that came to mind is 1.21 Gigawatts from Back to the Future. I’m not planning on operating a time-traveling DeLorean but I might as well. As we know, in 1985 that type of energy is more available than in 1955. Back then the only thing that could power that was a bolt of lightning. Some days, I feel that’s exactly what I need to keep moving.

For example, tonight I am driving to Chicago to see a concert and then driving back. I have no idea how that’s going to happen. But you know what….we’ll make it happen.

Scripture on Energy

Have you not known? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He does not faint or grow weary; his understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might he increases strength. Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted, but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint. – Isaiah 40:28-31

Reflection

Needing energy isn’t something just for the sick, the young, or the elderly. We all need that strength and energy to move forward. Our God is one who never gets tired, never is weak, and is always there. He gives you strength. Sometimes, he tells you that you need to sleep. You need to rejuvenate. While that may not seem like the instant 5-hour energy drink you want, he is giving you energy.

So right now, as my eyes are heavy and I’m looking at another 9 hours before bed, I look to the Lord. I see that I need to shut my eyes for a few minutes and regenerate. His spirit is in me and fulfills me. I may grow physically weak and tired over the years but my spirit will always be strong in him.

Charge

Do you need a bolt of lightning? Are you tired? Have you asked the Lord for his strength? He is here and will freely give it to those who believe. You will walk, run, and fly and never be weak.

Lord, help me to be strong. Help me to know when to sleep and when to be active. When to run and when to fly. You are always there for me, help me to remember that.

September 7 – Keeping Your Stuff Together

250 – Keeping Your Stuff Together

#faithbites #faithjourney stuff

Life is hard. There are days when I wake up and just want to go back to sleep. I pray and God helps but sometimes, it just feels like too much. Today, I was listening to one of my favorite groups, The Counting Crows, and heard a lyric that touched my heart: If you can’t keep your shit together when God is on your side, what chance do you have when he’s not around? This is from the song Cover Up The Sun.

I apologize for the language, but sometimes keeping our crap together is hard. I don’t ever want to experience what it would be like if God wasn’t around. I could tell you that I would fail miserably. When I fail when God is around, it isn’t because of him, it’s because I failed to live according to his laws. As we’ve said before there are two laws: Love God, Love People. Often I fail at loving people as fully as I should.

Scripture on God Being on Your Side

• With God we will gain the victory, and he will trample down our enemies. – Psalm 108:13
•  for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose. – Philippians 2:13

• So we say with confidence,

  “The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid.
  What can mere mortals do to me? – Hebrews 13:6

Reflection

For many years in my life, I said I got this. I have my stuff together. The older I get and the more versed in faith I get, I know I don’t have it together by myself. What is interesting, and I don’t know why I didn’t think of this before, is God is a helper and you have to accept the help.

In life, we have had people offer us help and we turn them down. Sometimes, we say we want help, but not the way they offer it. Think of the Lord in those terms. If you ask for help in finance and God brings a savings plan to you, you should accept it. You may have wanted him to provide more money and he is, just not the way you thought. We have to be active in accepting the help. Then we can fulfill his good purpose.

I am only beginning to learn of how God tramples my enemies both real and imagined. I know I can’t keep my stuff together by myself, and with God it’s hard sometimes as well. Not because God can’t do it, because I in my arrogance, don’t accept his help fully. This is something I need to change.

Charge

Do you have your stuff together? If so, you probably weren’t reading this. If not, ask God for help. He freely gives it. When he does, accept the help. It may not be in the form you wanted, but it is in the form you need.

Lord, help me to accept your help. Help me to put aside my own aims and align them with what you want me to do. Then I will have my stuff together with your help.

September 6 – You Can Do It

249 – You Can Do It

#faithbites #faithjourney Do It

As Rob Sneider in the WaterBoy says “You Can Do It”. That is the message of today’s #faithbite. No matter how hard life is, no matter how many things are thrown at you, you can not only survive but thrive. But not alone, you need help. We all do.

Today, I came back to work after 2 days out for my knee and two days being sick. I didn’t want to get out of bed, I didn’t want to drive, nor did I want to walk to work. I was feeling down, sick, and exhausted. But then it came to me “You Can Do It”. Maybe it was the Holy Spirit telling me to keep going. Maybe it was the Lord talking to me. Could be I just like the waterboy. But I kept walking.

It’s hard when everything seems like it’s going wrong and you just don’t feel up to it but you can do it.

Scripture on Doing it

•  I can do all this through him who gives me strength. – Philippians 4:13
• Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans. – Proverbs 16:3
• Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me, and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.” And God granted his request. – 1 Chronicles 4:10

Reflection

Sometimes it feels like we are the little train that could. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can. But what we forget is we have a powerful steam engine to help us up the mountain. The Lord, our God, gives us Strength. He establishes our plans and wouldn’t want us to fail in his plans so he helps us. We can accomplish all things we set out mind too.

When the day is long and you are sick, it is hard to keep moving. Finding the strength to keep on pushing is hard. There are times when I say “I’m done with x,y,z”. Then I realize that isn’t helpful and find a way to keep moving on.

Charge

This charge should be easy. Wake up. Get out of bed. Eat something. Get dressed (I don’t care about the order). Pray for strength for the day. Then as the song says: Move, Keep walking. You are a soldier of God. He will help you do what he wants you to do.

September 5 – Action Pack Pup or Regular Pup?

248 – Action Pack Pup or Regular Pup?

#faithbites #faithjourney Action

“Ready for Action, Ryder Sir”. This is a common refrain on my youngest’s favorite show: Paw Patrol. If you have never watched this cartoon, it’s about six main pups (I didn’t forget about Everest and Tracker) who live with a young adult named Ryder who save Aventure Bay. Each of the pups has a specific job: Chase (Police), Marshall (Fire), Zuma (Water), Skye (Sky/Flight), Rubble (Construction), Rocky (Recycling/Fixing).  While the show is fun, what sells it is the toys. There are pups with different costumes, vehicles, playsets and more. This gets me to the main point. In the toys, there are two main types. Those that have action packs (you push a button and tools or something come out) and regular pups (no special tools but awesome to play with).

My youngest is now obsessed with the action pack pups. That is all she wants to play with. Forget the other pups she has. Don’t get me wrong, she loves the regular pups and things they are cool but wants to play with the pups with tools and buttons.

Are you a person of action or a regular person?

Scripture on Action

• What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and filled,” without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead. – James 2:14-17
• But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. – James 1:22

Reflection

Our God is a God of action and we should emulate himl. We can say good words, send warm wishes, but if we don’t act, then we haven’t completed our mission. We are still good people, we still want to help, but we have failed. Like those pups without tools, they are nice to look at and fun, but not as awesome as the action pups.

The challenge in life is to take the words and feelings and turn them into actions. Help those who want and need the help. Become a Christian of action.

As they say in Paw Patrol: No Job is Too Big, No Pup is Too Small. You can accomplish all things through he who strengthens us. (Philippians 4:13)

Charge

Think about your interactions with people. How do you show you are a Christian of Action? What activities do you participate, people you help, or things you do that serve his mission for you? Are you a sharer of words or actions without intent (i.e going to church just to check a box)? Take time to make one new action step this week.  You will be surprised how much that impacts those around you.

Lord, let me in action. I know you love me no matter what as long as I believe. Help me to use those gifts to serve you always.

September 4 – I Don’t Like You Either

247 – I Don’t Like You Either

#faithbites #faithjourney like

The full dialogue exchange in the title goes something like this:

“He doesn’t like you”

“I’m sorry”

“I don’t like you, either”

If don’t recognize this exchange, it’s between Luke Skywalker and Cornelius Evazan in the Mos Eisley Cantina at the beginning of Star Wars. Now, you may ask why I am using this exchange to start a #faithbite. Well, I was reading facebook, CNN, and other websites and starting looking at the comments. I know, stupid thing to do. The hate and vitriol were immense. The trashing of political candidates. The theory that you either believe 1000% what I believe or you are evil. In the exchange above, Cornelius and his friend don’t like Luke because of who he is, or better yet, who they think he is. There is no discussion, no debate, no exchange, except I don’t like you.

Apply this to your daily life. I was reading comments about a press conference one of our local officials had. So much hate towards the official because they supported the other candidate. Lies and half-truths thrown around rather than discussing what is going on. I’m always up for a good debate about religion, sex, politics, and money all the things you aren’t supposed to talk about. You may have ideas and beliefs that I don’t support but I can still think you are a good person. Our words are powerful. Use your words kindly and gently to invoke debate, not to separate and divide. As I was researching this #faithbite, I learned a new word: Ad Hominem. It means “(of an argument or reaction) directed against a person rather than the position they are maintaining.

Scripture on Debating Respectfully

• But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, dissensions, and quarrels about the law, for they are unprofitable and worthless.- Titus 3:9
• Remind them of these things, and charge them before God not to quarrel about words, which does no good, but only ruins the hearers.- 2 Timothy 2:14
• If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame. – Proverbs 18:13

Reflection

I have been called the tone police and that I am trying to stop people’s opinions. That’s not what’s going on. We are told to listen before we give an answer. We are to avoid foolish controversies as they are worthless. I will debate on any policy that you want but I won’t get into name-calling and character trashing. Not perfect by far, but I’m working on it. God wants us to debate and discuss as we grow. At the same time though, as we’ve spoken, we don’t want to be so harsh and so argumentative that we turn people into the others.

I don’t know about you, but as I grow in faith, I find myself with less patience for “foolish controversies” and more willing and able to have deep debates about what matters in our life. I hope to continue that as I grow.

Charge

Is there a politician you hate? Maybe a cause that drives you nuts? How about a law or policy that you can’t stand? Think about one of those and write down what it is you don’t like. Try to get to the policy issue or the bottom of it. Then have a debate about that issue with someone. Stick to the key points you wrote down and see if you can do it without it devolving into name calling, generalizations, or personal attacks. It is a very difficult thing to do this day and age. Just keep working on it.

Lord, grant me strength and knowledge to not get into foolish controversies. Help me to enlighted people on your truth and allow me to use that in every discussion I have, everyday.

September 3 – Let the Good Times Roll

246 – Let the Good Times Roll In Case God Doesn’t Show

#faithbites #faithjourney Roll

Party on Wayne. Party on Garth. Today when I was driving to the grocery story, I was listening to Thnks fr th Mmrs by fall out boy. And yes, that is the actual title which stands for Thanks for the Memories. In the very first verse, they say: Say a prayer, but let the good times roll in case God doesn’t show. This got me thinking about my faith and what if God doesn’t show, or if he doesn’t exist at all. (Not that I believe that, but let’s roll with it).

First, we say there is no God. Then we say the bible is a historical book that is fictionalized and has to many errors to be true. Then that proves God doesn’t exist right? Wrong. As a scientist, I can’t believe that everything we have here is an accident. If you look at the commonality of genetic makeup, things that reappear in nature over and over like the Golden Ratio in Nature. The golden ratio is expressed in spiraling shells: it’s a Fibonacci number series that we see in flower petals, seed heads, pine cones, tree branches, spiral galaxies, hurricanes and more. Look at DNA. Even if all of that doesn’t sway you and you believe in the big bang, where did the stuff that was in the big bang come from? These are eccestential questions. Maybe believing in God is and easy explanation. But in the words of Einstein: Science without religion is lame, religion wihtout science is blind.

I choose God.

Scripture on Existence of God

• In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth – Genesis 1:1
• And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him – Hebrews 11:6
• Fools say in their hearts, “There is no God.” They are corrupt, they commit abominable acts; there is no one who does good. God looks down from heaven on humankind to see if there are any who are wise, who seek after God. They have all fallen away, they are all alike perverse; there is no one who does good, no, not one – Psalm 53:1-13

Reflection

So it doesn’t make sense to reflect on scripture if you don’t believe in the bible or God. Let’s just let the good times roll and do anything we want. It will be ok. But that’s folly. It’s also folly to try to please God if you don’t have faith. At the same time, without God or faith, who do you rely on your for moral compass? How do you know what’s right or wrong? If it’s truly everyone for themselves, then is there such thing as an abominable act? \

I like video games like Fallout and others where I can choose to be good or bad. I can even be good then just shot someone for the heck of it to see what happens. In life, you can drink, commit crimes, and do all kinds of crazy stuff if you don’t have someone that holds you accountable. That doesn’t mean someone who hates you or berates you, rather someone to listen, forgive, and promise salvation. That is what God does.

There is no way I can convince an unbeliever that there is a God. Likewise, there is no way to prove that the bible is without translation or other errors over 2000-5000 years. I do know that I chose to believe in a perfect God who created all stuff in the universe including what made the big bang. If God is all-powerful, why couldn’t he do that?

Charge

Do you believe in something higher than yourself or do you let the good times roll? God grounds us and helps direct us. He lets us have good times within limits. Not be mean or to punish for no reason but to help us thrive. Just like a parent corrects a child. Look at your belief system. Find a way to enrich that belief.

Lord, help me to never doubt you. Allow me to see all the wonders in the world and attribute them to you and not man. You are the creator and the light.

Sept 1 – When Do We Call Each Other Out?

244 – When Do We Call Each Other Out?

#faithbites #faithjourney call

A few days ago we talked about the corner “preacher” trying to make people change through fear, intimidation, and name-calling. The point of that #faithbite was to share God’s love with everyone and bring them into the family. In other words, you get more flies with honey than vinegar. But when do we call someone out? When do we help and correct each other?

I personally love the truth. I hate it at the moment but if someone calls me out in a loving manner and provides all the information that helps me. I’m not saying I wouldn’t get mad and brood for a bit while I process, but straightforward and direct is what we should do.

They key to any feedback, whether it relates to faith or not, is to come from a trusted, respected person who is doing it from a place of love and respect. The corner preacher definitely doesn’t do that.

Scripture on Correcting Each Other

• Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. – Galatians 6:1
• “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. – Matthew 18:15
• Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. – 2 Timothy 4:2

Reflection

When I first heard that corner preacher telling young women that they were going to hell for their promiscuous ways. Or that those drunkards would face the wrath of God. I was appalled. How is that coming from a God of love? One of our pastors commented that we should correct each other but it has to be the right way. In Galatians, we see that we should restore him in a spirit of gentleness and at the same time keep watch on ourselves. What great advice. Help don’t lecture. Be kind and keep yourself true. in 2 Timothy this is closer to the preacher on the corner (reprove, rebuke, and exhort) but very different in that it is done with complete patience and teaching.

I hope my friends will correct when I am wrong. As I am new to faith, and welcome the answers from those more learned than me. So far, all true believers, have done that with a spirit of patience, kindness, and gentleness. How do you respond to others?

Charge

How do you, correct people? It could be your friends, family, or children. Maybe a neighbor or a coworker. These principles of kindness, gentleness, and love apply in every situation. We all need to be corrected as part of life is learning. How will you correct someone going forward? Make a plan and try it out. Then ask for feedback. You may be surprised by the result.

Lord, help me to follow these words in my daily actions. Allow me to be kind, gentle, and loving when I correct someone. At the same time, allow me to accept that feedback in the kind, gentle, and loving manner it was meant.

August 31 – Sometimes Your Need to Stop

243 – Sometimes You Need to Stop

#faithbites #faithjourney stop

When you read this title, what did you think this was about? Stopping what and why? Is it stop doing bad things? Stop doing too many things? What? The answer is Yes. It could be all of these things.

I’m a pretty busy person. It is hard for me to stand still. I have to be going going going. Even when recuperating from a procedure, I don’t want to stop. I have work, school, laundry, home, everything that needs to be done before I get me time. Today, having a sick kiddo with me, made it even harder. My first thought was to get a babysitter but that wasn’t in the cards. I was forced to stop. I couldn’t do all the things I needed to do and that was ok. My daughter’s needs came first and even wants. To sit and watch a movie or to scratch the scratch pad or play legos. That is what was important to her healing, so it became important to me.

When do you stop to smell the roses as they say? And when you do stop, do you give up something or just refocused?

Scripture on Stopping and Reassessing

• Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. – Philippians 4:8
• Making your ear attentive to wisdom and inclining your heart to understanding; yes, if you call out for insight and raise your voice for understanding, if you seek it like silver and search for it as for hidden treasures, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God. – Proverbs 2:2-5

Reflection

Looking at the scriptures, you may wonder what that has to do with stoppings and smelling the roses. Or how spending time on others needs is more important than my own wants. I took those two scriptures to be the influence of God. He was telling me that I need to stop. Stop doing too much. Stop doing my own thing and not following what God wants me to do. Not that I”m doing bad, but not what I need to be focusing on at that moment.

It is not an easy thing to do. Yesterday we talked about headspace and heartspace. Today was a direct reminder of that. That many of the things I wanted to do were in headspace both in “need” and time needed and not necessarily in the heartspace. Cuddling my daughter, playing legos, watching a movie, eating popcorn, those were all heartspace activities that needed time.

A friend of mine used to say: If you stop to think, don’t forget to start again. While we never have to give up praising the Lord, sometimes we need to get out of our head and listen a bit more to where he wants us to focus at this moment.

Charge

Are you running around like a chicken with your head cut off? Are you checking things off your list (headspace) but leaving things in your heartspace to do? Take time right now, to pray and ask for help with that. Then list those things that you should really be doing. Those that enrich your soul and your relationships. Trust me, the other stuff will get done if it needs to.

Lord, help me live more in the heartspace. Help me to stop running nonstop and spend my time and heart where I need to. God, Family, Friends, Work.

August 30 – Headspace Vs Heartepace

242 – Headspace vs HeartSpace

#faithbites #faithjourney headspace

I like to read, watch TV, learn, and talk with people from all walks of life. When I do that, I get so many ideas of things that I want to do. So many places to volunteer, tasks to try, people to meet, and new experiences to enrich life.

Today I was thinking of crafts and activties I wanted to do. At the same time I thought of what I’m already doing. When I thought about that, I realized that the activities I’m mostly able to do require very little headspace and only some heartspace.

When I think of my dissertation that is a lot of headspace and very little heartspace. Likewise when I think of ministering that takes both alot of headspace and heartspace.

To me, I have ample heartspace, but not enough headspace. Headspace is both mental energy and time.

Do you have adequate head and/or heartspace for your callings?

Scripture on Head and Heart

And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” – Matthew 22:37

Reflection

Our calling from Christ is simple: Love him with all our heart, soul, and mind. We should do this with every fiber of our being. That is easier said than done
Many times we, myself included, have so much other stuff that our headpsace is cloudy and takes away what feeds our heartspace. We want to be true to the Lord but have to pull back.
In another example, my heart is full of the Lord but my head tries to get in the way. Doubt and rationalization replace the heart’s knowing oftruth.
I love volunteering and doing as much as I can, but if I don’t have the headspace to clearly think about something or the heartspace to do it with passion, the it falls short.

Charge

How do you balance where you spend your head and heart energy? Create a list of all your tasks and put what percentage of head vs heart they are and the overall amount of head anf heart you have to spend. You may be surprised.

Lord, help me to balance my head and my heart as I serve you. Let me make the hard choices that will allow me to live as you want me to.

August 29 – Are you a Corner Preacher or a Believer?

241 – Are you a Corner Preacher or a Believer?

#faithbite #faithjourney preacher

Walking out of our Bioengineering building after class today, I heard an amplified voice but couldn’t find where it was coming from. As I walked down the street, I saw it. It was a man in front of the Alma Mater, on the corner of the busy streets on campus, preaching through a microphone. On nice days, we normally have some sort of person on campus, holding a bible, preaching to anyone who will listen. More often than not, it’s about the wrath of God and who unholy and wicked everyone it. It usually turns into hatred and condoning all people as wicked, sinners, whore, liars, drunkards, and worse. Occasionally someone will challenge the preacher, but many just laugh at them or ignore them and walk by. This is allowed because it is public property.

Occasionally I will slow down or stop to listen to what they have to say. The problem for me is they preach hate and wickedness but nothing about God’s love, God’s forgiveness, and salvation.

When you preach, what kind of preacher are you?

Scripture on Preaching

• But Moses said to the Lord, “Oh, my Lord, I am not eloquent, either in the past or since you have spoken to your servant, but I am slow of speech and of tongue.” Then the Lord said to him, “Who has made man’s mouth? Who makes him mute, or deaf, or seeing, or blind? Is it not I, the Lord? Now therefore go, and I will be with your mouth and teach you what you shall speak.” – Exodus 4:10-12
• Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. – James 3:1
• But avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness, – 2 Timothy 2:16

Reflection

Sometimes when I write #faithbites, I wonder if I am that corner preacher only my corner is online. You can choose to listen, reflect, or just keep going. Am I preaching God’s word or is what I am writing irreverent babble? I hope, like Moses, my words are actually God’s words and he is using my mouth.

I asked a question when I started this about if you are a corner preacher or a believer. I don’t think they are mutually exclusive, in fact, there can be a great togetherness. What I have seen on campus and online, is people spewing hate in the name of God. Using specific bible passages to reflect their hate rather than the whole book which shows God’s love, Jesus’s sacrifice, our forgiveness through Christ, and most importantly Christ bridging the gap between humanity and God.

I wonder if the campus and corner preachers talked about God’s love and forgiveness and not about damning everyone for sin. Would they have more people come to the Lord instead of being turned off?

Charge

How do you share your love of Christ? Do you help people feel the love of forgiveness, or do you damn them with words of hell and their sinful nature? Are you able to look at someone with love and invite them to learn about the Lord? Take a minute or two to think about how you respond to others and show your faith.

Lord, help me be your mouth. Help me to always bring people to your through your love rather than push them away through criticizing their faults and sins.

August 28 – Let’s Play A Game

240 – Let’s Play a Game

#faithbites #faithjourney game

Today, I had the pleasure of hanging out with a 19 year old who just wanted to play with my youngest when she was home sick. She didn’t want anything just the chance to hang out and play. Several times she mentioned she liked to buy toys, play with toys, and felt she shouldn’t be at 19. My response was don’t give up your youth. Enjoy play

I personally love to play. Be it a.video game a board game, puzzles, or just being goofy with toys. We think toys are a child’s thing but they give us such Joy and bring us back to the basics. And guess what? Being child-like is biblical.

Scripture on Being Child-Like

And the streets of the city shall be full of boys and girls playing in its streets. – Zechariah 8:5

Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it. – Luke 18:17

Whoever then humbles himself as this child, he is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. – Matthew 18:4

Reflection

Streets filled with children playing. Humbling yourself like a child. Receving the kingdom of heaven like a child. These are powerful images that help remind us of what we are: Children of God.
We are told to play, sing, dance, be humble, and respect our father and mother. I’m betting by father, our heavenly father is covered in there.
Buy a child’s toy and play with it. Enwtwr and enjoy your faith as a child when everything was new and wonderous.
Keep humble, rejoice, and enjoy.
And yes, I play Barbie’s with my daughter. We make silly stories and have a great time. That play helps restore and builds relationships

Charge

This charge is easy: Play. Get a toy or a game. Go on out and horseplay in the pool. Play a sport. Just get out. And when you are doing that, remember how you feel. Take that energy and new found peace and thank the Lord for that.

Lord, let me love you like a child. Let me remember what it is to be a kid and just play

August 27 – Thanks For Everything You Do and Are

239 – Thanks For Everything You Do and Are

#faithbites #faithjourney Thanks

Thank You For Everything You Do. This was a common phrase used by a former supervisor of mine. This person used it so much that it lost its meaning. When I think of it now, I know how important it truly is. We don’t offer our appreciation enough. There are many times when a simple thanks can change someone’s day.

At work, I am working harder than I have before, doing more things that I thought I would. Our students came back today and were truly appreciative of my work. One said that they bug me because I am responsive and help them all the time. Then a coworker told me how appreciative he was and he doesn’t show that side very often. When I got home after a long day, my family was thankful for bringing dinner home.

These simple acts of appreciation and thanks can radically alter someone’s day.

Scripture on Thanks and Appreciation

• “May the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge, reward you fully for what you have done.” – Ruth 2:12
• “May the Lord now show you kindness and faithfulness, and I too will show you the same favor because you have done this.” – 2 Samuel 2:6
• To all in Rome who are loved by God and called to be his holy people: Grace and peace to you from God our Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ. First, I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of you, because your faith is being reported all over the world. – Romans 1:7-8

Reflection

I don’t know if you noticed, but in all of those scriptures (and there are many more), the Lord is thanked and then the people are thanked. The people are thanked for what they do, the Lord is thanked for bringing those people in those situations. I’m not talking about tooting someone’s horn just to do it or as they said in grade school, be a brown-noser. But showing honest appreciation especially when there is nothing in it for you. That is what we are called to do.

I am thankful for so many people in my life, from my wife to my kids to my friends and family to my church to my work and beyond. I am enriched because the Lord has put you all in my life. For that I am thankful. What and who are you thankful for?

Charge

Giving thanks is an amazing feeling. Getting thanks is amazing as well. Challenge yourself tomorrow, to thank a person for something they have done. Maybe they do it every day and you just expect it. Give them thanks and you will be amazed by what it does. And don’t forget to thank the Lord for what he has given you.

August 28 – Fear And Self-Loathing in Las Vegas

238 – Fear And (self) Loathing in Las Vegas

#faithbites #faithjourney self-loathing

When you think about yourself as a person, what words do you use? Are they positive words that build you up, or negative words that tear you down? In my life, I usually use positive words as I’m a positive person. There are some days when only the negative come out, which turns into self-loathing.

This isn’t about sin directly, as we’ve hit on that numerous times. Today’s #faithbite is more about when you’ve asked for forgiveness but still commit the sin. It’s no longer that one action, but rather the culmination of the cycle of sin -> forgiveness -> sin forgiveness on the same thing.

For me, my weakness is my family. I love them so much, especially my kids. Those days when they don’t listen and you find yourself in round after round of yelling, forgiving, being good, repeating the same behavior, and on and on it goes. Those are the days when I wonder if I’m a good parent.

This applies to so many things beyond just parenting. How many times in your life, do you repeat the same cycle but never completely break out? Then looking back, you think there might be something wrong with you. Guess, what, there is. You are human and we are all faulty.

We are saved through Christ.

Scripture on Self Loathing

• This, then, is how you ought to regard us: as servants of Christ and as those entrusted with the mysteries God has revealed. Now it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful. I care very little if I am judged by you or by any human court; indeed, I do not even judge myself. My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart. At that time each will receive their praise from God. – 1 Corinthians 4:1-5

Reflection

Normally when I select scriptures, I look for 2 or 3 verses, to sum up, what I am feeling. Today took a lot longer but then I found this passage. What is profound about this, it is isn’t directly about self-loathing. Instead, it flips the script. It focuses on not judging others AND not judging ourselves. Can we ever know how God feels about our behaviors? Even if not, we do know that we are sinful but it is in the hands of the Lord to pass judgment.

We usually say, judge, not lest ye be judged. In this case, it shows we shouldn’t judge ourselves. That in fact, our self-loathing isn’t in God’s plan. We try to do what is right but leave the judging to him. The passage ends that when judgment comes, “each will receive their praise from God”. It doesn’t say that some will get praised and other won’t. The passage says “each”.

This doesn’t mean we are free to live as we like. Nor shall we sin, but when we do and ask forgiveness we are forgiven. When it happens again and we ask for forgiveness, we get it. THat only God judges us. We shouldn’t judge each other or ourselves.

I am thankful for this passage and knowing that I am not a lost cause. That self-loathing has no place in my heart.

Charge

How often do you hate or dislike yourself? Do you pass judgment on yourself? How would you feel if you were able to stop judging yourself and believe that you are forgiven when you ask for it?

This isn’t easy. Pray to the Lord and ask for his forgiveness. It will work wonders.

Lord, help me to break free of this vicious cycle. Help me to be in your love and to love myself no matter how often my sinful nature rears its head.

August 25 – Blood Boiling Anger

237 – Blood Boiling Anger

#faithbites #faithjourney boiling

There are those days when you get mad then you get over it. Then there are days when it takes you a bit longer to get over the anger. But once in a while, you have a day when your blood feels like it is boiling. Your anger is seeping through ever pour. Any slight wrong comment from anyone and you are like Denis Leary biting someone’s head off. Today was one of those days.

Maybe it was lack of sleep or stress. Maybe it was children who didn’t want to listen or wouldn’t let you have one second to breathe. But the blood is boiling. I hate this feeling. I know that we should forgive and move on On some days like today, the fire of anger builds and it is hard to let it go.

What do you do when your blood boils with anger?

Scripture on Anger

• A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger. – Proverbs 15:1
• But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell. – Matthew 5:22

Reflection

Proverbs and Psalms are filled with scripture about anger and being a fool. That anger only brings about the downfall of people. I know that anger isn’t useful in this form. I need to find an outlet and let it go. Most days, it’s easy to let it go. Some days though, when the blood is boiling it is hard.

I don’t want to be the fool who is in danger of the fires of hell. At the same time, I don’t want to act rashly to ruin a relationship. I could see the sadness and fear in my youngest eyes when I was yelling at her. When I told her I didn’t want to cuddle her the way she was behaving. But then, through the Holy Spirit, I softened my heart. I sat with her, rubbed her back, and we had forgiveness.

It’s not about NOT getting angry. It’s about seeking, giving, and receiving forgiveness for that anger.

Charge

Have you ever been so mad your blood boils? What did you do? I challenge you to think of an outlet for that anger before it happens. In the heat of the moment, it’s very difficult. Ask the Lord for guidance and he will answer.

Lord, I confess that I let the anger get the better of me. I am sorry for that. Please help me to channel the anger into a positive outlet. Help me to seek, give, and receive forgiveness. Amen.

August 24 – Trash Compactor: The Walls Are Closing In

236 – Trash Compactor: The Walls Are Closing In

#faithbites #faithjourney walls

One of the most famous scenes in Star Wars, is Luke, Han, and Chewey trying to rescue Leia from the Death Star. During the escape, they wind up in the trash compactor compartment. There is all kinds of junk in there, a monster, and a locked door. Outside of the compactor is C3PO who is manning the controls looking keeping lookout for stormtroopersrs while in communication with Luke.

You may ask, why I am starting this #faithbite with that scene. There is an easy answer for that. Many people ask me what it is like suffering from anxiety. If you don’t have it, it’s hard to image, so I hope this helps.

You are in a room where the walls are closing in on you. There looks to be a way out, but the door is locked. You bang on it and it won’t open. Looking around, you find things to stop the walls from closing in, like the poles in the movie. (In real life it could be meditation techniques, medicine, or just deep breathing.) It works for a second or two, then the walls keep closing in. You try to get to the top of the pile. You scream for others to unlock the door but the door is still locked.

On the outside, others want you to just open the door and walk out. They tell you to pick up a piece of the junk and jam it into the walls. They don’t understand what is going on. Then when you manage to get the door open, you let out a sigh of relief, but those outside think it could be a cry for help or don’t understand it all.

That is what it feels like. Some days the door opens easy. Other days, most times, it doesn’t. It takes a lot of work to open that door and stop the walls from crashing in on you.

It’s not fun. Even if you get the hug Princess Leia when it’s over.

Scripture on the Anxiety

• Then he placed his right hand on me and said: ‘Do not be afraid. I am the First and the Last.’” – Revelation 1:17
• For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.- 2 Timothy 1:7

Reflection

I have never been in a trash compactor and actually felt the walls closing in on me. Likewise, I never felt a creature grab my leg and pull me under. But in suffering from anxiety, those feelings are very real. For me, a mix of prayer and medications help. These two verses called to me tonight. Know that God was there in the beginning (the first) and will be there in the end (the last), I know I shouldn’t be afraid. He saw what was and what is to come and that brings solace. We also see that he hasn’t made us in fear but in love and of a sound mind.

God wants us to know we are safe and he is with us always.

Does that make it easy at 2:00 A.M when your breathing is rapid, you are tossing, your brain is racing, and you can’t calm down? Easy? No. Easier? Yes. Praying for his support does help.

Like Luke calling on the microphone to open the door. He will open the door. That door may be opened in ways you never thought possible. From doctors to meditation techniques to diet to friends. He will open the door. It just may feel like a long time before that happens.

Charge

Depression and anxiety are real. If you suffer, get help. See a doctor. Talk to a loved one. Seek the help you need. Pray on it. Listen to his answers. He will help you get the help you need. Just listen to it. And in all honesty, if you need someone to talk to, I am here. I will listen and help.

Lord, help me to conquer my anxiety. Help me to understand that the walls aren’t closing in on me. Allow me to listen to your word and help others going through the same thing. Amen

August 23 – Is it Still Nap Time Daddy? Trust

235 –  Is it Still Nap Time Daddy? Trust

#faithbites #faithjourney Trust

It’s 5:30 in the morning. I am in the bathroom getting ready to take a shower. My youngest comes in her jammies, holding her stuffed animal, and with sleepy eyes said “Daddy, Is it still Nap Time?” She calls all sleep, nap time. I said “Yes, it is honey”. I picked her up, she put her head down, and we walked back to her room and she went to sleep.

Why is this important? There was no yelling, arguing, debating, or anything. She asked a question and took my word at face value. It was still time to rest.

What if we took God, Faith, Religion, and each other at face value? No yelling, arguing, debating, or anything? If we just trusted.

Scripture on Trusting God

• Sovereign LORD, you are God! Your covenant is trustworthy, and you have promised these good things to your servant.- 2 Samuel 7:28
• But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoicesi n your salvation. – Psalm 13:5
• Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God. – Psalm 20:7

Reflection

We know there are liars and charlatans in the world. (Yes, I used the world charlatans). There are those who would have us believe in lies, alternative facts, fake news, and everything untrue. If we all believed and trusted in his Word, unconditionally where would we be? If we behaved towards each other in the ways we are told in the Bible, where would we be? I’m sure we would be in a much better state.

I’m not saying we are all the same or act uniformly. We can be united and unique. If we had the trust of my sleepy daughter in His Word, I’m sure we would be much better off.

I’m not saying not to ask questions and dig deeper into faith. We can have faith as well as research and grow. If we all questioned and trusted in HIs Word, I’m sure we would be much better off.

Charge

How do you show your trust in the Lord? Do you thank him for his word? Maybe you share it with others? When we trust, we grow.

Lord, help me to trust in your plan and your word. Help me to be strong in my convictions and share that with others.

August 22 – Can You Be The Man in the High Castle?

234 – Can You Be The Man in the High Castle?

#faithbites #faithjourney Castle

Today’s #faithbite isn’t the one I was originally going to write, but sometimes I just feel the spirit and tweak it a bit. As a Pastor once told me, the sermon’s he thinks he writes the best are the ones that flop and the ones that just flow work. Call it the Spirit. And now, onto #Faithbites.

The Man in the High Castle: Good or Evil

I love science fiction shows, books, movies, debates and more. They give me the opportunity to think about what could have been or what may be yet to come. I am enamored with a show called “The Man in the High Castle” on Amazon Prime. It is based on a book by Philip K Dick. Without any major spoilers, the story is what would happen if the Allies lost World War II. The United States is split in three. The west coast is the Pacific States of Japan, the East Coast and most of the Midwest is The Greater Reich, and the Rocky Mountains are the Neutral Zone. In the show, there are these tapes that show a different world, a world where the Allies won. Each region has developed very differently than today with racial lines drawn, different foods, cultures, eugenics, resistance, dictatorships, second-class citizens, and more. To say this is heavy material is an understatement.

You may ask, why I would watch something that is so heavy, so difficult to comprehend. The reason for me is simple: No one is truly good or bad. In the show, people you think are bad do some good things. Did you ever think you would root for a Nazi? Well, you may. Did you ever think the resistance to this evil could be bad? Well, it may be. Did you think the Japanse would only be harsh and brutal? Maybe not always.

The second part that touched me is the Man in the High Castle himself. Think about what you would do if you could see what may happen or what happened in an alternate universe. What would you do?

Scripture about Good and Bad

• Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter! – Isaiah 5:20
• The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it. – John 1:5
• Turn away from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. – Psalm 34:14

Reflection

The three verses I selected may not seem to be related. When I searched for verses this time, I was looking for something that mentioned both Good and Evil as well as us needing to make a choice on what to pursue. Like the characters in The Man in The High Castle, they are all looking out for the best for their families, their friends, and their countries. That is why the line between right and wrong, good and evil is so very murky. I believe that is what I like about it so much.

Life is just like that.We do bad things to help people which we think is Good. We try to better ourselves at the expense of others, even if it is indirect. We sin when we think we are making good choices. It’s what makes life hard. It is why so many people have trouble with the commandment of Love God and Love One Another. How do I show love to everyone at the same time?

I’ll leave you with two tips. If your center is in Jesus and you read his word for context, not just quotes, you will see his love. The second is if you are in doubt, then you probably aren’t doing what is good and right in his word.

Charge

Are you a good person or a bad person? Maybe a good person who does bad occasionally? Could it be that you are lost and trying to find out if you are good or bad? In those cases, read his word. Look to others to help you find his word. He will help you turn away from evil and do good.

Lord, I falter daily. I do what is bad when I am a good person. I try to help others but fail and end up hurting others. Help me be seen as a true believer in you and that shows in all my actions and deeds.

August 22 – We Are All Sinful

232 – We Are All Sinful

#faithbites #faithjourney sinful

In yesterday’s #faithbites, we talked about loving one another no matter what. In the image I used, it talked about worshiping other Gods and about being a homosexual. The premise was Jesus told us to love everyone.

The comments I received opened my eyes a bit. There are those who focused on the homosexual aspect, while others focused on the scripture about homosexuality, and a few on the other Gods. What was interesting to me, was the image only illustrated the idea of loving everyone unconditionally. What was picked up was the words in the image and homosexuality.

As I like to do, I researched some Greek words, I looked into our sinful nature and realized something. First, there are over 600+ laws in Leviticus, but most only pick on the homosexual one. Other readings were the Greek words that were used that have changed in meaning over time. While I could devote this faithbite to the language or to homosexuality or to the scripture passages, I choose to dedicate it to us all being sinful and broken.

In my religion, all sins are equal. Thanks to a good friend, I learned that this isn’t the case in the Catholic church. All that being said, we are sinful, we seek forgiveness for those sins through Jesus. That’s the end of the story.

Scripture on Being Sinful

• “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.” – Matthew 7:1-5
• Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. – 1 John 3:15
• For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 6:23

Reflection

When I started my #faithjourney, I made mistakes and sinned but did not call them sins. It was just me messing up. As I learn more about God, faith, and religion, I realize I sin daily. You may wonder what the difference is. if I make a mistake and screw up, it is on me and has no bearing on others. If it is a sin, it is on my soul and has bearing for the next life. I ask for forgiveness of my sins daily and I get it from him.

We all hold very strong beliefs against certain sins over others. I do not know how God judges them. I do know that all except blasphemy can be forgiven. Even that, if you truly repented I believed would be forgiven.

When you talk about people you don’t like, try to separate them from their behaviors. Show them love, kindness, and respect. You can hate the sin, but love the person.

Charge

Think about things that tick you off. Is it a sinful behavior or just something you don’t like. Regardless, how do you act to that person? Do you show them love even though you don’t like the sin? Do you judge them and their soul? First, try to remember that you shouldn’t cast judgment on others. You should show them love and help them find Christ. For through him, we are forgiven.

Lord, help me to not sin. Help me to see others as people not as the sins they commit. Allow me to help them find you so they can be reconciled and forgiven.

August 20 – Love One Another. That means Everyone

232 – Love One Another. That means Everyone.

#faithbites #faithjourney everyone.

Sometimes #faithbites are deep. Other times they are funny. Still other times emotional. This one is short, simple, and sweet. Love One Another.

We’ve talked many times about the others. How we fear them or hate them or segregate them because they are different.

If they are a different race, gender, religion, nationality, orientation, policitcal alignment, rich or poor, we segregate.

Jesus said to love one another. Not only those like you or though who believe like you do. Everybody. Period. End of story.

Scripture on Loving One Another

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. – John 13:34

Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8

Reflection

I told you this one would be easy. There isn’t anyone you shouldn’t love. Love covers sin as love is from god.

I’m far from perfect and sin daily but the know God loves me. There are people who I don’t agree with and wouldn’t necessarily have a beer with them, but I love them and would try to always treat them fairly.

In life, we are blessed by God’s love. Share his love with everyone

Remember, you don’t have to like a person or their actions to show them love. In the end, we are all people of God. One race, one body with many parts.

Charge

Just like this #faithbite, this charge is easy. Love One Another. Saying it is easy, doing it is hard. Start one day, one person at a time. Let the Holy Spirit flow through you. You will show love.

Lord, help me to always show love to everyone. Help me in those times when I disagree with a personsp thoughts or actions. Let me love them, nonetheless

August 19 – One Blank to Bind Them All

231 – One Blank to Bind Them All

#faithbites #faithjourney One

If you have ever watched or read The Lord of the Rings, you are familiar with the saying / theme: One Ring to Rule Them All. In the books and movies, this ring had ultimate power but corrupted everyone who touched it. The books were about keeping the ring from “bad people” and ultimately destroying it. I thought this theme of One Blank to Bind Them All was fitting for today.

For the first time in many many moons, we held our worship service at a site other than our sanctuary. The service was at our school to launch the school year, our ministries, and to remind us all that we are one. One body with many parts. I played the part of the AV tech and for me, making sure the sound levels were good was the most important thing.

We think the head is the most important, but if the heart isn’t there, the head doesn’t work. If the legs aren’t there, the body doesn’t move. If the bones aren’t there, the body is blob. All are the most important pieces of the body. Likewise in the church and our world, we are all parts of one body. You can be the most important part as all parts are important.

Scripture on One

There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.

But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it. This is why it says:

“When he ascended on high,
he took many captives
and gave gifts to his people.”

(What does “he ascended” mean except that he also descended to the lower, earthly regions? He who descended is the very one who ascended higher than all the heavens, in order to fill the whole universe.) So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.

Reflection

There is one blank to bind them all. If you haven’t figured it out, I will give you a hint: JESUS. (If you guessed God, I’ll give points for that). There isn’t Jew nor Christian, Black nor white, Caucasian or Asian or African or other races. One human race that is unified and part of the body.

As we mentioned above, we can’t all be the head of the body. Nor can we be the leg or the arms or the kidneys. We all have our part that we were created the serve. Imagine if you took a leg and sowed it on the head would that work? If you took an eye and put it on a toe? The body doesn’t work that way.

What part of the body are you? Are you using your gifts to help the body move or are you the bum knee that makes the body stumble? Maybe you should be the eyes of the body but are you the disease in the bloodstream making the body ill?

Today’s service demonstrated that we are all important and the most important. It’s not a case where “Everyone get’s a participation trophy” but we are all most important. From cleaning the floors to serving tonight to sound to giving the message, it is all equally important and most important.

I felt that importance today twisting knobs or shifting levers helped people hear what was being shared. This is where I needed to be. Where do you need to be?

Charge

What do you do in live that divides rather than multiplies? Do you help people be part of the One? Are you sharing your gifts to move the body forward? Take a few minutes to list your gifts and help the body to be one in Christ and move forward.

August 18 – JESUS…He Loves You Very Much

230 – JESUS… He Loves You Very Much

#faithbites #faithjourney Jesus

I am one who gets spooked easily. If someone comes up behind me, I jump. When I’m concentrating on something and someone talks to me, I jump. It freaks me out. Usually, a string of expletives come out, other times, it’s better.

Yesterday, I went to church to pick up my shirt for a special worship service. I didn’t see anyone there and the door was locked. I rang the bell and no one answered. In my mind, I was done and started walking to my car. Then I heard “Sol”, and it freaked me out. Instead of an expletive, I said JESUS. Then, without missing a beat, my friend who called my name said “… He Loves You Very Much”. I apologized for what I said, but her come back was awesome. Guess what…. It’s Trust. Jesus Loves You.

Scripture on Jesus’ Love

• We love because he first loved us. – 1 John 4:19
• A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. – John 13:34
• Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. – John 15:13

Reflection

What is there to really say here? Jesus loves us unconditionally. He gave his life for us to be reunited with God. All he wants us to do is love him and love one another. That’s it. He taught us how to love, wants us to love, and laid down his life with that love.

I am glad I said what I did now as it gave me not only another chance to feel his love, but to share that message with all of you. Jesus loves you very much!

Charge

Do you feel Jesus’ love in your life? If you do, then share that love with someone else. Find ways daily to share that amazing unconditional love with everyone you meet.

Lord, help me to always feel your love. Allow me through my words to share your love and your message.

August 17 – Doing the Right Thing(s)

229 – Doing the Right Thing(s)

#faithbites #faithjourney thing

While I was taking my shower this morning, I thought of all the things I needed to do. (I don’t know about you, but I get many of my best ideas when I’m in the shower). Then it hit me, am I doing too many things or am I not doing the right things.

I am going to list all the things I do. This isn’t for pity or admiration, rather to illustrate a point. I work full time (in a new role in a new place), have two children and a wife, own a home (and all that goes with it), working on my Doctor of Education, volunteer at my church (lay director and sound), active politically, write #faithbites daily, volunteer with the girl scouts (cookie dad and fall product dude), having health issues, play video games, active on and social media. I may have missed one or two but this is a long list of things that I do. (I can also say I don’t do them all to the level I want to or should at times). I love them but sometimes it’s too much.

Upon thinking about all of these things, none of them are wrong in the sense they are bad or evil or don’t contribute. At the same time when you say are you “Doing the Right Thing(s)”, it’s not a matter of quality or necessarily quantity. You could choose to do one thing and it is the right thing. Likewise, you could do 10 things and those are the right thing for you at that time. This is not an easy topic, especially when all the things are good things.

Scripture on Doing the Right Thing(s)

• See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the elemental spiritual forces of this world rather than on Christ. – Colossians 2:8
• Show me your ways, Lord,
      teach me your paths.
  Guide me in your truth and teach me,
      for you are God my Savior,
      and my hope is in you all day long. – Psalm 25:4-5
• If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.- James 1:5

Reflection

I have so many things I want to do in life from vacations to careers to studying to just having fun and being. When I look at what I am doing in my life does that bring happiness? We have talked countless times about happiness not being through earthly desires but through the Lord’s plan. Our verses today, show us that we can be led astray through choices on earth. We also see that God will give us guidance when we lack wisdom of when we need help making changes. Then comes the hard part: Saying No.

Saying no to something that we want to do or something we have already committed to is difficult. When I do it, I feel that I’ve let someone down, that it’s a new burden on them in finding someone new to do that task. I also feel that I’ve lost ownership of that things. After time though, that passes and I realize that maybe it was a good thing to let go off.

I don’t have the answers today on how to make sure you are doing the right thing or things. Only that I continually pray and ask for guidance on what I should and should not volunteer for.

Charge

Warning, this one will be hard. First, pray for guidance on this task. Second, list out everything you do even the subpoints if it makes sense. Third, reflect on how you feel about each one. Fourth, write a list of pros and cons for those tasks. Fifth, make a prayerful choice on what you should continue and not. Sixth, communicate that choice and follow through. Lastly, thank the Lord for his guidance and support.

Lord, help me to follow this advice. Help me to understand what I should and should not spend my time on.

August 16 – You Can’t Change People

228 – You Can’t Change People

#faithbites #faithjourney people

We set it all the time: People not acting like how or believing in what we want them to. I don’t know about you, but I get frustrated and want to change them. I see people posting on social media trying to get people to change. In my daily life, I watch people try to force a change in a person to make it more amenable to them. Let me give you an example.

Story Time

Three people are in a room having just finished a project. We will call them person A,B,C. 

A says they have two extra hours as they thought this project would take longer to do. B says why don’t you take some you time and get a coffee or something. Person A says I may just do that, then invites Person C to join them for coffee. C thanks Person B for the work they did and respectfully declines the coffee invitation. A says thanks and heads off. 

Now, person B could get upset that they didn’t get invited. They could wonder what they did wrong. Or, they could look at the history of person A and realize that they have a different nature than B and C. It’s not a good or a bad thing but something that they are. While Person B may be upset, no matter what they do, Person A is who Person A is. 

Here’s the simple truth: You can’t change people. This is something that is very hard to come to terms with in life. I have a desire to help and change people. What I have learned though, is I can only influence change, not make change in people. As the old saying goes: You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink.

Scripture on Changing People

• I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge—even as the testimony about Christ was confirmed among you—so that you are not lacking in any gift, as you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ, who will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord – 1 Corinthians 1:4-9
• And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all. – 1 Thessalonians 5:14

Reflection

You may notice that these two scriptures are very different. (I have to give credit to the Biblestudytool.Com website for help on this one). These passages point out two very important aspects in life: give thanks to the person and occasionally correct. The first passage, reflect on how important it is to encourage and affirm people. To thank them for who they are and the gifts they bring. By giving them praise for the things they do and the role they play in your life, it makes them feel valued and more open to change. The second passage shows how to give feedback but most important is to be patient. You can’t fight fire with fire. Little nudges here and they can change a course.

Even with encouraging and giving feedback, you can’t force someone to change. While you may influence them, it is up to them to make the change. What you may see as a subtle change, maybe a huge step for them and something they won’t or can’t do. Just remember: be patient with them.

Charge

Think about someone in your life who you value and care about. Then think about something that you would like to see changed. Next, remember you can’t change them but influence them. Finally, find ways to encourage and provide feedback that may help them want to change.

Lord, give me the strength to realize I can’t change anyone. I can only change myself and influence others. Help me to always be patient with everyone I meet.

August 15 – No Answers, Just Faith

227 – No Answers, Just Faith

#faithbites #faithjourney answers

I try not to complain. For those of you who know me, I’m a pretty happy guy. I will talk about bad things in my life, but I really don’t let it get me down too often. The times when I complain is when I can’t do what I want. I’m not talking about a 3-year-old temper tantrum, but that also happens once in a blue moon. I’m talking about when my body fails me. I have had surgeries in the past, ailments and more, but usually, after lots of trial and effort, there is an end in sight. With my current knee complaints, all possibilities are 50/50 at best.

Try something that has a few side effects but is less invasive but insurance doesn’t cover it and it may not work. Something else is more invasive and covered by insurance but may not work. A third option will work right away but is very invasive, more risks, and has a shelf life. These aren’t good options. Still, I research, ask my family and friends for ideas, and try not to give up the faith.

Today was hard though when I hurt and all the doctor’s answers come up with bad odds. Still, I know I have a job to do, a life to led, so I try to go on. Even Atlas shrugged.

But while my faith in modern medicine may be shaken, my faith in God isn’t.

Scripture on Faith Answers

• We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. – 2 Corinthians 4:8-9
• And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.- 1 Peter 5:10

Reflection

Tonight’s scripture’s really resonated. The first telling me that no matter how hard life is, how bad things seem, we will not be destroyed. God will make it right and lead us where we need to go. We will not be destroyed. The second, speaks on two levels. The first is that our suffering is small compared to the Lord. While that is hard to hear when times are rough, I appreciate his sacrifice so much more. Secondly, I know that I will be restored, firm, strong, and steadfast. I know that I will make the right choice through him and I will be back to the way I am meant to be. Note, I didn’t say the way I was before, but rather the way I am meant to be.

The Lord gives us answers we may not want to hear, but if we truly listen, those are the answers we need.

I will take my medicine, pray, and sleep. I know that I will get past this and survive. The Lord is before me, beside me, and behind me always.

Charge

What answers are you looking for from God? Have you written them down and prayed on them? Is he giving you answers you don’t want to hear? Know that you will not be destroyed, abandoned, or crushed. Jesus is with you always.

Lord, help me to not lose faith. Help me to trust that you will put the right people in my life to cure my physical ailments as well as my spiritual ones.

August 14 – A New School Year, A Clean Slate

226 – A New School Year, A Clean Slate

#faithbites #faithjourney slate

Tonight, we went to registration night for my eldest. We reconnected with old friends, met her teacher, signed up for activities, and had a good time. All the teachers, students, and parents were excited for the new year. Then you feel the energy in the school. So many new possibilities for the new year. It’s infectious.

Every fall, especially since I work on a college campus, I get excited. I see the new students beginning the next chapter of their lives. The anticipation, nervousness, and excitement are overwhelming. I wish I could bottle that feeling. Your old life is gone and you get to start a new one. In many ways, it is a clean slate, a fresh start.

In life, we don’t get many fresh starts. Getting married, moving to a new city, starting a new job, or making a choice to believe in the Lord are some of the times when we have a clean slate.

I am amazed that every day can be a clean slate through forgiveness.

Scripture on Starting Anew

•  He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!”Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” – Revelation 21:5
• Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come:The old has gone, the new is here – 2 Corinthians 5:17
• We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. – Romans 6:4

Reflection

The scriptures above tell us both that we are a new creation in God and that he will make everything new. Being baptized or Born-Again isn’t the only way we get a clean slate. We have the ability to be forgiven EVERY DAY. When we truly confess our sins, we are forgiven. I pray for forgiveness every day, sometimes more than once a day.

Christ gives a clean slate every time we ask for it. While this forgiveness may not feel the same to us as the newness of a school year or the other activities we mentioned, this clean slate is eternal. The high of a new school year fades as summer turns into fall. The newness of job fades as the daily grind moves on. In forgiveness, we have this slate every time we confess.

I love the high of daily life and experiences, but knowing my soul is protected and clean in the Lord, outweighs the daily experience.

Charge

Have you felt that excitement, that infectious nature of something new? How do you share that with others? Think about how that made you feel, then think about how cleansing your soul would feel. Ask for it and you will have a clean slate every time.

Lord, help me to be excited about your forgiveness. Help me to realize how gracious you are in giving me a clean slate.

August 13 – That Time When Your Debit Card is Declined

225 – That Time When Your Debit Card is Declined

#faithbites #faithjourney declined

Not sure how many of you had this experience before. You are shopping, have everything ready, and begin your check out. When you ring up everything and slide your debit card (or credit card), it’s declined. In my case, most the groceries were paid for but there was some remaining. What happens then? First, you worry about why you don’t have the money. Could it be the bank? Maybe something cleared you didn’t know. Maybe you just miscounted. Then you start to think: what could I put back? Next fear and embarrassment sets in. What are other people thinking? Do they know I don’t have the money to pay for this stuff?

This happened to me today doing a light grocery shop. I had budgeted but didn’t have my cash. Knowing that we just got paid so there was plenty of money, I didn’t know what happened.  Well, it seems the check hadn’t cleared the bank yet. I also don’t have credit cards. Luckily, I was able to transfer a few dollars from savings to checking on my phone, and all was good. During those few minutes though, I was panicking. I felt like a failure but then because of good planning, I solved the problem and was good to go.

Not everyone has the ability to fix this by dipping into savings. The one thing we all can fix though is knowing that our tomorrow is secure through believe. Because Jesus saves. (Yes, I know, bad pun with money).

Scripture on Not Being Declined

• They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.” – Acts 4:12
• For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age.- Titus 2:11-12
• For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost. – Luke 19:10

Reflection

We don’t have to worry about if we will be saved. We also don’t need to worry about being declined because we don’t have enough chips to cash in for our good deeds. As it says in the Acts and Luke passages, we are saved through belief and Jesus came to seek and to save the lost. Through the water and the blood, we are saved. That’s a pretty awesome outlook for the future.

God wants us to believe. He gives us salvation through the Lord. No matter how hard life on earth is, we are saved in the next life.

I know first hand how humiliating it is to have your card declined. To know that people are watching and to think what you need to put back. Through Christ, we don’t have to put back out love or worship. We are saved, never declined.

Charge

Think about those times when you have been declined in life. What happened and how did you feel? Have you thought about never being declined for salvation? Believe in the Lord and your salvation is guaranteed.

Lord, help me to always believe in you. Help me to know that I will be accepted and never declined.

August 12 – What Would Your Superpower Be?

224 – What Would Your Superpower Be?

#faithbites #faithjourney superpower

I don’t know about you, but I love superheroes. All shows, even the terrible ones are great. Comics are amazing. Movies are fun. Even the fantasy shows are exciting. Why is that? It’s the powers of course. It allows those heroes, and villains, to do things normal people can’t do.

I often think what superpower I would have if I could choose. What would you choose? Would it be flight? Perhaps invisibility? Maybe time travel or invisibility? How about super strength? While those are cool, mine would be the ability to create a save point in life and go back to it. Think about video games. In a game, you can save your progress and go forward. Then if you die or don’t like what happened you can go back to your save point. You have all the knowledge of that future state and what to change but don’t of the consequences. Think about having multiple save points in your life. How fun would that be? What choices or chances would you take if you knew the outcome would be a positive one? 

While I think that would be awesome, I don’t worry about it as much anymore. Someone is already there and he knows what my choices will bring. 

Scripture on Seeing the Future

• For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. – Jeremiah 29:11
• I make known the end from the beginning,
      from ancient times, what is still to come.
  I say, ‘My purpose will stand,
      and I will do all that I please.’ – Isaiah 46:10
• If our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything. – 1 John 3:20

Reflection

God knows the plans for us. He has prepared a place and knows how all of this will turn out. It’s hard for us to not know what our choices will bring. I don’t know if I’m doing what is his will or what is my will. Through prayer, I believe that I am following his will. His word helps direct me in my daily interactions. 

While God knows everything, made everything, and planned everything, as a human is it hard to know it isn’t in our hands. We do all things through Christ. 

So while I would love to hit a save point in my life and come back later, would that change anything? My grandmother once told me, if I took all my problems and hung them on a clothesline and everyone else did the same with theirs, I would still choose mine. 

Sure, my life is not perfect. No ones are. My life is truly blessed. Those mistakes and regrets, are in the past and have made me who I am today.

Charge

What superpower would you choose? Then think about why you chose that? Next, think that God already has that ability and is using it to influence your life. All you need to do is believe in him and follow his word. 

Lord, help me to realize that I don’t need any superpowers. Through Christ, I am saved, and through your care, I will thrive.

August 11 – There’s No Place Like Home

223 – There’s No Place Like Home

#faithbites #faithjourney home

While I don’t have ruby red slippers to magically transport me home, home is a wonderful place. My family has been blessed by God to have wonderful things, be financially secure, and take our first real budgeted for vacation ever.  During this trip, we did so many things and loved every minute of it. (Well, there were the times when the kids weren’t angels, but I digress. #Parenting for the win).

Through all the travel, there is nothing like coming home. We unpacked, got the laundry going, watched some TV, the kids were playing, and now we go to sleep in our own beds.

Home is what we all fight for and strive for. Someplace to call our own.  A place where we are truly ourselves and can let down our guard. While we work for our earthly home, what about your spiritual home?

Can you see it? Do you visit it often? How do you interact with it? Do you conduct your maintenance regularly?

Scripture on Home

• For every house is built by someone, but God is the builder of everything. – Hebrews 3:4
• The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. – Matthew 7:25
• Unless the Lord builds the house,
  the builders labor in vain.
  Unless the Lord watches over the city,
  the guards stand watch in vain. – Psalm 127:1

Reflection

For my family and I, Jesus is our foundation. He is our cornerstone and our rock. We will weather storms that may bend us and may topple other homes, but not ours. He is building our house daily. It isn’t easy to follow God in this world. But I know he watches over us no matter what happens.

I hate my physical home sometimes. It’s getting older, there are many upgrades I need to do to get it where I like it. Not to mention changes to improve it’s value. At the same time, we need to make sure we are improving our spiritual home.

This means not only ensuring we follow His will, but also contribute to the earthly representation of our spiritual home. This could be tithing or donation. Maybe it’s volunteering to help expand the ministry. Maybe it’s just ready His Word. All of these are as valuable to your spiritual home as cleaning and upgrading your earthly dwelling.

I am blessed that in a few minutes I will curl up in my bed and sleep. At the same time, I am blessed that I will do my nightly prayers and give thanks.

Charge

How much time and effort do you give to improving your earthly home? Have you thought about spending a bit of time on your spiritual well-being? Don’t worry, there are many out there who will help. Say a prayer or two, and God will lead you where you need to be.

August 10 – Do You Believe in Magic?

222 – Do You Believe in Magic?

#faitbites #faithjourney magic

Webster’s has two definitions of magic. The first is the one we are most familiar with the use of means (such as charms or spells) believed to have supernatural power over natural forces. This is where we get our wizards, warlocks, witches, magic, and all kinds of questing games. I will get back to the second one in a minute.

My eldest and I had lots of fun playing Magiquest. Basically, it’s a live-action questing game where you hunt objects down, point your wands at different things and solve quests. It’s a lot of fun and great exercise as you are going up and down stairs, cargo nets, and more. (Yes, my knee is yelling at me know). My daughter was so into it. When we were struggling she said her wand was weak and needed more power to defeat the evil creatures. We were two wizards on a quest. What really surprised me was when fellow Wizards, (other players), needed help. She would go off and help them find what they were looking for. Then she would come back to me and said I needed to help another wizard. While she wanted to level up and solve the quests, she would easily stop to help others. I was so very proud of her. 

As you know faithbites always has a spiritual twist, and this one is no different. This also comes to the point of the second definition of magic: an extraordinary power or influence seemingly from a supernatural source. If this doesn’t describe God, i don’t know what does. Supernatural doesn’t mean bad, it, just means beyond what humans can do. It also reminded me of a line in a Sarah Silverman special. (Yes, she can be very offensive. She is also a Jewish Comedian). In this skit, she was dating a Catholic guy and talked about having a baby. Then she said: The only time it’s an issue, I suppose, would be like if you’re having a baby and you’ve got to figure out how you want to raise it. Which still wouldn’t be an issue for us, because we’d be … honest, and just say, you know, like, “Mommy is one of the chosen people … and daddy believes that Jesus is magic!”

Now at first, I thought that is totally offensive. But after today and seeing Jesus through my daughter and what magic means, sure….Jesus is Magic. (Keep in mind, the second definition of magic, not the first or the demonic source some people think of).

Scripture on Magic or Miracles

(There is a great website that lists all 37 miracles: https://www.thoughtco.com/miracles-of-jesus-700158)

• Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.” – Mark 10:27
• I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me? – Jeremiah 32:27

Reflection

Ok, so our current definitions of miracles and magic aren’t one in the same. The second definition of magic is closer. The point is two-fold. First is to have the belief of a child. My children believe in Wizards, fairies, goblins, and magic. They also believe in the Lord. They know that while the dragons and goblins can’t hurt or help them, the Lord is there with his miracles. If the Lord created everything, do you think he would forsake you or not be able to help? Of course not. 

I know that solving quests and defeating monsters with an infrared wand won’t change the world, but believe in our Lord will.

Charge

Do you believe that the Lord is the Lord of all creation? Do you believe that he has and continues to create miracles in the world? If so, use your power of prayer to ask of him and listen to him. You won’t believe what happens. 

Lord, help me to continue to believe in your and seek your love. Let the Holy Spirit flow through me.

August 9 – Fake It, Till You Make It

221 – Fake It, Till You Make It

#faithbites #faithjourney fake

Today was water park and hotel day on vacation. A time for playing with the kids, interacting with people, and having a great time. Inside though, I didn’t feel happy. I felt a bit depressed, anxious, and nauseous. (Let’s just say getting old and having motion sickness on water slides suck). At the same time, I was feeling down, I also know that my attitude can impact those around you. If I was down and grumpy, that would be contagious. Likewise, being happy and enthusiastic could help others too.

So I faked it, till I made it. I felt better in the afternoon and enjoyed the day. I’m not saying that you should bury your feelings. If you are sick, you sick and need help. Sometimes though, a bit of faking it, will help you and others to have a great day. Those great days, may turn into a great life. I liken this to worship as I don’t know what I’m doing. Each day, I am learning, acting, and believing. Hoping that one day I make it. I know Christ knows I believe, and that is good enough because I am becoming a strong Christian and a better person through it.

Scripture on Faking It Till You Make It

• Overhearing what they said, Jesus told him, “Don’t be afraid; just believe.” – Mark 5:36
• I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world. – John 16:33

Reflection

A good friend of mine introduced me to Merton’s Prayer

My Lord God,
I have no idea where I am going.
I do not see the road ahead of me.
I cannot know for certain where it will end.
nor do I really know myself,
and the fact that I think I am following your will
does not mean that I am actually doing so.
But I believe that the desire to please you
does in fact please you.
And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing.
I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire.

And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road,

though I may know nothing about it.
Therefore will I trust you always though
I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death.
I will not fear, for you are ever with me,
and you will never leave me to face my perils alone.

Charge

We can’t all fake it till we make it. In the Lord, we have already made it, we just have to believe. On those days, when you aren’t quite yourself, saw a prayer for strength so you can show your true self to those around you. 

Lord, help me to find the strength overcome my mental and physical weaknesses to share your love with others. 

August 8 – Daddy, Let Me Help You

220 – Daddy Let Me Help You

#faithbites #faithjourney daddy

Yesterday, we talked about children going from needing help (Daddy don’t let go) to thinking they can do everything on their own (Daddy, let go). Many times, they still need their parents more than they think. We also discussed how when we tell God to let go, it’s usually the times we need him the most. Today continues that theme.

Some know that I suffer from anxiety. When I am not in control of a situation, I can get a little upset, a little shaken, and a bit unpleasant. (While medication does help, there are some breakthroughs that I am not proud of). Yesterday, while trying to bring our luggage into the hotel, everything fell off the cart. Not once, not twice, but three times. Let’s just say, I was a little hot under the collar. Not mad at anyone but myself. My oldest said something along the lines of “Daddy, it’s ok. Let me give you a back massage”. This was her sensing I was upset and needed help.

I was so proud that we have raised a kind, caring and compassionate child, but at the same time upset with myself for showing those emotions and seeing my child trying to help me. Yes, that is part of them growing up. We can’t do everything and our children could help. I just wish it wasn’t in that type of situation.

Scripture about Daddy and Help

Through the praise of children and infants
you have established a stronghold against your enemies,
to silence the foe and the avenger. – Psalm 8:2

Start children off on the way they should go,
and even when they are old they will not turn from it. – Proverbs 22:6

Reflection

Children are the legacy we leave behind. Jesus talks about letting the little ones come (Mark 10:13-16). The Bible is full of references to us being God’s children. I am proud that we are starting our children off on the way they should go. They are children of the love. I know we are far from perfect, making many mistakes along the way. At the same time, I am ashamed that my child sees me like this and reacts, I am overjoyed that she responds in that way and can see real emotions. Our house is definitely full of forgiveness. If my child wants to help, I can see that she is sent by the Lord for comfort.

Charge

Do you have children who come to your aid when you need it? If not biological children, what about spiritual children? While you may be ashamed of asking for help from them, think instead that the Lord may be sending them to help you.
I am willing to see all help as the Lord answering my prayers.

August 7 – Don’t Let Go Daddy…Daddy, Let Go

219 – Don’t Let Go Daddy…Daddy, Let Go

#faithbites #faithjourney let

A waterpark is pure excitment and fun for a kid…if they can swim. When they can’t swim or are in doubt, fear sets in. Everything can be scary. From a baby pool, to the wave pool, to walking on a slippery deck.

Tonight, I spent a few minutes at a waterpark with my kids before it closed. Tomorrow and the next day will be filled with even more swimming.
My youngest was afraid of everything. She only wanted the hot tub (warming pool) and the splash area. She found a BIG slide (it was tiny but it’s big for her). She went up and was about to go and became scared. Daddy had to go down with her. Then she wanted to go down again. I told her she could go down by herself but I would hold her hand but I couldn’t let go. She went again and again then said Daddy, let go. I did. By the end of the time, she was going down all by herself. She was proud of herself. Even I “let go” I was there to help if she needed it.

Life is like that. We think we can do anything we want without help. Then we pray for help. God holds our hand as we go through things. Daddy, don’t let go. Then as we get more conifdent we think we can do it with him. We tell him “Daddy, let go”. While we may not be saying this in words, we say it in actions by not conitnuing our worship and prayer. WHen we think we can do everything without a hand to help us. Just like me with my kids, even when they let go, he is still there to lend a hand.

Scripture on Letting Go

“Cursed is the one who trusts in man,
who draws strength from mere flesh
and whose heart turns away from the Lord.
That person will be like a bush in the wastelands;
they will not see prosperity when it comes.
They will dwell in the parched places of the desert,
in a salt land where no one lives.

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord,
whose confidence is in him.
They will be like a tree planted by the water
that sends out its roots by the stream.
It does not fear when heat comes;
its leaves are always green.
It has no worries in a year of drought
and never fails to bear fruit.”

The heart is deceitful above all things
and beyond cure.
Who can understand it? – Jeremiah 17:5-9

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. – Deuteronomy 31:6

Reflection

We can try to do things ourself and while we may find some earthly success but heavenly failure. The lord tell us he will be with us, he will protect us and provide for us. In Jereimah we see we will be a like a tree planted by water, feed, nourished and grow. If not, we will be a bush in the wasteland. I don’t like the sound of that. I know I think I can do all things because God helps me. But I should say, because God strengthens me and it is in his plan, I can do all things. Slight variation in words, but this arrangement shows I am holding his hand and never letting go. It is comforting to know that if I do let go, he will still watch over me and be there to take my hand when I am scared.

Charge

Have you let God go? Are you doing as many things as you can and having challenges? Turn to God. Grab his hand, and see where he leads you.

August 6 – Amazing Nature, Amazing Love

218 – Amazing Nature, Amazing Love

#faithbites #faithjourney Amazing

I’ve written many times both about being alone and about God’s love. Today showcased both. So amazing.

Today, I had the privilege if driving a jet ski across a nearly empy lake. Going nearly 40 miles an hour, across a quite lake, with a light breeze, I at first felt alone. Then I felt the amazing power of God. From the birds, to the water, to the wind, to the lake, I felt his presence all around me. I was alone but surrounded by his love. This was amazing.

Later in the evening, I went to the store ona n ATV with my oldest behind me. She was smiling, happy, and enjoying our time together. She said she loved Daddy / Daughter time. Then we saw a deer, standing in the driveway looking at us. Followed by a family of deer and the sunset. I felt her arms squeeze me tight and take in all of a God’s nature. Amazing.

Being so small in nature but so apart of everything.

Scripture on Being Part of Nature

“But ask the animals, and they will teach you,
or the birds in the sky, and they will tell you;
or speak to the earth, and it will teach you,
or let the fish in the sea inform you.
Which of all these does not know
that the hand of the Lord has done this?
In his hand is the life of every creature
and the breath of all mankind – Job 12:7-10

Reflection

We are part of his creation. No matter how isolated we feel or how large we feel, we are one piece of God’s world, his love.
Today, I felt my daughter’s love ajd through her the Lord. I felt part of the world as I was riding across the water and the land. He was with me.

No matter if you are in the woods, on the lake, in the mountains, in the desert, or in the city, the Lord is here. You are here on purpose, for a purpose. So amazing.

Charge

Open your eyes. Look around the world you live in. Can you feel God’s presence? Are you able to appreciate the world and how you are part of it? Take this time to share your feelings with others. Your experience in being part of God’s world is more powerful than you know.

I am willing to share my experience being part of his amazing world.

August 5 – When times are tough, do reach out or pull back?

216 – When times are tough, do reach out or pull back?

#faithbites #faithjourney reach

A million things to do, and not enough time to do it. We run around trying to accomplish all of the tasks we have and strike a balance between these tasks and family and friend time. When you get super busy, do you reach out or pull back?

From my experience, many, including myself, struggle with this question. Many first cut external activities to focus on the family and their tasks. I am no different. Extra curricular activities go to focus on the internal tasks and family priorities. Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t necessarily a bad thing. We have to make choices and can’t be everything to everyone at all times.

How do we prioritize what stays and what goes? This is a very personal choice one in which I don’t judge.

Scripture on Reaching Out

One who has isolated himself seeks his own desires; he rejects all sound judgment. – Proverbs 18:1

A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.- Ecclesiastes 4:12

Reflection
There are countless scriptures about living together, being in a community, and relying on each other in hard times. Pulling back doesn’t necessarily mean isolation either.

While focusing on our core priorities is essential to balance, I must be careful on what I classify as core.
For some, it’s pulling in. For others, it’s reaching out. I, through the Lord, gain strength and happiness when interacting with more people. It gives me purpose when I help and learn from others.

At the same time, I recognize the need for me time and family time. This is definitely a tough road to travel. Furthermore, I remember that these choices don’t have to be permanent. Through time and prayer, situations change, which allow us to reevaluate our reaching out or pulling back in. This allows us both the internal focus to achieve goals and time to reconnect more deeply when times change.

Charge

Do you have too much on your plate? How do you decide what goes and what stays? Think about the advantages and disadvantages of being connected with others and drawing closer to yourself and family

Lord, help me know when to reach out to be a bigger part of your family and when I need to focus more on my family.

August 4 – Gut Reactions or Thoughtful Response

216 – Gut Reaction Vs. Thoughtful Response

#faithbites #faithjourney reactions

When we look back at our lives, most of us can say we have made gut reactions versus thoughtful responses. Thise times when we were sleep deprived, hangry, emotional, or otherwise not thinking clearly. These reactions may have damaged our relationships, lost us opportunities, or just given others a negative impression of who we are.

Today, we we’re in the car for a very very long time. My youngest was sleeping in the back seat. I reached back, opened her bag, and grabbed a blanket to cover her. She awoke from the dead sleep, screamed at me for opening her bag, starting fligging stuff across the car, and fell back asleep. I have never seem her act like that. That was not her true self. It was caused by lack of sleep, not feeling well, and being in a strange place. Though she lashed out at me, I wasn’t her target. It was a gut reaction and not a thoughtful response.

What do you do when you. You have a gut reaction rather than a thoughtful response?

Scripture about Gut Reactions and Responses

A gentle answer turns away wrath,
but a harsh word stirs up anger. – Proverbs 15:1

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. – Colossians 3:12

Reflection

We have all had gut reactions that we regret. Everyone has been the recipient of someone else’s lash out in anger moment. We can see by the Proverbs verse that being gentle turns away anger. When a gut reaction cones at us, we need to respond not in anger but in love.

In the case above, I responded mostly gently but with a bit of anger. I pulled the car over, talked to her, and threatened her that if she kept going we wouldn’t go on vacation. Not the best response but better than screaming and yelling which was my gut reaction. I am still working on my thoughtful responses.

As God’s chosen people, we need to respond (not react) in kindness and love. Thst is our calling. When we show this response, this temper future gut reactions of our friends and neighbors. Anger begets anger, but love begets love. As they say, kill ’em with kindness.

Charge

What are your normal gut reactions? Make a list of how you react in situations. Think about them, pray on them, and try to create thoughtful responses for the future.

I will work on being more thoughtful than reactive with the help of God.

August 3 – You Really Matter

215 – You Really Matter

#faithbites #faithjourney matter

Today was a mixed bag of a day for me. My knee was driving me crazy, I ticked off someone by trying to help, and another person gave me feedback on someone else questioning what I was doing. That on top if not sleeping well, getting ready for vacation, and having a crazy work week.

I was feeling pretty down. Then the same person, who gave me feedback, told me how much I matter. She said that I truly make a difference with our students, she loves working with me, and I have a great calming presence. In short, I matter.

Ok, you may say that’s one person’s opinion. To me, that is a person I respect, so I will take that as great feedback.

We all have good and bad days. There are times when we don’t feel like we matter. The fact is, you do. The world would not be the same without you.

Scripture about Mattering

The Lord thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save,  he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing – Zehaniah 3:17

For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the Lord will take me in. – Psalm 27:10

Reflection

Ok, this isn’t a pity party, just a down day. But as always, scripture helps. In Zehaniah, we see the Lord rejoicing over YOU. We loves you just the way you are. In Psalms, even if you are rejected by the world, the Lord will take you in.

We are an important part of his family. Even when we mess up it feel unimportant, we are. Something to think about, even if you don’t believe in God, there are others around who love you, respect you, and want you around.

Charge

When you feel down, look to the Lord for comfort. He will guide you, comfort you, and protect you.

I will continue to look to the Lord for comfort and listen to those around me who respect and appreciate me.

P.S My oldest picked out today’s pictures and wanted me to share that with you.

August 2 – I Can’t Live With The Pain. It Hurts

214 – I Can’t Live With The Pain. It Hurts

#faithbites #faithjourney hurts.

Getting older stinks some times. I love that I am older as my mind is sharper, I’m more secure, and I have more experience to draw upon. The downside is that it feels like my body is falling apart. The tiredness, the creaks, cracks, and pops. While some of this can be improved with diet and excersie, some of it is part of getting older.

The other day, I was thinking about my bum knee. It has been getting worse day after day, limiting what I can do. Right before I went to the doctor yesterday, I though “I Can’t Live Like This” and “I’d rather not live if this is the pain I’m going to be in”.

Those thoughts lasted for a second or two when I really thought about it. I love life. The ups, the downs, the pains, the aches, and the loves are all part of it. I don’t want to die but live. I was ashamed of myself for even thinking I’d rather die than live like this. There are many people who have pain so severe that death seems like an option for them. This post isn’t about those folks, but rather what we think we can live with and not live with.

Yes, my knee sucks, but man do I have so much to give thanks to the Lord.

Scripture on Living When it Hurts

• For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. – Romans 8:18
• More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, – Romans 5:3-4

Reflection

I am sitting here typing this with pain shooting through my knees. The doctors have suggestions but no guaranteed solutions. The only guarantee is this pain will get worse until an eventual knee replacement. The Lord tells us that we will have Glory and all of these sufferings will pale in comparison. There is the old saying “that which does not kill us, makes us stronger”. In many ways that is a derivative of the Romans 5:3-4 verse. I look at my pain and suffering to see how I can use it to help others. One way is changing my daily routine a bit with diet and exercise so I live longer. The other is through sharing my story in #faithbites and other conversations. This helps others who are suffering to know they are not alone and that while we all have hurts and pains when working in a community, we can survive and thrive.

Charge

What is your pain and hurt? Is there something that makes you consider that you can’t go on like this? Are you willing to share this with others and God? The act of sharing, while it may not bring physical relief, it can bring some emotional comfort.

I am willing to share my physical, spiritual, and mental hurt with others with God’s help.

August 1 – The Earworms are in my head!!!

213 – The Earworms are in my head!!!

#faithbites #faithjourney earworms

Have you heard of the term earworm? It originally was defined as a worm that that was on corn. Lately, it has been redefined as “a catchy song or tune that runs continually through a person’s mind”. We have all had earworms. That song that won’t get out of your head and you have no understanding of why it is there. Most of the time it’s a bad song that you want out. Maybe it didn’t start as a bad song but after it goes through your head a million times, you just want it to stop. You want to clean it with something else.

Last week we had Vacation Bible School at our church. As always, the songs are catchy for the kids and have a deeper meaning. During the end of last week and the first part of this week, I woke up with the song “My Lighthouse” stuck in my head. Then today, I woke up with “Holy Spirit” by  Jesus Culture. Now, as spiritual as I try to be, I don’t regularly listen to Christian music stations. I like some of the songs and love to sing in church. Waking up with these earworms for the past week has been strange for me. I wonder if this is an example of the Holy Spirit (yes I get the irony here) trying to work through me. Is the Lord wanting me to use these songs to clear my mind and focus on him?

Do you get songs or scripture stuck in your head?

Scripture on Earworms and Clearing Your Mind

• But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry. – 2 Timothy 4:%
• Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.- Colossians 3:2

Reflection

I can be thankful that my earworm isn’t something like “The Lion Sleeps Tonight”. Now try to get that out of your head. While I have been under a lot of stress and pressure, this choice of earworm is interesting to me. There are so many things going on in life that draw our focus away from God, away from the community, and away from his word. Waking up with these songs may be his way of helping to clear the clutter and get back to basics.

Today I will try to focus on breathing and clearing my mind for the Lord. His message, which I am sharing with you, maybe to spend just a bit more time on his word and heavenly things rather than on the world and earthly things.

Charge

Think about the last time you had a song, quote, or scripture in your head. Can you share it with others? What does that say about you? Are you willing to take a few extra minutes to worship God and see what his plans for you are?

I am willing with the help of God. (And we’ll see if I have another earworm in my head when I wake up tomorrow)

July 31 – Say My Name, Say My Name

July 31 – Say My Name, Say My Name

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Names

I know, you read the title and are probably singing the Destiny’s Child song. As I was typing it, I was singing too. In my job and activities, I meet a lot of people and remembering names has always been hard for me. I do my best, but I can’t remember that well. An old friend of mine called me on it. Then we started making jokes about it.

Hey You, Guy, Buddy, Chief, Pal, Dude, Friend, etc etc. All of those are ways to fake that you know someone’s name. You talk to them and then it’s forgotten. Not knowing someone’s name is so embarrassing. There is a power in someone’s name. Their parents usually chose it for a reason and you start to become your name. Many people may not now that my middle name is David. When I was little, I got teased for having a name like Sol. I was asked to go by David. But it never seemed right. Then as I’ve aged, I have grown into and love my name: Sol. (Except when I was a child and Solomon David Lieb came out, then I was in big trouble).

I do have to tell a short story about weird names. We’ve all heard them. There was a girl in New Zealand who went to a judge to have her legal name changed to K. Why you may ask? Her birth name was: Talula Does the Hula From Hawaii. I wish I could make this stuff up. Why? Just Why?

Some people only ever tell their true name to those who they are close with. Have you ever given a name to someone that isn’t your true name?

Scripture about Names

• A good name is more desirable than great riches;
      to be esteemed is better than silver or gold – Proverbs 22:1
• No longer will you be called Abram^[a]; your name will be Abraham, for I have made you a father of many nations. – Genesis 17:5
• Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.” – Genesis 32:28

Reflection

OK, so maybe Talula’s parent’s didn’t think hard about her name. But it does show that a good name is more desirable than great riches 🙂 Scripture is filled with people and places changing names. Either God does it as in Abram and Jacob, or it is changed along the way Saul to Paul, but it symbolized a change in purpose. God has given his son’s and daughters names that represent their destiny. Even in Isaiah (9:6) we hear names for what Jesus will be called when he arrives.

So what does this all mean? To me, it breaks down into two main parts. The first is our identity here on earth and second is our identity in the next life.

Our name is powerful. I love my name now. It is unique and I have grown into it. If I feel this way about my name, then I should respect other’s names. This is especially true when they have names that are hard for English speakers to pronounce. I have tried to have them pronounce it and correct me if I’m wrong. Nothing worse than constantly saying someone’s name wrong.

Second, I know the name of the Lord. I know that he is the prince of peace, counselor, confident, and a hundred other names. I know that he calls me son and watches over me. Knowing his name and the power it brings protects and comforts me.  What does his name do for you?

Charge

If a name is powerful, what are you going to do to use that power? Will you take the time to learn how to pronounce someone else’s name? Will you help someone pronounce yours? Maybe you will learn the power that comes in the Lord’s name? I hope you do.

I am willing to learn the power in someone’s name and help them realize it with the help of God.

July 30 – The Truth, The Whole Truth, and Nothing But the Half-Truth

211 – The Truth, The Whole Truth, And Nothing But The Half-Truth

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Half-truths

In many aspects of life, I’m pretty any going. I accept so much from pejole as I believe that is how God made them. The one thing,I hate is lies or half-truths. Outright lies have a way of being found out more easily than half truths. For instance, in one 244 character tweet, the President allegedly had 7 half-truths. (Thst was just one example of many who do it). How many times in a day do you tell a half-truths? You may not even think k you are when you are.

For instance, if you are having a bad day, and someone asks you how you are,do you tell them or say you are fine,good,or ok?that’s a half-truth.

I do this all the time and am working on it. I don’t lie as I’ve been told that is wrong, but half-truths seem to be easier.

I spend many hours on both work and life correcting half-truths. Some are well intended and others are just outright malicious or wrong. So much trust and productivity wasted

Scripture on Half-Truths

• Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth- John 17:17
• The words of the Lord are pure words, like silver refined in a furnace on the ground, purified seven times. – Psalm 12:6

Reflection

Lies and half-truths have been with us since the beginning. Even in Genesis 3:1, the Serpent is trying to be crafty with his words to Eve. This is not a new phenomenon but something we deal with daily.

The point if this rambling, is that the Word is truth. The Lord wants us to love him and People. There are not lies or half-truths in the Bible. There have been translation issues but the overall consistency of the Bible show me that the Lord is the Truth and the Light.

It’s a challenge to not tell half-truths. We may do it to make ourselves or others feel better. We may do it when we aren’t even trying. There is an old saying that a closed.mouth catches no flies. You can’t lie if you are quite. Yes, easier said than done.

I don’t know how to be pure in voice by myself. I praythat my words are acceptable to the Lord and he helps me speak pure and true.

Charge

Think about your conversations today. Have you told any half-truths? If so, can you take action to rectify?

My prayer is that you think about your speech and pray for open and honest conversation.

July 29 – Men Looking Like Trees

210 – Men Looking Like Trees

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Trees

I often wonder,if I were to lose one of my five senses, which one would I like to lose the least. That’s an easy one: my sight.
I could do without the other four, if I had too, but not being able to see, I think would kill me

I’ve been thinking about this more and more lately as my eyes are changing. When I look at my phone ornakemthung up close, inhave to take my glasses off to see clearly. Yup, part of getting old. Maybe I need better glasses or eye surgery to see more clearly.

I realize that my #faithjourney is like that. I see and have accepted Jesus, but some days I don’t think I see clearly enough. The big picture can get lost in the day to day.

Scripture on Seeing

The man looked around. “Yes,” he said, “I see people, but I can’t see them very clearly. They look like trees walking around. – Mark 8-24

We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us – 1 Corinthians 13:12

Relfection

We need God to see clearly. Faith and true belief help in seeing. God has vision for us and a vision for us. We need to trust in him and he will help us see better.

This isn’t easy. Trust in someone other than us is difficult. We want to see life clearly without help. The hardest part is the wait. As the scripture says, the weather will clear and we will see clearly, for the first time.

Remember, you don’t have to do it alone.

Charge

How well are you seeing these days? Write down one problem in your vision and pray about it. The Lord will help clear the fog.

Lord, I pray for you to clear my vision about where I should put my energy in for work. Help me to see clearly the path for my future.

July 28 – Bragging on God

209 – Bragging For God

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Bragging

Today was a lazy Saturday morning. My youngest and I went to get bagels at Panera for the family. While there, a man was putting away all of the bagels and pasteries he made during the night. With just a smile, he gave my daughter a cookie shaped like a flip flop. She said thank you and that was that.

We left Panera and was going to get back in the car and saw the man. He was was still smiling and said he shift was over for the day. He said who did do you think made all that food. I said you mean the good food. He joked, saying he didn’t know if it was good. The. He talked about how he was off to Champaign to work all day. I mentioned that was a lot of work and when did he get a nap. Continuing, he said it’s a lot of work but he is blessed. He can go wherever he wants at any time without thinking about it. He said “I’m not bragging about me, I’m bragging about God”.

What an amazing man. He recognized that it wasn’t about him, but that all of this was God’s.

Scripture about Bragging for God

• so that, just as it is written, “LET HIM WHO BOASTS, BOAST IN THE LORD.” – 1 Corinthians 1:31
• My soul will make its boast in the LORD; The humble will hear it and rejoice. – Psalm 34:2

Reflection

Most of us in life try not to brag. It’s uncueth and can hurt others feelings. But to brag in the Lord, what an awesome activity. The thing is, the Lord’s gifts aren’t just limited to one person. Everyone has the opportunity to be blessed and share in his riches.

That kind man bragged about God and made our day. I hope that he continues to be blessed and you are blessed by his story.

Charge

First, think about your day. Find that God moment where you feel truly blessed. Share it widly, reminding others that it is a small example of God’s love and power.

I will continue to share God’s awesome love.

July 27 – I Can Do It Myself

208 – I Can Do It Myself

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Myself

At Vacation Bible School the past week, I had the privilege of working with 20+ 4-year-olds. Yes, you read that right, over 20 4-year-olds. As the only male leader in our group, I had the ‘fun’ of constantly taking the little boys to the bathroom. Let me tell you, they have all kinds of stories about pee. What I specifically noticed was when they were washing their hands and reaching for the paper towel. It was one of those big black containers that had the lever you pulled for the towel to come out. Some of the kids were tall enough to reach, others jumped for it, still, others brought the step stools over, while others asked for help. They all wanted to “do it themselves” because that was being a big boy. I helped some, I let others try and then ask for help. To me, this was exactly what life is. We want to do it all ourselves, but sometimes, actually most of the time, we need help.

Scripture on Help

• I can do all things through him who strengthens me. – Philippians 4:13
• For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Fear not, I am the one who helps you.” – Isaiah 41:33

Reflection

Those little boys, trying to prove they are young men by getting the towels themselves, took more time to clean up. They tried to one-up each other to prove they were bigger, stronger, and more able than others. In life, we do that all the time. I tend to take on something that maybe I shouldn’t. We try to do everything “all by myself”. Many are leary to ask for help even if the task is outside our lane. Does this sound like you?

The truth is, God is there to strengthen us. He will help us in everything we do. When the boys asked for help, they knew I was there for them. I even had one little boy come up to me at the end of VBS and kiss me on the cheek and thank me. Another one came back and said Mr. Sol thank you for everything. This is what help and friendship looks like. You don’t have to be afraid to ask for it. The Lord freely gives it.

Charge

Is there something that is challenging you? Do you need help? Don’t hesitate to ask for help. The Lord has put people in place to help you through all challenges.

I am willing to ask for the Lord for help.

July 26 – Are You a Fragile Diamond?

207 – Are You a Fragile Diamond?

#FaithBites #FaithJournal Diamond

You probably read the title of this #FaithBite and thought that was an oxymoron. Isn’t a Diamond the strongest material on Earth? If so, how can it be fragile? Before we get there, let’s talk about why this is the topic for today.

I know some very strong people. They are emotionally strong, willing to do anything for everyone, and put their heart and soul into every task. These people are always there, they use their passion to full in gaps, bend over backwards, and never seem to say know. They are considered to be a rock. Kinda like a diamond: precious, strong, eternal. I consider myself to be one of these people.

But what about fragile? Many of these people live by their hearts. While they are strong they can be shattered by a wrong comment or lack of appreciation. They feel that  that slight is not about their actions but to their very soul and who they are.

I have been shattered into a million pieces many times over. It can be by a slight or lack of appreciation. You may not realize that a diamond,one of the strongest materials on Earth, can be shattered into a million pieces by one perfectly applied crack. A diamonds structure makes it extremely fragile to this type of crack.

There you have it a Fragile Diamond

Scripture on Strength and Fragility

• Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. – Isaiah 41:10
• For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong. – 2 Corinthians 12:10
• Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. – Romans 12:10

Reflection

You may not know who the fragile diamonds are. I can tell you that they are everywhere. This #FaithBite is as much for everyone as it is for the Fragile Diamonds.

The word tells us that while we are weak he is strong. We, through Christ will be delivered. Some tell us to suck it up or grow a pair or get a thicker skin but we aren’t to conform to this world. Through Christ, we will be renewed. Having this emense passion and strength are gifts from God that we need to use to change the world. While we are shattered from time to time, our pieces will be of the utmost value. Like a large diamond that could be worthless, it gains its value through skillful slicing

For the world. We will go to the ends of the Earth to help you. We will bend over backwards and do everything that needs to be done. All we ask is for respect and appreciation. Treat us, well everyone for that matter, kindly. Involve us, appreciate us, and we will be your best resource in this world. We do this through the Power of Christ.

Charge

If you are a Fragile Diamond. Thank the Lord for your strength and your gifts. Ask him for continued strength when you are slighted and cracked. Find ways to use your gifts to help others while knowing you may be hurt.

If you aren’t a fragile Diamond, try to recognize the fragile diamonds out there. Reach out to them. Find ways to appreciate and comfort them.

We need both types to make the world go around.

I am willing to ask God for help in working with others and in knowing my strengths and limitations.

July 25 – Faith, Trust, and a little Pixie Dust

206 – Faith, Trust, and a Little Pixie Dust

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Trust

Yesterday’s #FaithBite was that God has a place prepared for you in Heaven. In that #FaithBite, we discussed various scriptures that tell us there are many rooms waiting for us after we pass from this Earth. One friend commented that not everyone has a place prepared for them and that it takes faith and hope.

First of all I both agree agree and disagree. There is no limit to the number of people who can go to heaven. God is the God of all even if you don’t believe in him. I agree that it does take faith in God and Jesus for that to happen.

Second, faith to me is the belief in something you can’t see and can’t touch but you know it is there. Like love, faith is always there we just need to have it. It involves trust and allowing yourself to believe in something greater than you.

Third, trust to me, is believing that what someone says is true, is true. It’s believing in the Word of God and that he is there for all of his children. It doesn’t matter where they are from or who they are, God is there for you and has prepared a place for you.

Fourth, pixie dust is that magical stuff the fairies put on you to fly. While you don’t need Pixie dust to believe, it is hard at times. I have doubts and wonder if I’m doing this right. This is hard, especially with depression and anxiety.  When this happens, I pray and know that Jesus has me covered (not in pixie dust but in faith).

Scripture on Trust

• Look to the Lord and his strength;
      seek his face always. – 1 Chronicle 16:11
• Do you not know?
      Have you not heard?
  The Lord is the everlasting God,
      the Creator of the ends of the earth.
  He will not grow tired or weary,
      and his understanding no one can fathom.
  He gives strength to the weary
      and increases the power of the weak.
  Even youths grow tired and weary,
      and young men stumble and fall;
  but those who hope in the Lord
      will renew their strength.
  They will soar on wings like eagles;
      they will run and not grow weary,
      they will walk and not be faint. – Isaiah 40:28-31

Reflection

I don’t know, what I don’t know. This means I can’t prove there is a God as described in scripture. I can show his creations and how there is no scientific fact that can prove everything without the presence of an almighty being. There are historical records of the time of Jesus and many things in scripture match up. But trying to describe Jesus and God in human terms is like a three-year-old trying to describe Molecular Quantum Mechanics. It can’t happen. I believe because I believe.

I have lived life without belief and don’t want to live that way. There are many of my dearest friends who don’t believe in what I do, some don’t believe in God at all. This is their choice. For me, belief helps me stay grounded and strong through Christ, knowing I am not alone ever. Having faith is difficult when you don’t believe. For me, God provides faith, trust, and a just a bit of pixie dust 🙂

Charge

First, think about what you believe. Do you have faith in that belief?  If so, when you are weary can you call upon that belief to give you strength? I find my belief in Christ and he can do all those things. Today’s charge is to really think about your beliefs and find strength in those to comfort you.

I will restate my beliefs and use them to find strength in the Lord with the help of God.

July 24 – Moving to a New Place

July 24 – Moving To A New Place

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Moving

Let’s move to the San Francisco Bay Area. Ok, well, we’re not moving but many said we should after the wedding last weekend. Not only that, but I had a dream about moving. The idea of moving to a new place is both exciting and terrifying.

Meeting new people. Being surrounded by friends and family you haven’t seen in a long time. New adventures and new possibilities around every corner. At the same time, there is the loss of familiarity, missing friends and family, losing connections with your spiritual family and work.  So many feelings about moving.

But would you feel better if you knew a place was already prepared for you?

Scripture on Moving

• And he said, “Come in, blessed of the LORD! Why do you stand outside since I have prepared the house, and a place for the camels?” – Genesis 24:31
• Behold, I am going to send an angel before you to guard you along the way and to bring you into the place which I have prepared. – Exodus 23:30
• “In My Father’s house are many dwelling places; if it were not so, I would have told you; for I go to prepare a place for you. – John 14:2

Reflection

All of the verses above and many more, speak of a place being prepared for us. We don’t need to fear as that place is ready. What is even more interesting is when we think of heaven, we think of seeing those who have gone in before us. It’s just like moving, we see those family and friends in that new place who may have gone before us. But this place, isn’t one to fear but one that is beautiful, wonderous, and made for us.

So often, we say we aren’t worthy of being saved. We have fears about every day Life from moving to work to just about everything. But what if we didn’t have to worry? We have seen here that at least our next place is ready for us. No moving plans, no leaving friends and family, but seeing our Lord and our friends and family. This is a place I excited to move to when the time is right.

Charge

Think about where you live and where you would move to? Is it a place that is prepared for you? Can you take a few minutes to thank God for the place he has prepared for you?

I am willing to thank him daily with his help.

July 23 – Left Behind But Never Alone

205 – Left Behind But Never Alone

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Left

For most people, being left behind is a primal fear. You were forgotten, you are alone, you are vulnerable, and afraid. You don’t know if someone will come for you, help or hurt you or what to do next.

Tonight, I was helping with vacation Bible School. I was helping the young boys use the wash room, when one of the teenagers helping came and got me because they had a ‘lost’ child. A young boy in the girls washroom trying to do his business. He was crying unknown, and upset. I talked him through it. We found out his name. He said he wanted his mommy. I told him he was safe, he was loved, and we would get him to his class.we was sniffling, but he held my hand and we walked to find his class. As soon as he saw them, he was happy, relieved and went to play.

We all know he was never in danger and  nothing would happen to him. But to a young child, feeling alone, the fear sets in, and everything can be your doom.

Life is like that as an adult. We feel alone at times. There is no one out there, no one to tell us everything will be ok. No one to hold your hand and lead you on your path.

The key is, we are never alone. We have our God watching us all our days off our lives.

Scripture about Being Left Alone

• and call on me in the day of trouble;
  I will deliver you, and you will honor me.” – Psalm 50:14
• Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you – Duetoronomy 3:16

Reflection

The Lord our God is always there for us. We should be strong and courageous. Even when we are not, he is will is. He will never foresake us or leave us. At the same time, he is waiting for us to call out. To pray, ask, and consult him for help.
Like that boy who was crying,we cryout. Also like that boy, there were people outside listening and getting help for him. While I was that hand for him, God is that hand for us.

We just.jeed to remember we are never alone.

Charge

When you feel sad, alone, or forgotten, know you are not alone.

When you feel left behind, know you are always included in God’s family. Take five minutes to call out to him, and he will help you.

I will continue to call out with the help for God.

July 22 – Marriage is What Brings Us Together Today

204 – Marriage is What Brings Us Together Today

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Marriage

Before we get started, I wanted to dedicate this #FaithBite to my brother Adam and my new Sister-In-Law Bianka. Thank you for the honor of being at your wedding and seeing you start the next chapter of your life.  You two are amazing. I love you, respect you, and am here to be your helper in life. And now onto FaithBites.

Today I saw two souls becoming one. They exchanged vows, exchanged laughs, exchanged promises, and begin the next chapter of their lives together. What struck me as amazing, is not only the love these two shared but rather how many other lives were touched by their marriage. Friends, family, extended family, coworkers, and more breaking bread sharing a meal and bearing witness to their love.

During a wedding, not only are the two couples becoming one, but new friendships are forged. New relationship start which may turn into the next love story. You never know the impact that two people in have on all the people around them.

Scripture on Marriage

The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the sky. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals.

But for Adam, no suitable helper was found. So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

The man said,

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh – Genesis 2:18-24

Reflection

While marriage may be what brings us together today, love is what keeps us together. One flesh from two. As we see in the scripture, God doesn’t want us to be alone. We are to have a helper in life. Someone to help us through the ups and down. Someone to provide comfort, support, love, direction, and push us when we need it. This helper was made for us by God.

I know that not everyone gets married. I look at today not only as two becoming one and finding their helper, but also the others who may have found a new helper. Maybe it was a new love or a new friend. Maybe it was reconnecting with family or friends from times long past. Remember that while the Bride and Groom are sharing their love for each other, you are showing your love for them. You are making promises to be their helper and confident in life. For we are all part of God’s family.

Charge

Enjoy a wedding. See those who are entering a lifetime of love and see what that means to you. You are now their helper and they yours. You were chosen for a reason to be part of their wedding. Are you willing to help them when times are rough to remember their vows and promises?

I am willing with the help of God.

July 21 – Generations Change but Generations Stay

202 -Generatiosn Change but Generations Stay

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Generations

Today I had the honor of being at my brother and soon to be sister-in-law’s rehearsal picnic. It was fun in the sun and a great time to see how our kids interacted with one another. Throughout the afternoon, I couldn’t help but see flashbacks to my childhood. Comments that my brothers and sister made to me back in the day, were repeated today. The same arguments, fights, love, anger, short temper, were all on display. What was striking was how similar we all are even though generations separate us. Instead of the four of us getting on each other’s nerves (which was done a bit), the younger generation was doing it.

I was able in a second to see all of my traits and the traits of my siblings acted out in front of us. It was shocking and reminiscent at the same time. One of them even said our dad is in heaven laughing at what is going on down here. I had a much better understanding of what he went through when we were younger.

While the names and the faces change, the stories do not. Sure, there are some nuances that are different, but the end all feeling and purpose doesn’t change between the generations.

Scripture on Generations

• Even when I am old and gray,
      do not forsake me, my God,
  till I declare your power to the next generation,
      your mighty acts to all who are to come. – Psalm 71:18
• Remember the days of old;
      consider the generations long past.
  Ask your father and he will tell you,
      your elders, and they will explain to you. – Deuteronomy 32:7

Reflection

Let’s face it. We will get old, die, and no longer be on this earth. In those days, we will not be able to change our story or pass that story down to future generations. We only have today to tell them where we come from, what we believe in, and who is our savior. In the Psalm’s verse, the Lord will be with me all the days of our lives until we pass it to the next generation. That passing is the knowledge of God. In Deuteronomy, we are told to look to the old generations and learn from them. Kids always think they are smarter than their forefathers. Sometimes they may be, but learning from generations long past will keep us on the straight and narrow. Imagine if we didn’t have our forefathers. We may have no knowledge of the Lord our God. That’s not a place I want to live in.

I don’t want to die any time soon. But after talking to my nieces and nephews, I know our stories will live on as they are more like us that we even think. This generation will pass along our stories to the next and will love their God.

Charge

You never know when your last day will be. You only know about today. Take today to pass along one story to a younger generation. It doesn’t have to be heady. This can be a serious or funny story. Maybe it’s about generations long past. Share that story with everyone, you will see that memory blossom.

I will continue to share my stories with the help of God.

July 20 – The Power of Reading

201 – The Power of Reading

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Read

This morning, while getting ready in the shower, I looked at the hotel shampoo and conditioner. At first I thought I would have to explain to my daughter when she got in the shower which one was the shampoo and which was the conditioner. Then I remembered she could read. She didn’t need me to tell her which was which, or give directions or anything. She had power in reading.

This got me back, as many things do, to faith and God. I imagine what I would do if I couldn’t read the word. What would happen if I needed someone to read the word to me. The power that person would have over me would be tremendous. This is the case of what happened prior to the printing press and the Reformation. People didn’t have the Word in a way they can read it.

Scripture on Readong the Word

• But he answered, “It is written, “‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” – Matthew 4:4
• With my whole heart I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments! I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you. – Psalm 119:10-11

Reflection

Imagine not hearing the words above. Not going to the source, or being able to cross reference the word across with other scripture. I love and appreciate our preachers. They help to direct our worship and increase our knowledge. But I don’t need them to read the word. They help me to understand the word and it’s relation to daily life. This post isn’t to disconnect them, but rather that God’s word is available for us to read at any time

The question is do you realize how important and valuable of a resource this is? Do you take advantage of reading his word?

Charge

The word is available free online and app form. Many churches will give you a free physical copy if you want. Today’s charge is will you take advantage of the Word being available in your language? Will you read it and share it with others?

I also willing with the help of God.

July 19 – Family is Family No Matter Distance

200 – Family is Family, No Matter the Distsnce

#Faithbites #FairhJourney Family

Down the street or two thousand miles away family is still family. No matter the distance or time between visits, true family loves unconditionally.

Todat, my eldest and I flew to San Fransisco to visit family. Some Inhad seen last week, some five years agoz, and others was 10 years. No matter how long it had been, it was like yesterday. Hugs, love, deep conversations, and connections were made.

I’m blessed with family. No matter how ”ood’ or ”bad’ your family is there is that bond we share.

Being in the family of Christ is like that. You are loved no matter where you go and are welcomed in the family

Scripture about Being in the Family

• So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone, in whom the whole structure, being joined together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord. In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit – Ephesians 2:19-22

Reflection

I’ve always said in my family we put the fun in dsyfunctional. I don’t think any family is perfect. Indo know though that no matter if you fsmoly is biological, friends, or three family of God you are loved and wanted.

It may be a day, a year or ten years since you’ve visit your spiritual fmaoly, but God loves you. You are welcome to pick up the conversation where you left off or to start a new conversation. It’s up to you.

Charge

Today’s charge is simple. Will you call your family? This can be your physical family or your spiritual family. They both want to hear from you or welcome you as a new member.

I will continue to be part of my family with the help of God.

July 18 – Jesus Saves…So Do LifeGuards

199 – Jesus Saves…So Do LifeGuards

#faithbites #faithjourney lifeguard

A whistle blows followed by a splash in the water. LifeGuards come running out of the guard house. Everyone looks around to see where the splash came from and see a lifeguard grabbing a child out of the water. This is the job of a lifeguard. To watch the people and save those who are in trouble.

While going to swim lessons tonight, my youngest said something along the lines that she has to learn to be along without mommies, daddies, sissy, or anyone. I asked what she meant and after talking, it sounded like when she grows up she needs to be self-sufficient and alone. My words, not hers.

I asked her who is there when no one else is. She wasn’t sure, then I said who is in the sky. She said Jesus and Jesus helps me. I said yes he does. He has put people in your life and you won’t be alone but if you ever feel alone, he is there.

Then she said that Jesus will stop fights at the pool. Then we talked about the role of lifeguards and how they protect those who they watch over. Just like Jesus.

That made me think that while the pool has lifeguards, we have a life guard.

Scripture about Saving

• God is to us a God of deliverances; And to GOD the Lord belong escapes from death – Psalm 68:20
• To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak; I have become all things to all men, so that I may by all means save some. – 1 Corinthians 9:22

Reflection

When I was a lifeguard, I thought I had a calling. It was my job not only to protect everyone in the water but to relate to as many as possible. I wanted to build relationships and relate to them.

This is exactly what Jesus did. He became weak to save the weak. He showed strength in deference when being ridiculed. He met everyone where they were at and he still does that. He is the God of deliverance.

My daughter knows that she is her life guard while there are lifeguards all around. From the police, firefighters, doctors, nurses, teachers, friends, family, and neighbors all of them are there to help her in this life while her life guard saves her for the next.

Charge

Can you take five minutes to write down who your lifeguards are? Can you then write down who your life guard is? Will you share that with everyone? You might be surprised in what you see by your sharing.

I am willing to acknowledge my lifeguards and my life guard with the help for God.

July 17 – The Forest Through The Trees

198 – The Forest Through the Trees

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Forest

When you wake up in the morning, do you create a to-do list? Does that list get bigger as the day goes on? Are you able to check off things or are more added to it? While you are doing all of the things you have to do in life, are you living life or just passing through?

Today was crazy busy at work. So many tasks to do. I was working through lunch, working during meetings, and then I came home late and guess what? I shoved down my food, mowed the grass, changed the sheets, did more work, and am now writing #FaithBites. I had a busy day but did I live today? I was surely alive, but did I live?

I don’t remember much of it except checking off the tasks. I forgot to see the beauty of the forest (life) while walking by each tree (tasks)

This led me to think about church, worship, and prayer. When you worship, are you checking off the box or are you truly worshiping?

Scripture on Purpose in Worship

• Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. – Galatians 6:9
• “These people come near to me with their mouth
      and honor me with their lips,
      but their hearts are far from me.
  Their worship of me
      is based on merely human rules they have been taught – Isaiah 29:13

Reflection

Life is hectic. We check of our tasks and move to the next one. We need to remember that life isn’t the tasks we do but the experiences we have with each other. Our worship should be not with our mouths, but with our heart.  When I was in college, I went to Catholic Mass a few times. During those services, I saw people crossing themselves in a haphazard manner. It seemed to be a chore that they had to do rather than showing their faith. Likewise, I have had times when I pray before a meal and see it as something I have to do.

I hope that through this faithbite, we realize that worship isn’t something we have to do, but rather, something we get to do. We get to praise our God for everything he has given to us. He listens to our prayers and answers. This isn’t a task to check off, but rather a privilege that helps feel more connected to him. That’s a pretty awesome privilege.

Charge

For one day today, see the forest and not the trees. Take dedicated time to wholeheartedly worship. Prayer, sing, dance, read, whatever it is for you, but dedicate a few minutes to the Lord.

I will take that time and show my love of the Lord.

July 16 – Filibuster of Faith

197 – Filibuster of Faith

#Faithbites #FaithJourney Filibuster

I was walking across campus today and heard preaching in front of the Alma Mater. This happens pretty regularly. A man reads out of the Bible, or just holds it for effect and preaches or is he filibustering.

Before we go in depth, let’s definitely filibuster: act in an obstructive manner in a legislature, especially by speaking at inordinate length. Ok, so this isn’t a legislature, but the effect is the same.

I have at times listened to him, heard people interact, but most days, I just walk by. Rather than preaching the Good News about salvation, resurrection, and our heavenly father, he speaks of death, destruction, and dismay. He chastises young women, men, immigrants, Muslims, pretty much everyone. He equates the sin with the sinner. It is a message not in love but in hate. He speaks of immorality and the downfall of those who do not believe.

I understand as a Christian we have obligations to love God, love people and follow his word. To me, preaching like that, or more like filibustering to fill time, pushes people away from the Lord rather than welcoming them into his family.

Scripture about Welcoming Others Into the Family

• Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.- 1 Peter 4:8-9
• Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. – Romans 15:7
• The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the Lord your God. – Leviticus 19:34

Reflection

I don’t know what the preacher on campus is trying to do. He may think his preaching will get people to come to the Lord and repent. I honestly don’t know how fire and brimstone preaching helps especially on campus. When I think more about it, the term filibuster really seems to fit. He seemed to want to preach to disrupt people traveling on the quad and to take up time.

When I think about the Lord, I think about a loving savior, rather than a vengeful God. I know the God of the old testament had times of vengeance but in the new testament, we see the peace and love of the Lord. I will use that love and peace in all my speaking about the Lord, will you?

Charge

Do you regularly share your faith with others? When you do, do you do it with the Love of Christ or fire and brimstone? Think about who you show your faith and challenge yourself to always approach others with love, peace, and understanding.

I will follow the commandments of Love God, Love People with the help of God.

July 15 – You Are Chosen Without You Doing Anything

196 – You Are Chosen Without You Doing Anything

There is the old saying that you can pick your friends (and your nose) but not your family. We are born into a family without any actions on our part. We we’re chosen by our parents when they decided to make us.

Now, some of us may have chosen to be born into a less dysfunctional family, but that’s not our choice.

Our parents had us, even knowing we weren’t perfect. They knew we would rebel, we would be difficult, and we may even defy them. But despite all of that, we were born. Again, not everyone had a great family, not all we’re planned, and many of us went through great strugglw to love. But we we’re chosen for a reason.

During worship, our pastor told us that God knew us before we were formed. He also knew that he would send Jesus in the flesh to heal the right between himan and God. Think about that for a second. God chose us even though he knew we would rebel, we would be difficult, and we would definitely. He knew he would have to sacrifice his only son for us. Yet and in spite, he still chose us.

Scripture About Being Chosen

• For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves. – Ephesians 1:4-6
• Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.- Jeremiah 1:5

Reflection

Let’s think about this for a minute. There are two main points here. The first is about predestination. Imagine if you knew that a project or something was going to fail. Would you still do the project or would you stop and redo your project? God knew we would defy and rebel but still made us. He still chose us no matter what we woilddow

On top of that, he knew he would have to sacrifice his son to bridge the gap between us. Would you make the same choice?

Second, you have a family no matter what you have done. You aren’t chosen between of what you did. No matter the sin, no matter the action, you are part of his ever-loving family. Your father has adopted you and you are loved.

Charge

First, do you realize that you are part of God’s family? Are you able to see that your are chosen no matter your actions. Second, think about choices you have made or will make? Would you make the same choice as God? Last, revel in the fact that you are loved, chosen, and adopted into his family

I know I am adopted, loved, and chosen by God.

July 14 – Going to Worship or Going to Church

195 – Going to Worship or Going to Church

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Worship

Faith, God, Religion, Church, Worship. All of these words can be used interchangeably but they are very different. Today I asked a question on Facebook to those who worship regularly on what you do when you can’t worship. I didn’t use the word church but most assumed that worshiping means going to church. Many stated they do a mini service at home or a devotional or something like that.

While the answers helped on another project, it really got me thinking about the word Worship. A director of Christian education told me that she says we are going to worship, not going to church. A church can be a building, a church can also be a people. Worship is the act.

Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary defines worship as both a noun and a verb. The noun is defined as “the feeling or expression of reverence and adoration for a deity” while the verb is “show reverence and adoration for a deity; honor with religious rites.

The noun clearly doesn’t include a church necessarily, the verb get’s close with “honor with religious rites”. The question though is not where you worship, but how you worship.

I personally love going to Church to be part of a community. I also worship daily through prayers, meditation, and reading the word. Is there a right way or wrong way to worship?

Scripture on Worship

Reflection

As our verses above show, we should gather together to worship the Lord. At the same time, we can worship anywhere, any time, and at any place. We are to praise God in his sanctuary and praise him everywhere. I think part of the issue with faith and religion is they are tied to a specific church building. For some, if they aren’t comfortable in a specific church, they lose faith or don’t worship.

God’s house has many rooms, you need to find the one that you are most comfortable in. Worshiping as God’s people and belonging is an amazing feeling. At the same time, you can worship in many ways. It could be in a church, in a small group. a devotion, your nightly prayers, blessings over dinner with family. How you worship is your personal connection to the Lord. As in life, variety is awesome. To steal the quote about Chicago and change it: Worship early and Often.

Charge

Think about how and when you worship if you do. Where do you worship and with whom? Then think about different ways you may worship the Lord that are pleasing. Are there ways to invite others to worship with you? If you don’t worship often or at all, think about why that may be. Is it because you haven’t found a room that feels right?

I have found the room in God’s house that is right for me. I will continue to worship in many different ways with the help of God.

July 9 – Breaking Bread

190 – Breaking Bread

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Bread

I’m not sure about you, but I love to eat. I especially love breads and pastas. Yes, I know they aren’t great for me and I need to eat in moderation. Bread, and especially breaking bread, is a huge part of many cultures. It’s a sign of friendship, communion, and sharing.

Today was the first day of classes in our medical school. One student brought in a loaf of sourdough bread, that he made, and the entire class broke off chunks and ate it. The faculty and staff who were hear also enjoyed it. I didn’t know he made it from scratch at first but it even added to the moment. All of us, shared this loaf of bread. We are connected as a college body moving forward together.

Life is a lot like that. We share bread, we share our lives, we share our spirits with each other. We become one family.

Scripture on Breaking Bread

•  They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. – Acts 2:42
• And taking the five loaves and the two fish, he looked up to heaven and said a blessing and broke the loaves and gave them to the disciples to set before the people. And he divided the two fish among them all. – Mark 6:41
• Now as they were eating, Jesus took bread, and after blessing it broke it and gave it to the disciples, and said, “Take, eat; this is my body.” – Matthew 26:26

Reflection

The Lord’s supper or communion is around the sharing of the bread and the wine. It’s reminding us that we are connected to the blood and the body of Christ. Even after the last supper, the disciples came together sharing the word and the bread in prayer.

We are meant to share what the Lord has given us. It strengthens us to know we are part of something greater. when I came to work today, I didn’t know I would share in this breaking of the bread. I don’t know if the students realize the symbolism of this and the next four years. I will remember that I am part of this group.

Who do you share bread with? Is it your food and your supplies, or do you give freely to others? Do you invite them to your table?

Charge

First, think about who is n your circle. Who do you openly break bread with? Have you increased the size of your circle? Next, try to break bread with someone new. Share a cookie or some other food. You will see the difference in the relationship when you are sharing your food and your life.

July 13 – Whom Do you Rescue?

194 – Whom Do you Rescue?

#Faithbites #FaithJourney #FriendRequest Rescue

When I think of people in trouble, the first thing that comes to my mind now is Paw Patrol. I know you must think I’m crazy. But the Paw Patrol pups save everyone (human or not) every episode. As they say “No Job’s too big, no pup’s too small”. I could also use a hashtag of parenting on this. The funny thing is most of the pups are small. They have tools and such, but working as a team they solve the mission and rescue those who are weak and needy.

Life is like that. We have times when we are strong, enabling us to rescue those you need it. This enables us to can help them through their trouble, we can use our strength to solve a problem. You can be your very own Paw Patrol. This faithbite isn’t about knowing when to help or not help as we’ve covered it. This is more about our duty to help those who need and want it.

For me, this is my life’s purpose to help those who need it. This can come in the form of advice, support, faith, physical activities, or just being there. When I can take a load off of someone to help them, I feel complete. This duty is found in scripture and many of us live to help.

Scripture on Rescue

• Suggested Scripture: Rescue the weak and the needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked – Psalm 82:4
• Related Scripture: This is what the Lord says: Do what is just and right. Rescue from the hand of the oppressor the one who has been robbed. Do no wrong or violence to the foreigner, the fatherless or the widow, and do not shed innocent blood in this place. – Jeremiah 22:3
•  remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins. – James 5:20

Reflection

God works in mysterious ways. He empowers us to help others through their problems and challenges. We are not only to ‘deliver them from the hand of the wicked’, but also to help show them the way of Jesus. Our church conducts vision trips every year. They go to Kenya and Hondorus and work to give those who can not see well glasses. As part of these trips, they also share the word of the Lord. In that, they are solving these people’s earthy problem of sight and helping them in their faith. This is a rescue of the body and the soul.

We are chosen by God to use these gifts to help the needy and the weak. Our challenge is to open our hearts, our wallets, and our talents to help those who are weak, needy, robbed and are sinners. When we do that, we can truly say that No Job is too Big and We are not too small.

Charge

When was the last time you helped someone who was needy both physically or spiritually? What did you do? How did you feel? Take time this next week to see how you can help someone in their time of need.

I will be more open to helping those physically and spiritually with the help of God.

July 12 – Where Do You Get Strength From?

193 – Where Do you Get Strength From?

#FaithBites #FaithJourney #FriendRequest Strength

What does it mean to be strong? Is it a physical attribute? Maybe it’s a mental or spiritual attribute. Perhaps it’s a combination of all three and more. When I think of strength, I think of being able to achieve my goals, protect those who I need to protect, and live a good life. To me, it’s not a physical attribute though I would love to have a stronger body than I have. When I get caught up in the day to day; the body goes first, then the mind, then the spirit. Hopefully, I never get to the spirit going weak.

I have surrounded myself with strong people. Starting a college is a trying task, that takes the strongest and starts to empty the fuel tank. When I see those strong people dragging, trying to keep the smile on, it’s hard. I often see it in my face at the end of the day. My question then is where do you go to for more strength? I would love to say I always go to Christ, but I am human and that doesn’t always happen.

Scripture on Strength

• Suggested Scripture: I can do all things through him who gives me strength – Philippians 4:13
• Related Scripture: 
  • He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak – Isaiah 40:29
  • Nehemiah said, “Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is holy to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”- Nehemiah 8:10

Reflection

In the King James Version, the word strength or it’s related words appears 599 times. To me, that means strength is important. We have talked many times before about strength and weakness. Especially how we can’t do things without the Lord. We need him to help us, to be with us, and to ensure we succeed. When I look at myself to solve everyone’s problems or even my own, I fail. Lately, I have poured myself into work and asked the Lord for strength. He has come through in amazing ways. People have asked if they could help. A few have even given me praise that I never thought I would hear from them. This is not my doing, but the Holy Spirit working through me.

Again I ask, who do you go to for strength? Is it internal, external or heavenly?

Charge

The Lord is here for everyone, no matter how much they believe or question. If you turn to the Lord, believe in him, and ask, he will help. Today’s charge is to answer the question of who you go to for strength. Are you willing to turn your problems over to the Lord? Are you ready to admit that he gives strength to the weak?

I am willing and able to seek strength from God with his help.

July 11 – Getting Feedback or Calling me on my Crap

192 –  Getting  Feedback or Calling me on my Crap

#faithbites #faithjourney feedback

One thing I think that all of us has humans have in common is we make mistakes. We may say something,post something, or do something that is less than ideal. In some occasions, we know it right away and either fix it or apologize. Other times, we need someone to help us to be better. This is feedback. Love it or hate it,it’s part of being in a community and part of growing.

Today, I was a bit ornery and tired and posted something that I shouldn’t have. I was thinking King it was a no harm, no foul thing, but when a trusted friend called out on it,in private, I realized it was something that I shouldn’t have posted and I deleted it.

After thinking about it, that feedback taught me two things. First, it made me think about my actions in the same way I laugh at how stupid some people seem to act, especially celebrities. Second, who gave the feedback and why they gave it was important. The person didn’t do it to better himself or anything but to help me grow. That was pretty amazing.

We all make mistakes and need trusted people to help us when we make mistakes. Honest, straightforward, trusted, specific feedback.

Scripture about Feedback

• Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future – Proverbs 19:20
• Your testimonies are my delight; they are my counselors – Psalm 119:24

Reflection

How do you take feedback when it is given? Do you stew on it because you feel like you are the worst person in the world? Maybe you write a blog about it or ignore it. Perhaps, you take it to heart and change your behavior. The interesting thing about feedback, is you probsbbly do all of the above and more. Depending on the who, what, where, when, and how of feedback can determine what you do with it.

In this case, I accepted the testimonial to inorkge my wisdom. The scriptures shownus time and time again what happens when humans don’t follow the feedback or advice from God. When good Kings go asteay by counselors who have misled them. In those cases, the people either ignored the feedback or took feedback and counsel from those who shouldn’t be giving it.

I cherish feedback. At times it makes me feel small, stupid,ignorant, worthless, but when I really think about it feedback is done from a place of love and respect. I accept the feedbacks feedback and the mostakes I make.

Charge

Think about how you get feedback? Can you identify someone who will be honest with you? Then think of times you haven’t received well or acted on feedback well. Can you see how the feedback was meant to help and not hurt? Take time to think about this and share with trusted friends that you want and appreciate their feedback.

I will listen, cherish, and appreciate feedback in the manner it was meant with the help of God.

July 10 – Am I an Imposter?

191 – Am I am Imposter?

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Imposter

Are you a fake? Maybe a phony? Maybe you feel like you don’t belong. You aren’t good enough, smart enough, talented enough to be where you are. Someone must have mad a mistake letting you get in. You are an imposter.

Until recently, I hadn’t heard of imposter syndrome. The definition from Joe Lanford and Pauline Rose Clance states “Impostor syndrome (also known as impostor phenomenon, impostorism, fraud syndrome or the impostor experience) is a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments, and has a persistent internalized fear of being exposed as a “fraud”. I first hear this at work in relation to students not feeling like they are good enough to get into medical school and then physicians who felt they weren’t good enough to be doctors.

After thinking about it more, I feel like that every day. I’m not faithful enough to be a lay director at church. What do I know about faculty development, I don’t have the experience of X,Y,Z. I am a fraud, a phony, an imposter.

I battle with myself over this daily, maybe this is part of my anxiety in life. Maybe if I do more, achieve more, then I will feel like I belong, that I am no longer a fake. That if I do one more thing, then I will make it. It reminds me of the old saying “Fake it, till you make it”.

Are you an imposter in Christ? Or do you feel like an imposter when you talk about your faith journey?

Scripture about Feeling like an Imposter

•  Such confidence we have through Christ before God.Not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything for ourselves, but our competence comes from God. He has made us competent as ministers of a new covenant—not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life. – 2 Corinthians 3:4-6

Reflection

Imposter syndrome is a psychological affliction that we all have. It spans professions, races, religions, genders, and class. We all have felt it.  The scriptures for today show that we need help to overcome this feeling. We are to be ministers, doctors, lawyers, parents, witnesses, and every other profession or calling through the Lord. He gives us the feeling and the support we need. Through him, we are not imposters but servants. I know these are flowery words. It’s easy to say give it to God and all is good. While that is true, the human condition prevents us from always doing it. We compare ourselves to others and try to see where we fail. My suggestion, is you are where you are because you belong. God has given you circumstances in your lives to prepare you for the challenges ahead. Life through the Lord is not easy, but his grace is sufficient. YOU BELONG.

Charge

Think about where you are in life. Then think about all the situations and experiences that have prepared you for where you are at. It isn’t chance or luck that put you where you are. Through hard word, determinitation, and faith, you belong. Then think about how you can help others who feel like imposters. Will you share your story with others to help them in their struggle? Will the Lord be with you when you do?

I will share my story and remember I am where I belong with the help of God.

July 8 – My Weakness Makes Me Strong

189 – My Weakness Makes Me Strong

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Weakness

I don’t know about you, but I never want to think I show weakness. I want to show strength and be able to handle all situations that come my way. Being weak is bad, showing weakness to others is worse. I think it goes hand in hand with asking for help. When you are strong, you don’t need help or at least you think you don’t. When you are weak, you need to open yourself up to others for strength and help.

During our worship service, one of our pastors said it best “I am in trouble when I rely on me”. We spoke about sermons he has given. The ones he thinks are written well sometimes flop, while the ones that he has trouble with, seem to touch people. Those are the times when in weakness you ask God for help.

This concept is hard for many. This leads to the phrase of being broken and needing help to be put back together. A friend of mine told me he hated when I said I was broken. He said I am a good person and don’t need to think ill of myself. I told him, I am not perfect and thus am broken. I need help to achieve my goals. This helps me to be connected to others and most important to God. Asking for help and relying on someone else is truly difficult. We need to remember that asking for help or relying on God is not a sign of weakness, as it allows God’s strength to flow through you.

Scripture on Weakness and Strength

” I will boast about a man like that, but I will not boast about myself, except about my weaknesses. Even if I should choose to boast, I would not be a fool, because I would be speaking the truth. But I refrain, so no one will think more of me than is warranted by what I do or say, or because of these surpassingly great revelations. Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” – 2 Corinthians 12:5-10

Reflection

This passage is from Paul talking to the Corinthians. In this passage, a holy man of Jesus, talks not about what he has done, but about his weakness. He has a thorn in his flesh. While we don’t know what it is, it’s an alignment, that causes weakness. God gives him all the grace and strength he needs. He delights in his weakness for through Christ he is strong.

This is hard for someone like me who has had medical issues and is currently struggling with a bum knee and depression/anxiety. Theses thorns make me feel weak. At times I wonder, if these thorns were gone, would I be a stronger person. Would I be able to do more? Then I realize that if I had no thorns, I wouldn’t know low points in life. I wouldn’t see the need to believe in something greater than myself. My need to give and help others may not be there at all. So yes, it sucks to be limping around. It sucks to take medicine every night to keep my depression and anxiety in check. But through those, I pray to God for healing and strength. Through these tribulations, I know that I can still be strong if I accept help from the Lord.  Do you ask for help from the Lord?

Charge

First, think about your thorns? Do they knock you down or do they make you stronger? Where do you search for help? Next, write down those times when the Lord has given you strength. Lastly, share his strength by sharing your story with others.

I have many thorns and I will thrive with the help of God.

July 7 – Is it Bed Time or I’m Exhausted

188 – Is it Bed Time or I’m Exhausted

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Exhausted

When we are young, most of us don’t want to sleep. We run, run, run until we pass out. Naps are evil and getting to sleep as a child is torture. As an adult, we want naps and sleep. I remember a few years ago, my wife and I were talking about what we did before we had kids. The answer: We Slept More. I don’t know about you, but I can’t get enough now.

Last night, my youngest as I went camping. After about three minutes of her in bed, she climbed into my bed for the rest of the night. Here I was, in a twin sized bed, at the edge, with no covers. Top that off with a long day of camping, swimming, crabby child, and driving, and I am beat. I almost went to sleep without writing tonights Faithbite.

As people we get tired and exhausted, but does God?

Scripture on God Not Tiring

• Do you not know?
      Have you not heard?
  The Lord is the everlasting God,
      the Creator of the ends of the earth.
  He will not grow tired or weary,
      and his understanding no one can fathom. – Isaiah 40:23
• he will not falter or be discouraged
  till he establishes justice on earth.
      In his teaching the islands will put their hope. – Isaiah 42:4
• Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.” – Mark 10:27

Reflection on Exhausted and Tired

God does not tire. He is always there, always powerful, and always reigning. Man get tired and exhausted. We need rest. After the 6 days of creation, God didn’t rest because he was tired, he rested to reflect on what he has made for all of us. He made the Sabbath day holy for us to reflect and rest. I know I don’t rest on the Sabbath, heck, I don’t rest enough in general. I know God strengthens me and is my light.

Today when we were walking the trail, I saw exhaustion on my daughters face. She didn’t want to take one more step. No coaxing or coddling her would change that. She was done. It took a long time of rest, arts and crafts to start to get her back to her self. The food and swimming, and slowly she was back….at least for a couple minutes. She crashed before we even got to the highway on the way home.

That is what exhaustion looks like. We like to choose to go to sleep and rest, exhaustion is when your body makes that choice. While my flesh may be tired, my spirit soars. I know God is working to bring justice on earth, and we are here to help.

Charge

First, think about your life. Do you have a routine in life for regeneration and rest:? If not, think about what that would look like. Second, make a habit of doing or not doing things to help you get your rest. Lastly, remember God never tires. Are you willing to accept this challenge and be more restful?

I am willing to accept with the help of God.

July 6 – If It Wasn’t For the Last Minute

187 – If It Wasn’t For the Last Minute

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Minute

Running around like chickens with their heads cut off. Scrambling to make sure everything is perfect. Getting new details and requirements from everyone all the time.

This could be the site of a wedding, other building a new college or just another day in the tropics. Many of us say ji it wasn’t for the last minute, nothing would get done.

Our first formal classes start on Monday. I have been inundated with faculty requests, student requests, and more all week. Today hit an all-new record for craziness and excitement. Are things in perfect order? Nope. Are things were I want them to be? Nope. Will everything be ok and wellw adjust? Most definitely.

So in a blog about faith and God, why would I start taking about waiting until the last minute?  That’s easy: God lives outside of time. Choosing to believe in Jesus can haven’t when you are 1 or 100. It can happen one minute after birth or one minute before death. God doesn’t know the meaning of the last minute.

Scripture on Waiting for the Last Minute

• For the Lord your God is gracious and compassionate. He will not turn his face from you if you return to him. – 2 Chronicles 30:9b
• But if a wicked person turns away from all the sins they have committed and keeps all my decrees and does what is just and right, that person will surely live; they will not die. – Ezekiel 18:21
• If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land. – 2 Chronicles 7:14

Reflection

There isn’t one passage that I found that says if you don’t convert now you are doomed. The Lord forgives and wants us to be his children. We shouldn’t wait for that deathbed conversion as we will lose the joy of living in Christ. That doesn’t mean we can’t convert later and be saved. I waited 39 years to find the Lord, many know a lot sooner and some a lot later. God doesn’t penalize us for waiting until the last minute.

In life, we think waiting until the last minute is bad as it’s stressful and crazy. But the thing is, it still gets done. I wish the faculty would have sent me things months ago, but you know what? They are sending it to me and it will work. Just as in life, the Lord will accept you at the last minute.

Charge

Have you accepted Jesus in your life? Are you now living a life in Christ? If not, it’s not too late. Don’t wait until the last minute to accept him. Not because he won’t accept you, but rather you will miss the joy in living in him.

I have accepted Christ and hope to help others find him with the help of God.

July 5 – Friends are Friends

186 – Friends are Friends

#FaithBites #FaithJourney #GuestAuthor Friends

Before we get started, this faithbite is co-written by my lovely daughter Cece. And now, onto FaithBites.

Friends. Friends will always stick together. They will never leave each other’s side. Through hard times and good times, they make it through. When they get mad and angry, they shouldn’t fight. They should pray to not get mad at each other.

I get mad at my friend all the time and then we go to separate places. Then we tell a parent what has happened, then we make it through. We say sorry to each other and we start playing again.

Scripture on Friendship

• When Job’s three friends, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite and Zophar the Naamathite, heard about all the troubles that had come upon him, they set out from their homes and met together by agreement to go and sympathize with him and comfort him.- Job 2:11
• One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.- Proverbs 18:24

Reflection

Friends come in all sizes, shapes, colors, and backgrounds. Friends will be there through thick and thin. As my best friend said (and now this is Sol talking again): Friends help you move, real friends help you move bodies 🙂 Yes, it’s a bit morbid, but it shows who would you trust for those most difficult tasks? Who would you call upon when the world is crashing down and you need a friend? Some of us have that in an earthy form, others of us have it in Jesus Christ. The wonderful thing is, Jesus is here for everybody. The proverbs verse isn’t talking about a human friend but rather Jesus Christ. He is closer than a brother and will be here for us. While our friends may let us down or get us mad, Jesus never does. We ask forgiveness and he grants it.

Charge

First, do you see that Jesus is a friend for all? Second, is how do you show your friendship to Christ? Third, think about ways to be more Christ-like in your friendship.

I see Jesus is here for me and I will be a friend to all with the help of God.

July 4 – Mistaken Identity

185 – Mistaken Identity

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Mistaken Identity

Anyone who knows me knows that I am loud, sometimes obnoxious, and speak before I think. It’s something that I have been working on my whole life, but sometimes mess up. Today I was at a BBQ for our new students, having a great time with my daughters. I was running around, saw one of our students and saw the person with him out of the corner of my eye. I turned and said, is this mom? He said, “No, this is my wife”. Instantly, I felt ashamed, sorry, and terrible when I saw the look in her eyes. I apologized deeply and sincerely but know it had an impact. There is no way for me to take it back. This was a split second slip of the tongue, that can impact that relationship forever. I pray for forgiveness and a repair for that relationship.

How often do we make split-second decisions on someone’s identity? Do you assume who someone is because of what they wear, how they talk, the color of their skin, the makeup or tattoos, their weight? I do it all the time even though I’m working on it. Do you see someone who looks middle eastern and assume they are Muslim and assume they don’t eat pork? They could very well have lived in the US their whole life, be Christian, and love bacon. We don’t know who they are without asking. Their identity is hidden to us until we build a deeper relationship.

The question I raise today, do we help or hurt our identity as a Christian but the way we look, the way we talk, and the way we act?

Scripture on Identity

• Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. – Romans 15:7
• Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. – Colossians 3:1-3
• He was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and faith, and a great number of people were brought to the Lord. – Acts 11:24

Reflection

Above,I told you how I made a snap decision on identity that will take work to repair. As Christians, we should help people see our identity to help in their decisions of us. Our Romans text shows that we need to love and accept one another as Christ accepted us. We are all sinners. No one is a bigger sinner or lesser sinner as all sins are equal.

Throughout all of that God loves us, we should show his love in our acceptance of others. In Colossians, we are told to set our sites on the Lord and things in the next life, not on things here. Are we showing people that we are materialistic and opportunistic, or do we help others find the Lord? The Acts verse talks about Barnabas who showed his new life in Christ. He was a good man, he was changed. His old identity was gone, he was Christ-like in his actions.

I can’t go back in time and change what I said to that women. I shouldn’t have said anything at all. My eagerness to say something stuck my foot in my mouth. We know others will judge us by our thoughts, our actions, and our deeds. Let’s show them our true identity in Christ. We may be disliked for it, but we are being truthful.

Charge

First, think about what your identity is and how you want to show it to others. Next, pick one trait of Christ that you want to work on and track your progress. Then ask yourself, “Am I showing my true identity to everyone”? Am I being a good ambassador of Christ?

I will show my true identity to everyone with the help of God.

July 3 – Connected and Appreciated

184 – Connected and Appreciated

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I experienced a great day today filled with many memorable encounters with students. Our conversations ranged from the curriculum to study habits to faith to religion to technology and beyond. I received many compliments on our instructional design and my openness. At the end of the day, I felt energized and refreshed. When I was leaving, I started talking to one of my colleagues about the day. We talked about what my job is, faculty development, and what I have been doing lately, faculty development, instructional design, and anything that needs to be done. Our discussion turned to what I would focus on if I had more help: would it be more of the faculty side or more of the student side. I hemmed and hawed a bit, but then he said I loved working with the students. I said of course I did as they helped energize me and show purpose.

When I left, I thought more about it. It wasn’t the students per se that I wanted to work with. It was working with people who appreciated me and who I was connected with. The feeling that we are all in this together, even though we have different jobs and responsibilities, we are connected in something bigger than ourselves. I love working with people in general when there is a purpose, growth for all, and a true connection.

We’ve talked about this a bit before, but truly being connected and appreciated is something we all long for.

Scripture on Being Connected

• Rejoice with those who rejoice, mourn with those who mourn – Romans 12:15
• And in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit – Ephesians 2:22
• For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ, we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. – Romans 12:4-5

Reflection

We should live with others. Being part of something gives us the opportunity to give and receive. We together are the body of Christ working together towards his plan. When we are not connected, we feel that our efforts are wasted. If we are not appreciated by the other members of the body, we feel as if we have no place. Think about the body example above, who wants to be the tonsils or the appendix? We want to be something that is part of the life blood of Christ. We grow with each other, we hurt with each other, and love with each other.

When I work with students or even directly with faculty, seeing their growth, their understanding, and their ability to do something new or better, gives me a sense of accomplishment. Yes, I am not the center person or the life of the party but I am connected. In many cases, I am the muscle that helps the arm hold the hammer that nails the board that builds the house. But I am thanked, truly appreciated, and loved.

When being connected comes with love and appreciation, we want to do more and help others feel that connectivity.

Charge

Are you connected to someone or something?

First, can you find someone who doesn’t feel connected and help them? Second, will you share3 your appreciation and love for someone you are connected to?

I will search for that person and share my love and appreciation with the help of God.

July 2 – Healing Bodies and Hearts

183 – Healing Bodies and Hearts

#FaithBites #FaithJourney #FriendsRequest Healing

When we think of healing what do you think of? A doctor healing your body? Maybe a loved one healing your broken heart? Could it be the Lord healing your soul? Healing comes in so many forms that it is sometimes hard to see where the healing is coming from and what our role in the healing is.

Today was the first day of our new medical school. A day when 32 students take their first steps towards becoming doctors, healers of the body. During orientation this morning, I had a conversation with a student not about healing the body but about healing the soul. We talked about my faith journey, his search for a new church home, and how important belief in the Lord is. This wasn’t on anyone’s plan for the day, but the Holy Spirit works in mysterious ways. I spoke of my role in the church as the Lay Director of Witness and he said, shouldn’t that be everyone’s job? I agreed with him and wished him well in finding his new church home in a new city.

The practice of medicine is one way to heal. New schools are also recognizing the power of healing the mind and the spirit. When the three work together, we heal and grow. We have the power to rescue the spirit, heal the body, and help the mind.

Scripture on Healing

Featured Scripture: Rescue the weak and the needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked.

Related Scripture: 

• “Heal me, Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise.” – Jeremiah 17:14
• Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up. For even Christ did not please himself but, as it is written: The insults of those who insult you have fallen on me.” – Romans 15:2-3

Reflection

A clinician I work with told me something about doctoring that I never knew. He said “Sol, I can be the best clinician, the best diagnostician in the world, but if the patient doesn’t trust me, they won’t be healed. They won’t take their medicine and won’t follow their treatment plans.” That stuck with me. If we don’t build trust, we can’t allow the Holy Spirit to work through us to rescue the weak and the needy. We aren’t able to expose them to the lord to deliver them from the hand of the wicked. It’s an awesome responsibility to be that trusted source.

As the airlines say, put on your mask before helping others. We need to be healed and turn to the Lord. Then we can help others see the Lord. We can build them up and not insult them for when we insult them we insult the Lord. That is powerful. Letting the Holy Spirit work through us, is our calling. We can help people heal and be delivered.

I am not perfect in this. My hope is that you don’t let those unannounced and unplanned opportunities pass you by. I had no idea that I would have a conversation about faith at work today, but I am glad I did. I was healed by this conversation and I hope the other person was as well.

Charge

First, can you see that you are God’s hand helps someone out of the darkness? Will you then make time to reach out to someone and talk about your faith journey?

I am willing to be the hand and make time with the help of the Lord.

July 1 – New Beginnings

182 – New Beginnings

#FaithBites #FaithJourney Beginnings

8:00 A.M. on Monday, 32 students will enter the halls of our University, taking the first formal steps in their medical education. These students are excited, engaged, invested, anxious, nervous, compassionate, caring, competent, and curious. All of the faculty and staff who have been working on this endeavor for four years, share all of those qualities. None of us know where this journey will lead us. Who will surge to the front, who will trail behind, who will decide this isn’t the path for them, who will change the world? You may have thought I was talking about the students, well I am, but I am also talking about faculty, staff, and the families of these students. We are all embarking on a new life and possibly world-changing journey. Who knows what tomorrow and tomorrow’s tomorrow will bring? I know that I will roll with excitement, the challenges, and the opportunities provided.

In all of our lives, we have chances for new beginnings. Every day we wake up, we can change our future. We can pray more, love more, care more, help more, and live more. While we don’t have to set out to change the world, we can set out to change our sphere of influence. Through our love, compassion, caring, understanding, and help, we make an impact. This change will flow through everyone we are connected to and those they are connected to. In that way, we can change the world.

Scripture on New Beginnings

“See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.” – Isaiah 43:19

“Your beginnings will seem humble, so prosperous will your future be.” – Job 8:7

Reflection

Now, I know the idea of being a new thing every day is exciting and scaring. Your choices can and do impact everyone around you: Chose to be down or worried or scared, then others will feel that. Chose to be loving, caring, and empathetic and you will get that in return. You may feel you are lost and wandering, but you will be prosperous in those dark and scary places. Through those actions, your prosperity and generosity will be great and world-changing. It all starts with but one choice, one decision to change the world. You may stumble and it won’t be easy, but nothing in life worth having is easy.

These students, families, friends, faculty, staff, and loved ones are making a decision to change their direction. They have a new beginning. What is your new beginning? How do you choose to spend the days of your lives?

Charge

First, pick one thing to change today to start your new beginning. Then, share that choice with a friend or family member. Use that change to part of your new beginning. Finally, record your progress and share.

Are you willing to trust the Lord will be with you in your new beginning?

I am willing with the help of the Lord.

July 1 – FaithBites Extra

FaithBites Extra

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Good Morning and Happy Sunday All,

I wanted to take a minute in this #FaithBites Extra to share that we are halfway through 2018. That means we have 182 days gone and another 182 to go. Yes, I realize that that lives and extra day somewhere, so it’s a half day.

When I started #Faithbites in January, I never thought I would be able to sustain it. We are now at over 181 continuous days of scripture, reflection, and a charge or calling for the day. I have really enjoyed all of your comments, suggestions, and likes. This has helped me to keep writing even though it’s a challenge some days to find 20-40 minutes to write these. I hope I can count on your to keep reading, commenting, and praying with me for the remainder of the year.

Scripture on Extra

“And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles.” – Matthew 5:41

Reflection

They say it takes 21 days to make a habit. I’m guessing with 182, it’s more than a habit, it’s part of life. We’ll see what the next 182.5 days brings. My goal when starting this was to share the word of the Lord and how it relates to everyday life. From your thoughts and comments, I’m starting to think FaithBites is successful. Think about how you can share His Word. Think about how your presence and gifts advance God’s plan.

Charge

Will you pray for this ministry? Will you find ways to create your own ministry?

I will pray for you and the continuous outreach with the help of God.

June 30 – The Ups and Downs of Marriage

The Ups and Downs of Marriage

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Before we get started, this is the first of many #faithbites based on requests of friends. Thank you for answering the call with your favorite verses, things you want to learn about, and ideas of how the Lord impacts your life. Never one to look a challenge down, I took the hardest one first. And now, onto #Faithbites.

I love my wife. We have been through the good, the bad, the ugly, and the I don’t know what to call it.  She has been by my side, no matter what I throw at her. And I don’t think I have slept on the couch but there have been days for sure. I am blessed that every day I have someone who knows me and puts up with me. I also believe that God gave us marriage so that we are not alone. We have someone who knows our in’s, our outs, our ups, our downs, and can help us make sense of life.

When we first got married, I told my wife that she reminded me of the Icarus story in mythology. If you remember, Icarus had a rope tied around him that was pulled back before he got too close to the sun. Getting too close meant his wings would melt and he would die. I felt that way, that she was my rope, pulling me back from certain doom. It takes a lot to admit that.

Scripture on Marriage

Featured Scripture: “Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.” – Proverbs 21:19

Related Scripture:

• “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” – Genesis 2:24
• “With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” – Ephesians 4:2-3

Reflection

When I first asked for verses, I didn’t read them, just wrote them down. I figure the person who gave me Proverbs 21:19 was trying to be funny. Looking at the verse, it is hard to see the light behind it. It is basically saying giving up all society, safety, shelter, and life are better than being with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. I researched some commentary about it and then found both the Genesis and the Ephesians Verse. The Lord blesses a marriage and makes the union of three people (the bride, the groom, and the Lord). We are eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit.

Now if a wife (I would say husband too) is quarrelsome and nagging, to me that isn’t is the normal things that get on your nerve. Rather it is the life-altering actions that can affect your mortal safety and prosperity (abuse in al its forms) but more importantly your eternal salvation. If your relationship with the Lord is in jeopardy due to the quarrelsome and nagging spouse, I could see where being away from everything is closer to salvation. God is with you everywhere and will protect you. If getting away from that allows you to be closer to the Lord, then to me this is what it means.

I am no Bible expert, nor do I speak in Dogma, but I believe that while we are to be unified for life, there are those cases, where living in the desert (or wilderness) is better than living with a quarrelsome and nagging spouse.

I hope to never have to make that choice, but I know those who have.

Charge

Are you willing to work with your spouse so that you don’t need to choose the wilderness over marriage? Will you invite the Lord into your marriage to heal the quarrels and worries?

I am willing with the help of God.

June 29 – Technology and Worship

Technology and Worship

#180of365 #FaithBites #FaithJourney Technology

Technology is everywhere in our lives. From school to work to home to social activities to worship and beyond. It appears on TVs, radios, phones, tablets, computers, phones, billboards, cars, airplanes, screens everywhere. We are inundated with technology and connectiveness, but why aren’t we more connected in our communities than ever before? You may have a thousand friends on facebook but don’t know your neighbors. We donate to a cause halfway around the world or a Kickstarter campaign from someone we have never met but don’t donate to local charities and houses of worship. Is technology bringing us together or dividing a wedge between us. Moreover, is it bringing us the world but losing the person next door?

I was invited the other day to a wonderful dinner and gathering of Christian technologists who want to share the word through technology. We talked about everything from video game hangouts to live streaming services to students running the technology for services to all of our kids’ building content and beyond. So many wonderful ideas to bring the Gospel to everyone in the world and next door.

I left excited but also a little concerned. Not concerned about the good nature of everyone and the hopes and dreams but the execution. Maybe it is the faculty development person in me, maybe it’s the teacher in me, or maybe it’s the technologist in me, but while we had awesome ideas, I didn’t see crystal clear objectives. These objectives guide us and help us spread the word.

One thing that came to mind besides the use of technology to help others join in worship, is what is worship? Is worship listening to a pastor or priest?  Maybe it is praying or singing? Could it be something else? Is it a personal experience or a communal one? I don’t know but to me, if we are going to spread the Gospel through technology and have more people worship, we need to define worship. Luckily for us, we have a good source 🙂

Scripture on Worship and Technology

“He said, “The knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of God has been given to you, but to others I speak in parables, so that, “though seeing, they may not see; though hearing, they may not understand.’ “This is the meaning of the parable: the seed is the word of God.” – Luke 8:10-11

“How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them?  And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!” – Romans 10:!4-15

“Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit” – Matthew 28:18-19

Reflection and Charge

Ok, so the Bible doesn’t say to use an iPad or streaming video to share worship and the Gospel. There is no mention of hanging out online playing fortnite or Minecraft and talking about the 10 commandments. We have no guide on what technology to use or how to use it. We are commanded to go and make disciples of all nations. The Word tells us that people learn in very different ways. In Romans, we see how beautiful the feet of those who bring the good news is. Feet was the only way to bring it in Biblical times, but now we can bring it through technology.

Technology is a tool for us to share His Word, His Compassion, and His Love. As part of this commission, we need to make sure those feet bring the word in a directed, purposeful way to bring more people into the flock. This will be a challenge and we have seen how good intentions don’t always work. I know the group involved is blessed by God, and through your prayers, through clear objectives and purpose, the Holy Spirit will work through us to use his gift of technology to be the feet of this generation. We will be his disciples and continue the good work.

Are you willing to pray for this Gospel Technology Mission? Are you looking to help bring worship to as many as possible?

We can use all the help through prays, promotion, and participation.

I am willing to pray, promote, and participate with the help of God.

June 28 – Gift of the Heart

Gift of the Heart

#179of365 #FaithBites #FaithJourney Gift

Most people like to receive gifts. They make us smile, give us a break, and most importantly tell us that someone else is thinking about us and loves us. There are times when we get so wrapped up in our lives that we don’t see other people or know that they are thinking about us. Today, I received two very small but thoughtful gifts. This morning one of our assistant deans brought in croissants, and this afternoon one of our students project in muffins his wife made. These small tokens really change how you think about the day and your importance to other people. Not only was my belly filled, which makes a happy Sol, but I understood I mattered.

How do you show that people matter to you? Do you give them gifts either physical or non-physical? Is it is a hug or a smile? Is it a cup of coffee or a beer for a job well done. Many years ago, my team worked long hours over a weekend to get a job done. When I came to work in the morning, there was a coffee cup at my desk, filled with candy. In it was a small note saying that you for the work you did. It couldn’t have cost over $4 for everything, but the thought changed my outlook on the giver and on my work.

Scripture on Gift and Giving

“A gift opens the way and ushers the giver into the presence of the great.” – Proverbs 18:16

“Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” – 2 Corinthians 9:7

Reflection and Charge

Many of us look for meaning in our lives. We pray, we strive, we challenge, and we live looking for that meaning. Sometimes that meaning is shown through the kindness and generosity of the Lord as all gifts come from him. (James 1:17). God is ever-present in our lives and we look for signs from him. Have you ever thought that those gifts friends give you are from God himself? Is he showing his presence in your life? This reminds me of an old joke:

The Drowning Man

A fellow was stuck on his rooftop in a flood. He was praying to God for help.

Soon a man in a rowboat came by and the fellow shouted to the man on the roof, “Jump in, I can save you.”

The stranded fellow shouted back, “No, it’s OK, I’m praying to God and he is going to save me.”

So the rowboat went on.

Then a motorboat came by. “The fellow in the motorboat shouted, “Jump in, I can save you.”

To this the stranded man said, “No thanks, I’m praying to God and he is going to save me. I have faith.”

So the motorboat went on.

Then a helicopter came by and the pilot shouted down, “Grab this rope and I will lift you to safety.”

To this the stranded man again replied, “No thanks, I’m praying to God and he is going to save me. I have faith.”

So the helicopter reluctantly flew away.

Soon the water rose above the rooftop and the man drowned. He went to Heaven. He finally got his chance to discuss this whole situation with God, at which point he exclaimed, “I had faith in you but you didn’t save me, you let me drown. I don’t understand why!”

To this God replied, “I sent you a rowboat and a motorboat and a helicopter, what more did you expect?”

While we may not need a rowboat, a motorboat, and a helicopter, we need his support in our lives. He shows that all the time, we just need to be open to it.

Do you show your love to others in small gifts and actions? Do you allow the Holy Spirit to flow through you in your deeds and actions?

I will show and allow with the help of God.

June 27 – Judging

Judging

#178of365 #FaithBites #FaithJourney Judging

Today’s faithbite is inspired by the retirement of one of the US Supreme Court Judges. I try not to get political through faithbites but judging is part of our past, present, and future. There are many worried about the next justice because of our current administration. Those on the left are in deep fear that this new justice will be very conservative and overturn much of the social progress of the last 40 years. Others are not too worried as this justice wasn’t liberal but conservative though he did serve as the swing vote on many cases. I too wonder how the next justice will impact our nation for the next 20-40 years or more.

This type of judging happens on a national scale. But what about the judging we do every day? We judge our family, friends, coworkers, and our own actions. We try to use logic to make decisions but our emotions play a large part as well. In many cases, we judge based on falsehoods and not fact. There are times when our truth isn’t truth and is proven as such later on. Still other times, we do use everything we know to judge a situation but still can make the wrong decision. We are not omnipotent nor do we truly know what the other person is feeling.

I make judgments every day. Many are harmless, but some do in the long run, truly affect others. We may not have a nationwide or global impact like a Supreme Court Justice, but we do have an impact.

Scripture on Judging

“‘Do not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism to the great, but judge your neighbor fairly.” – Leviticus 19:15

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged.  For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” – Matthew 7:1-2

“Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?” – James 4:11-12

Reflection and Charge

We all judge every day and that won’t stop. But when we judge, we need to not pervert justice and treat everyone equally. Neither the rich nor the poor should be advantaged but all treated fairly. If we do not judge fairly, we can not be expected to be judged fairly. It goes back to the do onto others as you’d have done to you. We need to be fair, kind and act as we want others to act. We shouldn’t slander or speak against a brother or sister. This is really hard. Gossip can get us, it gets me. When we gossip we are judging others.

As we’ve talked about before, there is man’s law and God’s law. There is only one Lawgiver and Judge. God sees all, knows all, and judges all. As a people are fearful of what our mortal judges will do as we have seen when mankind through judges has gone amok. Their decisions have caused great pain and suffering through “the law”.

I do not know what the future brings or who the 9th Justice will be. Mine is not to predict but to believe in the Lord. Through that belief and action from prayer to improve our world the best I can. I am not judge, jury, no executioner. I am sent by God to help spread his word.

Do you follow the one true Lawgiver and Judge? Do you trust his will will prevail over the mortal law?

I will follow and trust in him with the help of God.

June 26 – Stay in your Lane

Stay In Your Own Lane

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One of the first things you learn in drivers ed is about staying in your own lane. Don’t swerve too far to the left or the right or you will hit someone. This is your lane and you move forward in it. If you need to change your lane, you signal the direction you want to go. Think of this as both a signal to others on what you intend to do as well as asking permissions as you will be occupying the same lane as someone else.

Many times in life, we swerve left and right, not only crossing into the other lane but sometimes into oncoming traffic. This erratic swerving causes danger for us and for everyone around us. As I’ve mentioned before, work is hectic. Starting a new school has a million and one things to do. There are people assigned to those tasks, people who want to help, and then there are folks worried about every last detail not in their lane. This not only prevents them from doing their own work but causes undue friction and strife for those who are staying in their lane, trying to avoid people swerving into their lane.

When we say “Love God, Love People”, we also need to know when to stay in our lane. We can ask to help, we can ask for clarification, but at the end of the day, it is not your responsibility. Remember, we talked about Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys.

The Lord gives us great strength and gifts, we need to remember to use them.

Scripture on Staying in Your Own Lane

“So be careful to do what the Lord your God has commanded you; do not turn aside to the right or to the left.” – Deuteronomy 5:32

” You’re blessed when you stay on course, walking steadily on the road revealed by God. You’re blessed when you follow his directions, doing your best to find him. That’s right – you don’t go off on your own; you walk straight along the road he set. You, God, prescribed the right way to live; now you expect us to live it. ” – Psalm 119:1 (MSG)

Reflection and Charge

Turning to the right or left can be exciting. It’s a new adventure. It gives us a break from what we are doing and lets us set our sights on something fresh and new. The problem is, this isn’t our lane or our path. It’s someone else’s to walk down. We have to finish our journey and walk steadily on God’s road. There is enough stress, hardship, and confusion in the world that we don’t need to add more to it. Don’t get me wrong, it’s really easy to get distracted and wrapped up in something else. It gives us a new hope to solve a problem. But the problem isn’t ours to solve. This causes us to direct resources away from our tasks and leads to us stepping on someone’s toes. We don’t do it on purpose, in fact, we do it with the best intentions. We need to know how our actions impact others. If we are to “Love God, Love People” we focus on that in all of our actions.

Are you willing to stay in your own lane? Can you see how your good intentions can hurt others? Are you ready to walk down the road revealed to you by God?

I am willing and ready with the help of God.

June 25 – Enthusiasm is Contagious

Enthusiasm is Contagious

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My phone at work rang and I answered it as usual. Then a bright cheery future student said Hi Sol, How are you doing. He was asking a mundane question about needing a car for clinic rotations but was so excited in everything he said and did. My exhaustion faded away as his enthusiasm washed over me.

Here was a student, about to start medical school, arguably one of the hardest programs, and he was excited for his future. Nothing seemed to get him down even when having a car may be a challenge for a while.

This enthusiasm is catching it work. We are all exhausted, stressed out, and worried about what will happen when the students start next week. At the same time, our love of what we do, and seeing these students with wide open futures be so excited for tomorrow is intoxicating.

Scripture on Enthusiasm

“shepherd the flock of God among you, exercising oversight not under compulsion, but voluntarily, according to the will of God; and not for sordid gain, but with eagerness;” 1 Peter 5:2

“Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men,” – Colossians 3:23

Reflection and Charge

We should work heartily as if we work for the Lord and not for men. We can never please men or please men all the time. As can please the Lord through our actions and our eagerness. Imagine if everyone approached work and life with a sense of joy, eagerness, and enthusiasm.

The mundane would be wonderful. Daily tasks would be exciting. Today while I was stressed, I was dancing and getting my groove on. It brightened others days.

I know we aren’t always going to be enthusiastic every day, but know your enthusiasm can be contagious.

Are you ready to approach life with a sense of eagerness? Will you let your enthusiasm flow?

I am ready to approach life with enthusiasm with the help of God.

June 24 – Annoyance and Anger

Annoyance and Anger

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Children are a blessing from God. They show us the best and the worst parts of ourselves. We love them, cherish them, discipline them, and hopefully, they turn into great God-Loving adults. For anyone who is a parent or knows a parent or has seen a child have a breakdown in the middle of the store, knows that raising children is not easy. This is one of the most exciting and challenging jobs we can have. God has chosen us to take on these roles to bring up children in his word and treat them how to be leaders in society. I know that sounds all well and good, but when your child won’t be quiet, is screaming their head off, and you can even think, it hurts.

At first, you get annoyed, then you get angry. All you want is some peace and quiet. Just a few minutes of your child doing something on their own or with their siblings that isn’t going to drive you insane. When that doesn’t happen, anger can creep in. Today, my youngest decided to have a complete breakdown in the car. She has health issues and some of this is attributed to that, and while I know that, it can be hard. There is nothing like trying to order in a drive-through when a child is screaming, hitting, and throwing. I know how my father would react to that and I try not to react that way.

We forgive our children over and over and over. We give them love, honor, and respect. Being a parent is no easy calling. I know no perfect parent when judged by the world’s standards, but when judged by what God want’s us to do, they are perfect for that child. I didn’t have perfect parents, and I know I am not, but I try to take that anger and annoyance and turn it back into forgiveness and love.

Scripture on Annoyance and Anger

“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power,love and self-discipline.” – 2 Timothy 1:7

“In your anger do not sin”:]: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” – Ephesians 4:26-27

“But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” – 2 Corinthians 12:9

Reflection and Charge

Power, Love, and Self-discipline and not timidity are what God gives us. He gave us the strength to raise a child in a giving and loving manner. He gave us anger to us, not to Sin but to turn into action. This isn’t easy at all. One lesson someone told me about marriage was never go to bed angry. I didn’t know that this is a paraphrase of the Ephesians message. I try to step away when angered or annoyed. It doesn’t always happen and that annoyance and anger can be a vicious cycle. But, when that does happen, I try to forgive and be forgiven. We ask for forgiveness at our house a lot. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting but it does mean forgiving.

As we are learning about in our church series, the Lord’s grace is sufficient. We need to ask for it. We are weak and fail over and over again. Having a child yell at you, scream at you, and hit you, then wants to hug and love on you is hard. I am weak and I will continually boast about my weakness so that Christ’s power may rest on me. While I may be the one writing FaithBites, I am far from perfect. I am as broken and faulted as anyone. I hold onto the Lord and his Grace through all the days of my life.

My child is in an up mood right now, time to go play with her, even though I am a bit annoyed at your behavior and still have some anger. I pray that the Lord gives me grace and serenity.

Are you ready to admit your annoyance and anger at life? Are you willing to see that the power of Christ is perfect in your weakness? Are you willing to ask for help when those days get too difficult?

I am ready and willing with the help of God.

June 23 – Roles: Designed or Lived

Roles: Designed or Lives

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Husband and Wife. Mother and Father. Grandfather and Grandmother. Sister and Brother. Aunt and Uncle. Cousin and Friend. There are so many times that we have to discuss the different roles that we have in life. Some we chose, like husband and wife, while others we are born into like sister, brother, and cousin. So many different roles to the define who we are.

I for one never felt that I fit into traditional roles. I was never a manly man. I don’t build things, hunt, fish, watch sports, drink beer, sleep around (in my youth) or anything like that. I felt odd as there was this image of manhood that I didn’t fit in. Neither did I fit into the image of womanhood as I didn’t like to shop, pink things, etc etc. (Yes, these are stereotypes that now I hate). For me, life was doing what felt good which meant being me. Some of my actions were called feminine like drinking pink drinks, talking about my feelings, being very affectionate, cooking, and being emotional. I was called gay on a number of occasions as many stick to the stereotypes that we have. When fatherhood came around, I did what felt right. Feeding, staying up all night, cuddling my kids, and activities that were traditionally the “mothers” role.

Today I was at a day camp with my daughter and niece. We were talking to one of the families (this was just dad’s and daughters) about the weather and being wet. One daughter said her socks were wet because of the mud. I asked her, do you have any extra socks. ( we were supposed to have a sleepover so I figured she would). She wasn’t sure but her Dad said that she did, thanks to mom for packing everything up. This was one of many experiences where what I think of as a traditional role doesn’t play out or that I don’t fit it. I know there is no one way to parent. We all make our roles in the best way we can. God has a special place for mothers and fathers. I also know that not every family has a mother or a father, with one or the other filling in. There are also situations where neither is available and the community helps. This is how it is supposed to be.

Scripture about Roles

“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction
and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.
They are a garland to grace your head
and a chain to adorn your neck.” – Proverbs 1:8-9

“But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children”. – 1 Thessalonians 2:7

“Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. 4 Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.” – Titus 2:3-5

Reflection and Charge

I’ll admit, find scripture that is short and points to roles was difficult. There are many many passages in the bible that talk about the roles of the man and women and mother and father. They aren’t one-liners but rather full stories and passages. This world is topsy-turvy. We are told men do this, women do this, boys do this. Dress this way or that. That God’s design doesn’t matter. I truly believe that having a mother figure and father figure is important. I also know that it doesn’t happen in many cases and people can have love. I also know many well-functioning families where the mothers have more “masculine” traits and the father more “feminine” traits. I don’t believe that is a sin but rather God putting two people together to raise his children.

I am not an expert in roles. I know that the world put roles on us that we may or may not fit. I do know that I can pray to the lord and he will help and bless me and my family. I am open to any thoughts you may have on the roles of men and women and mothers and fathers.

Lord, help us in this difficult world. Help us understand the roles you want for us and not the worlds roles.

Do you know your role in life? Do you try to fit God’s roles of the world’s roles? Are you willing to fill the role God wants you to fill?

I am willing with the help of God.

June 22 – Repetition: Again and Again

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Repetition: Again and Again

Wake up. Bathroom. Shower. Shave. Dress. Eat. Get Kids Ready. Work. Eat. Work. Home. Rinse and repeat. Like is filled with repetition. We do things over and over again for two main reasons. One is that it is easy to remember what to do next and two, it provides a sense of comfort. When we know what is next, our anxiety and nervous energy are dissipated. Are know what is going to happen day after day after day after day.

While this does provide comfort is also can provide a feeling that something needs to change.
I have been working on building our courses online for the past few months. The past month has been day in and day out building our courses. Copy – Paste – Copy – Paste – Ask Questions – Copy – Paste. It has started to drive me nuts. I want something to change. I want someone else to do it and get away from the craziness that is our learning management system. We all want some sort of change, but do want change for change’s sake or for something better?  And if we make a change, is it better for us at the expense of others?

Scripture

“So he left them and went away once more and prayed the third time, saying the same thing.” – Matthew 26:44

“Each of the four living creatures had six wings and was covered with eyes all around, even under its wings. Day and night they never stop saying: ‘Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God Almighty,’ who was, and is, and is to come.” – Revelation 4:8

“pray continually” – 1 Thessalonians 5:17

Reflection and Charge

Waking up and knowing you are going to face the same day is hard. You know the challenges that you will face but you also know the joys you will face. Many years ago, when I was single, I had someone talk about being single and being married. When you are married, you wake up to the same person every day. Then they said it again in a happy exciting tone. You get to wake up to the same person every day. You have someone who will be there for you no matter what. We need to see repetition as a good thing.

Jesus has many repetitions in his activity. On many occasions, he prayed and prayed and prayed saying the same thing. We even know at the end of days, the creatures will shout about his Holy nature day and night. We also know that we are told to pray continually. Our prayers do not get old to God. This is as if a child is talking to their parents. We want to hear our kids and be part of their lives. (Yes, there are times when I just want my kids to be quiet for a bit, but that’s another story). The Lord has more patience than I and wants to here us. We are not alone. Our Muslim friends pray five times a day. Why? Because God wants to hear from his children. This repetition is the same repetition that gives us peace, comfort, and lessens our anxiety.

While we may want to break a cycle of repetition, we need to be careful about what we wish for and why.

Are you in a cycle of repetition for prayer? Do you pray continually?

I am and will continue with the help of God.

June 21 – Happiness Can Be Yours

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Happiness Can Be Yours

I don’t know a single person who doesn’t want to be happy. Many search for that happiness through strife, depression, work, and everyday life. So many things can take away from happiness: concentration on the negative, news stories, financial problems, stress, social media, and more. We are constantly bombarded by stressors and evil that try to take our happiness away.

I try to be a happy person. Many have seen my Sun and Moon Tatoo in a Yin-Yag dynamic. The sun is much larger than the moon as that represents my outgoing, happy, life loving side. The moon represents my introverted, reflective, cautious side. They live together, many times in harmony, but like all of us, one tends to take over.

The summer seems to be such a busy time. I am swamped at work, let along my schooling, the kids, activities, and everything else that needs to get done. Today, while at work, I found myself getting frustrated with people who needed help. They are having issues and I can help them but if they would have asked for it when I asked if they needed it or turned in work when it was called for it would be less stressful for me. This isn’t their fault totally. I let my happiness be zapped by negative forces. I allowed them to seme in and color my day based on what they needed when it wasn’t even a bad thing. Part of it harks back to yesterday’s “Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys”  faithbites, the other part is how I react to them.

We can’t be happy by ourselves as  we have sin, strife, and temptation. The Lord provides happiness through his Words, his Actions, and His deeds.

Scripture

“Blessed is the people of whom this is true;
    blessed is the people whose God is the Lord.” – Psalm 114:15

“Many, Lord, are asking, “Who will bring us prosperity?”
    Let the light of your face shine on us.
Fill my heart with joy
    when their grain and new wine abound.” – Psalm 4:6-7

” I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.” – Ecclesiastes 3:12-13

Reflection and Charge

We are chosen to be people of the Lord, blessed by him and through him. He gives us prosperity and light. We have all the riches in this world and the next coming to us through Christ. All that being said, sometimes it is hard. It is hard to look past the doom and gloom of this world. To look past the sleepless nights, the pain and suffering, and past the ignorance. It is hard for us, but not hard for Jesus. We need to pray on those emotions, share those with him, and ask for peace, joy, and happiness. This is not easy and I am far from it. I hope through patience, practice, and the friends the Lord has given me, that I will get better at finding and keeping my happiness through him.

Are you truly happy? Do you look to the Lord as your source of happiness and joy? Do you cast your fears, doubts, and tribulations on his?

I will look to the Lord for my happiness and cast my fears, doubts, and tribulations on him with the help of God.

June 20 – Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys

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Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys

Many of us like to be in charge. We want to be responsible for our surroundings, what happens to us, and how life unfurls. I am one of those people who love change, but only when I am the one making the change 🙂 I have issues otherwise.

Working in a new college, there are many balls in the air. People doing a million different tasks while all trying to run in the same direction. I like to be involved and know what is going on. I have my work to do but at the same time want to help others in their work. Sometimes though, I have to just stop and say “Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys”. What does that mean?

Does it mean I don’t care? No. Does it mean I don’t want to help? No. It means that I am not responsible for those activities nor do I have the authority or the accountability for those tasks.

Work in only one area where this comes up. Political discourse, which is toxic in this country, is a prime example of the Circus and Monkeys issue. There are so many places where we have opinions but are not responsible, accountable, or have the authority to make the change. We can use our voice and position power to influence others but that doesn’t make us responsible.

As I always do, I turn to scripture to see what the Word tell us about change, responsibility, and when to say “Not My Circus, Not My Monkeys”.

Scripture

“We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.” – Romans 12:6-8

“for each one should carry their own load.” – Galatians 6:5

Reflection

In Romans, we are reminded of all of our different gifts. It would be unhelpful and possibly quiet foolish for the profit to teach or for the servant to give encouragement or the leader to prophesize. (Granted, someone may have multiple talents but the key is knowing what those talents are). Add to that, that we are already busy with our own work, that trying to help someone with their monkeys when your monkeys are running amok can cause chaos.

Don’t get me wrong. We need to help each other as much as we can. There is a balance and a time to say, I can’t help there, because that is not where I am called at this time. It doesn’t mean you don’t love the person. it doesn’t mean you don’t want to help. It means, in fact, that you can be of more help by staying in your own Big Top. Be the Ring Master of your life and duties before trying to help the next circus over. And only then, when they need the help.

Are you willing to feed and care for your own monkeys? Are you able to see where help isn’t help?

I am willing and able with the help of God.

June 19 – Wizard Needs Food Badly

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Wizard Needs Food Badly

Tonight I’m feeling exhausted. Physically and mentally but also spiritually. The title of this #faithbites is a reference to an 80s video game. In the game you can play as a wizard and you need food to restore your health. That’s how I feel but a cheeseburger isn’t going to cut it.

I work hard. I play hard. I live hard. I try to Love God and Love People. Sometimes it is really hard to Love People when they sow so much hate and ignorance. Our world is in turmoil as it always has been but it seems more real today.

The name of the Lord is used incorrectly and harmfully as it was in the day. The twisting and turning off the Word to suit whatever hateful actions people want.

I use my calling to share the word, share His Love, and try to meet people where they are. This isn’t easy and sometimes quite exhausting. It makes me want to take the easy road sometimes.

“A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense” – Proverbs 19:11

“Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” – Romans 12:17-18

“Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.” Nehemiah 8:10b

Looking over offenses and forgiving those who tresspass against us is key. While I try to practice this, you do get tired and exhausted from it. It makes life hard. I know the Lord is my refuge and strength.

Tonight, after one of these confrontations,I ended it with I pray the Lord send the Holy Spirit to heal your heart. I got a Good Bless you in return.

I don’t know if I handled that right, but I learn and try every day.

But for now, Wizard Needs Food Badly. That will come in the form of prayer and rest.

Will you stand up for the Lord? Will you stand up for those who can’t stand up for themselves? Will you lean on the Lord when you need spiritual food?

I will with the help of God.

June 18 – I’m blah blah blah

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I’m blah blah blah

When something bad happens we say I’m sorry or my thoughts and prayers are with you. We also say things like I hope blah blah blah. We try in this way to show our empathy at best but many times sympathy.

Someone is going through something and we try to change their situation by doing something. I’m here for you. I can help you

These are all great sentiments but sometimes not helpful. Sometimes someone just needs to know they have an ear or a shoulder. I try to say you aren’t alone. If you need anything don’t hesitate to ask. It changes the Dynamics from me centered to them centered.

I find myself in this position alot. When people are discussing soemthing, do you ever find yourself adding your situation or your experience to it? It’s our attempt to both empathize but also to be included. It’s a fine line that I struggle with. Sometimes just being there and being silent is the most help someone needs.

“a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,” – Ecclesiastes 3:7

“When Job’s three friends, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite and Zophar the Naamathite, heard about all the troubles that had come upon him, they set out from their homes and met together by agreement to go and sympathize with him and comfort him.”. – Job 2:11

We know there is a time to cry and a time to heal, a time to help and a time to be helped. Knowing the difference is challenging especially if you are a person who thinks they don’t need help. The Job passafp amazed me. Here is a guy who has gone through the ringer to out it mildly. He has suffered great hadsshio and we learn that his friends come not to help him or solve his problems but to sympathetize and confort. That is what many people need.

I like when I say life sucks sometimes when someone yes, yup your right. It is a bag if suck sometimes. That little bit of empathy and sympathy helps. Then if you need anything don’t hesitate to ask. This is a much different response then if someone says life sucks and you say, nope life is great. Everything is awesome, how can I help you? This not only negatws their feelings but then they feel somwthinf is broken that you need to fix.

We all do it with the best intentions. Just remember, that while you mean well it may be the opposite of what the other person wants.

Are you willing to be their for comfort and sympathy and not to solve? Are ready to be there for the person and not for you?

I’m willing and ready with the help of God

June 17 – Fatherhood

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Before we get started, I wanted to wish all the father and father figures out there. I miss my father and love him much. Take time to wish a Happy Father’s day to everyone out there. You don’t have to be a biological father to be a Dad. And now, onto FaithBites.

Fatherhood

When you think of Fatherhood, what do you think of? Is it love and happiness? Is it someone who is always there? Is it someone who disappointed you? Is it unconditional love? Is it protection? What is it?

When I think of fatherhood, I always say that fatherhood should come with a cup (a.k.a an athletic supporter). One reason is the obvious, as a dad you get kicked in the jewels more times than not. The second is that you are getting hit many times by the media, from kids, from everyone about what a dad should be and what a dad shouldn’t be. It’s crazy at times.

Mostly though I think of love and sacrifice. My father loved me and sacrificed in the best way he could. He wasn’t perfect by far and made many mistakes. He was abusive at times, self-centered, but also very loving and wanted the best for his kids. For me as a father,  I think of love and sacrifice. I have given up countless hours of sleep, time with friends, video game playing, going out, and doing things for me. I have don’t these not out of necessity but out of desire. I wanted to be the best father I can and to share as much love as I can with my children. I will never say I’m a good father, as actions speak louder than words. I try and fail. But then I try, try, and try again. I would love to be a Good Father like our God, but I know I can never be at that level of a father but I try.

His fatherhood is also about love and sacrifice.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” – John 3:16

“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command.” – John 15:12-14

“As a father has compassion on his children,
    so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him;” – Psalm 103:13

Love is all across scripture. Love God, Love People. God’s undying love and desire for reconciliation with us through Christ. He showed ultimate sacrifice by giving up his son to be the lamb for the sins of the world. I don’t know about you, but I don’t think there is anything I would sacrifice my children for. Sacrifice myself, yes, easily any time for them. But to sacrifice them for something else? I can’t fathom that. To love so much, so fully, to desire for us to be reconnected to him, that’s so powerful. So amazing.

Let’s face it, there are times when my children drive me up the wall. They are screaming, yelling, being stubborn, not listening, not being respectful, and the list goes on and on. But through that all, I love them and forgive them. I tell them I don’t like your behavior but I love you no matter what.

Our heavenly father never loses his cool. He never yells at us. Be he sacrifices and forgives all of our sins, all of our walking away, all of everything we do because he loves us. Amazing.

Do you love your heavenly father? Do you recognize the love and sacrifice he gives to you no matter what?

I love him and recognize his love and sacrifice with the help of God.

June 16 – It’s Simple

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It’s Simple, Isn’t It?

We make life complicated. Tablets, cell phones, schedules with no time to breathe. Go, go, go, go. But life truly can be simple if we just breathe. Today, we had a birthday party for my youngest at a nature center. No TV, no computers, cell phones, nothing. We all colored, saw and petted different woodland critters, ate, and enjoyed each other’s company. Then we went to the imagination center. A creek, pots and pans, sandbox, a zip line, water, dirt, mud, critters, and fun. The kids got dirty than I have ever seen in my life. They were having mud fights, standing in the creek, building mini rivers, and using their imaginations. They were happy, healthy, and really enjoying life, nature, and each other.

I honestly can’t remember the last time, we just got to nature and just enjoyed each other. No cell phones. No buzzers to move on. No one saying don’t get dirty, don’t play in the water, don’t don’t don’t. It was all, be careful, and have fun. They even had a great time getting hosed off at the end.

This reminded me of all the negative images of Christianity in the news. Bible verses are taken out of context and even those who don’t want to join a church because of the baggage. Then I think, Christianity is hard, Jesus and his values are easy. (Following Jesus is hard in this world) Jesus wants us to love and live like him.

“I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. 18 For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery, they deceive the minds of naive people.” – Romans 16:17-18

“For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear.” – 2 Timothy 4:3

There isn’t one teaching of Christ, that I know of, that has we should hate. There isn’t one teaching that says we should push out those who are strangers in a strange land. There isn’t one teaching that says we shouldn’t open our hearts and our lives to others. Yet, every day I see Christianity being used by people to do just that.

I think of my kids and their friends playing in the dirt and mud. Then coming home and playing with action figures. No thought about TV. No thought of additional toys or not letting others play. Just having fun with each other and their toys. (Sure, there is a bit of bickering but hey, that’s what sisters do). We should be like that with Christ. We should welcome people into his arms. We should help our strangers, our neighbors, our unbelievers. We shouldn’t try to hold onto Christ for ourselves, but go out like kids playing in the dirt with new friends. Sharing and having an excellent time enjoying nature and their company. Christ is love as we should be too.

Are you willing to open your heart and your Jesus to others? Are you willing to see Christ for who he is and not what we think he may be to others?

I am open and willing with the help of God.

June 15 – Love, It’s Not Rocket Science

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Love, It’s Not Rocket Science

Growing up, I’ve heard over and over when something is hard: “Well, at least it’s not Rocket Science”. That saying makes the point that Rocket Science is hard. It takes lots of math, understanding, and reasoning. A couple years ago, I took a course in educational research. My professor used to say, when talking about Educational Research, “It’s not Rocket Science….it’s harder”. Referring to how conditions change so radically in education that can affect the outcome. I joke that a student can have a bad breakfast, get in a bad mood, and your day is changed. Or someone had a good night sleep, and your outcome is different.

Love isn’t like any of these. Love is easy. We make it hard.

My daughters love me. They say it all the time. They give me hugs. They say “I miss you daddy” or “I love you Daddy”. They want cuddles all the time. They want to be in my presence. It could be 1:00 A.M and they still want my presence when all I want is my pillow and blanket.

We are born to love. Our first desire is to hang onto our parents. We need them for support, safety, food, and everything. We love them and they love us.

When everything is going well and people agree with us, it’s easy to love. It’s hard to love when we disagree. When someone has a different point of view from us. When someone looks or acts differently than us. We make love hard. We find so many reasons to not love people. Just look at Facebook or the news. It’s crazy how much energy we put into not loving people.

Imagine if we just smiled and showed love to everyone, no matter how hard it is. (And showing love isn’t always sunshine and puppy dogs. You can show love through corrective action. You can show love through disappointment and help).

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another” – John 13:34

“Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters. Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.”- Hebrews 13:1-2

“Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart. For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God” – 1 Peter 1:22-24

In the NIV, the word Love appears 551 times. That’s a lot of love. Love is everywhere in the Bible as it should be in our lives. We are commanded by Jesus to Love one another as he loved us. Last time I checked, that love involved him dying on the cross of us. Would you die on the cross for someone? Do you show hospitality to strangers? Have you been purified by the blood and the water?

These are easy questions with hard answers. If we answer yes to these, then we need to love. We need to not judge someone. We need to share the Lord and share his love. We don’t need to fight and call each other names. We don’t need to use this loving energy to tear each other down.

I am sickened when I read comments on news and social media. I’m sickened by the hate that is shown for the other. I’m sickened when I see our leader’s using the Bible to tear down things they don’t like. This is not love.

I choose to love everyone. I choose to share Jesus and Love everywhere.

When I hug my kids and wife I show love. Yes, they drive me crazy like many things do, but I try to show love all the time. I’m not perfect, but I want to live in a world of love.

Are you willing to trade the hate for love? Are you willing to share this child-like love with everyone?

I am willing to love everyone with the help of God.

June 14 – Are you a Jesus Fan or Believer?

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Are you a Jesus Fan or a Jesus Believer?

Before we get started, I wanted to thank one of my friends for sending me an article about Star Wars Fandom as well as how that relates to Jesus.(https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1682964248418784&id=562540463794507)  I really appreciate everyone who sends me thoughts and ideas. And now, onto Faithbites.\

I love science fiction. I love how I can be anything, go anywhere, and do anything in the realm of sci-fi. Superheros and Star Wars have always been top in my book. As anyone who knows me, and they will say my favorite superhero is Superman. I love him. Being sent from another planet for safety and becoming the savior of another planet. Fighting for Truth, Justice, and the American Way. Having his secret identity being human whereas most other heroes the reverse is true. I loved the Christopher Reeve movies, even the Brandon Routh one. The current DC Universe, I hate. I hate the portrayal of Superman. I think it’s awful. I think this is ruining my childhood. Superman doesn’t kill. (Well, he doesn’t unless he has too, but that’s another story). I have refused to watch the movies more than once, and really don’t want to see the next one. (Wonder Woman was the exception, she was great).

I also love Star Wars. I disliked the prequels but really like the new ones as well. The article that my friend sent me, talks about fandom. And how Star Wars has a White Male Fandom problem. It shows how people hated the new movies. That they were ‘raping their childhood’. They were destroying everything the loved about Star Wars. Much of it related to new, non-white male characters. It’s a good read.

Fandom, in general, is great. We get to share our love with other fans. We get to delve deeper into the universe, exploring ideas, what ifs, and have fun. At the same time, we become protective of our fandom. We say things like we loved it before it was popular or you’re not a true fan because of x,y,z. Or my favorite, you don’t know every nth degree about it so you aren’t a true fan like I am.

You may be wondering how this idea of fandom and sides relates to faith and Jesus. As one of my friends said in the comments of that article (it was shared in a Christian group): “I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ” – Mahatma Gandhi. Another comment on the facebook page I liked “Jesus has never been the problem. He seems pretty chill. It’s his toxic fanbase I take issue with”.

Are we believers in the Christ of the Bible or are we Fanboys and FanGirls of Christ? Do we have a Christ problem?

“Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did” – 1 John 2:6

“Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” – Ephesians 5:1-2

“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls” – Matthew 11:29

Do we as Christians have a fanboy/fangirl problem? Let’s see. Do we criticize people for not living like we do? Sure we do, all the time. We say terrible things like ‘God Hates Fags’. Last time I checked, God loves everyone. (Romans 5:8). He doesn’t condone certain behaviors and sin but he loves everyone. We talk terribly about our youth. Those millennials are lazy, stupid, don’t get the real world. But we don’t open our arms to help them. Jesus said let the little children come to me. (Matthew 19:14). We say terrible things about immigrants and foreign-born people. Jesus talked welcomed in people and helped them. (Matthew 25:35, Hebrews 13:2). Let’s look at what some groups, such as the Westboro Baptist Church as done.

We do all of these things from an assumed high place of moral authority. We act as if we know who God is and exactly what Jesus told us to do. The problem is, often we are using our Christianity and not being followers of Christ. We have taken on a group think to understand scripture and can use that to defame, humiliate, segregate, and cause harm to so many.

I am a sinner. I sin on a daily basis. I do not know the Bible inside and out. I can’t interpret God or Jesus or the Holy Spirit. I am not like them. I do try to live Christ-like by loving God and loving People. I try to not get caught up in the fandom, pomp and circumstance, and trappings of Christianity. I try to learn about his word and share that. I try not to judge. I do not have the skills. I hope to always be a follower and admirer of Christ. I hope not to get caught up in the fandom of Christ that I sour people’s perceptions of his awesome nature and his death that bridge the divide between man and God.

Are you a Christian? If so, are you willing to live as Christ lived? Are you willing to be gentle and humble in your heart towards other?

I am willing to do all these things with the help of God.

June 13 – Passion of the You

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Passion of the You

We see those people enter the room. They have a presence about them. They are comfortable in their skin. We turn and look at them. We feel their presence as much as see them. This in many cases is because they show their passion. They dive all in and embrace who they truly are. (Of course, we know they have problems just like the rest of us, but they are connected and engage in what makes them whole). Note, I didn’t say happy, rather whole.

On the final leg of my trip, I saw a young, smiling, open, woman who was our flight attendant. She was happy to be there. She was happy to help others. She really enjoyed her job. She wasn’t just there bringing in a paycheck. Her name…..Passion. I can’t make this up. She showed passion and was Passion.

Do I think she has bad days? Sure. Do I know what she is feeling inside? No. I know how she made me and others feel. She was true to herself at that moment.

This is something we all can strive for. To show our passion, but what does passion really mean?

“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
    for they will be filled.” – Matthew 5:6

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters,” – Colossians 3:23

We have talked about how language changes. Nothing shows this better than the word Passion. We think of Passion as an intense burning desire for something. It’s what we put our heart and soul into. Did you know that Passion in the bible is pretty much the opposite?  From Dictionary.com, Passion is: 1125–75; Middle English (< Old French) < Medieval Latin passiōn- (stem of passiō) Christ’s sufferings on the cross, any of the Biblical accounts of these (> late Old English passiōn). There you go. Passion meant Christ’s sufferings on the cross. Compassionate then meant to be with those suffering.

I bring this up to show how a word that meant such terrible pain and suffering (don’t forget it was for you), has given us a word that means an intense burning desire. Christ wants us to work with all our heart as working for the lord and not human masters. When we don’t show our passions, we are being fake. We aren’t using the gifts Jesus suffered (passion) for rather we are striving for the immoral passions.

So when I met Passion today, I saw a great example of what that word means today. We are meant to show the passion in our callings. We are meant to thoroughly live as Christ would want us to, fulfilling the roles and duties God commands.

Are you ready to acknowledge Christ’s passion and how it influences yours? Can you commit to being true to your passions and showing it to the world?

I am ready and committed with the help of God.

June 12 – I Hope You Feel Small When You Stand Beside the Ocean

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I hope you feel small when your standing by the ocean.

Flying into the sunset, at 29,000 feet, over the mountains, you feel small. You can no longer see any traces of humanity. You are but a dot in the universe.

You are no longer in control. You are reliant on the pilot and his or her skills, the pilot is reliant on the mechanic’s ability to keep the plane in good shape, you are reliant on the plane and the weather. If something were to happen at this altitude, there would probably be no trace of you.  You will vanish.

Why am I saying this? Am I trying to be morbid? Am I trying to scare myself and others? (It is a bit scary when you look at the window and think about it.)  No. I’m saying this to help show our place in the world. I do know that if something happened to me, the Lord would look after my family and I would be with him.

Sometimes we feel bigger than we are. We feel that our hopes, wants, dreams, and desires are more important than everyone else’s’. We do everything in our power to feel large; to make ourselves feel important. Why? Because when we do this, we feel more connected, more in control. But we still feel alone, disconnected, and unwanted.

Other times, we feel smaller than we are. We are less than the dot of humanity. Nothing we do is good enough.We are not part of any plan. We are insignificant to those around us and to the universe as a whole. This disconnected, insignificant, and alone feel is destructive. IT can lead to loss of relationships and self-destructive behaviors up to and including suicide. We feel alone, disconnected, and unwanted.

We are not insignificant. We are not unwanted. We are not unloved. We are not bigger than we are nor are we smaller than we are. We are surrounded, connected, and wanted by God.

“You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised” – Isaiah 43:4

“You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised” – Hebrews 10:63

God has a plan for us. We were known before we were born. (Jerimiah 1:5). God has a master plan for the universe and we are part of it.

When we act bigger than we are, we are trying to compensate for something. When we feel smaller than we are, we are trying to compensate for something.

This something is a lack of connectedness, a feeling of a need to prove something to be accepted and successful. We are already successful in the eyes of God. He knows us, loves us, and wants us.

We just need to know that we have a place in his plan. If we take ourselves out, we interrupt God’s plan. We have a role to play and he with strengthen and protect us.

Are you ready to accept that you are loved, wanted, you have a purpose, and God loves you?

I am ready, though it may be hard, with the help of God.

June 11 – Do you hear the words coming out of my mouth

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Do you hear the words coming out of my mouth?

Language is a powerful thing. It lets us convey our thoughts, feelings, dreams, desires, believes, wishes, and more. It helps connect us to the past and to the future. It is immensely powerful when used well and when not understood, it can lead to miscommunications that can break relationships and lead to internal stress.

I made friends with an Australian at this conference and we have been hanging out at workshops and talking. As much as we like to think we speak English, there are many differences between terms we use to describe the same thing as well as how we measure items. We were talking about restaurants and she kept referring to Maccas. I asked her to repeat it a couple of times then I said, we didn’t have that here. Then she said, McDonalds. We call it McDonalds or MickeyDs but they call is Maccas. Then we were talking about the weather, I said it would be hot at 104 degrees. She had no concept about that as they use Celcius. Similar, we were talking about weight and loss of weight I said at one point I was 363 pounds, that meant nothing to here. We had to google and translate it to kilos.

Likewise, throughout the conference, even in medicine, there is a difference in the terms between countries, schools, foundational scientists, clinicians, and educators.

Also similar, is how people live, act, and work. We think we know what America is based on where we live. Go to another town for a few days or longer and you will see the culture is different.  People refer to things a bit different. Have different preferences, beliefs, and cultures.

Without a common language or terms, how can we understand each other? Then if we extend that to our faith, how can we expect people who don’t understand our language, understand Christ?

“Now the whole world had one language and a common speech. As people moved eastward,they found a plain in Shinar[ and settled there. They said to each other, “Come, let’s make bricks and bake them thoroughly.” They used brick instead of stone, and tar for mortar. Then they said, “Come, let us build ourselves a city, with a tower that reaches to the heavens, so that we may make a name for ourselves; otherwise we will be scattered over the face of the whole earth.” But the Lord came down to see the city and the tower the people were building. The Lord said, “If as one people speaking the same language they have begun to do this, then nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them. Come, let us go down and confuse their language so they will not understand each other.” So the Lord scattered them from there over all the earth, and they stopped building the city. That is why it was called Babel because there the Lord confused the language of the whole world. From there the Lord scattered them over the face of the whole earth.” – Genesis 11:1-9

“After this I looked, and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and before the Lamb. They were wearing white robes and were holding palm branches in their hands.” – Revelation 7:9

In the beginning we had one language. One way to discuss our thoughts, our feelings, and beliefs. Then as seen in the Tower of Babel story, our language was confused as we looked only to ourselves and not to the glory of God. In the end, (Yes I know today’s scripture is from the beginning and the end of the Bible), a great multitude of every language stood together in harmony before the Lord.

We have long way to go as a people to progress to the point when no matter our language or where we are from, we are in harmony. We as individuals can help.

We can share our experiences in Christ with others. We don’t need to use big terms. We don’t need to use “church language” or even unfamiliar terms. We can speak from the heart how we feel about the Lord. We can share scripture. When we do that, we begin to bridge that divide. When we use a ‘big word’ or a ‘church term’, we should stop to explain it. Not wait for others to ask, but explain it. I have to ask on a daily basis about medical terms that I don’t know. But I realize that many won’t ask. They will assume if they don’t know it, either it’s not important, not relevant, or they will feel stupid if they ask. If we instead, explain it in terms they are familiar with, we bridge that gap.

We have a lot of work to do to help overcome our language barriers. But through Christ and the Holy Spirit, if we work at it, we can achieve all things. (Philippians 4:13).

Are you willing to change your language to share the love of Christ? Are you willing to tell your story in a way that is familiar and accessible to others?

I am willing with the help of God.

June 10 – Salvation Only $100

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Salvation Only $100

“Get your Salvation Here. Only $100. You can do whatever you want”.

“Step right up. It’s so easy, anyone can do it”.

Ok, so the first one isn’t true, the second is, but let me give you a little bit of backstory. I am pretty naive and gullible. I’ve been that way my whole life. I apply scientific reasoning and try to figure it out, but I still get swindled occasionally.

Today, while walking on the strip so a friend could buy Celine Dione tickets, there was a guy doing a variation of the shell game. If you don’t know what that is. Here’s a recap. A person has three cups or shells and puts a ball under one of them. He moves them around and around and around and then you have to guess where the ball is. You guess right, you win the money. You guess wrong, you lose. So I was watching this and I saw a guy keep winning. I was able to follow the ball and I was right everytime. He wanted me to do it. I said no and kept watching. Then he was trying to get me to pay $200 to do it.  I said I didn’t have that much no way. He said, you give me 1 and I’ll give you two. I had been right the two other times, how hard could it be. He even got it down to two cups. I selected and swore I was right, but I was wrong. $100 gone in an instant. I was suckered. (Don’t worry, we are doing Dave Ramsey and it was in my budget. I didn’t want to spent it that way, but I didn’t go broke because of it”.

He did everything right to distract me: 1) He showed me how easy it was to win. 2) He made it a lower price. 3)He even reduced the odds. 4) He made me believe, against my better judgment, that I could win.

So I was left $100 poorer, sad, angry at myself, unable to do some of the other things I wanted to do for the next few days, and really questioning my judgment. But then the God sent the holy spirit as he always does.

This shell game is a perfect metaphor for religion in America.

“But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them—bringing swift destruction on themselves.” 2 Peter 2:1

“They are from the world and therefore speak from the viewpoint of the world, and the world listens to them. We are from God, and whoever knows God listens to us; but whoever is not from God does not listen to us. This is how we recognize the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood.” – 1 John 4:5-8

Christians are bad. Christians hate people. Jesus wasn’t real. The bible is made up. Science proves there is no God. All of these statements and more abound in our world. The false prophets of today that show up on our TV, books, social media, news, and more. It is hard to be a Christian. Not only because of the false prophets but those of us who use their religion to hate or discriminate at.

We have salvation through our belief in Jesus. He paid our salvation cost with his blood. There is no shell game to pick which one has salvation. There is no $100 entry fee (no indulgences of 500 years ago). There is no skill or trickery needed. Just to accept Jesus. To Love God and love people. That’s a pretty low barrier to entry.

Yes, it’s hard to believe in that which you can not see. Yes, it’s easy to be tempted by “easy money” as I was. And when we are tempted we lose much more than $100. So next time you metaphorically see the shell game table telling you it’s easy to win and be part of this world, just keep walking. You don’t want anything they are selling.

Are you able to see the temptations of this world pulling you away from Christ? Are able to see if you walk away, how much more than just money you will lose? Are you able to see that we will have all the riches we need in him?

I am able with the help of God.

June 9 – Can You Share Too Much?

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Before we get started, I was thinking about the topic for today before the passing of Anthony Bourdain. This was inspired by my self-doubt in sharing and wondering if I am annoying or if I am helping. When I saw he passed, I thought this was definitely the right message. I hope you agree. And now, onto FaithBites.

Can You Share Too Much?

I love people. I love to talk to people and learn their story. I love to share my experiences and usually don’t hold back. You want to know something, just ask and I will share.

On the plane to Las Vegas, the woman next to me started chatting with me about life in general. We talked about our kids, mental illness, teaching, wellness, politics, and pretty much everything you can think about it. It was refreshing. I didn’t hold anything back nor did she.

In my normal interactions with people, some are surprised that I talk about my struggles with mental illness, medicine, health, politics, and everything so openly. I also share if I came into work early, have a doctors appointment, what’s going on with my kids, etc.

Some think this sharing is to get attention. Some to hear myself talk. In reality, I share (and hope others share with me) to fully understand me as a person and my actions. Some may say that if you tell people you got in early, you are looking for praise. For me, it’s just showing that I am here and it explains why I may leave early. If I talk about mental illness, it’s not for a pity party, but rather to understand my actions and help them know it is ok to share their feelings and thoughts if they want to.

“Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” James 5:16

“Instead, we were like young children among you. Just as a nursing mother cares for her children, so we cared for you. Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.” – 1 Thessalonians 2:7-8

Our verses for today talk about loving each other. confessing to each other, praying for each other. We are powerful through Christ. We can help each other. Your sharing may encourage someone to share with you. That person may be on the edge of a very difficult decision, they may be contemplating suicide, malicious activities, harming themselves or others, you never know. But like in Thessalonians, the disciples loved the people and cared for them as a nursing mother; sharing the gospel and their lives. This is powerful. We share the Lord and our lives with those around us. Through the Holy Spirit, we can enrich them, comfort them, and help them.

Yes, I talk a lot. I have troubles sometimes knowing when people want to listen or not. I amaze people with what I am willing to share. I know very little shame or privacy and that’s ok for me. It’s not the right fit for everyone. Find the where sharing is comfortable for you. Let someone know about you, so they can understand truly who you are. It will help explain your actions and help build deeper relationships.

Are you ready to share yourself with the world? Will you commit to sharing a new fact about yourself with someone once a week?

I am ready and willing to commit with the help of God.

June 8 – Plans Interrupted

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Plans Interrupted

After a long day of travel, all I wanted to do was check into my hotel. As usual, there was a card on file from my work, then they wanted a card for incidentals. After they ran my personal card, they said the card wouldn’t go through. I asked why and they said they tried to put the whole length of the stay, plus the incidental charge, plus the resort fees. I said that didn’t make any sense as they had a company card on file and we were told no credit card authorization form was needed. Let’s just say it went downhill from there. (No internet in the room, messed up reservations, etc etc) And no, I don’t have any credit cards, Dave Ramsey at work 🙂 I was angry. Not quite psycho Sol as my wife would say. I felt lost. I felt isolated. I felt angry. Things like this shouldn’t be happening. I had everything planned out. My angry spilled into my relationship with the person at the front desk and colored the rest of the night, including lack of sleep worrying about it all getting sorted out.

We all have days when anger gets the better of us. For me, it’s usually when my plans are interrupted, change is made without my input, or more generally when I don’t have any sense of control in the matter. As I do most days, I turned to scripture for comfort.

“Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” – James 1:19-20

“Good sense makes one slow to anger,
    and it is his glory to overlook an offense.” Proverbs 19:11

I know that anger doesn’t help. It inflames the situation. It makes everyone on edge. I also know it’s a basic human emotion that can cause trouble but can, when used appropriately lead to action. I also what Master Yoda says about anger leading to the dark side 🙂

The manager tried to calm me down. He tried to explain the situation. He worked around what he could. I get it. So often we look at the loss of control, the loss of choice, and get angry. We are not thinking clearly, nor are we allowing God to flow through us. There are a million books written on anger management, but in the heat of the moment, they are hard to remember.

The Lord wants us to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger. Anger doesn’t bring God’s righteousness but rather his wrath. Let us try to be more Christ-like and find the sources of our anger. Then use that information to find answers to help stop those sources or better yet, find ways to change that anger into action.

Are you willing to find your sources of anger? Are you ready to make a plan to turn anger into action?

I am willing and ready with the help of God.

June 7 – People are People

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Before we get started,I have to admit that this is the highest faithbites ever. Not that it it more Noble or more holy than others, just that I am writing it at 28,000 feet. Not sure if it makes me closer to God,because he is everywhere.
Anywho, onto Faithbites

People are People

Being in an airport can be a wonderful experience. Yes, it’s hectic with people running from gate to gate, long lines for the bathrooms and food, cramped accommodations and the lost goes on and on. These may not seem like wonderful experiences to you, but for me it gives me the opportunity to people watch. Which is a fsvorite past time of mine.
On my first flight, I had a wonderful conversation soth a woman off to visit her boyfriend in North Carolina. On this flight, I was joking with several older African Americans, conversing with two 18 – 20  something Caucasian women, and having a Facebook chat with a new friend from Kenya.
The funny thing is, we were all laughing and talking about the same things.
We all want peace.
We want security and saftey
We want freedom to love, worship, and live.
We want governments that represent us, people who respect us, and opportunities to explore.
We have the same emotions, hopes, and dreams. (While our specific dreams may be different, our longing and dreaming is universal.

People as a group can be terrible.
People are individuals can be amazing.

We need to remember we are all the same. We are all people who want to live. We are all people of the same God.

“There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” – Galatians 3:28 (ESV)

“So Peter opened his mouth and said: “Truly I understand that God shows no partiality,” – Acts 10:34

“Have we not all one Father? Has not one God created us? Why then are we faithless to one another, profaning the covenant of our fathers?” – Malachi 2:10

People are people. We were created by the same heavenly being. Even if you don’t believe in God, we all evolved from the same blood, the same lifelines. You are in my bloodline and I am in yours.

Would you kill yourself?

Would you ridiculed yourself?

Would you love yourself?

We are all the same in God’s eyes. We are in flesh,one body.

We may look different on the outside. We may speak a different language. We may have different views on some topics, but we are all people. We need to love others as we love ourselves.

Can you see that we are all brothers and sisters? Can you see how you treat others is a reflection on yourself?

I can see with the help of God

June 6 – The Audience

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The Audience

On Friday I was at a medical education conference. The theme of the conference was preparing clinicians, residents, and faculty to be better teachers. This is right up my alley. During the keynote presentation, a Physician talked about systems care. During the talk, he used terminology that was way over my head. Many acronyms, compounds phrases, and concepts I hadn’t heard before. I was starting to get lost. I thought the talk was over my head and not appropriate to the audience in the room. Then I thought about it a little more. This was the right audience for the talk, I was just not part of that audience.

That is hard to hear. We want messages directed to us. We want to be part of the conversation. This was the first time, I really felt out of place. I wanted to change the speech to fit me, but in this case, I wasn’t the audience. I was there and could listen but this wasn’t for me, it was for others. This is no different than in the Bible. Paul wrote 13 different letters to leaders in the early church. These epistles (21 in total) were written with their audience in mind: The Romans, Corinthians, Galatians, Ephesians, Philippians, Colossians, Thessalonians, Hebrews, Timothy, Titus, and Philemon.

“Standing up, Paul motioned with his hand and said: “Fellow Israelites and you Gentiles who worship God, listen to me! The God of the people of Israel chose our ancestors; he made the people prosper during their stay in Egypt; with mighty power he led them out of that country; or about forty years he endured their conduct in the wilderness;and he overthrew seven nations in Canaan, giving their land to his people as their inheritance. All this took about 450 years.

“After this, God gave them judges until the time of Samuel the prophet.” – Acts 13:16-20

This scripture may seem strange to you. It’s not really quotable. It’s doesn’t seem to have a clear message. How does it relate to your audiences background? Well, when Paul went into the city, he knew this was a mostly Jewish crowd. He spoke to them not of his works or of Jesus, but of their history. He summarized what they had been through and what they knew. This helped to build report and to open them up to his message about the Gospel. When he went to Lystra (Acts 14) he used examples of nature, sea, crops and the like. (Contextual Preaching, Ed Stetzer). He spoke in terms they could understand. Same thing in Athens. This was a pattern. He changed his message to the people he was talking too.

We need to do that as well. Not just with sharing the Gospel but in everything we do. If we don’t speak in a way people can understand, they can’t hear us. They won’t know the love of Christ. This can be applied to our political talk, our religious conversations, finance, and on and on. Knowing where you audience came from, what makes them tick, allows you to change how you are speaking to them, not what you are saying. The Gospel isn’t for us to change, but how we interact, is up to us as the Holy Spirit works through us.

Are you willing to change your conversation to help people understand the Gospel? Can you see how your approach can help someone be more open to Christ?

I can see and am willing with the help of God.

June 5 – Thoughts and Prayers AND…

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Thoughts and Prayers AND…

A storm wrecks havoc on a town – Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You.

Someone is very ill: Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You

A tragedy behalfs a school: Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You

A loved one dies: Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You

You lost your job: Our Thoughts and Prayers are with You

Do you see a pattern here? We give our thoughts and prayers all of the time. Sometimes superficially when someone asks, sometimes very compassionately. Lately, in the arena of gun violence, the term “thoughts and prayers” are like a four-letter word.

Why did that happen?  Why do people not see the power of prayer? The reason is pretty simple: Action.

God wants us to act. He speaks to us through the Holy Spirit. We may not want to hear him, but we are called to act. The actions we take are the answers to the prayers of others. God works through us to grant those prayers. If we only think and pray, we are not fulfilling our part.

“What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.

But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.”

Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds.” – James 2:14-18

We can go to worship. We can pray. We can try to lead a godly life. But without action or service, we have failed. We need to help others come to Christ. How do we do that? Through our actions.

Today a friend of mine was driving an saw an African-American man in a suit next to his car with a flat tire. This was in rural Illinois. Many townspeople gathered and watched but didn’t help. My friend came over and helped him out. He then said he was the mayor of the town (the man who helped) and the stranded motorist was surprised. My friend didn’t want any money. He was glad to help and told the man God Bless. I can imagine that the stranded motorist was struggling, praying, and hoping for help. My friend answered as the Holy Spirit is within him.

Now it is your turn. TIme to give your thoughts, your prayers, and your actions to those who need it.

Are you willing to be God’s hands and answer prayers? Are you ready to give actions along with your thoughts and prayers?

I am ready and willing with the help of God.

June 4 – What did you learn?

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What did you learn?

From point A to point B. That seems to be what life is like most days. We go from home to work or home to school and vice versa. We go on a vacation then back home. We travel for work then back home. We go to church then back home. You get it.

When we come back from wherever we went, we usually get the same questions:

• How was your trip?
• Did you have a good time?
• Where did you go?
• What did you eat?
• What did you do?

I have had the conversation so many times with my daughter. How was school? Who did you play with? What did you eat for lunch? These questions are the surface level questions that we ask over and over again. I was thinking about this because I will be going on a business trip. I already thought about my return and the questions people will ask. I like to give an after trip report but usually, they are short, surface-level, and don’t bring a lot back.

The same can be said for going to church/worship. How was church? Who did you see? How was the message? How was Sunday School?

The biggest question that we forget most times is: What did you learn?

If we are going through life and not learning, how are we growing? How are we sharing that experience with others?

“Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” – Philippians 4:9

“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” – Matthew 11:29-30

“Teach them to your children. Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road and when you lie down and when you get up.” – Deuteronomy 11:19

Moses didn’t tell the Israelites here is the word of God, keep it to yourself. He didn’t take the commandments from God and hide them in his house. He shared them. He told the people to talk about God’s law all day and every day. If we don’t learn from God (information) and take action (knowledge) then we fail. Just like being in school, we can learn a lot of information but if we don’t have the knowledge to use it, we have a much harder time in life. In Matthew, Jesus says to take his yoke and learn from him. Rest our souls. When we learn how to be Christ-Like, and share it, then everyone is closer to God and our cup overflows into them. Their cup overflows and so on and so forth.

Our God is a God of action. We need to be a people of action. The biggest part of that is sharing what we have learned.

Some don’t want to share or are uncomfortable. It is up to all of us to change the conversation. Instead of saying “how was your trip?” or “how was church?”, let’s ask “What did you learn today?”

Are you ready to share your information AND knowledge? Will you ask someone what they learned today?

I am ready and will ask with the help of God.

June 3 – What Can I handle?

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What Can I handle?

As we’ve talked about many times: Life is Hard. We are swamped and under siege with pressures, commitments, problems, bills, and more. We try our best, but it seems like we are constantly underwater. Things that used to be a joy, seem like a task to complete.

When I stated FaithBites, I looked forward to it every day. A chance to connect to all of you, to learn about God’s word, and see how it impacts my life daily. Some days though, it is a chore. I don’t want to do it. I don’t want to take the time to think. I feel it is too much. But I do it, I learn, and I feel better about it. While that is a small example, we all have these pressures and constraints on us.

Today at worship, our pastor said something that really stuck with me. We often say to ourselves and people in pain: “God only gives you as much as you can handle”. The truth is, he gives you more than you can handle on your own. You can’t try to do it all as you are not perfect nor are you capable. We often try though and that leads to more pain, stress, and exhaustion.

You may be asking, why would God give us too much to handle. I didn’t say he gave you too much to handle, but too much to handle on your own. You need Christ. His love, his strength, his passion, is what gives you the strength, the love, the wisdom, and the power to accomplish any task or thrive in any struggle.

“We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. 9 We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed. 10 Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.” – 2 Corinthians 4:8-10 (NLT)

“He will also keep you firm to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ” – 1 Corinthians 1:8-9

Being a follower of Christ is not easy. There are temptations all around us. There are unbelievers. There is Satan. There are so many trials and tribulations that we think we cannot do it anymore.  The funny thing is that is true. We can’t do it alone. But through our prayers, through God’s gifts, we are able to not be crushed. We won’t go into despair or be abandoned. We will get knocked down (and then I get up again, you ain’t never going to keep me down. Sorry, Tubthumpin was one of my favorite songs in college).

We are saved and empowered throws God’s G.R.A.C.E.

• Gods
• Riches
• At
• Christ’s
• Expense

Are you ready to live through Christ? Are you ready to acknowledge you need the power of God to thrive in life?

I am ready with the help of God.

June 2 – The Truth is Out There

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The Truth

What is truth? In today’s day and age, the truth seems to be fluid. In a heated discussion on Facebook, several of my friends and debated on what truth means. For some, it’s a scientific quest for answers. For others, it’s in the Bible. For others, it is in conversation with each other. For others, the truth changes and evolves over time. For others still, the truth is constant but our understanding of the truth changes.

This is a hard concept to master. For me, without truth, we don’t have common ground. Without common ground, we can’t have a foundation to build upon. This isn’t to say that we can’t disagree on policies, processes, and beliefs. But, if we don’t have what the truth is, we can’t move forward.

For instance, if I said 1 + 1 = 2. Most people would say that’s correct. Now, I could say 1 + 1 = 13 and that would also be correct. If we said 1 foot + 1 inch = 13 inches. We could also say 2 + 2 = 4 (which most would agree with) or 2+2=1. (2 soldiers + 2 soldiers = 1 squad). To me, those are still facts, but ones that we understand more as we discuss.

Likewise, we used to think that we had bad humors and that caused sickness. Now we know about germs and bacteria. The truth didn’t change, our understanding of it did.

Bible understanding is similar to this to me. The word doesn’t change, but how the words were used and are used does. The different translations of the bible show things slightly differently. When there is one Hebrew word that can mean 10 different English words and vice versa, there can be issues. Likewise in English, we even change what words mean in 10 years let alone 2-5 thousand years. Think about LOL. Many of you probably think it means Laughing Out Loud. Many young people now us it in texting and such to mean ok. Things change.

God doesn’t change, but our understanding of him and his word do.

“Then how is it that each of us hears them in our own native language” – Acts 2:8

“Undoubtedly there are all sorts of languages in the world, yet none of them is without meaning. If then I do not grasp the meaning of what someone is saying, I am a foreigner to the speaker, and the speaker is a foreigner to me. So it is with you. Since you are eager for gifts of the Spirit, try to excel in those that build up the church. “ – 1 Corinthians 14:10-12

The words we use may change. The ideas we have may evolve over years, but truth stays. There is an ultimate truth. For me, it is believing in God the father and I am saved through Christ. For me it is to Love God, Love people. I can disagree with someone, I can see their point, and be respectful and loving to them. As I say to folks, I may not like you but I love you. And yes it’s hard.

We need to think about the God, his word, and how we act to others. The search for truth is something that we all need. We need to hear to listen. We need to listen to understand. We need to have open hearts to grow our relationships.

Are you able to see that there is such a thing as truth? Can you see God’s role in that truth?

I am able and can see with the help of God.

May 31 – The Joys of Traveling

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The Joys of Traveling

Summer is here. School is out. People are traveling for vacations, missions, visiting family, and to explore the world. This morning as I kissed my wife and kids goodbye for the day, I realized that all we do is travel. Travel to work. Travel for food. Travel for entertainment. Travel for worship. Travel for fun. Some travels are short, like going to get ice cream, while others are long like going to Kenya for a mission trip. And I would be remiss to not say a special prayer for the Trinity Lutheran Mission Trip in Kenya right now. Godspeed.

But we are always on the move. Planning, packing, executing, all in the desire to eventually come home, maybe more relaxed, maybe more educated, maybe more spiritually touched, maybe more excited. So many reasons to travel and come home.

During worship, we occasionally sing “God is on the Move”. It’s an upbeat some about God’s mighty ways. I guess if we are created in his image, we should be on the move as he is on the move.

“The Lord will keep you from all harm—
he will watch over your life;
the Lord will watch over your coming and going
both now and forevermore.” – Psalm  121:7-8

“He said to them, “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.” – Mark 16:15

“By day the Lord went ahead of them in a pillar of cloud to guide them on their way and by night in a pillar of fire to give them light, so that they could travel by day or night.” – Exodus 13:21

We all travel, whether we know it or not. The travel may be physical like we talked about above or it may be spiritual as we move along our faith journey. God wants us to move and preach the gospel as he says in Mark. At the same time though, he keeps us from harm, he watches are coming goings, and he guides us.

As I think about the overnight trips for my family coming up where we are separated, I know that God is watching. As I think about our missionaries across the world, God is watching them. As I think about my kids just going to daycare and my wife to work, God is watching.

Wherever you travel, know that God is watching and protecting you.

Are you ready to travel with the Lord? Are you ready to follow his path as he guides you to your next destination?

I am ready with the help of God.

June 1 – Our Shadow

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Our Shadow

What is a shadow but the absence of light? We call it a reflection of ourselves, but really it is all of the light that goes around us that makes our shadow. This morning I was driving my youngest to spend the day with her aunt and it was very very early, the “sun was just waking up” as she said. As we were driving she screamed, “Daddy, look at the car shadow”. And there it was, almost a perfect shadow as we were driving down the highway. Next, without prompting she said “Just like the shadow of Jesus in our hearts”. I have never heard that expression before. I wasn’t sure if she was talking about the Holy Spirit, Jesus living in our hearts, or what. But, I said, “Yes, just like that.”

When I started to think about shadows, I guess she is right. If we follow Jesus, and Jesus is God’s light, then his shadow would be in our heart. We would carry that shadow wherever we go, as we are bathed in his light.  Now if Jesus is in our heart, and his light shines on us, what does our shadow show?

“the people living in darkness
    have seen a great light;
on those living in the land of the shadow of death”
    a light has dawned” – Isaiah 9:2

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” – John 1:5

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” -James 1:17

The light comes and the shadows vanish. An object moves and the shadow changes. But God’s gifts from above do not change like shifting shadows. His light is constant; surrounding us, comforting us, and protecting us. Our shadow is not caused by darkness or absence of light, but rather by the radiant light from above that can not be overcome.

We can choose how others see our shadow. It is hard for people to see your heart (unless you are a doctor but I digress). But they can see how your heart and saved spirit turn into actions. They can see your kindness, love, generosity, understanding, empathy, and so much more. Your shadow is long and one of caring and love. Likewise, negative actions and emotions can lead to a very long and harmful shadow that blocks out rather than radiates God’s love. This is your choice. How you listen to God and live by his word, determines the length and type of your shadow. Like my little one said “Jesus’s shadow lives in our heart”.

Are you ready to show the world that Jesus’s shadow lives in your heart? Through your actions, can you share his light with the world?

I am ready and able with the help of God.

May 30 – Love Like a Sibling

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Love LIke a Sibling

When I was a kid, my brother beat the snot out of me. We fought like cats and dogs. That was just the way it was. But if anyone else ripped on me, yelled at me, or hurt me, he was all over it and defended me. There was one time, when a neighbor called me a Dirty Jew, threw a brick at my head and split it open, that he ran over, picked me up, and carried me into the house blood and all. He also had words with the idiot who did that to me. I saw this reflected again last night.

My girls fight like cats and dogs. They take each other’s toys. They pick on each other. They tell on each other. Normal kid stuff. At the same time, they love each other deeply. My youngest was having a really rough night last night, night terrors and all. My oldest was trying to console her, love on her, and even snuggle her. When I walked in twice (once in the middle of the night and once in the morning), they were on the same mattress. My oldest even came up to me this morning saying her sister was crying and having another terror. I went done, cuddled her, and then my oldest gave her an art project that was clouds and a rainbow to try to cheer her up.

That love is amazing. That love touches my soul. That no matter how much they pick, they fight, they correct each other, they have an eternal love and sense of protection.

God is much like that. He defends us, loves us, protects us, and is strict with us on how to behave to ourselves and each other.

“There is a way that seems right to man, but its end is the way to death.” – Proverbs 14:12 (ESV)

“These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” – Deuteronomy 6:6-7

“For I command you today to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to him, and to keep his commands, decrees and laws; then you will live and increase, and the Lord your God will bless you in the land you are entering to possess.” – Deuteronomy 30:16

““I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but not everything is constructive.” – 1 Corinthians 10:23

God has given us free will. As it says in 1 Corinthians, sure you can do whatever you want, you have that choice, but not everything is constructive, not everything is in God’s law. In the old testament we have 613 different laws or commandments to follow. That’s a lot of rules. Wear this, don’t wear that. Eat this, don’t eat that. So many laws. The reason for some of these was to protect us from disease and sin. Jesus came and said there were two laws: Love God, Love People. (Mark 12:30-31).

But like sibling love, even when we go against God’s law, he never turned his back on us. He is always there loving us, forgiving us, strengthing us.

Also like siblings, we fight against God’s law. I want to do this because it makes me feel good. Sinning wouldn’t be so easy if they weren’t so easy (and some fun) to do: gluttony, lust, envy, wrath, greed, sloth, pride. This is how we fight against God, not even knowing we are doing it. But in Jesus, we can be forgiven for these sins. The funny thing is God’s love is always there, no matter the sin, no matter what we have done. (John 15:9-17)

At the same time, we fight against God, other’s fight against us. Even though he is strict on how we should behave, he protects us against all others. (Romans 8:31).

When I look at my daughters fighting, yelling, telling each other they are annoying and being mean and hurting feelings then I look at the undying love of cuddling and support, I see how God has reflected our relationship with him in our children. We are cuddled, we are loved, we are supported, even when we are fighting, yelling, and behaving in ways that wouldn’t make us earthy friends.

Can you see God’s love in everything he does? Can you see how we fight against him but are fully supported?

I can see with the help of God.

May 29 – Trust in You

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Trust in You

Trust is a word we use a lot. I trust you. I don’t trust you. I trust this source. I don’t trust this source. You broke my trust and I can’t forgive you. I trust you and love you forever. Today I saw an example of unadulterated trust with a trip to the dentist.

My youngest had never been to the dentist. I know, I’m a slacker. I told her what it was all about and she was ready for it, although a little scared. She asked what Dr. Sarah would do and I said clean her teeth. Then she asked if Dr. Sarah would cut her teeth. I told her no. Then she was a total trooper. No tears. No fear. She went with the tech, brushed her teeth, smiled, and sat there with a wide open mouth the whole time. She was brave and trusting as I was by her side. She even said it was easy.

As we were coming home, I thought about that. The trust it must take to go into a completely new experience that can be scary especially when your older sister is saying she doesn’t want to go. But no hesitation, just there with me and her stuffed animal. At one point she asked for mommy who was in the other room with her sister. She and I played games and just talked until it was her time.

When I think about that level of trust, it is no surprise to me that many don’t believe in God or his plan. Having trust in someone who you can touch, hold, and be with is hard enough, let alone someone who you can never see, never hold, never talk to. But we can if we believe.

“Sovereign Lord, you are God! Your covenant is trustworthy, and you have promised these good things to your servant.” – 2 Samuel 7:28

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” – Psalm 56:3

“The king was overjoyed and gave orders to lift Daniel out of the den. And when Daniel was lifted from the den, no wound was found on him, because he had trusted in his God” – Daniel 6:23

“trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

I could probably list 50 verses that talk about trust. God promises throughout the Bible to bring good things to those who pray and believe. In Daniel, he spared Daniel’s life in the lion’s den. He protected Noah and his Family. He gave Job peace. Over and over again, his promises are met. Trust me (see what I did there?), I get that trusting in God is hard. I have real trust issues with humanity after being burned or left by people over and over again. I chose to trust in him. I choose to believe that his Word will lead me to righteousness in this life and the next. I know life sucks sometimes. Yesterday I was talking to a parent about how hard it is to parent and that sometimes it sucks. But what I just realized is no matter how many times I argue with my children, no matter how many times we disagree, they trust in me and I in them. Forgiveness and trust build the relationship in the home, just as it is the foundation of our relationship with the Lord.

Now I’m not saying a root canal will be pleasant, and I hope my kids never need one, but we have built a foundation of trust. Likewise when life turns, and it will, I have a foundation of trust with the Lord and I believe in him.

Are you ready to trust fully in the Lord?

I am ready and able with the help of God.

May 28 – Nature is Amazing

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Nature is Amazing

Have you ever taken the time to really look at nature? Nature is amazing. Nature is powerful. Nature is breathtaking. Nature is awe-inspiring. Nature is vast. Nature provides for us. Nature is everywhere.

As is our memorial day tradition, we went to the pools. It was hot hot hot. The weather channel wasn’t calling for any weather, so we packed up and went to meet friends at the pool. We got there right in time for the adult swim. Five minutes into the adult swim, thunder. So 30 minute wait. The kids weren’t happy but we said it was only 30 minutes. 10 minutes passed and more thunder. Again, no happy kids. Then it started to drizzle a bit. No big deal, we were all laughing and enjoying it. Some people left. Then it down poured. We got soaked and enjoyed it. Then more thunder and lightning. People were leaving but some kids were dancing in the rain, just enjoying nature. It got really bad, then we left. I told the kids, let’s get ice cream, a win for everyone, and we would come back and check the pool. So, kids weren’t happy but we went for ice cream and came back, still no swimming but we waited it out and boom, we got to swim. The sky was beautiful, the plants needed the water, and the kids had fun. They realized that sometimes you need to wait and what needs to happen will happen.

You may wonder why I’m talking about nature in a faithbite? Who made nature? God. Even if you believe in the Big Bang theory and evolution, who made the stuff for the big bang? God. So let’s replace nature with God, then we might figure it out.

God is amazing.

God is powerful.

God is breathtaking.

God is awe-inspiring.

God is vast.

God provides for us.

God is everywhere.

“But ask the animals, and they will teach you,
or the birds in the sky, and they will tell you;
or speak to the earth, and it will teach you,
or let the fish in the sea inform you.
which of all these does not know
that the hand of the Lord has done this?
In his hand is the life of every creature
and the breath of all mankind.” – Job 12:7-10

“How many are your works, LORD! In wisdom you made them all; the earth is full of your creatures. There is the sea, vast and spacious, teeming with creatures beyond number— living things both large and small.” – Psalm 104:24-25

“Yet he has not left himself without testimony: He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.” – Acts 14:17

The Lord is everywhere. From Genesis 1:1 to Revelation 22:21. His touch is in everything and through everything. In our animals, in the sky, the earth, the fish, all creatures. His works are large and small. He is beautiful. He gave us rains and crops, full, and full hearts. How amazing is that? I mean, yes, we get mad at storms pushing around our plans. But we need them for the harvest. We get mad at the heat making life outside is miserable, but the plants need it. Today, I didn’t see most people upset. They were enjoying the break in the heat, making jokes, and just having fun.

That is what life is. See God everywhere, appreciating his majesty, and knowing that he has a plan for all of it.

Are you ready to see the rains at bringing future fruit? Are you able to see the storms in our lives making us stronger for the future?

I am ready and able with the help of God.

May 27 – Are New Beginnings Really New?

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Are New Beginnings Really New?

We all mess us. We all make mistakes. We carry that guilt with us every day. I have messed up more times than I can count. Some are little mess-ups, some are major mess ups. Those moments that I keep playing over and over in my head. Why did I do that? What the heck was I thinking? There is no way to come back from that.

I see it every day through social media. People saying “I suck”. No one is going to love me. “FMYL” (I had to look that one up). I know that through belief in Jesus, I am forgiven, but can I forgive myself. How can Jesus and God forgive me, but I am not able to let it go. Our baggage holds us down even when we ask for forgiveness and get it. Yes, we have earthly penalties to pay for some of our mistakes, but if God has forgiven us, who are we to question?

During worship this morning, our pastor talked about the before and the after. He illustrated this through Isaiah. Isaiah had a good life but as he said ‘I have filthy lips and live with people with filthy lips”. (Isaiah 6:5). And he was one of the good ones but still felt dirty and not worthy of his holiness. After he was cleansed by the Lord he was commissioned to go out and serve.  His life went from one that was simple, direct, and one of knowing where he was going. Then it turned into one of excitement, growth, importance.

His life definitely had a before and an after. But what about your life?

“Come now, let us settle the matter,”
says the Lord.
“Though your sins are like scarlet,
they shall be as white as snow;
though they are red as crimson,
they shall be like wool.” – Isaiah 1:18

“Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?”

And I said, “Here am I. Send me!” – Isaiah 6:9

” let us draw near to God with a sincere heart and with the full assurance that faith brings, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water.” – Hebrews 10:22

We’ve talked about us being sinners in the past. We’ve talked about forgiveness. As the first Isaiah verse says, we had scarlet sins and now they are as white as snow. We have been cleaned by Jesus. We are forgiven, and now we need to go to the after. The before was the before, the after is now. Once we enter the now, we need to be ready to serve. We need to say, ‘here I am. Send me”. I had to chuckle a bit as I was having coffee with another pastor earlier in the week and I said this verse (misquoted a bit, but hey I’m not perfect) and he said did you know this was the story of the week. No idea at all. Guess, God wants me to serve 🙂

As that was the brief recap of the sermon, I thought more about it. While we have the before and the after, the beautiful thing is we will have many many afters. What do I mean by that? Let’s face it. While we are forgiveness an are as white as snow, we don’t stay that way. We keep sinning, we keep making mistakes. But the Lord keeps forgiving us and gives us a new start. We can have as many afters as we want if we truly repent. He will forgive us. The key is to live in the now and not the before. If you slip up, like we all do, you can have a new after. I am thankful that the Lord will forgive me. I have a laundry list of mistakes from the before. I try to forget them after being forgiven. It is not easy. But I live in the now as the Lord wants me to be healed, called,  cleansed, and commissioned.

Are you ready to live in the after? Are you able to let your before go and listen to what the Lord has in mind for you?

I am ready and able with the help of God.

May 26 – Small Acts – Big Impact

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Small Acts – Big Impact

Yesterday, I went to my sister-in-law’s high school graduation. It was a fun time with family, friends, food, and reminiscing. When she got to the party, she wasn’t happy. A few “friends” who said they would come changed their mind. This small act of not coming to her party when they said they would, really upset her. What effort does it take to come for a few minutes, show support, and then go about your day?

These little acts happen all the time. I know I’m guilty of it. Saying I’ll do something small, then not doing it. Saying I will call you and forgetting. Making plans for a lunch, then bugging out because I had something else come up. Don’t get me wrong, we all have times when something comes up and we have to change plans. That’s part of life. What I’m talking about is when you just don’t ‘feel like it’. No major event, not something you have to do, but you just said ‘nope’. While I have had times when I needed a mental health break and I couldn’t come, at what cost is that to the relationship or person.

Me not going to a graduation isn’t huge. I don’t have a speaking part or have to be there, but I need to be there for support. The small acts can lead to a big impact on the other person’s day, their outlook, and overall relationship. While we may not speak of that, the impact is there forever. You can’t change it.

“Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not break your oath, but fulfill to the Lord the vows you have made.’ – Matthew 5:33

“The Lord detests lying lips,
    but he delights in people who are trustworthy.” – Proverb 12:22

When we look at scripture, we find that not doing what you said you would do, is lying. We don’t see it as lying but it is. You said you would do something for someone and then you didn’t. This is the same as a bold-face lie. Scripture, like the three above, shows how the Lord detests lying. If we can do something say yes if we can’t say no.

The problem is not only is it is a lie but it also causes disappointment, feelings of rejection, anger, and can cause isolation in the person or persons we disappointed. I’m not writing this faithbite as a guilt trip, but rather to show that these actions have consequences. Just as we wouldn’t want someone to lie or disappoint us, we need to see how our actions can cause these feelings in others.

Life happens sometimes and we have to break a date or a promise. We are not perfect. We can understand the impact this has on others and try to make this as rare of an occurrence as possible. Then, when it does happen, we ask for forgiveness both from the person and from God.

Are you willing to see how these small choices can have big impacts on people? Are you willing to do your best to make your word be meaningful?

I am willing with the help of God.

May 25 – Tweet or Dissertation

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Before we get started, I wanted to send special prayers to all those undergoing surgeries and health issues. May the Lord bless you, your family, and the entire medical staff. I also want to send a prayer of thanks to all of the teachers, administrators, and support staff as school across the country are done for the school year. What an amazing season of change. And now, onto FaithBites…

Tweet or Dissertation

The Doctorate Degree. For many, the phrase means an expert in their field. For some, it means long hard work to become that expert. But the word that most thing about is Dissertation. That excruciatingly long and difficult culmination of all your research, your studying, and your sacrifice. For those of you who don’t know, I am in the new process of qualifying exams mixed with the dissertation. Last week I had several people tell me the best dissertation is a done dissertation. I’m had some that say just think about it as a long report. I’ve had others who say, it doesn’t matter if it’s junk, just do it.

Yesterday as I was writing and getting flustered about how much work I have to do, I thought, as I often do about faith and God. Now, I wasn’t around when the bible was written. I don’t know what people were thinking as they started to put God’s word to parchment. My theory though is they didn’t sit down to write this massive book we call the bible. In fact, we know that the Bible had many authors, across a long span of time. The authors wrote down God’s word. From the shortest book of Obadiah (21 verses) to the longest book Jeremiah (42,000 words), the authors wrote what needed to be written, when it needs to be.

You are probably trying to figure out where this is going. The point of this and the reference to a dissertation is in our faith, we don’t need to think of every single possible way to share God. We don’t need to be experts in the Bible from front to back. We don’t need to have our faith down to a 30-second elevator speech that is polished. We need to be ready to take our faith journey in baby steps, like faithbites here, and then grow it to the dissertation of our lives.

“The stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone;” – Psalm 118:22

“So this is what the Sovereign Lord says:

“See, I lay a stone in Zion, a tested stone,
a precious cornerstone for a sure foundation;
the one who relies on it
will never be stricken with panic.” – Isaiah 28:16

“From Judah will come the cornerstone,
    from him the tent peg,
from him the battle bow,
    from him every ruler.” – Zechariah 10:4

As with any form of communication, from a tweet to a dissertation, there has to be a solid idea or purpose. In our faith, that is Jesus Christ. He is the cornerstone of our faith journey. Through him, we build a sure foundation. He is our cornerstone. We take this rejected stone and build upon it. We listen to him, we walk in his footsteps, and we keep communication. Every time we pray, every time we share his word, every time we walk in his footsteps, we add a page or chapter to our Dissertation. Some days the writing comes easy, others it is a challenge. While the baby steps are needed, it doesn’t mean we can’t take them. We need to pray. We need to share his word. We need to walk in his footsteps. The baby steps don’t happen with us working on it. While we aren’t setting off to write a Magnus opus, when we look back, if we follow his word; we will have a life that is more powerful than any dissertation. We will have multiple his disciples among the world.

Now, I don’t know if this will help me get this dissertation done, but I know through faith, prayer, and love, Jesus will guide me through all the pages of my FaithJourney.

Are you willing to see your faith journey as small steps? Can you see that you don’t need to have your life all planned out or perfect at the beginning?

I am willing and able to see with the help of God.

May 24 – Life Finds a Way

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Life Finds A Way

Every year, my daughters and I plant a garden. Most of it is vegetables and then we add some flowers to give the yard a bit of color. This year was started out no different. In February we went with the great-grandparents to find the seeds we going to plant. We laid the design for the garden and waited for it to get warm. We have three main flower beds, one for flowers and the other two for vegetables. In the flower bed, we had two perennials that started to come back, then four other plants I didn’t recognize. We wanted to see what they were, and it turned out they were our petunias from last year. This has never happened. Petunias are an annual plant that we get every year. These came back on their own. How beautiful is that? Now the story gets even more interesting.

Near the garage, we have two planter boxes, very small that are under the overhang for the garage. Like the main flower beds, we plant them with petunias once a year. These boxes, receive very little sunlight and no water. Today as I was leaving for work. One of the boxes had three petunia blooms. Even without light, water, or replanting, life found a way.

Faith is much like life. It finds a way. Even when we try to ignore it, even when we forget about it, it finds a way. God is our father and wants a relationship with his children. He wants to know us and will show us his presence throughout our lives. Even if we ignore him, he never goes away.

“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” – Micah 6:8

“Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,
even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.” – Psalm 139:7-10

“But as for me, it is good to be near God.
    I have made the Sovereign Lord my refuge;
    I will tell of all your deeds.” – Psalm 73:28

The birds chirping, that is God. The sun shining, that is God. The warm embrace of a loved one, that is God. The comfort after heartbreak, that is God. God created the heavens and the Earth (Genisis 1:1). He is here. God only wants you to walk humbly and love God and love People (Mark 12:30-31). He doesn’t ask for much and in return, he gives us so much. As it says in Psalms 73, I made the Sovereign Lord my refuge. No matter if you believe in God, he is there. No matter how depressed, how sinful, how ugly you feel, God is there. He will answer you prayers. You just need to be willing to listen.

And like those flowers, they grow without my help. I have done nothing to nurture them, but yet, every day they grow stronger, larger, and brighter. My beds are filled with his inspiration and love.
Now imagine if I watered those flowers? If I moved the boxes into the sunlight? If I added plant food? How they would blossom and grow.

Our faith is like that. We don’t need extra water. We don’t need extra sunlight. We just need to love God and worship him. Then our spirits will blossom and grow.

Are you willing to expand your faith? Are you willing to see that God is your father, your partner, your friend, and ever-present?

I am willing with the help of God.

May 23 – Influence Vs. Position

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Before we get to today’s FaithBites, I wanted to thank everyone for their support as I was elected to serve our Congregation as the Lay Director of Witness. I am blessed. If you are interested in learning more or helping, I’d love to hear from you. We all can be witnesses and provide Pastoral Care. And now, onto Faithbites.

Influence Vs. Position or Pastoral Care Vs PASTORAL Care

No matter who we are or what we do, we have influence on others. It may be a negative or positive influence. It may be a strong or a weak influence. But nonetheless, we influence everyone around us at all times. Most of us are not aware of how our actions, words (spoken or unspoken), and presence impact those around us. This is a great power and can be used to help or harm others.

Yesterday while speaking to one of our pastors, we had the discussion about Pastoral Care. At first, I thought of being a called an ordained Pastor. You go through formal training in the Word and how to share it. This is a long process (in LCMS is it 4 years and in most cases requires residence at a seminary). Then you can perform weddings, funerals, sermons, baptism, and the Lord’s supper among many other duties. I didn’t think there was any other way to provide pastoral care. Then through discussion, I realized I am already providing some of this care. I am not a called and ordained servant. But I am called to share the word. I am, as is everyone one, called to help spread the word of God.

We don’t need to be in a position of power to have power. We don’t need to be in a leadership position (formal leadership) to provide leadership. We don’t need to be a PASTOR to be a Pastor.

“Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction.” – 2 Timothy 4:2

“Then I will give you shepherds after my own heart, who will lead you with knowledge and understanding.” – Jeremiah 3:15

“ So the word of God spread. The number of disciples in Jerusalem increased rapidly, and a large number of priests became obedient to the faith.” – Acts 6:7

“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,” – Matthew 28:19

We can all be disciples. We can all be called to spread the word of the Lord. We are not perfect and far from it. In our imperfection, we show the love of the Lord. For Faithbites, I search my feelings, I pray, and I look for inspiration in his word. My interpretation is not perfect. My goal is to share his Word and hopefully encourage you to look to the Lord for guidance and faith. This isn’t against called and ordained servants of the Lord but rather we all have a role to play and all are needed to increase the numbers of disciples and preach the word.

Another powerful aspect of this, is being able to talk openly, freely, and imperfectly.

When you see a Pastor, do you realize he (or she in different denominations) are people? They have thoughts, feelings, desires, and aspiration like us. They are no different. The problem is they don’t feel as free to speak openly. We see them as called by God and their words are his. If they ‘make a mistake’, we take that as the Gospel. (Ok, small pun intended). A prime example is when we look to our politicians. Many of them say things that we would say, but because of their position, they are held to a higher moral authority, right or wrongly so.

The influence that many PASTORS have come first from their position, then from their actions and relationships. The influence that all of us have as Witnesses providing Pastoral Care comes first form our relations and actions, then potentially from a position. In this way, we are servant-leaders in the image of Christ.

While I don’t know what the future holds for me in formal positions of leadership, my eyes have been open to the true influence and power I have as a Witness through my life of actions and relationships.

Are you ready to be a disciple? Are you ready to see the influence and power you have over those around you? Are you ready to use that influence to help and not harm?

I am ready with the help of the Lord.

May 22 – The Pendulum

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The Pendulum

A clock is something we are all familiar with. The hands, the numbers, the ticking, it makes us think of things we have to do, things we did, future opportunities and past experiences. Related to clocks, is the idea of a pendulum. We use this metaphor all the times in our lives. From government being small to big. From gas prices being low to high. From our favorite shows having great episodes to poor episodes. This is something we relate to. Life flows back and forth.

This morning, I had the pleasure of meeting with one of our pastors. We talked about the work/life balance or more specifically – work and rest balance. Some days are harder than others. The problem though, is we try to do more and more work with less and less rest. When the pendulum swings to work, we try to put a block in it. We only want the fruit. We don’t want to take the time to prune and rest. We don’t let the pendulum swing back to rest. Then we work, work, work, work. The only time we rest is when that stop breaks, and we crash. This can be from sickness, exhaustion or more. The problem with this approach, is we’ve done so much that many of our core responsibilities start to drop. We do these extra work things at the expense of our loved ones, our relationships, and our health. As they say in the airline industry: “Put on your mask, before helping others”. If you die, you can’t help others.

If you don’t rejuvenate your spirit and are dead inside, you can’t help others.

“I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten—
    the great locust and the young locust,
    the other locusts and the locust swarm^[a]—
my great army that I sent among you.
You will have plenty to eat, until you are full,
    and you will praise the name of the Lord your God,
    who has worked wonders for you;
never again will my people be shamed.” – Joel 2:25-26

“After Job had prayed for his friends, the Lord restored his fortunes and gave him twice as much as he had before.” – Job 42:10

“Come, let us return to the Lord.
He has torn us to pieces
    but he will heal us;
he has injured us
    but he will bind up our wounds.” – Hosea 6:1

These are but three verses that show that we need to rest. The bible talks about the Sabbath and why we need rest. The verses also mention that we will be working hard for the lord but he will repay us in wonders, fortunes, healing, and rest. We need to rest and this goes beyond just physical rest.

My pastor said something interesting. We eat food and are full. We read his word and worship and are spiritually full. When we do too much, something has to go. This could be bible study, small group study, personal worship time. When that happens, you are giving more of yourself without filling the tank. Ths creates a situation where we are exhausted physically and spiritually, then we are trying to help more and more. This results in us doing more hurt than help.

We need rest. We need to say No at times. The balance is the hard part.

Are you willing to see rest as a necessity? Are you willing to pull the stop out of the pendulum and allow it to go to rest? Are you willing to see that the Lord wants us to rest so we can have the energy to serve?

I am willing and ready with the help of God

May 21 – What do I stand for?

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What Do I (or any of us) Stand For?

Yesterday, I was mowing the grass, listening to Spotify as I usually do, and Some Nights by Fun came on. I haven’t listened to that song in a year or so. Every time I do, I’m reminding how beautiful and thought-provoking it is.

Some nights, I stay up cashing in my bad luck
Some nights, I call it a draw
Some nights, I wish that my lips could build a castle
Some nights, I wish they’d just fall off
But I still wake up, I still see your ghost
Oh Lord, I’m still not sure what I stand for
What do I stand for?
What do I stand for?
Most nights, I don’t know anymore

Life is hard. This world is a crazy, messed up, place. We have demands on us all the time. We have people telling us God doesn’t exist. That faith is wrong. That religion is faulty. That those people want to kill us. That way to stop a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun. That people get what they deserve. Then I’m over here like: Love God, Love People. It is as if I’m speaking an ancient dead language no one understands. Then someone does something sinful and says I’m a good Christian. Some nights, I just don’t know anymore. “Try twice as hard and I’m half as liked”. Powerful stuff. But faith, faith remains and grows.

“But the Pharisees and the experts in the law rejected God’s purpose for themselves, because they had not been baptized by John” – Luke 7:30

“In him we were also chosen,^[a] having been predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will,” – Ephesians 1:11

Many days, when I get into this mood, I think about the 80’s show “The Greatest American Hero”. It’s an awesome show, well at least it was when I was little. It was about an everyday guy who found an alien super suit. He put it on but had no instruction manual. He didn’t know how the suit worked and tried to learn it every day while doing good things. To me, that’s the bible. It’s a super suit filled with history, examples. stories, and how to live from God himself. But as we talked yesterday, it’s hard to fathom God, so understanding his super suit (the bible) feels like not having an instruction manual. I wish there was a companion guide that helped me understand it better. Helped me know what I stand for. That guide is Jesus and all the people he as put in my life. I know it is part of the journey. I know through Christ, “some nights, I will always win”.

Do you know what you stand for? Do you know how to use your super suit? Do you believe that God will, in time, show you your path?

I am learning to with the help of God.

May 20 – The Faith Elephant.

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The Faith Elephant

I have been blessed to be on a faith journey most of my life. I know that many of you have followed my journey, as you embark on your own. No two journeys are alike. Today before church, a friend was talking about my journey and then about Jews for Jesus. How someone who was Jewish, was overtaken by the holy spirit, not only converted, but became a leader in the church. While this isn’t my church, it is a way that the holy spirit wanted him to serve.

The more I thought about and thought about all the different religions on earth, I thought of the Blind Men and the Elephant. Imagine, like the picture, you are in a room and are blind. You reach out and hold something long, slender, and wiggly. You may think it is a snake. Imagine you are touching something a bit rough and dry, you may think it is leather. This goes on and on. In fact, you are just touching a different part of the elephant.

To me, God is like this. If you have never seen an elephant in your life and touched parts of it, how would you describe it? Could you even fathom what it is? To me, this is God. We try to understand his word. We try to understand the history of the universe. We try to follow him. But if we don’t understand what he is, we only do our best imitation. We try to imagine an elephant when we have never seen one.

After church, I was sitting with one of our pastors, talking about getting together for coffee. Two girls came up and asked him a question. They said “Who created God”. His answer, “He was always there”. This was hard for them to understand. We try as we might to put God in our terms. He is not. god didn’t create religion, we did. We created it to understand him. That is why there are so many religions on earth. It has taken me all this time to understand that divide. But does God see it that way?

“In the beginning, God created the Heavens and the Earth” – Genesis 1:1

“The Lord says to my lord:
“Sit at my right hand
until I make your enemies
a footstool for your feet.” – Psalm 110:1

“For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.” – Romans 8:29

The scriptures above are just a few examples of the nature of God that is hard to understand. In the first verse of the Bible, the Hebrew word Elohim is used, this is a plural form of God. Eloah is the singular form. So even on day 1, God is not singular like we are. Some see the father as the only part of God and are waiting for more. Some see the Father and the Son, but the Holy Spirit is a power of the first two and not part of the Godhead. Some see the Trinity as all parts of God. Some believe communion is the blood and body. Some believe the bread and wine is bread and wine and blood and body at the same time. Some believe the bread and wine symbolize the blood and the body but remain bread and wine.

There are many things I don’t know about God and Faith. I am learning every day. I know two things. First, Jesus died for my sins so I can be with the father in the next life.  Second, Jesus tells me to Love God and Love People. (Mark 12:30-31). Not just the people I like. Not just the people who agree with me. All people. I may not like them but I love them.

That’s all I need to know right now. Jesus and to love God and People.

Are you willing to see God as the Elephant we can’t understand? Are you able to love God and Love People?

I am willing with the help of God.

May 19 – Your Royal Highness

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Royalty

Today was the wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle. The world was a buzz. Memes about royalty. Pictures comparing dresses to Ice Tea cans. Conversations about the cost of royal weddings. Trolls hating everyone worshipping people who sit on a throne of corruption, theft, and murder. It goes on and on. The funniest or most twisted goes to the people who said we admire these people because they are part of a bloodline and not for what they do. Sounds a lot like many American celebrities last time I checked.

We are fascinated by what we don’t have and can’t be. Most of us are not “of a royal bloodline”. Most of us will never marry into a royal family. This is just otherworldly to us.

What if I told you, that you were royal? That you were a chosen person? That by faith you are invited to the royal family? “You were born of a royal bloodline?

“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” – 1 Peter 2:9

“You will be a crown of splendor in the Lord’s hand,
a royal diadem in the hand of your God.” – Isaiah 62:3

“ you will be for me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.’ These are the words you are to speak to the Israelites.” – Exodus 19:6

We are saved by the blood and the water. Even before that God told us that we were part of a kingdom of priests and a holy nation. That sounds like royalty to me. We are a diadem in the hand of our God. (And yes, I had to google that as I had no idea of what it was. If you are wondering, it is a jeweled crown or headband worn as a symbol of sovereignty. Wonder Woman’s tiara came to my mind). We are born royal. We are forgiven by Christ for all of our wrongdoings. We don’t end up in the tabloids like Prince Harry and William when they were younger. We are not chased by paparazzi. We are not treated differently by others for our faith, but we are.

We are the children of the king of the universe. Doesn’t get more royal than that. I love my mortal bloodline and my eternal line.

Can you accept you are royal to the Lord? Can you see how that royalty helps you accomplish all things through him?

I can and am ready (with the help of God)

May 18 – Anger

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Anger

I get mad. I get angry. Sometimes I take it out on others. How many times have we all said: “You made me angry”? We put that blame of making us angry on others. If that wasn’t bad enough, then we go the next step, we take it out on others. One thing ticks us off then we lash out. We yell at someone else. And many times, and I hate to admit it, but we lash out at those who care for us the most. We give them the cold shoulder. We hurt their feelings. We attack them. We belittle them. Also unfortunate, we do this many times without realizing what we are doing. You may ask, why we do that. I’m not a religious or psychological expert, but I believe we do it because we know those who love us will come back to us. They will take what we dish out. They will be our rock. The ones who love us the most are the ones we lash out at. This makes no sense. But we do it.

Today I had an experience. Someone asked me how my day one. I wasn’t in a good mood. I was tired, sore, exhausted. Then the person said something and I made a joke (not a crass joke) and the person was not having it. It was a rude encounter but I let it go. Why? Because sometimes it’s the right thing to do. To understand where someone is coming from. To understand that you can shoulder that and move on.

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” – Ephesians 4:29

“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,” – James 1:19

The bible is clear. We shouldn’t lash out in anger. We should only let out of our mouths what with help build others up. We don’t always do that. Sometimes we speak in anger. Sometimes we say unwholesome things. Sometimes we try to build someone up but end up tearing them down as we don’t know what they need. We should be there to listen. Speak when someone needs us. Even slower to anger. In this world, it seems we are quick to anger, lightning fast to speak, and snail slow to listen. And when we listen, we need to listen to both what is said and unsaid.

I am far from perfect on this. I love to talk. I love to help people and be there. Like oxygen is to fire, people, are to my happiness. When others lash out it is hard. But, through my faith, through prayer, and through my friends, I am learning.

Are you willing to be quick to listen and slow to anger and speak? Are you willing to forgive those who lash out at you?

I am willing (with the help of God)

May 17 – Taking One for the Team

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Martyrdom

Taking one for the team. Biting the bullet. Carrying the burden. Shouldering the Lion’s share. We have all been there before. I’ll take one the extra work. I’ll help out. I’ll wake up early and go to bed late.

We do it to help. We do it to feel better. We do it to help the others in our lives.

We sacrifice our time. We sacrifice our energy for others. We do it for everyone. It’s a huge part of being a parent.

Now, think about that feeling. How you helped someone. You took one for the team. But what does that mean for our love and the next one?

““If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.” – John 15:18

May 16 – Work Hard – Learn More

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Working Hard – Learning More

I had the privilege of attending a faculty development conference today and hearing a professor talk about her education and technology journey. When she was discussing her syllabus and her hard work in teaching, you quoted an older professor “She who works hardest, learns the most”. That seems pretty obvious to all of us: Hard work pays off.

In this case, though, it wasn’t meant as a compliment. It meant that this professor was doing all the heavy lifting for the class and learning the most rather than giving her students the chance to experience more. They didn’t have to research. They didn’t have to come up with learning objectives.

For many of us, our faith journey is like that. We go to our house of worship, we listen to our preacher, we digest it, and move on to our day. Unlike being in a class, we don’t have a test where we have to repeat the information. Our test is how we live our lives.

The question is, who is doing the heavy lifting? Is it just our preachers, or are we doing our own searching, learning, and sharing of the Good News?

“But if from there you seek the Lord your God, you will find him if you seek him with all your heart and with all your soul.” – Deuteronomy 4:29″

“Can you fathom the mysteries of God? Can you probe the limits of the Almighty?” – Job 11:7

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well” – Matthew 6:33

God has ordained preachers of his word. They serve a vital role in helping us find the Lord, understanding his word, and helping us be part of a faith community. But faith is not passive. It is not sitting in a lecture hall, um a mean a church, and listening as the words fall over us. It is us to us to put those words into action. To write about them. To talk about them. To research them. When we do this, we become active learners. We walk in faith and more Christ-like every day.

Are you willing to see your role in your faith journey? Are you willing to accept your responsibilities in learning about and sharing the word of the Lord?

I am willing and ready (with the help of God).

May 15 – Death to the Infidel

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Before we get started, I wanted to give a trigger warning that this faithbite my challenge, offend, and question your thinking a bit. But hey, isn’t that why we are all on this #faithjourney together? And now onto today’s faithbite.

Death to the Infidel

58 dead. Men, women, and children. 2,700 injured. Did you know? Did you say a prayer? Did you care? Most of us didn’t know as it didn’t happen here, but in Gaza at the border with Isreal. Some who did said the protests were violent, and they deserved it. Fighting rocks and sticks with guns and gas. This isn’t an equal amount of force needed for protection. This was over killl. When those who are killed are non-American, non-christian (or Jewish), the prayers seem even less. Is not everyone my neighbor? (Luke 10-25-37) And you should love your neighbor as yourself? (James 2:8).

When I listen to those who say it is justified, look to what our President as doing what is right in moving the embassy. Many Evangelical Zionests believe this is fufilling the scripture to bring about the end of days and the return of our Lord. Faithbites is not a political blog. It is not about tearing down people but rather lifting people up in faith. Being a former practicing Jew and person of Jewish heritage, the events in Isreal are personal and raw. They impact how I feel. When I see innocents dying, it moves me. It should move us all.

“You shall not murder” – Exodus 20:13

“And for your lifeblood I will surely demand an accounting. I will demand an accounting from every animal. And from each human being, too, I will demand an accounting for the life of another human being. “Whoever sheds human blood, by humans shall their blood be shed; for in the image of God has God made mankind.” – Genesis 9:5-6

“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself” – Luke 10:27

We shall not kill. We shall not take freedom of life that God gave from another. There are times in defense when we need equal force to stop our lives and freedom from being taken. But bullets against rocks when non-lethal methods are available. We should love all mankind – male and female, Christian and non-christian, white and non-white, American and non-American. We are all God’s children. We should feel the pain of their loss. We should pray for peace and love, not assign guilt.

I apologize for the political tone in this faithbite. I hope that you can see the Lord wants us to love all people.

Can you see how your tone can show or hide the Lord from people? Can you see how you care or not care reveals your true spirit? Are you ready to embrace all life as sacred?

I can see and am ready (with the help of God)

May 14 – Stopping the Downward Spiral

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Breathing Before Going Down the Spiral

Today I was walking to the fridge at work to heat up my lunch. I started thinking about early interactions with people and how I messed them up. (Really minor but someone who extremely values interactions with people, it was hard). Then I thought that I couldn’t do anything right. I was bad a being a person. Bad at relationships. And on and on and on it went. Then something my counselor said came into my mind: Imagine a stop sign. I imagined it and stopped the downward spiral.

It is easy to let one little thing pull is down. Something that starts minor to bring us into a whirlpool of negative thoughts and emotions. Before you know it, you are depressed, upset, and not able to be yourself. As someone who suffers from anxiety, this happens a lot. Besides the stop sign in my head, knowing that God wants me to breathe and succeed help.

“The Lord gives strength to his people;
the Lord blesses his people with peace.” – Psalm 29:11

“The Lord replied, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” – Exodus 33:14

“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still” – Exodus 14:14

Rest. Stillness. Strength. Peace. These four qualities are what I want when the spiral of negative thinking happens. When we begin to think that all the evils in the world are because of us. When nothing we say or do is right. (As we know when we look back, this isn’t the case, but in the moment it is hard). The Lord is there. He will fight the battles for us. He will give us rest, peace, and strength.

This is hard. Beating ourselves up is very easy. Taking on the weight of the world is hard. As I speak my neck is cramping from the stress of negative thinking. I, like so many of us, need to breathe. We need to feel his Presence and take his rest, that is given freely.

Are you willing to help stop the downward spiral of negative thinking? Are you able to accept God’s peace and rest?

I am willing and able (with the help of God)

May 13 – It’s A Bird, It’s a Plane, It’s Jesus

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Before we get started, I wanted to wish all of the mothers out there a very happy Mother’s Day. I have had many women in my life who have been a mother figure. You have helped me through so many situations. I also want to thank the mother of my two children for the gift of life and being my partner all these years. And now, onto FaithBites.

It’s A Bird, It’s a Plane, It’s Jesus

Imagine this: A father sends his only son to a planet far far away. His son looks like one of the people there but is not from there. He has incredible powers that amaze everyone around. He is looked to as a hero, a savior, their only hope. Some of you may say, that sounds a lot like Superman. He’s an awesome superhero. He’s my favorite by the way. But you also can’t help to see the passing resemblance to another hero of mankind: Jesus.

Now, look at the Bible. It’s a book thousands of years old. Written in languages most of us can’t understand. Fragments translated over and over again. Events written about God by man with their own biases. Strange magical events. Some that look like if a time traveler was there, it would easily be explainable.

Now, add the hype of the world. Social Media. 24 X 7 News. The Cult of Personality. It goes on and on and on.

It is so easy to look at this faith and believe in Jesus as a story. It’s a figment. It’s a legend passed down through the centuries. There is no God. We can’t prove any of this. People brought back from the dead? Healing of the sick? Food for thousands. Walking on Water. It’s all just too much. It’s all a lie. Or is it?

Faith isn’t something we can touch. It isn’t something that we can hold. We can’t prove it. We can feel it. We can live it. Playing Devil’s Advocate, I know funny when talking about the Bible, what if it was all a lie. Does it matter? If we live like the book tells us? Love God, Love People. What’s wrong with that? Nothing.

But we have a heavenly father. He has the power to do whatever he wants to. He made a covenant with the Jewish people. He fulfilled his prophecy is Christ, Jesus. We have been saved.

“For by one sacrifice He has made perfect forever those who are being made holy” – Hebrews 10:14

“I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.” – John 10:28-29

“neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” – Romans 8:39

The Lord our God, give us Just the Facts. I was planning to write this faithbite before I heard our pastor’s sermon today. The funny thing was he talked about the Lord and that he gives us Just the Facts. No lies. No half-truths. The Lord tells us that he loves us. He tells us he will send his son to us. He did send his son to us. He wants us to be Christ-like. There are no lies in that. Our self-doubt, our sin, the world, and the devil try to get us to doubt this. God is eternal. His word is eternal. We have a better understanding of his word through science and faith. But God never changes. (Numbers 23:19, Hebrews 13:8, James 1:17).

What does this boil down to? God loves us. The world is sinful, but we are saved. Having faith in the unseen is not easy, but it is right. We need to remember the facts that God gave us and believe. The world tries to change our mind. Tries to make us question our beliefs, but he is eternal. He wants us to love him and his Son.

Even as I write this, I have doubts. I have that nagging sense that something can’t be proven. That maybe, just maybe I am being led astray. Then I think: if I love God and I love people, I can’t go wrong.

Do you know that God loves you? Do you know that his word is truth? Are you able to recommit yourself to the love of the Lord?

I strive to know and am able (with the help of God)

May 12 – Pretty Isn’t Easy

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Pretty Isn’t Easy.

I was mowing the grass this morning and realized what a pain it is to mow around trees, bushes, garden beds, and other decorative yard features. At the same time, I had three kids chalking on the driveway putting their time and effort into art that will be washed away by this afternoon’s rain. Then I thought about the makeup people wear, the clothes, and other outward beautification activities. I then though inward to the spirit. The work, time, and effort to be beautiful on the inside.

All of these things are not easy. They take a lot of work to maintain. They make us feel better. They improve the value of our houses. They turn our houses into homes. They help us showcase our creativity and reflect outwardly what we are inside. But being pretty is hard. It takes work. Sometimes when I am mowing, I just want to cut down all the trees, tear down the treehouse, rip out the garden beds, to have a simple square to mow. Other times, I just want to wear a uniform that is the same as everyone so I don’t have to think about it.

When I think of those drastic measures, while it may make maintenance easy, the beauty is lost. The beauty that we all are blessed with by God.

“You are altogether beautiful, my darling;
there is no flaw in you.” – Song of Solomon 4:7 (Song of Songs)

“Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. 3 And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains.” – Colossians 4:2-3

“I pray that your partnership with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of Christ.” – Philemon 6:1

The Lord has made us in his image. We are beautiful in his eyes, but alas we sin. We become one of this through the water and the blood, yet we sin. We are forgiven by Christ, but we sin. Just being baptized isn’t redemption. Believing and practicing his faith and his words is salvation. He wants us to work on our inner beauty. Letting the beauty of the Lord shine through us. The Lord wants us not to focus on our outer beauty but our inner self (1 Peter 3:3-4). That doesn’t mean that we can’t do things to feel pretty. It doesn’t mean that we can’t decorate our houses, our cars, our clothes. We aren’t to be vain, but we can have beautiful things.

All of these things should be second to the beauty on the inside. We need to work every day to improve ourselves. Pretty isn’t easy, it takes work. How are you beautifying your self?

And don’t worry, I’m not going to tear up the landscape in my yard to make mowing easier, but I need to put in the work, to keep the beauty both inside and out.

Are you willing to work on your faith daily? Are you able to show your inner beauty through the light of Christ?

I am willing and able (with the help of God).

May 11 – Bad Attitudes

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Bad Attitudes

Let’s face it. We all have crummy days. Days when we want everyone to leave us alone. Days when nothing is going right. At the same time, we have wonderful days where people in our lives are having crummy days. They take their frustration and anger out on us. In most cases, we don’t know the effect we have on others during our bad days nor do others know how they are responding to us on their bad days.

Recently, I had a friend who was just having a bad day. Things weren’t going well for them and they were frustrated. Their interactions with me were short, curt, and not the normal. I felt I had done something wrong. I was trying to think of ways to improve the situation because as you know I like to fix things. Sometimes though, there isn’t a fix. You can’t fix someone’s bad day. In fact, trying to fix it, could make it worse. After ruminating on it for a while, I decided to let it go. I wouldn’t let the person’s interactions with me, which most probably weren’t about me anyway, impact my day. I would pray, look towards the good things in the day, and just enjoy life.

I know, it’s easier said than done.

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” – Philippians 4:8

“And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful.” – 2 Timothy 2:24

When I look at both of these verses, it looks like I am the one with the problem, not the other person who is making me feel this way. Here’s the shocker, it is your problem. If they are having a bad day and it’s impacting your outlook, you can change it. (I know there are some cases where this may not apply such as safety and such). These specific cases are where you are letting someone who is taking out something bad on you rather than the true source of their frustration.

The Lord commands us to think about things that are noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy. Thinking about the negativity just doesn’t work. There is no solution to that, only further heartache. At the same time, we can’t help everyone who is having a bad day. We can smile and be ourselves. We can offer help but know when the best help is none at all. Even when help is refused or not accepted, it’s not about us.

We are in control of our own feelings and actions. Though, trust me, this is one of the hardest lessons in life.

Are you willing to look to God when other’s actions are bringing you down? Are you able to see you aren’t the cause of their bad day?

I am willing and able (with the help of God)

May 10 – My Plans or His Plans

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My Plans or His Plans

Today, like most days, I woke up, got showered, dressed, made lunches, dropped my daughter off at school and headed to work. I know, pretty mundane. 10 minutes of town, I received a call from my spouse that my youngest school was canceled due to a water main break and quite possibly daycare would be closed. I wasn’t happy as I had plans at work and things I needed to do. I turned around at the next exit and went home. I was able to do a little bit of work at home before I got the call that the water wouldn’t be turned on until the evening and daycare was closed. Well, there went that day. No more work. Nothing accomplished that I wanted to get accomplished. A detour.

When I got to daycare, I had a smiling happy daughter. We went out to lunch together, talked, played, and enjoyed each other. Then we picked up her sister from school, went to the park and had a great afternoon. None of that was planned. But it was what God wanted me to do. I needed to spend more time with my children. The work I do is just that work. It has an impact on people, but the impact I have on my family is a blessing from God.

Too often we think of our plans being what we need. Even as I was writing this, I was interrupted several times to help the family do things. It made me mad, but I need to realize these days will end. Getting a faithbites done at a certain time won’t matter. Spending time with my family will.

“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.” – Proverbs 16:9

““For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways,”
declares the Lord.
“As the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts.” – Isaiah 55:8-9

“I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten—
the great locust and the young locust,
the other locusts and the locust swarm
my great army that I sent among you.” – Joel 2:25

I know we’ve talked about Proverbs 16:9 before. As our pastor says, Man proposes and God disposes. We have examples all through the Bible with the lord saying he knows us, he has his plans, he uses us to fulfill them, and we gladly do so. The verse from Joel was new to me. The years the Locusts have eaten, will be repaid. Wow. So many times in our lives are plans are thrown off. It can be little plans or big plans. But if we stay true and fast, our faith in Jesus will be rewarded. Those locusts will die and we will be repaid.

I know this isn’t easy. I still am a bit ticked for getting derailed, but there is a greater purpose than myself. I have to remember that. My friends, family, and everyone will react to me how I react to them. I need to remember that.

Are you willing to see the detours in our lives as getting us back on God’s plan? Are you able to see that you have a purpose in the greater plan of life?

I am willing (with the help of God)

May 9 – Scars and Memories

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Scars and Memories

We all have scars on our bodies. Tiny cuts that didn’t heal. Surgeries to heal us but left us marked. Surgeries that delivered new life into the world.  Infections that led to scarring. These blemishes on the skin are more than just our body’s healing, they are gateways to our memories. A physical trauma that can bring back sometimes painful, sometimes challenging, sometimes exciting memories.

I was getting dressed for work this morning and looked at my wrist. I have a new scar there. It was from our Easter Celebration. We were packing up the kids in the car to come home and I sliced my wrist/arm on a solar panel light leaving our grandparents house. I look at the scar and remember the quick pain but can remember in detail the day and the fun we had. To quote Jimmy Buffett, “It’s a permanent reminder of a temporary feeling”. That was a great memory.

I have another scar on my head. When I was young, we had a neighbor kid who was pretty bad. He hated my brother and I for being Jewish.  He called us “Dirty Jews”. I asked my mum about it and said I didn’t understand because I took a shower that morning. One day, he threw a brick and hit me in the head and cracked my head open. My brother picked me up and ran me home, covered in blood and crying.

I will never forget either of those moments. They help to remember my family, that moment and help me to be a better person.

Scars are not just physical. Most if not all of us carry deep emotional and spiritual scars. We have been wronged by someone. We have been broken by someone or our own actions. We have committed sin and let that sin direct us in future actions. We look at the world through these scarred eyes and it colors our future. These wounds are much harder to heal than the physical ones. It takes patience, love, counseling, support, prayer, and more to move on. Even then, those wounds may be healed but the scars remain.

The saving grace is that all of our scars and trespasses are forgiven.

“I, even I, am he who blots out
your transgressions, for my own sake,
and remembers your sins no more.” – Isaiah 43:25

“Then he adds: “Their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more.” – Hebrews 10:17

“Who is a God like you,
who pardons sin and forgives the transgression
of the remnant of his inheritance?
You do not stay angry forever
but delight to show mercy.
You will again have compassion on us;
you will tread our sins underfoot
and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.” – Micah 7:18-19

Remembering sins no more. Not staying angry. Compassion. Tread our sins underfoot. Hurl iniquities into the sea. These are powerful words. These sins are no longer scars. They are forgiven and gone. We are like new in Christ. We have been healed. We don’t need to spend the time and energy letting these emotional and spiritual scars interrupt our lives any longer. What a freeing and glorious concept.

I am a realist. I know that while Christ forgives my sins and heals my scars, I have to allow him to do it. I have to let my mind rest and know that they are forgiven. I don’t have to look into my soul and see the pain anymore. That is the hardest parts. The scar on my wrist and on my head will be there until I die. They will remind me of where I was and what I have become. I don’t need those reminders of my past sins and they haven’t happened in the eyes of God. I know humanity and the law of men is different, but for my eternal life, I am forgiven and my scars erased.

Are you ready to let your scars be vanished from your heart and spirit? Are you ready to accept HIS forgiveness?

I am willing (with the help of God)

May 8 – Step by Step

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Today’s lesson is about persistence and taking things step by step. (I know, many of you are now singing, Oh baby….No NKOTB here). Life is filled with so many things to get done. We want to go to step 10 instead of step one through ten. The other problem is often we don’t know there are ten steps and think maybe one or two is all we have to do.

I’ve been working with a professor to record micro-lectures. Think short videos. She records them on her computer, uploads them to an application we use, I take them, tweak them a bit, and add them to our learning management system. Seems pretty easy. The problem is each time something seems to go wonky with the process. Either they are in the wrong place or I can’t see them or I can’t use them. Today, it struck me, it wasn’t her fault, but mine. My understanding of the permissions was wrong. It wasn’t very self-explanatory, here I was thinking she couldn’t figure it out time after time, was actually we both had a misunderstanding about the process. Here’s another example: We’ve all seen doctor’s and see what they do. Working in a medical school and seeing everything they have to do to get to that point, just blows my mind. But I still think at times, with Google and shadowing a doctor, I could be a doctor. Silly silly.

So many things in life are like that. Getting a promotion. Being a parent. Being a spouse. Being a friend. Going on a trip. Life is filled with tasks and opportunities that all have steps to go through.  Too often we look at the end and imagine ourselves in those roles or positions and don’t think of the work it takes to get there.

“And as for you, brothers and sisters, never tire of doing what is good.” – 2 Thessalonians 3:13

“Stand firm, and you will win life.” – Luke 21:19

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

We face trials and we want them to end. We want to win the race. I don’t know many marathoners who love running 26.2 miles but love completing that challenge. I don’t know many people who love mowing the grass, well I do the first mow of the spring, but love a nice lawn. We like the end. But in faith, the destination isn’t the end all be all, the journey is what is important. We should never tire of doing good. I love the Luke verse “stand firm, and you will win life.”. We all have to go through these steps, no matter how challenging. We can’t start at retirement and work backward. We look towards the end but need to walk with God, step by step.

Are you ready to take each step as they come? Are you willing to view the journey as the prize, not just the destination? Are you willing to walk all of these steps with Christ Jesus?

I am willing (with the help of God)

May 7 – The Most Important Decision of Your Life

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Today’s lesson is about the most important decision of your life. I know, you are all probably thinking that I’m going to say following Jesus is the most important decision of your life. Hold that thought for a minute or two.

Our church is in a season of transition. Our senior pastor is retiring. We are voting in new leadership to the Elders and Lay Boards. We are unifying our school and church in one location. Many in our fellowship are facing uncertainty about employment. It’s a scary and impactful time. During our voter’s meeting yesterday, our pastor said something that stuck with me. He said “Voting to unify our services in one location was the most important decision we ever made. Then, the meeting we were at, he said these two choices will be the most important decision we ever make. Then the next decision will be the most important decision we ever make, and so on and so forth.

We all make many decisions in our lives. Some as simple as cream and sugar in our coffee to who we are going to marry, where we will live, what we will do, what we believe in. When I think about it, these are the most important decision you will make, at least until the next one.  You may be wondering how is each the most important decision, you will make? Doesn’t most important mean only one?

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” – Deuteronomy 31:6

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” – James 1:5

We have so many decisions in our lives. The reason each one is the most important is each decision creates the tapestry of your life. You decide to get a coffee in the morning, you bump into a new person, you have a conversation, it leads to a new job, etc etc. You never know. The other reason is that all of your decisions represent you. It’s not to say that getting that coffee will change your life and you have to fret about it, James says God will give to us and help us. In Deuteronomy, we are told God will never leave us or forsake us.

We can make prayerful decisions and know that God will be there for us. We can make these decisions with his word, his faith, and his blessings according to scripture. We may choose wrong and be forgiven. We may choose right and be blessed. It’s a win-win. But no matter what, he is with us through all of the decisions.

We started this faithbite with the question: Is following Jesus is the most important decision of your life? Well, when I made the decision, it was. Now it is part of the tapestry of my life that influences the other ‘most important decisions of my life’. That’s the beauty of our decisions. We make good ones and our life moves forward. We make bad ones and we learn from them to make better ones. It’s an awesome choice and life we have. But we don’t have to make these decisions alone.

To everyone going through whatever decisions and trials life has. Remember: think fully, pray deeply, decide boldly. God will never forsake you as you make the most important decision of your life (up to that point).

Are you willing to accept that every decision is important? Can you see how your choices build the tapestry of your life? Can you believe that God is always there in all your decisions?

I am willing and able (with the help of God).

May 6 – It’s Not All About Me

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Today’s lesson is it’s not all about me. I know you all love Sol, but it’s not all about me. Or all about you. It is so easy to ask questions like “What’s in it for me? or “I did this for everyone else, when is my turn” or “This is my lane, let me just do it”. It happens all the time. I had a prime example this morning at worship, that I’m a bit ashamed about.

Pretty much every Sunday, I help usher. We have a large sanctuary and it takes many ushers. I normally start in the front of the sanctuary on the right side and get the offer and the attendance cards. Then I bring the offering up to the altar and give it to one of the pastors. Today, I was a bit late signing up and I got the back half of the sanctuary. I know this is pretty petty. I was thinking, hey that’s my spot. I want to be up front. I want to bring the offerings to the pastor. Then I stopped in my tracks. Seriously, Sol? You are getting worked up about this. This isn’t about you. It’s about the collecting to do God’s work. I was embarrassed by it. Then at the end of the offering, I realized that I did something not according to plan. I started collecting the attendance cards before the people giving the offering came down of the altar. One of the guys told me that and I said, I haven’t done the back before. He said, maybe you should do it more and learn about how that part is done. I also got a different type of card then I had before and had to learn how to handle it. That made me doubly ashamed of myself. Then I realized, God was giving me a lesson. A lesson in humility and teaching me how to do something new. So yes, it’s not all about Sol, it’s all about Jesus.

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” – John 10:10

“because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you[a] free from the law of sin and death.” – Romans 8:2

“He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.” – colossians 1:17

We think we are important, and we are to God. We are important for the works we do when we celebrate Christ and live like Christ. But it’s not all about me. I may not be a thief, but at the same time, everyone doesn’t live through me and because of me. I may give and help people but I cannot free people from sin and death. I may do all sorts of things to worship the Lord, but I am not before all things and hold everything together, even though sometimes it feels like the world is on our shoulders. It’s not, it’s on Gods.

It’s hard to admit that being recognized and being in front is important to me. It’s hard to think that I can be that petty at times. But I didn’t say anything about it. I listened to the Lord and he knocked me around a bit. As a Pastor said to me, God’s been knocking on my door for a long time, it’s just taken me a long time to answer. It’s not all about me, it’s all about Jesus. And I’ve asked for and recieved his forgivness. What an awesome God.

Are you willing to admit that it all about Jesus? Are you willing to see the petty things you do and listen to the Holy Spirit to improve yourself?

I am willing (with the help of God)

May 5 – What’s your Story?

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Today’s lesson is about sharing. We are made to be in community with each other. As young children, one of the biggest lessons is sharing and the hardest lesson is usually sharing our toys. I see my kids all the time fighting about sharing toys. One child will pick up the other’s toy and start playing with it. The child’s who’s toy it is, starts yelling that they want their toy back to play with it. Mind you, that child wasn’t even thinking about that toy, but I digress.

We share all the time, or I should say are supposed to and it makes us feel better. Last night, at our school’s auction, I went to the washroom, walked out and saw one of our pastors there. I walked over to him, just to say high, and somehow we started talking about religion, my background as being Jewish, my faith journey, and more. It was enlightening for me and I hope for him as well. When I told him my story, he said, God has been really kicking you in the right direction for a long time. I reflected on that and agreed. He’s been there all along. Pretty awesome stuff. It’s one of the moments you can’t orchestrate, it just happens.

“John answered, “Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same.”” – Luke 3:11

“Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” – Romans 12:13

“Rather, be openhanded and freely lend them whatever they need.” – Deuteronomy 15:8

John talks about giving of shirts if your neighbor has one. That is also giving of yourself. Your story has as much power as your riches. Giving of it may impact in ways you never know. At the auction last night, during a time to raise money for a specific fun, the auctioneer said something that touched my heart. He said we want to give everyone a chance to give what they are able, even prayers are welcome and needed. Sharing is essential. Many time, writing a check is the easy way to go. Sharing a story or time is harder. They are both needed. In Deuteronomy, free lend them whatever they need. The funny thing about life is you may not know what someone needs. It could be money, it could be a sandwich, it could be an ear to listen to, it could be hearing about the Lord, it could be a hug. The Holy Spirit will help. I don’t think this will stop my kids from fighting over their toys, but we can help them learn about sharing of the heart and the wallet as often as possible.

Are you willing to share your story? Are you willing to listen to the Holy Spirit on how best to help those in need?

I am willing (with the help of God)

May The Fourth Be With You – Giving Generously

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Before we get started, I wanted to wish everyone a Happy Star Wars Day. And being Lutheran, I can’t help but when someone says “May the Force Be with You”, I have to say “And also with you”. Anywho, onto today’s lesson.

Today’s lesson is about giving generously. We’ve talked about giving before, but I wanted to visit it once again. Tonight is the 26th Annual Celebrating Children Auction. It’s an annual event at my daughter’s school that helps to raise money for scholarships, technology, tools, and general working on the school. It’s an awesome fun time. It’s great to network, look at create items, eat, and fellowship in Christian faith. It’s also a time to open the wallets and give generously.

You may be thinking: Sol, this is a private school. They have all the money they need. The fact is no. Teachers in our school have the same constraints as others in terms of supplies for their rooms, salaries, and more. The school doesn’t want to turn someone away because of tuition and because of offerings. While the Church helps through donations of members, this really helps set the school on a firmer financial footing. The past two years that I have gone, I’ve seen generosity like no other. I have seen people open up their hearts and give. It was the first time in a long time that I didn’t feel bad or empty with giving. I am looking forward to giving. Not to get a great deal on a basket or something, but to truly give to the children.

Dave Ramsey speaks of this as does the Bible in general. Give openly and fully and you will be rewarded for that.

“One person gives freely, yet gains even more;
another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.
A generous person will prosper;
whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” – Proverbs 11:24-25

“And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones who is my disciple, truly I tell you, that person will certainly not lose their reward.” – Matthew 10:42

“As Jesus looked up, he saw the rich putting their gifts into the temple treasury. He also saw a poor widow put in two very small copper coins. “Truly I tell you,” he said, “this poor widow has put in more than all the others. All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on.”

When I first attended an auction many moons ago, I saw people raising the prices of items well beyond my ability. I thought they were showing off. They were not letting people who weren’t that wealthy or able not be part of it. Then last year, I was at an auction an someone donated $25,000 to pay for a specific project. I was shocked and awed. But my ideas and mindset changed. I saw how blessed they were by the Lord and shared that. At our auction, they do a fund in need and ask for high offerings but they don’t stop until everyone could put something in, even if it’s $5. Like the women above, $5 may be all you have to give, but it could be more than the thousands that someone else puts in. God doesn’t look at how much you put in, but are you giving of yourself. Because everything is God’s, we are just stewards of it.

Not only is it the money that people are putting in. The co-chairs and the committee and others have put in countless hours to put on this event. Like all fundraising, it takes a village. They are giving their time that would otherwise be used for work, for family, for hobbies, into these events. They are giving generously.  We need to give generously of our thanks for them and whatever and however we can to support these causes.

Are you willing to be one of Jesus’s Disciples and give your heart? Are you willing to trust that the Lord will provide for you? Are you willing to accept your role as a steward of God’s resources?

I am willing and able (with the help of God)

May 3 – Cellophane

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Today’s lesson is about being invisible. This happens to all of us now and again. We feel that we aren’t noticed. We are bypassed for lunch, a promotion, invitation to a get-together, our opinion, or even a smile. My personal pet peeve is when you say ‘Good Morning’ to someone or you open the door for someone, and you get nothing back. Not a thanks, not a smile, nothing. I used to say some choice words about the person in my head, but I’m trying to get better at it. I have the feeling of being invisible all the time. Either I’m not appreciated, not involved, or just not thought of. I think that one is there worst. My favorite song about this is Mr. Cellophane on the Chicago Musical Soundtrack.

“And even without clucking like a hen
Everyone gets noticed, now and then
Unless, of course, that person it should be
Invisible, inconsequential me”

Today, I was trying to find a parking space at the hospital for work. I found one, had my blinker on and waited. The car pulled out, and another car coming from the other way pulled in like I wasn’t even there. I was ticked off. Did my life have no purpose or meaning? Did he just not see me? Was he a jerk? I don’t know.

When we think about being invisible, it usually denotes something bad: a ghost, fate, the monster in the dark, our lives not having meaning. But something being invisible can be very powerful and good.

“For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.” – Romans 1:20

“So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” – 2 Corinthians 4:18

That’s right, God is invisible. You knew I was getting to it eventually. God has made the universe. Everything that exists, wasn’t at one point. He created that. We can’t see God. We can’t touch him. We can know him and his influence though. Last night, I was talking to a parent and she mentioned a movie she was watching with her husband and daughter. There was a scene where the parents had to rush to put a dollar under the pillow. The mom was worried her daughter would ask questions about the tooth fairy, Santa, and Jesus. To me, we can prove Jesus. He was a man. There is a historical record of him. His life and his death. There are his words that live on and impact our daily lives. We don’t see him, but like his Father, we see his impact. You can’t do anything in life without seeing the Holy Trinity. As the 2 Corinthians verse shows, too often we focus on the stuff of the world that is temporary and not the eternal things like love, kindness, forgiveness, salvation. These are the unseen things that Jesus provides.

So next time you feel like Mr (or Mrs.) Cellophane. Remember, God always sees you. You are not inconsequential. You are loved. God knows your name. (Isaiah 43:1)

Are you able to see you are valuable? Are you willing to accept that you are never invisible?

I am willing (with the help of God)

May 2 – Highs and Lows

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Before we get to today’s lesson, a small announcement. We are now 1/3 of the way through 2018 and this makes 122 faithbites posts. Crazy. I never thought I would get this far along when this started back in January. 1/3 down, 2/3 to go. Onto the less….

Today’s lesson is about the highs and lows of life. Today is the 18th birthday of my sister-in-law and would have been my Dad’s 71st birthday. Such celebration for my sister and sadness but also good memories for my dad. I can’t remember how many times I’ve asked God for just one more day with him. One change for him to meet all of his grandchildren. At the same time, I look at my sister who is now an adult. She is graduating high school, starting her life, and making her mark on the world. I wonder what she will be when she grows up. (I still wonder what I will be when I grow up. Ha). I am anxious to see the world she is inheriting and how she leaves it for the next generation.

Life is like that: ups and downs. Highs and Lows. One of my best friends in high school told me, “Nothing too good or too bad, lasts too long”. It’s hard to think about good things not lasting too long. It helps to see the bad won’t last too long either. I know Earth is not nor ever will be paradise. That is my reward through Christ Jesus in the next life. I still like to think there is both goodness and happiness for all of us here. Not perfection, (the whole good and bad thing), but goodness. I see it in the sunny days. I hear it in my children’s laugh (I see the not so good in their crying but that’s another story). I see it in the generosity of people helping out a dear friend dealing with medical issues. The good may not last forever on Earth, but it will in Heaven.

“There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens:

a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace” – Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

I can’t help singing the song every time I see this passage. So today I mourn my father and express joy for my sister. I see the goodness in the world and the evil. I try not to hate but love all. (That’s a tall order for sure). A time to speak and be silent (not so good at this but learning). What is the point of all this? It’s to show that “nothing too good or too bad, lasts too long”. But the beauty is these are things for this earth, not the next one. God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit are already in the next world, preparing a place for us (John 14:3).

I will try to focus on the good of htis life and the infinite beauty and peace of the next one. I hope you can too.

Are you willing to see that the bad won’t last too long? Can you see you are loved my many? Are you willing to see that Jesus is preparing a place for you?

I am willing and able (with the help of God)

May 1 -The Great I Am

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Today’s lesson is about just being. Being present. Being in the moment. Being yourself. Yesterday we talked about the Te of Piglet and the virtue of being small. Today we are going to talk about Piglet’s best friend, and one of my favorites, Pooh Bear. Pooh Bear is the subject of his own Hoff Book, The Tao of Pooh In this book, Hoff compares Pooh to all the other characters and figures how that Pooh just is. He has no worries over life, no concerns, he cares, and just is or “wei wu wei, the concept of effortless doing and pu, the concept of being open to but unburdened by experience.” (Wikipedia).

Why is this important? In life, many times, we use our past experiences to help us in the future. Unfortunately, some of those negative experiences can sour future relationships. We may look at someone as a threat when they may be helping us. We may remember we failed at something in the past and that fear cripples us in the future. Our friend Pooh, doesn’t have any of that. He has his friends, his curiosity, and don’t over-complicate things. How many times have you looked at a situation and tried to analyze it 100 ways from Sunday and worried yourself about it, instead of trying it? I know I do it all the time. For instance, when someone asks to talk to me, the first thing I say is “Am I in trouble”? What kind of craziness is that? I know right? It’s nutty. But Pooh doesn’t do any of those things, he just is.

“So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” – Matthew 6:31-34

“Jesus said, “No procrastination. No backward looks. You can’t put God’s kingdom off till tomorrow. Seize the day.” – Luke 9:62 (MSG)

God is the Great I Am. He is before you, after you, behind you, and to the sides of you. He is the ultimate IS. He provides for us and knows what we need. We don’t need to worry about it. We can seize the day as he wants us to.

We can try to just Be. We put worry, doubt, experience, loathing, anger, and all of our human emotions in the way of loving the Lord, loving each other, and growing in Him. We might be wrong. We might do it wrong. Other’s may look at us funny. These are all products of bad experiences we have. When we let go of some of that. When we just are, then we can love the Lord more fully and deeper.

Pooh Bear is all of this an more. He is open, honest, loving, and naive. He what many of us strive to be. Just as these two books (The Tao of Pooh and the Te of Piglet) help Westerner’s understand Eastern Philosophy, I hope FaithBites helps you understand HIS word and strengthen your relationship with Jesus.

Are you willing to just be? Are you willing to let experience help and not hinder you?

I am willing (with the help of God)

April 30 – Feeling Small

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Today’s lesson is about feeling small in this vast universe. Today I decided to work from home as I had a contractor to work on the bathroom and one installing internet today. I took a short nap this morning as I wasn’t feeling the best. When I woke up, I felt small. I was wrapped in my blankets, warm, tired, and small. I didn’t want to move. I didn’t want to get out of my cocoon. Not sure why I felt this way, but feeling small or inconsequential just happens sometimes, I guess. When it happens to me, it is a bit unsettling. As many of you know, I’m a big guy (6’2″, 300 something), so feeling small isn’t something I’m used to. Yet, here it was.

In life, many times we think about being small as being bad. Not tall enough to ride the rides at the amusement park. Not tall enough to reach things on the shelf. Not tall enough to look out the window. Not old enough to drive (usually small and age are linked). Not old enough to go to school. Not old enough to make my own choices. These are all times when feeling small is disheartening.

When I think of being small, I try to think about Piglet. Yes, Piglet from Winnie the Pooh. Piglet is small but showcases virtue. There are two books by Benjamin Hoff about Chinese Philosophy told through Winnie the Pooh Characters. The Tao of Pooh and the Te of Piglet. The Te of Piglet explains the Chinese concept of Te, meaning ‘power’ or virtue’. What Piglet lacks in stature he more than makes up for in the size of his heart.  Scripture showcases this well.

“Though it is the smallest of all seeds, yet when it grows, it is the largest of garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds come and perch in its branches.” – Matthew 13:32

“Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark.” – James 3:4-5

The mustard seed is a concept, familiar to most in Christianity. This small plant that takes root, grows and spread. It is the smallest of the seeds but has a huge impact on the garden. Just as those who are small in feeling or stature can have the greatest of impacts. Like Piglet who is always there. He helps Pooh when he isn’t feeling his chipperness. He gives hugs. He is just there and shares his heart with everyone.

In James, we see that the largest of ships are steered by a small rudder. A tongue, though very small, can light the world on fire. These small things are powerful. We are powerful. We can look to scripture and see how the weak prosper (Matthew 5:5), how those of humble (or small) beginnings prosper (Job 8:7),  and servants become friends (John 15:15).  Don’t fret when you are small. You are in good company, with Piglet, his friends, and the Lord.

Are you willing to see being small as an asset? Are you willing to look at the power that your heart contains? Can you seek the Lord when you are feeling little?

I am willing (with the help of God).

April 29 – I Having a Me Party Part 2

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Today’s lesson is part two of focusing on the self. Yesterday, we talked about being selfish, today we talk about being self-respectful. What does that mean? It means to take time for yourself. Time to recharge. Time to recuperate. Time to not carry the weight of the world, and just be. What does that look like?

As I’ve talked about before, I have bad anxiety. It is managed through medication, personal time, prayer, and relaxation. When one of those things get out of whack, everything gets out of whack. Kids, school, work, family, obligations, everything builds up. Yesterday and today weren’t great days on those fronts. The eye starts to twitch. The headache increases, the focus deteriorates, and the snapping begins. These are my symptoms, what are yours?

The worst part of this is you can’t be the person you want to be. You have given up so much and continue to give up to help others, all the while you are going further and further down the hole. This isn’t healthy. Just as we spoke of giving into someone who is selfish can only be sustained so long, giving of yourself without rest, can only go on so long.

“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7

“A generous person will prosper;
whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” – Proverbs 11:25

“The Lord replied, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” – Exodus 33:14

The Lord refreshes us. The Lord wants us to be generous. The Lord wants us to give up our anxiety to him. He has broad shoulders. This isn’t easy. For those who give and give and give and give some more, it’s hard to know when you need rest. When you need a me party.  A time to reflect, to enjoy yourself, to lower your guard and just enjoy yourself. While you are having your me party, don’t forget to invite the one who cares for you, who will make you prosper and who will give you rest. For without him, we are only resting the body, not our soul. We need him to refresh our soul and let the Holy Spirit enable us to continue to bear witness, continue to refresh others. As the old adage goes, sometimes you have to put on your mask before helping others.

Are you able to admit you need rest? Are you willing to have a me Party and invite the Lord to it? Are you willing to see that needing help or a break isn’t weakness but strength?

I am willing and (with the help of God)

April 28 – I’m Having a Me Party Part 1

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Today’s lesson is part one of two focusing on the self. This one is about the world revolving around me or you or a specific person. (Part two will be about the joy of self-time). The world is filled with people who think they are God’s gift to the world and everything should revolve around them. The first part of course is true, we are all God’s gifts, the second part, not so much.

As any parent or anyone who’s been around children, understand that the world revolves around them. Everything is when they want it (NOW), how they want it (NOW), and what they want (Everything). You could be cooking fried chicken, hands covered in batter over a boiling cast iron frying pan, and your daughter wants you to wash her hands. When you tell her to wait a minute, the world falls apart. You could be going to the bathroom, and your daughter wants you to make her something to eat. Not when you are done, mind you, but (as my sister used to say) RIGHT THIS INSTANT MINUTE.

While these are examples of kids, well, being kids, we see this all the time. My way or the highway. This can be in politics, work, religion, anything. This self-centeredness. It makes discussions and compromises next to impossible. When you give in, it only gets worse. And you can never give enough. You may be able to keep it up for a long time, but at what cost? How should we react to this self-centered behavior?

“But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.” – James 3:14-16

“An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.” – Proverbs 18:1

“But she who is self-indulgent is dead even while she lives” – 1 Timothy 5:6 (ESV)

Now, I’m not saying my children are demons, but well, if the shoe fits. Just kidding. They are being kids and I think part of being a parent is how to deal with it and teach them better. Adults who display these behaviors, and I’m guilty of being self-indulgent on occasion, that’s another story. As with all things, we can seek forgiveness. The Timothy passage, really struck home, being self-indulgent is equivalent to being spiritually dead even while you are alive. That really makes me think. If you are selfish, you can’t be selfless as Jesus commands us to be. I do not want to find disorder and evil practice. I see it every day at work, at home, on the news, everywhere. I also see good people who are selfless.

We should look past the selfishness and see if we can find a root cause. Is there a need not being met? Is basic human connection and support what they need? We should be open to that. And yes, it’s frustrating. I even needed a little me time to help regenerate and be a great parent. More on that in part two.

Are you willing to turn your own selfishness into selflessness? Are you willing to look at someone’s behavior to see what lies beneath and offer help?

I am willing (with the help of God)

April 27 – Bad Actions, Not Bad People

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Today’s lesson is about seeing the value of someone’s contributions to the world, even if they have been a bad person at one or more times in their lives. I love superhero movies. I went to see Avengers: Infinity War last night and really enjoyed it. Don’t worry, no spoilers here. What strikes me as I watch more and more superhero shows, there are good people who do bad things (Batman and Deadpool for instance) and bad people who do good things (Killer Frost and Deadshot for example). These make our characters deeper. We see that they may have been evil vile people, but then choose to save a life or sacrifice themselves for the greater good. At the same time, we see our role models, the heroes perform acts less than admirably (see the Green Arrow for example).  This makes us love our heroes and villains. They aren’t all bad, they aren’t all good. They are people like us. We make mistakes. We sin. We screw up. We repent. One action, shouldn’t erase all of the good things we did or our contributions.

To step into the real world, let’s look at Bill Cosby for instance. He is now guilty of serious crimes. He will be punished for those. He should not be lauded or put on a moral high ground. His work as a comedian though is solid gold. He was America’s Dad. Many of us watched the Cosby show. similarly, many liberals can’t stand to watch Roseanne because she supports Donald Trump. Her work in the 90s was great and the new revival tackles many of issues that hit all of us today.

The bible is very clear on forgiveness of sins. We talked about that in a previous faithbites. We have also talked about the Lord being around you at all times.

“The Lord your God is with you,
    the Mighty Warrior who saves.
He will take great delight in you;
    in his love he will no longer rebuke you,
    but will rejoice over you with singing.” – Zephaniah 3:17

“Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.” – Ephesians 4:28

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged.  For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” – Matthew 7:1-2

Jesus saves. Jesus forgives. We need to look at someone as a whole person, not just one action, even if it is terrible. They will be punished by the law and if they repent, they will be forgiven by the Lord. We don’t need to take that anger and hate into ourselves. We can enjoy entertainment for what it is. We can remember how we felt when we watched the Cosby show and still despise the crimes he committed. We can watch Roseanne and see how she is addressing many issues in her show even if we don’t agree with who she supports.

Don’t get me wrong. This is not easy at all. It is hard to separate it. And yes, there is a difference between one crime and someone continuing to do it. I have found myself empathizing with Villians on the screen. seeing their motives and seeing the good in the face of horrific evil. This, to me, is what it means to be a full person.

Are you able to look at someone as a whole person? The good and the bad? Are you willing to see the contributions as well as the harm to society?

I am willing (with the help of God).

April 26 – If Dreams are like Movies…..

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Today’s lesson is about the power of dreams. We all have them either dreams that happen when we sleep or dreams we have about what our lives will be like. Dreams can influence us, provide information about ourselves, and give us motivation for the future. They can also disturb us, scare us, and make us more aware of our surroundings.

Last night, I had a powerful dream that bordered on a nightmare. It involved adultery, the church (not faith mind you but church doctrine), penitence, personal space, and solitude. It made me think about my life, about religion, and about my relationships. Most mornings, after dropping my daughter off at school, I listen to podcasts on the way to work. Lately, I have been listening to Lore. (It’s amazing if you like folklore and superstition and history). The podcast I listened too was all about the power of dreams, how it has influenced society, and a crazy story about a woman giving birth to bunnies, but I digress.

We have always given power to our dreams as a society. We use them to help us, to guide us, and in some cases to ward against future mistakes. The bible is also full of dreams.

“While Pilate was sitting on the judge’s seat, his wife sent him this message: “Don’t have anything to do with that innocent man, for I have suffered a great deal today in a dream because of him.” – Matthew 27:19

“At Gibeon, the Lord appeared to Solomon during the night in a dream, and God said, “Ask for whatever you want me to give you.” Solomon answered, “You have shown great kindness to your servant, my father David, because he was faithful to you and righteous and upright in heart. You have continued this great kindness to him and have given him a son to sit on his throne this very day. “Now, Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of my father David. But I am only a little child and do not know how to carry out my duties. 8 Your servant is here among the people you have chosen, a great people, too numerous to count or number. 9 So give your servant a discerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. For who is able to govern this great people of yours?” – 1 Kings 3:5-9

“I, Nebuchadnezzar, was at home in my palace, contented and prosperous. 5 I had a dream that made me afraid. As I was lying in bed, the images and visions that passed through my mind terrified me.” – Daniel 4:4

I found a great infographic about dreams in the bible. The image posted here is part of it. If you are interested please visit. Something interesting, dreams happen when the person is asleep while visions happen when they are away. Why is this interesting? The dreams and visions serve the same purpose: to warn (Pilates Wife in Matthew), to communicate with the Lord (Solomon to the Lord in 1 Kings), and to see the error of your ways (Nebuchadnezzar in 1 Kings).

Why do you I bring this up? All of these examples of dreams from the Bible serve the same purpose as our own dreams. They help us understand what is inside and what God wants. My crazy dream/nightmare was for me to more appreciate my family and relationships along with making sure I have my own time to reflect, regenerate and recuperate. It is the hand of God acting in yet another mysterious way to help us move forward. God is always talking to us, are we always listening?

Are you able to think of your dreams as a message from God? Can you dig into them to see if there is a warning, a proposition, or guidance from him?

I am willing and able (with the help of God)

April 25 – I Love It When A Plan Comes Together

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Today’s lesson is about coincidences or rather how these chance encounters are actually all part of God’s plan. Today, I was working at home to meet a contractor because of the bathroom leaks. He was late and apologized because he had to take his wife to the doctor. I asked if she was ok. He said she has been battling IBS for the past 18 years and had a bad attack. I told him how I had it in the past but it seems to be gone. I talked to him about acupuncture as it worked for me and said it might not be a panacea but it helped me. Later in the day, he asked me if he could have the number of the doctor who worked on me. He said specifically, “Maybe God brought me here, so you could help me get more help for my wife”. I was floored. I found the contact information, printed it and gave it to him. I said it may not work but it helped me get off of heavy narcotics. He said, his wife would be willing to try anything to have more peace and if it worked great. I pray for his wife to get some relief from this terrible disease.

It’s amazing. Not only did I talk to him about this, but the restoration project manager and I talked about what churches we went to, what we liked, and how we are involved. The Lord works in mysterious ways for sure.

“I know that you can do all things; no purpose of yours can be thwarted” – Job 42:2

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” – Proverbs 19:21

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” – Matthew 6:33

In previous faithbites, we have talked about prayer and God answering them. He may not answer them when or how you want, but he does. As Job says, the Lord’s purpose will not be thwarted. He has a plan and a way of working with each and everyone one of us. While we may have our own thoughts about how the day or our life will go (I was going to watch TV instead of talking), he puts us in the situations we need to be in. We needed to connect today. Matthew tells us that we seek the Lord first and all things will be given to us. There are no coincidences in who we meet. These are planned by the Lord. If you are open to spread his word, to listen to him, you will have more impact in the world than you ever thought possible.

Are you willing to see God’s wonders in action? Can you see these chance encounters as truly a way to spread his word and his message?

I am willing (with the help of God)

April 24 – Back in My Day….

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Today’s lesson is about aging or getting older. A couple of weeks ago, I turned 41. This is the first birthday that I didn’t worry about it or feel older at all. I felt like me having a good time. Then I started to look around. Things I knew as a child are changing. Next year will be 20 years since my undergraduate graduate, 10 since my dad passed, I will be 42, 10 years since my sister has been married, 12 years at the university, 10 years since my first child was born, nearly half my life since I was able to buy alcohol, and I hope to graduate with my Ed.D. Those milestones are huge. I look at myself as transitioning into another phase in my life. At least I can say, when I was your age, I had to walk 10 miles to school, uphill, in the snow, both ways, barefoot. And then of course, “Get Off My LAWN”. Ha

My bones are creaking. My get up and go has got up and went. My friends are feeling older. They complain about their hair, their bodies, their memory, times just slipping, slipping, slipping. In our world, we judge everything by time: time to graduate, time in a relationship, time for a meeting, time till the kids are out of the house, time for meals, time to get out of debt. Everything is time. We let it control us instead of us living for the moment.

“The glory of young men is their strength, gray hair the splendor of the old.” – Proverbs 20:29

“Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” – Job 12:12

“Even to your old age and gray hairs
I am he, I am he who will sustain you.
I have made you and I will carry you;
I will sustain you and I will rescue you.” – Isaiah 46:4

God is with us until the end of days. He sustains us. He also says that in age we have understanding. Sure, our strength may not be what it once was. Sure our endurance may stink. We may not be able to run as long and as hard. We may not have the physical mojo that we once had, but we have understanding. We have experience. I often think of decisions I made when I was young, supposedly in my prime, and how stupid I was. I’m surprised I’m alive sometimes with how stupid I was. Sure I’d love to have the knowledge and experience I have and the body of a 20-year-old. (Not my 20-year-old body, but an Adonis-like person. Ha). I know my end may be nearer than I want. I also realize that I could be closer to the end than the beginning. I have to choose on a daily basis to trust in the Lord. Trust he has given me experiences and supports to live and love each chapter of my life. It is not easy. The greys pop up more and more. The food gives more and more indigestion. But my experience and opportunities continue to grow.

Are you willing to embrace the next stage of your life? Are you willing to look at age as just a number and not a defining characteristic?

I am willing (with the help of God)

April 23 – Perfection

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Today’s lesson is on the question for perfection or being perfect. Let’s face it, we want to be right. We don’t like making mistakes. I make mistakes so many times, and sometimes my language slips out before I know it. I know I have passed this want to be perfect and achieve more to my children. A few weeks ago, my youngest dropped her puzzle on the ground. She came downstairs and said “Daddy, help me pick up the GDam puzzle”. I asked her what she said and she repeated it. I was shocked she said it but tried not to laugh as she used it correctly and probably from hearing me.  We talked about what words are right and not and that Daddy says the wrong words too. Both of my children, grunt when something doesn’t go right or something doesn’t line up according to plan. This is me in a nutshell. It helps me to think better about what I say and do, while at the same time striving to be the best that I can. I want to be perfect but now I won’t.

As many of you know, I have been creating our learning management system courses for our new school. I have been spending so much time on it. Trying to tweak it. Trying to make it even better for our student.s I want it to be perfect. I have to tell my self that at some point or another, good enough has to be good enough. I will never get to perfection.

But there is one person who is.

“Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 3:12-14

“God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.” – Genesis 1:31

“He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth” – 1 Peter 2:22

And yes, Jesus has no sin. Jesus is perfect. God’s creation is perfect. We are far from it. But as we see in Philippians, we are to keep striving towards the perfection, to be more Christ-Like. That doesn’t mean we will have a perfect anything, as we are not God. We will make mistakes. Things will break. We will do stupid things. The key is to know where to spend your efforts towards that perfection. I will never be a great dancer. I could spend all my energy on it, but I never will be on So You Think You Can Dance. While that would be fun, it’s not where my gifts are. I can strive to be better at what words slip out of my mouth. 🙂 We need to use our gifts and strive for the perfection in Christ. It’s the journey that is important, not the destination of being perfect.

Are you willing to accept you aren’t perfect? Are you willing to accept that God doesn’t want you to be perfect, but strive towards it?

I am willing (with the help of God)

April 22 – When God isn’t enough

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For the past 111 days, I’ve written about the power of God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. I’ve challenged you to listen to his Word and live by it. I’ve given many examples of his involvement in my life. But what happens when God isn’t enough? IllI answer that, at least for me in a little bit.

Let’s face it: Life is hard. Sometimes it downright sucks. There are the days when you just want to throw in the towel. When you don’t want to Adult or even human. When being a cat or a sloth or anything other than who and what you are sounds awesome. When no matter of cheering up helps. When you want what is yours and are sick of giving of your time and energy for everyone else.

Here’s a secret you may not know. We all have those days. Even soemone like me who shares his word with you has those days. Days when God’s plan seems to be just plain kooky dook.

Here’s another secret you may not know: It is in those times when he is closer than you think.

“You hear me when I call
You are my morning song
Though darkness fills the night
It cannot hide the light”

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April 21 – The Lack of a MacGyver Gene

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Today’s lesson is about our talents. Let’s face it, some people are naturally gifted at some tasks and others well not so much. I am that way with my hands. I am not mechanically inclined. I can lift. I can hold. I can screw something in. I can help. But I am no engineer, nor am I a handyman. In my family, we called it the MacGyver Gene. My dad had it. One of my brothers has it. My other brother has the I-want-be-MacGyer-Gene. I’m thinking it is a recessive gene and I just don’t have it. It bothers me some days. I feel down or less of a ‘man’, whatever that means, because of it. I want to get more mechanical and I am able to do more than I used to, but I am not MacGyver.

I am blessed though with friends who are. I had one friend come over and replace an exhaust fan in my bathroom. I had looked at it in my mind and thought I could do it, but after I saw the whole process I don’t think I could have. Maybe now, I might be able too, but I don’t know. The old adage of see one, do one, teach one, doesn’t always play for me.

This lack of a MacGyver Gene, or its cousins, can be seen in everything we do. We look at people’s weakness and try to turn them into strengths instead of looking at their strengths and making those even stronger. I will never be a world champion weightlifter. I will never be an awe-inspiring baker. It doesn’t want to be. But should I spend all my time on it? No. I should look at what I’m good at and try to get better. This isn’t saying you can’t find a hobby or something you are passionate about, but rather we should focus on our strengths. In the workplace, we try to take techie folks and make them managers for a promotion. We try to take the best athletes and make them coaches. This isn’t always the best path. We should look at our God-given talents and fully develop them.